We are looking for a needle in a haystack.

First off: Please respect our preferences. We have limited messages so we will respond only to those individuals falling within our current needs. Flooding our inbox with phone numbers or friend requests is not going to make us change our minds.

We have reached a point where the Mrs would like to explore naughty chats with Single guys without Mr being close to her. Having been together for almost 20 years she has the need to explore on her own in an online, semi anonymous setting.

Our requirements for a good fit would be:

• A SINGLE gentleman. We don't want drama and "restrictions" on when Mrs can chat or not. This is not negotiable. If you are part of a couple, your mrs will need to confirm your claims. We are not here to be 'skelmpies'.

• We would prefer a gentleman between 30 and 40 years old.

• A "down to earth" guy. Big egos and narcissism is a big turn off.

• A well read/travelled gentleman who can carry a conversation about almost any topic. Mrs is sapiosexual and you will need to be able to engage on more than just naughty chats or "how's the weather".

• A patient gentleman who is not pushy for replies. Mrs has a demanding job as well as a family life so she cannot always reply within 10 seconds after recieving a message.

• A gentleman who would respect her as a woman, and someone's wife. Yes, she wants to explore her naughty side but it does not mean she is a slut at your beck and call.

• A gentleman who knows when naughty talk is appropriate and who can keep crude language limited to when the time is right.

• A gentleman who knows how to take some lead in a conversation and help Mrs to relax and become comfortable during a fun, flirty chat.

• Mrs tends to become really naughty when the mood hits and she is not shy about sharing pics, but asking for pics before she is comfortable with you will end any conversations very quickly.

Mrs is not bi but she has expressed some interest in perhaps finding a female friend that she can chat with about all kinds of interesting topics. Her circle of friends are very conservative and she needs a female friend who will not judge.

We have limited messages so we might not be able to reply right away, but we will remove this ad once we've found a good fit for our requirements. We also can't view adult pics or albums so there is no use in sending those to us. Please be patient. If you gents include yes I have in the first line of your message to us we'll know you have read the whole message and understand our needs.

Here's to hoping to finding that needle in this big haystack of naughtiness.