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We are relatively new to the lifestyle, very curious and somewhat open minded ... Keen to explore and have fun! We are both young, attractive, upmarket and in good shape Caucasians. We DON'T cross race!privacy and discretion is ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT to us and will reciprocate accordingly! 

We are looking to meet an attractive lady or young couple to play with... We are both very private, and taking this slowly and not in a rush or desperate ... We do not appreciate pushy, demanding people that have expectations. We would like to make friends with like-minded people too. Recently I have been wanting to see my bf play and get with another gorgeous lady.... Or even see him in a mmf threesome with another couple... Could be hot... Very open minded but I don't want to be with another guy right yet... Maybe in time if I get comfortable.... 

We love if  all 4 can play at the same time and do whatever all is comfy with by respecting each others boundaries! If you are the type of couple that feels, "what's good for the goose is good for the gander", with no disrespect, we are probably not your cup of tea.... We are not here to entertain you, we are here for our fantasies and hope to find people that are on the same page... 

We regret NO drugs, NO single guys and race DOES matter. Cleanliness and clean shaven where it counts is a must! Non-smokers PREFERABLE!

Looking forward to meeting you! happy.gif

Bedfordview, Germiston, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

I'm a clean upmarket presentable Guy looking for women or couples to have fun with and experience different things, Contact me for anything you're willing to do or try. I'm open minded so got no hang ups like all sorts of things so don't be shy I'm Sure we will have a good time

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2197
Fun krugersdorp guy -
Im a down to earth guy understand that no means no I'm here to have fun and im open minded looking for couples or a female that would like to join me with a couple good hygiene is very important hope to hear of you soon
Krugersdorp, Gauteng, 1739

Not here to write an essay I'm 23 male full of fun looking for an older woman to mess around with, keep it simple and amazingly fun. Mail me if you think you got what it takes xxx

Jeppestown, Gauteng, 2094

Hallo all 

Im new in boksburg. if you like what you see get in touch and we can have some hot and steamy fun. Looking to explore some more 3sums  and parties. 

Hope to hear from all you sexy people out there

Only ladies and couples get in touch

B b m 

D8 CD 72 92

Boksburg, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

29 year old white male looking for some adventures. Workout regularly and play lots of sports such as rugby and hockey. Naughty sense of humour and am easy going.

Bryanston, Gauteng, 2060

I'm open-minded, kinky and are open for suggestions. I love pussy, serious its lovely. I love muffing a shaved clean pussy, have you sit on my face and cum over me..... I love sagging a complete stranger, and public areas. Like toys and straps....I'm bi curious, want bi-mmf 3sum

Florida, Gauteng, 1724
Seeking Fun -
Loving couple just wanting fun with a bi-women. I am a bi-women myself and my partner enjoys watching and then joining in.
Roodepoort, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
enjoy life -
we are here to enjoy and have adult fun with adults.Broad minded and mature and most importantly respect each other. Let's have fun
Gauteng, South Africa
Anyone to welcome me here -
Im muscular n like keeping in shape. I exercize at least 4 times a week just to keep fit n healthy. I am interested in meeting single ladies, couples or groups of all races. I enjoy playing with clit, and i get more excited when the hubbf/bf/or partner is around to watch n join in the fun. I prefer a more regular trpe of a thing depending on our schedules, and preferably people around the fourways, sandton, randburg, midrand and centurion areas. Lets chat n see n take it from there
Four Ways, Gauteng, 2055
We wanna meet hot openminded singles n couples -
We are a hot black couple looking to meet other couples. We are not married, we ben dating for almost 2 years n we now want to fulfil our fantasies together. We wanna fuck n swap with hot couples around joburg. We not looking for trouble, and sigle guys the lady will decide if she likes ur pics n want to ride you, but thats entirely her decision. I dont mind sharing her. Lets chat and see where this leads us
Halfway House, Gauteng, 1684

We are looking for cpls and single ladies who wanna nb friends with gr8 benefits.

We only do white ppl. We have enough single men to choose from.

We r game 4 almost anything and love the thrill amnd excitement of the game.

We travel wen we can but not more than 150 km. Cpl must b really worth it.

We got big kids here who know wot we do but don't play in front of them of course!

If u think we could b the cpl for u, get in touch!

Vanderbijlpark, Gauteng, 1911

Gay but curious. Would like to explore my bi curiosity side. I respect straight guys completely, but need your 'expertise' and guidance! Be my teacher?

Boksburg, Gauteng, 1459

38 year old with virtually no taboos loves NSA encounters with COUPLES, HOTWIVES,GROUPS and LADIES (In that order) Have the tools and enjoys using them ( often) !!!. Cleanliness a must , but prefer “wllder” than “milder” in a variety of ways , the more blatant and deviant the better.Cut and 100% clean shaven always.Please dont be shy, we know why we're here, I wont be. Speak, Eng, Afrikaans, German Love to travel and reply to all genuine mails .Also enjoy both photography and filming in play. Please dont ask , all photos real and verified I dont waste anyones time and ask that mine also not be by pic collectors or guys pretending to be couples !! Also NOT your guy for the loooooong braai and numerous drinks to get into the mood or calm the nerves.Any degree of Bi play reserved for couples only so please guys give it a rest ! Just happy to enjoy great NSA times with others who know what they want………………really look forward to hearing ( if you’re unable to whatsapp PLEASE DONT REPLY as it’s evident you arent real from the outset as have heard all the excuses,  "we need to be comfortable first",  "we are high profile and dont give out our number"  etc etc) Entire Gauteng and further travel no hassle !! swingingchair.gif



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Sandton, South Africa

Hi all......... straight male 40+............I like to be with couples.........single ladies also an option enjoy now & then giving the ladies a sensual massage with a happy ending..... I will put a smile on your sex non neg. willing to travel Great manners and respect for all. I consider myself a super sub,or an impact player .When the right circumstances arise,not only the size of the wound but the power of the sorcerer will leave a lasting impression . I'm not here for emotional connections .I'm here to meet beautiful like minded people who are not afraid to explore their sexuality and enjoy mind blowing orgasmic ecstasy...COUPLES i will reignite your passion for each other........No gay males..... Satisfaction guaranteed  xxx   .One more thing I travel a lot in SA or abroad so not always available in Pretoria  

Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa


Welcome to our profile!

Mr. Inquisitive - 37 years old - (she says) handsome and confident, extremely well versed under the covers! Medium build with stunning legs, a gorgeous ass and a pair of world-class-balls! When it comes to the fine art of pleasing a lady, he has copious amounts of experience! With a broad sense of adventure and a mind open to almost anything - he is an extremely diverse, thorough and satisfying-beyond-belief lover!

Miss Inquisitive - 20 years old – (he says) sexy, seductive and oh-so-much fun in the bedroom (and out)! Medium frame with curves in all the right places, smallish but lovely sensitive boobs and a sexy butt! May be young in years but is very mature, extremely open minded and adventurous, and has an insatiable appetite for sex! 

Both well groomed, clean shaven, hygienic and D&D free, and in turn expect the same of our playmates. Drugs for us or in our presence will not be tolerated. We do both smoke and enjoy a drink.

We are extremely happy together and in a rock-solid relationship.  We don't ask for much - good conversation, a few laughs, some flirting and loads of fun!! We both enjoy experimenting and are willing to give pretty much anything a go, playdates can be anything from soft and sensual to hardcore and pure unadulterated fun…

We have no real preferences regarding age, build, etc. - we merely ask for hygienic, preferably clean-shaven, genuine people.

We are looking for bi-females and/or couples, preferably with bi-females, but straight couples/straight females are more than welcome to contact us. Single men – we will contact you if we need you.

Please kindly note - we are not looking for single men to make contact with us. She is an exhibitionist, so guys - enjoy the photos and the occasional cam show but it doesn't mean she/we want to meet you - please respect that.

He - unfortunately lives outside of SA so our playtime as a couple is limited to the times that he is in SA - if we do decide to chat on Whatsapp, we'll have to create a group so the both of us are involved. That said - she is willing and has his blessing to play alone with single bi-females. He will however be aware of any playmates and play dates. There is no expectation for single bi-females to join us as a couple if they only wish to play with her. 

Couples - sorry, but we will only play and attend parties/clubs together.

Age is not an issue, please don't make it one - as long as there is a mutual connection we are happy to meet.

If you like what you read – drop us a message and let’s see where things go. And please send us a personalized message, auto-generated "I'd like to know more" wink messages will not be entertained - our profile is pretty clear on exactly what we are looking for. 

After initial contact - we will only chat to people who are willing to share a recent face picture of themselves as we are willing to do ourselves. Email ping pong is not what we are looking for – we are here to chat, establish a connection and meet for drinks and hopefully some fun.

Please kindly note - should we decide to chat to a couple on Whatsapp, we will require that both partners are involved on separate numbers in a group which either couple may set up. We do not find it conducive to establishing a real connection between all members if couples attempt to communicate through one number, and this connection is of utmost importance to us. This is not negotiable.

We look forward to making some fantastic friends as we explore this wonderful world of swinging!

Johannesburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

I'm Mid 40's but do not look a day holder than 40......prefer swinging with couples...I'm straight not Bi...Safety and protection and classiness is a must...I'm here for some NSA fun xxx If you like what you see feel free to contact me....Please no no no Gay male's...............Satisfaction guaranteed.............

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0105


We are a very committed married couple with a happy family life. So when we can escape from our children we try leading a life between husband and wife that extends past being a mother and a father. While we are still exploring our sensual excitement within our marriage and love every minute, we want to explore our mutual imagination and fantasies with others. We are seeking fun hot sexy adventures with educated people with good spirits and humor.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2105
I am a 55 year old married guy. She unfortunately is not interested in excitement. I would like to make contact with likeminded women.
Gauteng, South Africa

We have been in the lifestyle for almost 3 years now...Had a lot of fun so far and also a fair share of disappointments..we are easy going and down to earth looking for friends with benefits..please no bullshitters as we get plenty of those...and NO Single Men!!! will be ignored as we strictly play as a couple..We do full swapping and prefer normal sex pain anal or weird kinky shit as its not our cup of tea..We also prefer age group 30 and above and Same Race please..our if you are interested and is in the JHB area..West us and lets meet and greet and see if there is a mutual spark for fun and games


1709, Florida Glen, Roodepoort, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
Let's see if we meet real people here -
We looking for a couple to chat with and see if we get along n take it from there. Single ladies are welcome to contact us, BUT single Gents we will contact you if we looking in that space. Note: If you don't havea picture Plse don't bother coz you will be ignored. Don't send us friend invite if we yet to chat, that will be declined. Respect the above n we'll get along
Four Ways, Gauteng, 2055

I am here to have fun with no strings attached. Not crossing the gender border. And please no gay men. Be who you are. Get in touch even just to chat.

0182, Montana, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there, I am going to be on vacation in Umdloti from 27 April - 1 May. Would love to meet either a couple or single female for possibilities.

A brief description of myself:  

I'm a level headed, down to earth single male who loves life and lives it to the fullest. I'm 34yrs old, mature, a young executive in a prominent industry, hence discretion is a must, regarded by many as decent, sexy and good looking. Indian male, athletically built. Very particular about personal hygiene and my appearance. I am friendly and easy going. Would love to meet females and couples for straight forward good clean adulterated fun. Yes, I am open minded to most things, provided it is safe and accepted by all parties involved. Always look forward to new experiences and love to indulge in fantasies..... be it mine or others So, if there is anyone out there who is interested, drop me an email and lets take things from there and hopefully discover that we share similar interests.

Preferably long term friendship with the added benefits off course.

Best Regards

Alberton, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Straight forward, non-pushy and hopefully not 'over-whelming'. I'll take no as a final and will not hound you. If you do not respond to a message from me, I will also take that as a no...eventually.... wink.gif (although I might try a few times to solicit your interest).

Willing to meet for a coffee, beer, health juice first if that is what you require...just as willing to skip this step if preferred.

I am a straight, male and looking for nsa, discreet fun - females and couples (m/f). I don't mind being watched or watching you (ONLY Females and Female/Male couples) BUT participation is obviously the ultimate desire. don't be fooled by age...there is more than expected wink.gif

Married - yes, no she doesn't know and of course don't play with. In fact, we are separated but still in the same house.

I am NOT bi-curious or even remotely pls pass on by if that is what you want.  Also NOT into anal, pain, dp, bdsm or crude type activities. 

Although I have joined Club Rome (daytime member), I have never been there....same for Club Poizon...maybe some day I will have enough motivation to go see.

Red wine is a favourite in moderation - helps the endurance (wink).   I don't smoke or do any kind of drugs.

Any questions, just ask. WhatsApp available if required.

Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

I'm a widower,lonely and lead a boring life .can anyone change that for me?I'm a very honest,caring,loving,open minded and outgoing guy.
I'm straight forward and non judgmental ,would expect the same .im seeking females and couples who's fun loving,outgoing,open minded,love weekends away a lover of oral ,giving and receiving.
I would reali love to meet a fun loving female who can be my friend at first then my partner later,also FEMALESand CPLS for fun are WELCUM
any age and race welcome but muture and clean,I have had lots of experience in swinging,but haven't done it in 15years

1619, Croydon, Kempton Park, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a young, fun couple. We are looking for suitable people for fun and exciting times. We are looking for clean, people. Hygiene is a big must. People from 25 to 45 years of age. Single gents will be contacted when needed.

Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging, Sedibeng, Gauteng, South Africa
Fun -
We are a happily married cpl...Easy going and openminded..I had a few bi experiences with girls and I am loving it so far! We are searching for girls who are interested to make friends and would like to join us in our playfull fun...I am also searching for a female to join my hubby for some fun alone with my permission... so whatever tickles your fancy...Hope 2 hear from u soon.... :)
Pretoria, Gauteng, 0182

Nice Upmarket Couple, seek another couple or bi lady for NSA fun. Very new to this but broadminded :-) He is tall, attractive, blue eyes and brown hair and of stocky build. She is 5'8, blond, attractive, slim with great boobs.

We can travel and accommodate at our lovely home.

We are non pushy, easy going, clean, private, discreet and seek same. Hope to hear from you soon:-)

Halfway House, Gauteng, 1685

Young Attractive Indian couple looking to have clean fun to spice up the marriage. She is sexy hot and petite and he is tall, well built and attractive. We both enjoy adventure.

Gauteng, Gauteng, 1610

Few updates below!

Not new to this! We're in a completely honest relationship that allows freedom, that means we're both free to chat and date who we like (we hate the term open, but in layman's terms then yes), again this is done with complete transparency between us! There will always have to be some sort of connection for either of us to want to meet up, neither of us just dive into bed for the sake of it and can be kinda picky (espeically her!)

Guys, little advice, if you're married (and she doesn't know), you'd better be Chris Hemsworth's better looking brother and even at that it probably won't cut it....If she likes you there is a fair chance she will want to see your dick, you'll really be lessening your chances trying the other way around

ladies, little advice, he can be a little hard to understand with his hot accent

couples, we're still open to chat and make new friends and who knows, if we all get along.....

Bryanston, Gauteng, 2060


A down to earth friendly guy with a naughty side that I love to explore. Message me and lets chat,

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0031
molly @ wors -
Ello ons is nuut in die swinging,so ondevinding ma beperk...ons is van die Rand en het kids so ons kani akommidate nie ma travel gerus..eks 41 sys 36 en ons altwee het gewig! Opsoek na paartjies met gewig soos ons vir lekke kuier en parties
Nigel, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

I think of myself as very open minded. and love to chat to other open minded Adults. I have a little one so my time is limited. So it's difficult to find time to play but can chat and see how things go. 

Johannesburg, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
Naughty fun -
Hi, I am white professional male from Jhb seeking naughty NSA fun with Cape Town gal who is single or married. I am average build, tall. i have discreet venue and down from 29January to 6 february and semi frequently thereafter. I love sexy legs, drop me a mail lets have some fun.
Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a couple looking to expand our horizons and meet like minded couples. We would like to meet new "friends with benefits".. . We enjoy the outdoors, braaing, relaxing with friends. No single males are required . We would prefer people in the age group of 40 to 47 . We like to chat via whatsapp first, then meet and see what progresses. Must be some form of physical attraction. White people only.

2191, Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

We are looking for like minded people who would like to go to clubs with us as well as friends in the lifestyle.  

If you are a handsome single young guy you can contact us.

Only same race please.

We like to play at club Rome, Privilege or house parties, but we can meet for drinks at any other place.

If you have no pictures on your profile or attached to the message will not reply. 

Please take time to write a proper message not a system originated one please. 

Enjoy your day 


Gauteng, South Africa

Just want to meet single ladies and couples for NSA fun on a regular basis (preferably during the day).


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Centurion, Gauteng, 0157

Not into dudes..... Can host during the day (Work from Home). Safe complex. Willing to travel after hours and weekends.

Looking for NSA with Ladies. Love making ladies cum, I don't care if you are married or in a relationship, Age is not a factor, I am Discreet.

If you would also just like to watch me jerk off that can be arranged! I will cum where you want me too ;)

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619

Mature couple looking for clean fun with a young well hung (big/huge) clean cut male (18 - 40) or female, hopefully on an on going basis. Want to experience MMF/MFF or FF. PLEASE NOT LOOKING FOR A QUICK SHAG AND NO CHANCERS PLEASE. PREFARE PICTURES. IF YOU DONOT MEET THE PROFILE PLEASE DONOT RESPOND !!!!!

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2000

Ons is n rustige gelukkige getroude paartjie wat op soek na vriende in die leefstyl Ons speel saam en deel als Ons enigste is DAT Ons nie n venue het nie as gevolg kan Ons nie akkomideer nie Jammer net Ons eie kleur ENKEL SPEELENDE MANS ONS SAL JUL KONTAK MOET NIE N VRIEND AAN VRAAG STUUR NIE JY SAL GEBLOCK WORD. if you can not read this please don't contact us

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0084

Hi. We are new to swinging. We would like to meet males and females for threesome fun or couple swops.

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619

We are a happily married couple, loving life and fooling around! We are interested in attractive, adventurous, like-minded people who can at least hold a stimulating conversation.. This is a big turn on for her.

We are professional and well-groomed people with a very busy lifestyle, so endless chatting isnt possible for us.. Nor is it a turn on. We dont play outside of our own race and we always play together.

We dont respond to profiles with no photos.... Think about it?!

We dont do married men.. Come on guys its called cheating.

We love playing with sexy singles as well as couples..

So please contact us and send us a face pic.. And we'll do the same!

0081, Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Singe men, please refrain from contacting us, we will contact you if the need arises.  We also don't cam; we meet cpls with the aim to find friends (with benefits).

We are a late 40s professional cpl in a secure and trusting married relationship. We have been swinging for a number of years, yet, it is not a lifestyle for us. We see it as a fun evening away from our vanilla lives; or a "night at the opera"...

We have lived in various parts of the world and have recently returned home after one of our stints away from SA. We are really happy to be back in the land of milk and honey; despite its problems, SA is still our favourite place on earth!! We enjoy all the good things in life (live music, theater, dining out, travel, sport, and off course "opera" once in a while...). He is an avid cyclist and gyms regularly, she also keeps in shape through regular exercise.

To cpls and ladies in our age group (35 to 55), if our profile tickle your fancy, please get in touch. The only way to find out if we might click is to give it a try... We also know that we will not all click and find each other attractive enough to take the next step and we will in such cases respectfully go our separate ways.

We are a very relaxed cpl with no hang ups and little pre-conceived ideas. We love hanging out with similar people. Aggressive, pushy and disrespectful behaviour really put us off. If we get there, same room safe sex is our preference. Hygiene is very important and people who at least trim a bit will be preferred...

Have a great day!!



Im a clean white guy in my own str8 world! In other words I like st8 guys and women! No FEMs nor fats(just not sexualy attracted) I dont get fuckd, unless your Weener is under 5cm! I'm just me! A dude for a dude/couple And more if the chemistry allow it!!!Expect safe,std free and normal dte peeps!!! Not an sex addic and dont need it every day!!NO full body or CLear facepic = NO chat i know what discretion means........don't even ask for my pvt pix if u haven't send your prior.NO automated messages, I don't bite!!!! 

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Just your ordinary next door guy lookinf for some uncomplicated sex with gay, married and bi men! Gaurenteed discretion!

1739, Krugersdorp North, Krugersdorp, West Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

im looking for adventure and a wild sexual experience, do message me if you interested.

1818, Protea North, Soweto, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa



so dont even bother to send me a message. .......

Thank you for viewing my profile

I am a single guy lookung to play

I also am looking for a female partner to join me playing with couples or alone

preferably centurion area

Centurion, Gauteng, 0157

Hi we DO NOT CROSS THE RACE BARRIER!!!! We also have a age restriction. We do not go for people older than 45y plz! it is just our choice. Thank you for reading our blog! Have a nice day. Hi we are looking to make good friends with long term friendship in mind! We want to share our fantasies and help others with there's.

Vanderbijlpark, Gauteng, 1911

Hey all, love watching woman and men. Exhibitionist who loves dogging. Lets meet sometime if we click. Slightly curious bi, keeps distance but loves to watch anyone.

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Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2094

any guys out there keen on experimenting *grin*

I dont have my own place at the moment so will need to be yours or hotel room 

Centurion, Tshwane, Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa