In my mind swinging is about finding other people with the same interests as me to have sexual encounters with. This does not mean that it is a one off meet and wham bam thank you mam. I would rather it develop in a long lasting friendship with the added bonus of adult pleasures that we all enjoy. I also do believe that everyone has boundaries and that should be discussed beforehand sonthat all know what to partake in and what to abstain from. Yes over time some of those boundaries might become more leanient and then it should be said. For me it is easier to tell one what my fantasies is if I know them on a more personal level. I do say that this is a lifestyle for me as this not just a once off chance to play with couples. I am comfortable with what I am doing and if anyone has to ask me if I'm a swinger I would say yes. It is the same as bieng openly gay. Just because I say that I am a swinger though does not mean that I will want to play with just anyone. We all have prefferences.
True that principles are important. Here I am going to shoot myself in the foot here but you know women change their minds all the time. What was unacceptable before was now pefectly fine. When I got married I had no facial hair. She said she preferred me that way. A while later she wanted me to have a full on beard that would make any Santa proud to have. Then she said i must shave it again. As for you not accepting her proposal was abolutely right to do. We as men on here get rejected most of the time. I wonder how it felt for her. I
I have my own personal choices as I'm sure most do.
I think the main thing is to start slow and let her set the pace. I would recommend a few movies first to see if she can relate to a situation like that arising. Then go on from there. I think the one we saw when i was married was called my wife taken by a black man. Hope this helps.
I agree with most that you are saying. The thing is how many Women/ couples/ men have fallen for the " lets fuck" message. I for one would never want to meet that person. Yes a bit of flirting is perfectly ok.
The other thing is that swinging is a lifestyle and not just an excuse to get laid by any sranger. Yes you join a site that gives you the options of meeting up with others like you or that has the same fantasy as you and want to fulfill it. It still does not give anyone the reason to be rude, obscure, obscene or crass for that matter. Please tell me if I'm wrong here but would you rather respond to someone who is a gentleman or one who uses a one liner to pick you up?
I agree that it is much easier to be more daring behind a computer or laptop and yes it would be awesome to arrange a SH meet and greet where everyone can get to know the other swingers in a more personal way, but in all seriousness. How many "supposed" singles will attend? Most of them are here only for a quick fix and are playing behind their partner's back.
Another famous quote, never judge a book by its cover.
This one is easy.
Milk _ Boobs _ Sex
Here is the next easy word.
Car.
That is what it is. A chat room. When I go into a chat room I talk to people about every day issues like the petrol price increase, the tolls or our "wonderful" government and police system. Whem I want to hook up with people I look at personals or pm them and find out if they would be keen on meeting first and see if there is a click to go further. I don't really try and make the first move as I want to make sure that they are comfortable with the situation. It is a pity that some spoil it for everyone else who are genuine.
I think it could be a condition as I suffer from the same as you stamina. Otherwise we have the same personalities. My phone and car change constantly.
I agree and love it when mine gets sucked(tea bagging).
Fitting avatar dont you think PIB1?
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I drive a lot as I stay far from work and I am in the motor vehicle industry. I really enjoy the aircon and in winter I'm fortunate that I have heated car seats. Really nice for winter.
May you also have a great time and remember to be you are going anywhere travel safely and returs soon as we wouldn't be able to cope without you in the forums.
PIB1 rocks!!!
Hello and hope you have loads of fun here.
It is not about the size that counts but how you able to use it that matters. I know there are a lot of size queens.
It is true but not all single men are like that.
They do accept bi males, the only thing is that there is not so many couples that want bi males in their play sessions as the husband is straight and doesn't want another man to play with him. There are females who accept bi males and even get turned on when they can be the dominant one and use things as a strap on etc.
When I was married I did that often. Even something small as running her bath water or surprising her with a bunch of flowers.
Pity it didn't work out for us. I still think of her even now.
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