Hi, we are a white professional afrikaans couple living in the northen suburbs looking to spice up our 9to 5 life. We have tried the swinging scene but decided on "soft swinging". We would not swop partners but will play in the same room with another couple present. But before we get there we need to connect with them and enjoy each others company.  Maybe drinks in a nice cocktail lounge or smokey jazz bar. Its important to us to enjoy their companionship and be on the same level as us. Once we feel comfortable we may proceed to the next level of whatever. Maybe jacuzzi in the nude, a naughty game of strip poker or a Sandybay visit together? Lets see where the journey takes us? Its not just about the sex but being around people with the same outlook on life and the same fear of being "average". Couples with similar outlook on life , race and matching profile is what we are looking for. We would like to swap face pics before we meet to see if there is an mutual attraction or not. No single guys please. Not even with an 3 foot long willy or a 6 pack on your 6pack.