About Us

We are an established married couple who have been active in the swinger lifestyle for over 13 years. We are discreet, experienced, health-conscious, and value clear communication, mutual respect, and well-defined boundaries. This lifestyle is a choice we take seriously, not casually.

Availability & Venues

Play takes place mostly on weekdays, between 12:00 and 18:00 unless we are attending a lifestyle event, which we always inform about through a status update.

We play exclusively at:

Established swingers clubs

Lifestyle parties hosted by fellow swingers with established reputations

Recognized hotel groups

Private venues under our direct control

Group events are hosted at a Fetish Haven in Wynberg, Sandton where we attend evening events on selected Fridays or Saturdays or enjoy daytime play on selected Thursdays between 12h00 and 18h00.

We do not accommodate play outside these times

If your availability or venue expectations do not align, we will not be compatible

Some group events are recorded for personal use only. Faces of other participants are never shown.

General Play Principles

We are a couple. Doc is always present when Shakira plays, whether or not he actively participates

We are inclusive and play with adults of all races, body types, and backgrounds

Sobriety, personal hygiene, and mutual respect are essential

We reserve the right to decline play at any point if expectations are not met

Health, Safety & Hygiene

We do not use condoms. This is non-negotiable

All potential playmates must agree to on-site HIV testing immediately prior to play, using a 4th-generation rapid test kit supplied by us

This testing is for our own safety and is a prerequisite to participation

Clean, freshly shaved genital areas are required

Personal cleanliness (appearance and scent) is expected; failure to meet this will result in refusal, regardless of travel distance

Compatibility Requirements

For initial consideration, clear verification images may be requested if not already available on your profile

These requests are strictly for compatibility and safety screening

Boundaries (Strictly Enforced)

The following are not permitted under any circumstances:

Penetrative use of fingers, objects, or toys

Physical restraint or force

Face-pushing, choking, biting, slapping, or hair-pulling

Any form of anal penetration

The following are permitted with mutual consent:

Kissing, cuddling, and affectionate intimacy

Oral activities

Fluid-based play

Final Note

Our boundaries and structure have kept us safe, healthy, and fulfilled in this lifestyle for over a decade. They are not negotiable. If any aspect does not work for you, we encourage you to seek playmates better aligned with your preferences.

We do not charge for play dates. If this needs to be asked, we are not a suitable match.