I am a tall and civilised man of a certain age. Good shape and have never had much body hair, but still hairy on top. I am looking for relaxed sex either as NSA but if it can develop into a lasting friendship it will of course be nice as that makes it possible for us to get to understand each other's likes and wants. And you can never have too many is always hard to pre-specify who you might be interested in, but I do prefer a white, slim-to-average, and classy rather than slutty person. 

If you are that way inclined, I have a firm hand but very happy for uncomplicated non-bdsm play!