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Hi there... I have a huge fetish for women older than 40 that know how to look after themselves. I prefer couples or married ladies. Lets create some memories.....

Ps. I am on the site without consent, so if all is good lets chat.


We have been in the lifestyle for some time now, and every now and again we re look at why we doing this. Is it just about swapping partners, is it just about the sex.

For us it is a lot more than that, it is about fulfilling your fantasies, been part of a group that will help you achieve your fantasies. If it was just about swapping partners... well where is the fun in that, you having sex on one bed, while your wife is in the same room having sex on another bed, or maybe you even share a bed, I want more, I want to be part of my wife’s fantasies , helping her achieve her orgasm.

To please a lady correctly takes time and care, so if there are men out there that feel the same as we do, if there is men out there that want to let there wife’s really experience the real lifestyle, lets chat

I am looking for other husbands, that want to plan special sexual fun times for our wives, fulfil there fantasies and ours, make the evening enjoyable for all of us, but to make it sensual clean orgasmic for the ladies..

SINGLE LADIES, that choose to join us, we promise you a sensual sexual time. No quick fixes, we like to explore over a longer time and making sure everyone experience multiple orgasm

Benoni, Gauteng, 1501

We are a couple duke 42 years old being in the lifestyle for 10 years, dutchess 40 years old being in the life style for 10 years, if you care to meet us drop us a mail, just to add we do like a naughty adventure at home every now and then, guys please DONT be rude, use your head just cos we are swingers doesnt mean we are cheap we are easy never cheap. If you are a picture collector or cyber wanker please pass by, if you have no intention of meeting please dont waste our time and yours.

If you not in JHB please dont waste our time and yours.

WOW after reading that you still interested come say hi in the chat room or drop us a mail.

To add: Please dont send automated emails they wont be answered, DONT send a email heres my bbm or whats up no, we dont do bbm or whats up ever and never ask for a telephone number, You will receive our number when we ready to meet.

To add there is nothing wrong with this site chat, email or photo section why would we want to use anther channel????

PS. we like spur of the moment meetings, guys we know all the tricks like only meet in the day ect we dont care if you married just tell the truth.

Germiston, Gauteng, 1401
Looking to see what is available out there. I'm a male Looking for another male, gay male couple or straight couple. Open to most things. Just wanna have NSA fun!
Northwold, Gauteng, 2188

We are a married couple looking for a couple to play with. We are very inexperienced first timers! Open minded and excited,we would like to try new things and to live out our fantasies!!!!!!!

We would like to first go out for drinks and just getting to know one another, and if all is good we make arrangements for fun.

We are a happy married couple and we dont play alone,we into 3some and 4some. 

Krugersdorp, West Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

A nawty indian couple who enjoy sexciting adventure. .. We would like to know where all the nawty places are???

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2192, Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa
Hi, So.. I'm a joburg urn gent looking to meet some like minded, easy going.. POSITIVE.. Ladies.. Looking to make some new friends, go for drinks.. Not in a rush, not desperate either.. So if you are .. A happy female, like laughing, chilling out.. Not looking a for a relationship but would like to meet someone to spend sometime with ... enjoy company who will make you feel sexy and special.. Then message me.. I might be your mr fantasy!
Edenvale, Gauteng, 1609

ek is single min by huis agv werk . en dan wil ek net fun he all shapes end sizes welkom oj j oudedom gladni n faktor ni . open minded so kom ons kyk wi wat wat kan voorstel

Boksburg, Gauteng, 1446

We are a horny cpl thats always keen for some action. We like to have fun and lots of it. Hubby loves to watch me have fun and join in later.

Love dogging and sex in public places, we want to meet singles and couples and lets see where it goes .......

We don't have any hangups we like to have a nice party take our clothes of and dance on the tables and ofcourse whatever comes after that.

Just a few rules

Hygiene is extreamly important 

We do not do drugs !!!!!

We do not cross the race border !!!!!!

And if you don't have any pics don't even bother to send a message or a whisper !!!!!!

We are not interested in married guys playing alone !!!!

We very very rarely can play in the day

Gauteng, Gauteng, 1438
lol....what u see is what u get. only people with no issues need apply! lets rock and roll ohh...and by the way if you dont have a pic....dont bother it wastes my time having to erase those messages.
Bryanston, Gauteng, 2191
I've been single for a while now! Time for enjoying life again to the fullest! Wanna meet for drinks, party, movie or whatever........let me know. Thx
Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

We are an adventurous couple into anything fun.

To all the guys and gals we have chatted to on WhatsApp or SMS - our Tablet has been stolen and we have lost all those contacts - pls inbox us your numbers again.

At the moment we are only looking for bi/curious gents or couple where he is bi/curious

Sasolburg, Gauteng, 1947

Hey there,  thanks for viewing my profile.  I am 39 year old man looking for a woman or couples to explore my sexual fantasies and be part of someone else's.  I am cubby, but not a slope. Decent guy with a very large sexual appetite. I don't cross the racial barrier and No,  I don't like men. If you like what you see and what you have read,  send me a message and let's start exploring. 

Alberton, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa


Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there

We are openminded into full swinging. She is very Bi curious. Male is straight. We are not into endless emails and replies either we meet or dont contact us at all. Very sociable love rugby, braai and anything else. Own race only

Boksburg, Gauteng, 1459

Fun loving, like to be naked.

Wil graag ouens ontmoet wat ook graag kaal kuier en speel

Pretoria-Wes, Gauteng, 0183

Hi, ons is n stoute Afrikaanse paartjie, baie open minded en wil graag vriende maak (met voordele as almal gemaklik is).
Ons geniet lekker kuier, buite lewe, kamp, 4x4 en natturlik lekker stout wees...

Sal lekker wees om te gesels ek wie weet :)

Centurion, Gauteng, 0163
We would like to make contact with a single gent our age group to see what may develope.
Not Set

Hi, I prefer to have sexual encounters (preferably masturbation and oral pleasuring with foreplay), with gentlemen (in the 45 and upwards age range) who are non-smokers and taller than me.

Roodepoort, Gauteng, 1724

White male fun friendly open minded love and enjoy life add me REMOVED BY ADMIN whatsapp

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1618

Well, short version, somewhat artistic, intense at times, extremely open-minded and experimental. Anything else, just ask :) I'd love to meet couples and/or females(I do not limit myself by age)  with whom I can build a long term friendship, also available for 'playdates' , the benefits are simply advantageous. 

One more thing, I love to travel, so distance is barely an issue for me

Pretoria North, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Easy going guy. Take care of my body. Dont be shy to chat and ask me anything. Have pics on here and not shy to show you more. I am a pleaser and get great pleasure in pleasing. For the couples that don't play with singles I have a play partner that plays with me and is super sexy and naughty.

Hope to chat soon

Ps. I am also very extensively involved in a fantastic very exclusive fantasy club.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2016

Fun guy! looking to have some fun, i am very easy going and get along most most people!

i am open to trying new things as life is to short and may as well, after all what has one got to lose!

any questions or anything else u would like to know about me Message me and ask.

Randburg, Gauteng, 2194
Time to spice things up again... Been a male stripper for to long so trying new things.
Sandton, Gauteng

Whether I am swinging the driver, or putting out on the green, let's face it, I'm no Tiger..  

BUT... since I travel very regularly, I am willing to bet you that I could make Tiger look like a pussy cat....

Okay, on a serious note, I am Gauteng based (Pretoria East area). Single and unattached.

Travel very regularly to Cape Town, Durban, Port Elizabeth and internationally.

Down to earth, clean, shaven, respectful, love being naked..... Let the good times begin!

So, (ladies & couples) if you see me in the chatroom, please whisper me! You have my full permission!

Now let's meet! No expectations, no drama, no regrets, no excuses...

Oh.... By the way..... No golf! :rotflmao:

* Disclaimer: Pun intended. Everyone knows that Tiger is a champ both on and off the green...

*** Lastly... Yes I have face photos that I will share with you.

2194, Blairgowrie, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

What is there to say about myself...... I enjoy life to

the full. No sky too high, no sea too rough ,no muff too tough..... I'm a hard worker and I enjoy playing even harder. I enjoy treating a woman in all the ways possible. Not here looking for any relationships, but should the right lady come along then so be it. I'm originally from cape town and still live there, so my profile might change now and the depending on where I am. Working and living in the sandton/midrand area at the moment. If you enjoy life and all it has to offer, get in touch and let's share the good things life has to offer.

Rivonia, Gauteng, 2191
no matter our real lives have moments where we just want to be treated like a whore and act like the wicked slut inside regardless of Male or female, we all want to experiance life as the other sex and want to be abused as we abuse It amazing how hard it is to have ur fantasies come true, but well lets chat and see
Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619


Love to have a good party. .. meet new people and socializing. Have a huge sexual appetite. .. and love the naughty lifestyle. Easy going with no hang ups. Live life to the fullest with no regrets. She can play alone..... so single guys that don't feel comfortable with having a hubby around for whatever reason are welcome to make contact.

We are looking for like minded single guys and couples..... No means No.... We know what we want... life is short, so let's live it

Will be waiting to see where this goes.

Florida, Gauteng, 1724

We are an indian couple new to the scence and wanting to meet other couples or females for fun. NO SINGLE MEN PLEASE!!!

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0185

opsoek na vriende of friends with benefits. Is down to earth en open minded. los maar n boodskap as julle belangstel

Randfontein, Gauteng, 1760

Easy going to ideas if the chemistry is right

Kempton Park, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

No single males!!!!!!! No single males!!!!!!!

Very very important!!!!!! No photos no reply. Ages between 25 and 50. We don't cross the racial barrier. Don't send friend request if u are not intending to chat to us.

Hi to all the naughty, sexy couples out there.

We are a fun loving couple that enjoy having a good time and making friends around the braai or at a party or in private, enjoying a few drinks while having some naughty, sexy fun. We don't have any hang ups and we are not here for a one night stand but for n long term friendship with sexy naughty benefits.

We are not new to the life style and are very respect full and clean and expect the same in return. We play by woman's rule, never alone, are ALWAYS SAFE and don't do drugs, pain or any anal. Anything else we can go with the flow.

Even thou we love meeting people, we also have a private life. So planning is required. We don't judge books by its covers and are a very down to earth couple once u get to know us.

For the couples that can respect this, we hope to hear from u soon.


Alberton, Gauteng, 1449
hi im new to the whole swinger thing so i looking for someone who can get me out of my shell and have some fun with me , age doesn't matter.
1459, Boksburg, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa



We're a very adventurous couple checking out the "scene". Just cruising for now, checking things out, looking for interesting people to meet. Taking things further is on the future horizon but we're taking it slow, taking our time and going with the flow for now. When we feel we've come across ('scuse the pun ~ lol) the right people we'd like to take it nice and slow to ensure everyone is comfortable and boundaries are clearly understood and adhered to.

Single guys, sorry but you're not welcome... SO IN THE NICEST WAY FUCK OFF!!!!

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have our permission to use any of our profile, our cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Otherwise peeps, we're a happy go lucky, lotsafun, kinda couple that have been together a long ass time, so send us a request if you like what you see/read and we'll see what happens from there!

Happy Erotic Journey Fellow Explorers!


"sticks and stones may break my bones,
but whips and chains excite me...
so throw me down and
tie me up then show me 

how much you like me"

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2092

Married man with fantasies and needs that don't get fulfilled

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0002

Down to earth humble and respectful. I know i am a good lover can you say the same? Lets be wild and make our wildest fantasies a reality.

Brakpan, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
We are a sexy indain couple looking for hot fun with other couples. We also looking for Bi ladies.
Bryanston, Gauteng, 2021

I am a clean and respectful guy with good manners and good sense of humour.

I am not here to behave like an animal, unless you specificaly want me too, hehe ;).

I enjoy the 'frowned upon and naughty' side to life and to meet like-minded people.

I am a member of a very cool adult club and have been in the lifestyle for about three years now. We are all here on this site for the obvious reasons, but I have had many interesting and non-sexual experiences with people from sites like these. I have many stories and experiences to share and can't wait to hear yours and what brought you to this site in the first place.

Lets have a chat first and take it from there. Short, long or to the point; let’s measure our similarities and differences.


hi girls, and when I say girls I mean ONLY girls... please guys pass this profile for it's only girls we are interested in. Now... we are a couple with bi curious female... we are new to this life style and are looking for single, divorced or bi curious girls for GIRL ON GIRL ACTION... someone to have fun with my woman, and to spice up our fantasy. For me... don't want to join in the action I just want to watch, as it is a big turn on for me to see her please and get pleased by another girl. She is very picky, so please send photos and please no chance takers. thanks girls. ages: 20 - 30. white/Caucasian females only.

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0186

We are a outgoing playfull couple that likes to have fun and enjoy the good things in live. We enjoy the outdoors and love sitting around a fire with friends. Here to make friends and have a good time really.

Centurion, Gauteng, 0163

Please my wife is bi

So we not looking for single guys


We ind cpl 33

Wife bi n sxc hubby straight

We in harties but in jhb often

seekn a cpl or bi female

Note we not interested in single guys unless u have a certain female friend

We love to share our pics

My wife is super hot n she turns me on and she loves to pose for me

We still new to this

We speak about it but she only had a bi exp

Hence we wana meet the right ppl to party n play with

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0200

We are a very adventurous couple looking for a sexy female to join us for first time threesome. Would love someone sexy and experienced to join us for some good, erotic fun.

Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there.

We are a Afrikaans couple looking for other couples as friends and later some fun to play with.

Unfortunetly we have to plan around the kidz, so our time is mostly limited to weekends.

Wifey is horny as hell, and when she gets it going she can't stop and really like mfm and mff.

We do not cross the racial barrier so don't even try.

Any couples welcome to contact us and single ladies.

NO Single men.

PS* We don't respond to automated mails. So if you dont get a reply, you haven't read upto here!!!!

Moot, Gauteng, 0084

I'm an open minded, fun loving, intelligent, respectful, tall, dark, good looking, active, old school gentleman type of guy. A bit of a workaholic, thus pretty picky about who i share my time with.

The reason for me joining this site is to meet like minded people. The aim here is to meet therefore I'm not into endless chatting and picture sharing but would rather set up a meet and aee where it leads. In my opinion yoi only get a real feel of each other when you are face to face. A mutual attraction is imperative!

(Remember: Meeting doesn't automatically mean having sex! )

If you are serious, honest and like what you see then you are someone I would like to meet.

Inbox me and let's see where it goes. .......

Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

I think it's courtesy to share face pics of yourself if you initiate a conversation and you expect a respectable reply.

I'm an average looking, not obviously gay guy looking for fun with in shape, guys or couples with bi or curious males, under 45. I'm curious about exploring a female, specifically try fellatio, should the time, place and people fit.

Buzz words for particular experiences I hope to find here :

Voyeurism - I want to watch straight couples or groups without getting involved, unless off course invited.  

Nudism - True nudism social gatherings, not some excuse to get naked and shag

Circle jerks - with straight/bi/curious guys who are comfortable with being watched, being naked and chilled with other guys, can enjoy some porn, beer and perhaps even oral, and not be concerned someone might label them something other than straight just because they enjoy the experience.

PS. Why post you're Horny and looking to hook up but not post a location?  How would anyone relevant know to try their luck if you're possibly 1000kms away. Strange. 

Blairgowrie, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there guys

We a very open minded,friendly,out going fun loving couple in our early 30's looking for alil fun

And meet new people spice up the sex life a notch as hubby would like to see me with another

Man but he must be apart of a couple coz we only believe in fair play..

We looking 2 watch and be watched with abit of soft and full swing depending on the couple wat

They looking 4...

We don't judge and don't like 2 be judged as we a normal couple looking 4 fun with NSA just FUN.

I'm curvilicous and hubby has a good body,so if u not into vulapscious woman then pls carry on lookin.

So if we sound like ur type of couple then don't be shy send us ur details bbm email NO watsapp as

We don't have watsapp..

Males welcome only wen needed


M and C

Edenvale, Gauteng, 1609

LOOKING FOR A NSA FUN.. Any1 in and around PTA hala at me for some fun

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2000

READ this first before we waste each other time: Married Men, Men, Couples and Singles from other provinces we are not interested in chatting mailing etc. All generic mails (I want to know more...) and crude mails will be deleted and you will be added to the ignore list. In the online chat we don't cyber. We will only meet at Club Rome for the first time and that does not guarantee we will play. If you are not in Gauteng we are not interested.

We are a hot sensual adventurous couple that's comfortable with our sexuality and our bodies; we are very open minded and love exploring new horizons. We love sex and eroticism of MFM threesomes or moresomes and soft swinging with couples. We not new to the lifestyle and we know what we want and need. We believe it's not about the quantity, but the quality of each encounter and to make long term friends.

We are looking for:

1. A single man that wants to share the pleasure of a threesome with us (full play), you need to be comfortable with your sexuality and know how to treat and pleasure a lady. Be well endowed, groomed and clean shaven.

2. A couple for some NSA fun, soft swinging only and no full swap, separate room or playing alone will not be allowed.

To ensure everyone enjoys the encounter to the full and that there are no misunderstandings please read the following:

1. Very excessive padding, and very hairy does not do it for us.

2. We prefer to interact with people in the age group 30 -- 48

3. If we do decide to meet up we will only meet at Club Rome on a Friday or Saturday night.

4. If we feel that there is chemistry between us and the feeling is mutual on your side we can take it further.

5. We only play together, so please don't expect us to play alone or in separate rooms.

6. We will only reply to complete profiles with all field completed and a profile picture, you profile and your first interaction with us is our first impression of you....

7. We chat via this site and then Whatsapp.

8. We would appreciate it very much if you would first make contact with us via the site messaging before requesting friendship or access to our private album, sending a generic msg or a friend request will get you blocked.

9. We prefer to interact with people within Gauteng.

10. We don't interact with single ladies and prefer to keep it that way. Chatting is where it would end so don't set your expectations high as you will be disappointed.

11. We do not cross the racial barrier when it comes to playing and prefer to keep it that way. So please respect our decision. We will chat and make friends with everyone but that's where it ends.

12. To all men if you are involved and married, we are not interested even if your partner / wife have given consent we won't be interested. We prefer to keep things above board and don't want any trouble with disgruntled partners / wife's. SO PLEASE DO NOT WASTE OUR TIME OR YOURS!!!!


If you are interested please send us a mail and let's chat and see where it leads.

Pretoria, Gauteng, 0186

Come on and lets have a chat...

Lets see where things go from there on wards.

Hope to hear from you soon

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619


So it's seems the Norm is "we don't cross the racial barrier". While we do respect sexual preference.....hmmmm it's a barrier created in the mind. To those that have taken the leap.....we have had awesome experiences and fun fucks with you!!!

Nevertheless we are married couple who love each other to bits. We have been in the life style for years and had the privilege of lots of awesome experiences across many race groups. We are a clean disease free couple who is very open minded and with absolutely no hang ups. We enjoy the fun of fucking. We the kinda couple that will try anything once and if we like it we will do it again......and again......and again.....our motto is that if we over do it......then we will do it over!!!!! Whilst our profile seems a little out there, we are very respectable and mature....both being professionals.

Please only contact us if you serious. If you don't have profile pictures don't bother. We want to interact with real people. Married guys playing alone......give us a miss... If You can't play with your wife don't expect to play with mine....We don't do pictures......our album should already wet you appetite.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2091