"I’m not everyone’s cup of tea — more like a slow sip of whisky that burns just right if you can handle it." I’ve been in the lifestyle for a while now, enough to know that connection, laughter, and mutual respect make it so much better. Work has me between Cape Town, Joburg, and Durban, but I’ve learned that chemistry doesn’t care about postcodes. I like good conversation, the kind that teases the mind before anything else. If you’ve got a sense of humour, a spark, and an appetite for a little...