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I am a mature professional. Get the opportunity to drive away from the office and are then curious to meet people. I am actually new to this and did not have any dogging encounters yet. I would like to be invited if possible in the Vaal area.

Vanderbijlpark, Vereeniging, Sedibeng, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there, I am going to be on vacation in Umdloti from 27 April - 1 May. Would love to meet either a couple or single female for possibilities.

A brief description of myself:  

I'm a level headed, down to earth single male who loves life and lives it to the fullest. I'm 34yrs old, mature, a young executive in a prominent industry, hence discretion is a must, regarded by many as decent, sexy and good looking. Indian male, athletically built. Very particular about personal hygiene and my appearance. I am friendly and easy going. Would love to meet females and couples for straight forward good clean adulterated fun. Yes, I am open minded to most things, provided it is safe and accepted by all parties involved. Always look forward to new experiences and love to indulge in fantasies..... be it mine or others So, if there is anyone out there who is interested, drop me an email and lets take things from there and hopefully discover that we share similar interests.

Preferably long term friendship with the added benefits off course.

Best Regards

Alberton, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
Normal guy -
Hello I am a normal guy looking for a normal girl.
Pretoria, Gauteng, 0186
Pta couple looking for people that enjoy naughty encounters -
We are a married couple that enjoy meeting all naughty people that enjoy meeting for naughty encounters. Not into months of email ping pong or babysitting insecure people. If you are looking for naughty encounters and have a specific scenario in mind please let us know and lets see how we can all have some adult fun We do have children so wont always be available at a few minutes notice ;-)
Pretoria, Gauteng, 0044

We are a well-kept, professional, white married couple, looking for some no strings attached fun. We keep fit and look after ourselves and would therefore expect the same. WE ONLY PLAY TOGETHER (don't ask us to play alone....... we don't) and we practice safe sex only,  this is NOT negotiable. We are waxed and smooth where it counts and would expect and appreciate the same, and are not interested in chatting  endlessly and in the end it leads to nothing.  If you are serious about playing you will make a plan to at least meet within two weeks. If not, we will delete and block you, not because we're nasty, but because we are looking for FWB, we have lots of vanilla friends! Please note we can only play at night and over weekends. We can become friends ONLY AFTER WE HAVE MET if we all feel the same and happy to do so.   We have quite a number of pictures on our profile so if you don't have a few to share as well don't bother making contact.  If you are serious about meeting and playing, and have read our profile to make sure about our preferences, we look forward to hearing from you.

Please note we cannot host...THEREFORE, single men, don't bother to make contact IF YOU CANNOT HOST OR MAKE ARRANGEMENTS.

Germiston, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
Curious about men -
Looking for fun and friendship.Down to earth normal guy.
Benoni, Gauteng, 1501
nothing personal just fun -
If you are clean, disease free and looking for some fun.....look me up!!! All welcome to make contact. I will not reply to profiles without pics.
Rosslyn, Akasia, Tshwane, Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Young Attractive Indian couple looking to have clean fun to spice up the marriage. She is sexy hot and petite and he is tall, well built and attractive. We both enjoy adventure.

Gauteng, Gauteng, 1610

Hi Guys,

Been in the lifestyle for a little while now and have met a lot of people on the site that talk a big game but do not deliver.

Anyways, I am into girls/couples ... I am discreet, clean and chilled when it comes down to the bedroom.

All I am looking for is a bit of honesty, people that are serious to meet and NO pic collectors!


Any questions, please feel free to ask ...


Gauteng, South Africa

Hi Guys

Im 46 GWM ,involved so need to be discreet, i'm bottom only , enjoying being naked , being fucked , sucking cock and swallowing , porn , poppers , wanking , being pissed on and into...

I'm also looking for a gym bud , who can join me in the mornings around 06H30 at Family Fitness , Kempton Park, as a gym bud to help motivate each other.... and who knows maybe a friendship or fuckbud evolves . Stay in Pomona , work in Glen Marais , fridays finish at 3 , so free between3-5

1630, Kempton Park, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi I'm Alex I'm 32 w m in the Swartruggens lindleyspoort area wanna chat nsa fun with who willing to try and have a loads of fun number on request

0082, Daspoort, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa
Horny Sandton area bi guy -
New to the site, and not very experienced. I am a horny and open minded guy in the Sandton area. Bi, into sensual touching, mutual massages and like to see where that leads. I have a very sensual touch and I enjoy massaging both men and women and exploring their bodies and sensuality. I am generally smooth and waxed all over. Sporty body, and I look after myself. I am a descent person, and look for that in others. I do not condone any form of drugs or strange stimulation, so please do not contact me if you require anything like uppers etc, and I also do not like smokers and very hairy guys. Complete Discretion a must!
Gauteng, South Africa

We are a young fun couple, exploring our sexual fantasy

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0024

Hi dankie vir die wat dit lees ek is Afrikaans en die wat belangstel kan my ad 0@8@2@5@05@5@7@4@8

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619

Please do not send friend requests if you have not even chatted. 

Easy going and friendly couple. We enjoy company and open to most things in life. We prefer to meet in a public setting firstly and if we all have a connection then we can take it further. Our interests are shown on our profile and obviously these interests are dependant on who we have fun with and consent from all involved. Make contact and we can plan going forward. We do have kids so planning is essential.

Single guys we I'll contact you when the need arises.

Gauteng, South Africa

Things I cannot apologise for

* that I'm drawn to intelligence, and to warm personalities; 
* that neither age nor perfection are of much concern to me, but the medium to slender body remains a preference; 
* that I really don't mind any gay activity at all and would even watch, if invited, but it is the female touch that ignites my passions; 
* that all boobs are good, but small, smaller, smallest are sexy, sexier, sexiest;
* that in encounters I enjoy a quick 3 minutes,  but prefer a good 3 hours, and have gone non-stop for 3 times that - no lies, and no pills; 
* that I travel the country and the world quite a bit, and can maintain equally well  and in different places good friendships and short-term liaisons;
* that safety and discretion are offered and expected, always and non-negotiably (even though, sadly, that has lost me a few hot dates);
* that,  except as a birthday star sign, I'm not a virgin.

Things I will apologise for:


2193, Parkhurst, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a mid 40's naughty couple.Hier om onsself te geniet,lekker te

kuier en speel ,Hou van die buite lewe,nudiste.Ons is straight,en ook curious,

Heidelberg, Gauteng, 1440
we newbies -
hi all love meet and go for drinks and see whats happen from there
Meyerton, Gauteng, 1876

Recently Single and Easy going and up for loads of fun, good sense of humour and very active imagination. Well travelled and professional, Neat, Clean and Shaven, not a big fan of hair. Always discrete, hope we can chat, get to know each other and get to why we all on here, have Fun ;) Happy to share more on mail etc, I have a bit of ink so won't post too many pic's on here.

Roodepoort, Gauteng, 1726

We are a couple - been in the lifestlye for some time and enjoy it. Mrs Entrista will not shy away from sharing intimate moments with a lady but definitely prefers men. We are based in Honeydew but can travel as might be required. We have children in the home and have to plan around them when setting up dates, parties and the like. Our children and family life come first and will never be compromised by our involvement in the lifestyle.

We pretty much avoid profiles without any pics on them. All of us on the site have responsible jobs and we have all heard the tired old reasons as to why you can't have pics on your profile. Subtle pics are always possible to create. In your face genitalia pics are also not a requirement.

We prefer to engage with men over 35.

We are quite comfortable with same room sex or soft swing when all concerned are in agreement

If you like what you see above, we look forward to hearing from you


Mr E is neither bi nor bi-curious


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have our permission to use any part of our profile, our cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

2161, Sundowner, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Young, sexy and fun loving white couple. I am very Bi (hehe) and hubby loves it. We are keen to meet up with single females or couples with bi females, we do softswing if there is chemistry amongst all concerned.

First meetings is only to get to know each other, we regret we don't play on the first date lol. If all involved are happy we would love to take it furher in future meetings but all meetings need not be about sex.

We would like to make friends with like minded people even if it is only friends hey we need those too. Please drop us a line, we don't bite unless you ask nicely hehehe.

We regret NO drugs, NO single guys and race does matter. Cleanliness is a must!

Single guys please DON'T request a connection we will not grant it.

Roodepoort, Gauteng, 1732

We are a young, some would say attractive (some wouldn't **cant please everyone), open minded couple, with a good sense of humour (we believe). We are down to earth and easy going. We are here entirely for NSA fun and excitement. For us this entirely about sex. The male in the couple is straight, she is bi-curious. We love a good bottle of wine at a nice restaurant and spending lots of time outdoors. We both have a love for animals and enjoy socializing, whether that be a braai in the middle of no where or a drink at the local bar. 

So after barely a week on SH we feel the need to adjust our profile already. Please take note of the below before attempting contact with us...

1. For the love of god, if you say you are going to meet someone, please arrive. I have no idea how many no shows we've experienced so far. Why!?

2. We play together, no exceptions, no matter how amazing you believe yourself to be. Unfortunately we are a packaged deal. To all the single men trying to convince her to play separately by sending long winded messages, please move on. 

2. Every single generic "I would like to know more..." message will be deleted immediately. If you can't take 30 seconds to type up a quick message we're going to assume that everything you do is half arsed. 

3. Sending us a picture of your erect member is not going to entice us to throw ourselves at you. Lets be honest, they all look the same. And no matter how well endowed you are. That will not make up for being an asshole. Please send a face pic. We'll return the favor.

4. We don't play with married men, we realize that there is the potential that you are a truly decent guy, who has a reason for being on here without consent, but that's just not our cup of tea. Sorry

5. To all the men out there who send rude and disrespectful messages to us, you will also be ignored. Just because we have nude photos of her on here, or because i am willing to share her, does not mean she is a piece of meat. In fact the complete opposite. She is the most important thing in my life, and means the world to me. Treat her like a lady and show us respect and we will do the same in return. 

6. Unfortunately we aren't keen on crossing the race barrier yet. That will come with time. 

7. We prefer people between the ages of 23 - 38 . Anything else is out of bounds for us. 

Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi all 

I’m an upmarket, indian male, clean shaven, disease free, and very well endowed looking for sexual encounters. I’m an experienced bull and lover, great skills, very horny, very good stamina, foreplays, touching and massage, lm very discreet (expect the same from you). I always play safe (ie condoms). I'm looking for open minded couples, women who are ready to try something new, different and exciting. If you have the right mindset contact me.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2001
Hi. Please read!!!!!!!!! -
A 33 year old white male. Married 10 years. 3 kids. Just out to have good safe clean happy fun. Love the outdoors fishing camping braais. Worked on and raced race cars. Like relaxing chilling. Computer games are what I play. Expert technian for Hyundai is my proffesion. And yes I have the full permission of my wife to do this. She will even meet you face to face if need be. Will only swap pictures via BBM or whatsapp. The cellular speed over the net are shockingly slow lol. And obviously to keep family members from maybe stumbling across my pics because of spam and virus etc. I'm looking for good times. Honest won't ever lie. No is no and stop is stop. Even when busy. I respect woman and their choices. I'm no rich boy. Can host if time is allowed. I'm no time waster. If I don't reply to you. Try again. And then I might. Enjoy peeps. Stay safe and have fun.
Edenvale, Gauteng, 1609

Looking for nsa fun with bi guys

Vereeniging, Gauteng, 1929

Hi all, 

Firstly i work 6 days a week and long hours, which makes it difficult to meet up at a snap of a finger.   Further to that, i do play alone as the Mrs is not interested in the sexual side of life at all, hence me being on here.  So.......with that mouthfull ; I am a very openminded naughty male looking for ladies for fun.

No winks

No computer generated messages

Lets have some fun.  Seven a nine eight b f five f 

2191, Lone Hill, Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Been in the lifestyle for about 5 years . Looking for people we can connect with and have fun.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2193

Single men,we will contact you.!!

looking for couple or single lady for now,Soft or full swing.......lets go for a drink .maybe braai.Lets have fun . We also love nudity in the sun with good friends 

Sorry all no crossing colour line 

No single men.........just incase you missed it      NO SINGLE MEN?

1459, Beyers Park, Boksburg, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

I'm a very easy going person that enjoy good company and like to have naughty fun with other like minded people.

Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Athletic,  professional boy next door. I try everything atleast once. So let's start exploring... 

0081, Faerie Glen, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

New to the lifestyle and looking to ease into things...learning the ropes and meeting great people along the way..we are down to earth and respectful...we live busy lives but always find time for a bit of fun..especially bike runs on weekends

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Easy going to ideas if the chemistry is right

Kempton Park, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa



We are a young couple here to enhance our sexual experience in life.

we have a fantastic sex life and looking for more, not looking for new partners just NSA fun and friendship.

Couples and single ladies more than welcome.
Single men, keep an eye on our add, we will advertise when we need you.

To us respect is huge, so respect my lady and we shall have lots of sexy fun together.

We are a no nonsense couple, so if you looking for ping pong email dont bother,
If you not serious about swinging and just here to play games. Please pass by our profile.

Boksburg, Gauteng, 1459

Hello reader, hope you enjoy.

We are a discreet hygienic couple that expect the same. We prefer chatting with new friends first to esttablish if there is a connection, as we believe in building frienships rather then hopping around.

We enjoy an easy no pressure relationship, and if all is comfortable and the mood takes over, well...........

We are comfortable with same race, just our preferance.

If you like what you see and read, lets chat.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have our permission to use any of our profile, our cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

Rustenburg, Gauteng, 0299

Talked about this a lot but now finally branching out - many threesomes with women but not quite gone all the other way ; really like to have private parties with a bit of naughtiness!

We are actually out of SA for the most of the time - returning for shopping, family visits etc however if the geographic location is changed we don't get any hits or to view gallery etc is limited.

Also had to put many of the public profile pics into private as recently seems to be quite a few weirdos / sickos out there collecting pics etc plus please read that no single men to contact - have enough of that in real life taking their chances

Johannesburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
Jonk man -
Gvzscfxfdsazgfdsgds ghresghtgjhgxcvjhgdvbj ghuytrdjhtgjytd uytjudjujujhtrdjukjytf Hou nie van baie goed skryf nie julle sal maar moet self kyk en se wat jul dink
Gauteng, South Africa


We are an adventurous couple in our 40's.

We have 2 kids so when the opportunity arises we love to play, we like to get naughty.

We love house parties.

We are not new to the Lifestyle by no means.

We are not here for endless chatting. We are a happily married couple and use this just to have naughty fun.

We have met some good people and became good friends, and are always keen to broaden our circle of friends.

We enjoy going to the clubs, infact Mr plays in one man band and performs at Club Poizon, and Club Rome.

0157, Centurion, Gauteng, South Africa

Thanks for viewing my profile.   If you have a problem playing without consent, then please skip my profile.

Looking for nsa with couples and females.  I am circumcised and clean shaven.  Very open minded.  wink.gif  

Cleanliness a must.  Love eating a beautiful shaved pussy.

Hopefully make some friends along the way and some regular fuck buddies.  Can't always meet on the drop of a hat, life happens and most of the time it is work.

I understand the rule of no means no and woman in control.  And I will not ask to meet the female of a couple alone.  MMF or more is way more of a turn-on,  wink  

I am not looking for a partner or playing with bi-men.  This is about meeting some awesome people and having some NSA mind blowing experiences.

Ek is Afrikaans, so voel vry om te gesels.

Moreletapark, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Yes - I am married and bi curious. Would like to meet up with other married like minded guys for some possible fun. Available for daytime meets.

0159, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Looking for naughty NSA fun. Love foreplay. Lets talk what ever you want to talk about and take it from there etc....

Hatfield, Gauteng, 0083


We are a ferly new couple in this life stile looking for people to have a good time with . no anal . we love foreplay and just fun and sex . Please this is not a ad for a quick fuck . if you invite us or inbox us you must know we play on some weekends at night and some quickies during the day as we have kids. PLEASE NOTE  WE DONT PLAY ALONE . we are in this for the fun and adrenalin of playing with strangers , with our sex life there is nothing wrong believe me. WE WOW EACH OTHER, mrs really wants to try ffm  ..........

GUYS THIS IS NOT A QUICK FUCK OPPITUNITY !!!!!! IF YOU WANT TO PLAY YOU MUST HAVE TIME TO DO SO . WE DONT DO HIT AND RUNS, THERE ARE HOOKERS FOR THAT . We meet and have a few drinks and get to know each other. If we feel a spark then we play

We are a fun loving, happily married couple and intend on staying happily married :-). We have kids and discretion is important to us.

We are looking for well clean couple to show us a good time as well as non pushy couples or singles to join us for some fun. Please note that you have to be well MANNERD, safety conscious and clean. As we are smokers & occasional drinkers. We prefer to keep the Ages between 20 to healthy & good looking 40's please,  sorry. We prefer chatting via whatsapp group at first to see if we'll get along and at least share a similar sense of humor. Preferably couples living in hartbeespoort area, We are afrikaans people

Looking forward to chatting & meeting you 

0216, Hartbeespoort, Gauteng, South Africa
Mahoop -
6 foot 1 and tons of fun.... let's get the party started
Randburg, Gauteng, 2194

Decent, well mannered guy looking for some fun.

Somewhat shy and quiet.

I have a lady friend, same age as me. We were at school together. She is looking to be a bit naughty for the first time in her life. She went to Poizon with me once and enjoyed it. She MAY be interested in meeting another couple. It would be a big step for her though. She is in the educational area hence no full pics.

Florida, Gauteng, 1724

Hi lovely swingers!

-We are a nice, real, German couple and looking for nice people they know what they want.

-We are just here to have fun from time to time, very open minded and tolerant. Live and let live!!!

-We are no models, but comfortable with ourselves. We do not care about color, age or shape as long we get along with people and feel a connection.

-We like group sex in all constellations. 3some, 4some ( 2 couples ), orgy parties and sometimes a bit more fun for the girls (3 men per girl ).

-We like to keep it easy, but we prefer first a meeting at a neutral spot. A pub or a restaurant.

-Important for us is cleanliness and honesty ( to many bullshitters and fakes in this scene )

-But we are also looking for people where we can meet just for socializing, have drink a good chat and fun!

-WE are open for almost everything! We don’t like pain and water sport :blink: Everything else we've tried .....ok, not everything icon_biggrin ! Just drop us a mail and let us know what you want and we can then try out together.

-All of you must have nice and naughty time !

Lovely Greetings

Sylke & Michael

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0153

Thank you for taking the time to look at our profile

We are a open minded couple looking for nsa and like to meet like minded people

Whites only thanks

We are up for chats but we think the woman should organize that, they are woman and they love to chat anyway

We do meet

Ladies more than welcome

Single men on invitation only prefer nice size to play with 😉😉

Mrs Fun might be bi but respect straigth woman


If you like what you see

Send a message

Have fun M & A

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0186

My partner has her own profile on SH (Dark)

We are looking to meet people with the same mindset and attitude towards this lifestyle.

We would like to meet woman and couples who want to play and have NSA sexual fun and games.

I stay in Centurion and I am able to host at my house.

I have an entertainment area with a Bar and Jacuzzi where we can get things warmed up.

I host many private swingers parties at my house in Centurion.

We have opened a swingers club in Pretoria, Club Privilege, Check out the webpage.

My partner is Bisexual and we look after her needs first. She loves Girl on Girl action.

I enjoy watching her play with other Girls.

If you are a biker , we have also a lifestyle biker group( Living Dreams)

Send me a message if you are interested in going to the swingers club or join the bike group.

I enjoy watching my partner have fun with another woman.

We prefer to meet people in the lifestyle at swingers clubs or at my monthly parties,

Enjoy having a 3some with a couples in order for them to live out there fantasies.

Do the right thing and lets get chatting to see if we have the chemistry to make things work.

I would see myself to be open minded, honest , loving and passionate for enjoying life.

Life is short- make the most of it.

Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Life's like a road that you travel on

When there's one day here and the next day gone

Sometimes you bend and sometimes you stand

Sometimes you turn your back to the wind

There's a world outside every darkened door

Where blues won't haunt you anymore

Where the brave are free and lovers soar

Come ride with me to the distant shore

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0057

Ok , let’s see if we can make this shorter and sweeter .

We not that new anymore , but same as before , NO SINGLE MALES , NO FULL SWOP.

Both , early forties, married with kids, no issues , no hidden agendas and more fussy than ever before ;-).

Love the erotica of this , enjoy the company of like minded couples , flirting , teasing and just having fun together

Let’s not waste each other’s time , if you like lets chat , if not enjoy whatever you are looking for.

Fond regards


Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2000

We here to have fun and enhance our sexual lifes. Not nubies, been around for a while, so we know what we are looking for, and that would be only to be honest, clean, a couple, and horny ass hell. So contact us so we can arrange a nice prvt party or meet at a club.

Corrie En Landi

Moot, Gauteng, 0084

We are a very sexual couple and basically addicted to sex. We are very open and like minded and likes to be honest to one another and our friends.

We are looking to have a lot of fun, open to new types of sex, likes to swap photo's and chat. We are looking to make some new friends and take it to the next level.

Single ladies welcome

but please




Pretoria North, Gauteng, 0182