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Dominant_him
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 50
0 km · Gauteng

About

I found out that I was kinky when I was a teenager. As I got older, my kinkiness increased. I just kept things to myself for a long time. I went to my first BDSM place over 3-years ago and attended events in the Atlanta area ever since. I understand many things in the BDSM world, but there are many things in it that I don't know/understand. I will learn new things in time.

I am down-to-earth, friendly, honest, respectful, thoughtful, sweet, quirky, and occasionally witty. I don't smoke and I rarely drink. I am a geek, nerd, and a dork. If you meet me in person, you may consider me "normal" at first. Then, later you may start to think I'm either weird, unusual, or awkward and seem to believe that I have a social problem. That's because I am a high-functioning AUTISTIC with a SOCIAL DISORDER called Asperger Syndrome. Autism is nothing to be scared about. I am usually a friendly person and I won't bite. Just come talk to me. You'll see that things will be fine. You might even make a new friend.

This is my hard limits portion. I am NOT into receiving pain, it does NOT excite me. I am NOT into being flogged, whipped, paddled, caned, and ANYTHING that involves impact play. I am NOT into CBT. I do NOT like biting and scratching. I do NOT like being pinched. I do NOT like having my nipples twisted and wrenched. I do NOT like receiving physical and/or verbal abuse. I do NOT like being restrained. I do NOT like being tickled. My ass is exit only so I'm NOT into strap-on sex. I am NOT into being rimmed. I do NOT like being slapped. I am NOT into being spanked. I am NOT into feces being on me. I'm NOT into blood play. 

I consider myself a Top, but I could be caught worshiping a woman's silky-smooth stockinged or thigh-highed legs. I have a few roleplay fantasies involving a seductive top. Other than that, I prefer to be a Top/Dom. I am sure with time, I will build up more roleplay fantasies with me as a Top. I have a reserved personality, but don't let that fool you. There are MANY layers to me. Even though I am a sweet guy, I do have a darker side if there are women who want to know or experience it.

I LOVE seeing and hearing a woman moan/scream out in ecstacy when having an orgasm. I like playing dress-up roleplay. I LOVE seeing women in certain styles of stockings and thigh-highs. I am not that big into fishnets. I LOVE feeling and moving my hands all along a woman's stockinged/thigh-highed legs. I LOVE seeing women in vintage reproduction lingerie from the 1940s and 1950s especially 100% nylon fully-fashioned stockings, 100% nylon RHT stockings, and the garterbelts worn during that time.

I like many kinds of music ranging from ragtime/swing to Linkin Park. I also like musicals, classical, and rockabilly. I LOVE movies and am a moviebuff. I like TV. I have not participated in LARP yet so maybe some day. I like to swing dance, act, sing, do karaoke, fish, weightlift, walk, surf the Net, play games, perform research, and write. I like the paranormal, strange creatures discovered around the world, science, sci-fi fantasy, true-crime stuff, history, and celebrity stuff.

I may add more later.

Interests

Anal sex
Oral sex
Straight sex

Seeking

Age: 18 - 100
Distance: 150 km