No no no single male friend request pls. We will find you of we loke all, we have been on here and returning after a nice break, hope to find some great couples and perhaps singles to meet, we are however not open to singles making contact with us, we will find you and make contact should your profile be to our taste. We look after ourselves and are well educated and both professional  careers. We like discretion...and yes we are very afrikaans, may explain the weird word constructions LOL