It is very nice being with a guy thats ripped or works out i love the "v" in groin area! But hey i am a big chick havent had issues. I suppose it depends on what u like everyone has a preference , some dont and its all bout the chemistry. Attraction makes playtime amazing regardless off persons body.
@KC , exactly yes its all wow and that when a guy is well hung, but sometimes a big disappointment if they only depend on their penises to give pleasure.
I have been with guys that didnt have the biggest tools but WHoa!
I go commando sometimes n wear my tightish jeans when im feeling giddy and i sit down n move my ass slowly it feels goooooood lol in company or public or not lol shhhh.
Ok ok it does matter there is nothing like being "filled" but im not sure if that goes for every women.
BUT WAIT most times when a guy is bigger he assumes that is all he needs and does not work. He comes across like the woman he is having sex with should be "graced by his presence". And drill women cos they feel thats all she needs .
Usually men that are average or smaller are better lovers than those with black n deckers
but hey thats my opinion , lol pls dont shoot me.
I love wild horses- rolling stones so sexy.
@lee sometimes u see hot men abs, biceps tall tanned and handsome. What am i meant to do most times i go with my sis to the shops. If i see something fine and he notices me, why not! lol.
But seriously i dont take it far, but sometimes they want my number (my ring apparently means fokal) or to take my sis and i out. And i swear it was worse when i was preg whats up with that???
I remembered something today, when we stayed in JHB i started chatting to this guy from KZN. We got on well and he wanted to meet when i came down. He told me he divorced and what not. Then we decided to move our chats to email then whats app. And we chatted for a while.
Out of the blue one day a woman called my fone wanting to know who i am , turns out it was his wife he was never divorced, wife said he is on many swinging sites and asked alot of questions. She became desparate to hear what we chat bout n what the site is etc, but I told her i am sorry i was unaware but she should ask him all she needs to know as i did not have a responsibility towards her. Shame though.
I would like to think i am the naturally beautiful yet shy, with my hubby (but he likes shopping so noones getting scoulded). Also on occassion its stressfull to do monthly groceries, so sometimes men smile and make advances but im not in the mood. So give them the LOS MY UIT look lol.
Most times im my bubbly self men smile and even give me a "hello" sometimes i flirt back but not heavily lol that would be rude.
So I love music, i love having sex to sexy music what music do you have or have had sex to?
I havent yet but would love to do it to these tunes:
John Legend - Tonight,
Janet Jackson - I get so lonely and Anytime & anyplace.
I fanatasize bout doing it with a certain guy whose hands i think are sexy lol you know who u are . Consider yourself "nudged" hot stuff.
If u havent heard these google it u might like it aswell
I hate it when they just dont pitch and then disappear and when they come back they say " im concerntrating on my career" or "i was out of the country/town" or my personal fav "im scared u going to fall inlove with me"
then the ones you have met and want u with a passion their excuse is " babe they jacked my car" or " i want u for myself cant take that ur married" lol ya hey I have seen it all!
I so get what u mean, i have met a few nice guys but they always seem to be mostly talk and then excuses , i have met everything was perfect then he disappeared off face of the earth after a month. Then finally returns saying he was scared of developing feeling, blah , blah .
You get others that u chat with and get to know, exchange pics and plan to meet but never do. I thought it was just me it was happening to?
Daddy's right some men are too pushy. Even when theres a group session, even at clubs. Some men scare me big time. I cant imagine letting bunch of strangers touch, shove penises, fingers etc near my face and other parts.
Thats why im two minded bout having a mmf experience. Some men also get the idea that if a female is there for dogging or willing, shes a "slut" and should be treated like one. Some people have that mentality.
But hey some women up for it Im just giving my opinion.
Also Ash is spot on bout the safety thing and dont the popo come and bother people?
I could watch a fine man like Jack for hours but to be honest dont think i can be a true voyeur, I'd want to touch and do :twisted:
I need to be playing with a partner if im watching lol i get too aroused hehe.
PIB -the vid and pic thing I dont do anymore landed in some crap when i trusted someone . And to make matters worse they had a break in and the laptop that had the pics and vids on was stolen. Whoever stole it must be having fun lol
All i heard "read" was that Stamina has tattoos mmmmmm.
On a serious note, I have met someone that did not look at all like his profile pics , only to find out he stole them from another guy on SH (i know this because I physically met the "real" guy) how did that happen
Im down to earth, mix with all kinds of people regardless and i am educated. I do how ever have a big problem with snobs.
I believe in this sense though that it could mean different things. But the people that are using it as snobs to hook up with other snobs are missing out. Experience and explore i say! If u stuck up u wont have fun.
I was seeing a guy in wheelchair, he had no mobility from below waist. And i also saw a guy that had false teeth in the front lol
I get put off by short or shorter than me guys also skinny framed men. I tend to be more attracted to bald or really short hair dark skinned men and i always look for tattoos love them.
I look at fingernails and teeth. Nice thighs n bum and i prefer fresh smelling (soap, cologne) its a hell of a turn on. Oh and fuller or kissable suckable lips I noticed that i am more drawn to sturdy built men or men that look like they can handle me dunno how else to explain it.
Also a talkative person or atleast attentive as i am very bubbly and friendly. But sometimes its a "vibe" between me and the person that attracts me.
Well everyones different, some like clit play some dont etc.
Anyhoo, for me a good muff is when a guy seems to be loving it and holds and lifts my ass off the bed and goes at it like its the best dessert he has ever tasted in his life lol. Im not a lover of any clit play but being penetrated(fingers and tongue) then i am in 7th heaven. I like to be kissed after(on my mouth) to lol but thats the freak in me hehe :twisted:. Cant tell all cos just now people think im weird.
But bad is when a guy pokes at it like its gonna hurt him. Licks it like its going to eat him like a venus fly trap hahahaha. Oh and when he stops abruptly cos u moaning and wants to get in there cos he too excited. Total mood killer and ends things way too quickly.
I hate jack rabbits complete turn off i like suave and sensual men and approach. Approach can make or break. I want to wonder if this guy can make me exhale(for example of jack rabbit watch this movie lol) or if he is going to pump me into a coma cos of head trauma. Lol
Hmmm what would people want or curious to see? But not too explicit i would need to get something more for those kinda pics lol.
Lets give them rewards, lol sure ppl are curious so lets reward with pics for motivation.
Firstly i think me being kinda OCD doesnt allow me to be er sticky. Lol I need to bath/shower asap if we(long term lover) dont do the safe sex thing. Also i am allergic to semen, no i am not joking.
But i think women in porn only do that cos they getting paid for it. I have had a "moment" with someone i loved and didnt mind it inside felt good. But havent done it again.
Sorry almost forgot but i might edit this again lol. Gerrie he is just too cute like to meet him to and Jack99 with those "take me to bed" eyes.
I would firstly like to meet PIB, i have a feeling that shes really good company(and a good kisser). Then LeeEC, and georgeous they seem fun n cool. And stamina see if he'll let me lick his pecs lol and if he lives up to his nick name hehe
If u coud and had permission and access , who would u like to meet, watch or do things to/with lol preferably from swinging heaven.
