I’m a fit, health-conscious individual who values both physical well-being and hygiene. I believe that the primary goal for everyone in the lifestyle is to have fun and explore, but it should always be done with respect for others. For me, it's important to show respect and maintain decency, especially toward ladies, and to never overstep boundaries. As a single guy in the lifestyle, I think it’s crucial to honor those boundaries at all times. I have a broad range of interests and am open to new experiences.

What I’m looking for:

I’m seeking ladies and couples who take care of themselves and want to build genuine friendships within the lifestyle, with respect for everyone involved. This also applies to gents in the lifestyle—I’m not looking for intimacy, but rather to form meaningful connections and friendships.

Background

I was previously part of the lifestyle as a couple when I lived in Johannesburg, attending private parties and a few clubs in the area. After taking a break for a few years, I realized that the lifestyle aligns with who I am and what I prefer. Now, I’m looking to reconnect and build deeper friendships within this community. Since becoming single, I’ve met some great singles and couples—some good, and one in particular who stands out as truly special.

I prefer to meet over coffee or at a social club first to see if there’s a mutual interest and connection before taking things further.