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looking for couple or single lady for now,Soft or full swing.......lets go for a drink .maybe braai.Lets have fun . We also love nudity in the sun with good friends 

Sorry all no crossing colour line 

No single men.........just incase you missed it      NO SINGLE MEN?

Kempton Park, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Love the touch and taste of a lady, asked by a sexy lady to remove all other suggestions and happy to take her advice

love to hear from all on here and in the area

The two of us are not married but looking for a lady friends with Benefits

Lady M Looking For another lady to make up a threesome and he happy to watch or play with if invited to do so She be happy to let him ply on his own

Four Ways

Hi all. I'm a young and inexperienced guy. New to the lifestyle but very keen to get started. I'm very open minded so race and age don't matter but I'm not into guys so please don't waste mine and your time. As far as sex goes I am open to anything new.

So com on ladies, and couples let's play

1459, Boksburg, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

New to the lifestyle and looking to ease into things...learning the ropes and meeting great people along the way..we are down to earth and respectful...we live busy lives but always find time for a bit of fun..especially bike runs on weekends

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Just a handsome guy looking for a sexy girl, suppose a friend with benefits

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2001

Hi there all you Horny People :-)

First things first as some people dont seem to get this... we have young kids and need to plan, if you cant deal with this then skip past us and go waste someone else's time. Pushy people.... You can skip us too :-)

We are only interested in people who know what they want, and especially arent swinging to keep the partner happy. We have had far to many of these. We are not pushy people at all. We know what we want and enjoy. If your first gut feel tells you that you dont think you are a match than we probably arent.... dont contact us to find out more. Why waste our time and yours?

We like chatting on Whatsapp as we find it far simpler than sending mails back and forth, so if you don't have it then pass us by also. We also think it rids us of the need for a drinks meeting before play.

We have had some great experiences and some well.... not so great ones. We choose to linger on the great ones. It could be that we are both Bisexual and love it. Perhaps we are just crap lays... who knows. But we will look at the glass as being half full shall we?

So here goes... Again we are BOTH Bisexual and enjoy the fun it brings, and prefer playing with bi people so he must be bi too. If this is not your cup of tea read no further ;-)

We are just a normal down earth couple (haven't made our millions yet). Looking for long term friends with benifits. We are not Barbie and Ken, some lumps and folds that shouldnt be there do exists... but have been told we are attractive, We also do not base our decisions on these sterio types. As long as you are well groomed (Clean) there should not be any issues. Not into any form of Pain,and NO DRUGS!!!! prefer a natural high! Singles M or F welcome to make contact...but you MUST be Bisexual, this is not negotiable! We are preferably not looking for the NSA stuff, but rather friends we can form a trusting relationship with, become exclusive and hopefully one day get rid of condoms. Please Please please.... we are willing to swap pics so people who are not willing to send pics need not contact us, as we will not go any further without any. Its all about knowing what we are in for and avoids uncumfy situations later. Safe Safer Safest sex ONLY! (Possibly until the trust is formed) Sorry... but adults of the same Ethnicity please (We don't want to offend anyone but that is the way it is) So same race couples only.... possibly Indian or Oriental.... :-)

Turn offs: Very overweight people (a Little puppy fat is fine after all we cant live without a little good food every now and again), Unclean, Rude and Pushy people. Oh and Barbie and Ken Wanna be's, Get real people - No one is perfect... and after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Turn on's: Normal down to earth People who are just out to have a great time, who earn an honest living (pref have children so they understand what is actually involved). And most of all both partners want to be involved in the swinging scene. No point if he does and she doesn't but will just to keep him happy.

Cheers for now and be good or at least be good at being bad!


P.S Lets Chat first before requesting we approve you as a friend, how can we if we don't even know you?. As we said before we prefer chatting on Whatsapp, please dont add us if you arent bi, or are looking to mess us around, if we chat and connect we will setup a play date and have fun simple as that!

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2048

hi thanx for reading....

anyhow, jus the average guy that wants some fun...

Im at the stage that Im trying new things in my life

0081, Faerie Glen, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Single, sexy, well groomed proffessional male looking for kinky adventures with similar women or couples.

Very honest and genuine, been in the lifestyle for about two years now - and loving it.

I have my own private venue to play at in a safe location.

If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2198

Young fun couple. Been in lifestyle about three years and love the awesome fantasies that we can fulfill for each other. Love dancing and scuba diving. Enjoy a good dinner/braai with friends. WE have enjoyed our experiences and find that we prefer to play with couples (though wont say no to a threesome with someone that interests both of us) our general age. Enjoy going to the clubs and think they are awesome places to experience things in a safe environment.

Moreletapark, Gauteng, 0181

hi all im a bi male 8 years in the life style i do Holistic readings oil massages for cpls and singles oaks if intrest let me know. come and relex also host pvt swingers partys so I also asked the singles to meet me and so they can meet up with the cpls in the life style .and as host i make sure every body will be respect for what they are. we all here for the same reason to meet people in the lifestyle and i would love to meet a bi friend that when i host be here to help me .if you need a venue i can help you also out here .some people think age is a issue we all here for the same thing as long respeckt is first priority  enjoy the site


Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1618
Trying to broaden our horizon. We never back down from an invite
Centurion, Gauteng, 0157
Couple looking for straight single male to join in some mfm fun at a club.
Pretoria, Gauteng, 0084

Hope to meet all you wonderful couples . Love to watch and cam let me know if u want to know me better


Hey peeps, we are a fun couple who likes to play, we never play alone and above all we dont do the naked pics thing, only after we met and is comfortable with you we will do so, to many pic collecters here, please note, we are no oil painti gs and as our profile says, male is large body and she is medium build, so dont expect to meet the beckhams. We are down to earth couple who enjoy life and to play, we dont do single people, couples only, not neg. we do have kids and all visits is arranged to accomodate the kids,

Feel free to invite or inbox us and we can take it from there

PLEASE!!!!! No SINGLE MEN need to respond or request anything, we will ignore you

Benoni, Gauteng, 1501
I had a profile a while ago , but removed it. I'm back on here , not sure why yet. Lets see..
Halfway House, Gauteng, 1692

Just a normal, down to earth guy looking for some fun.

Centurion, Gauteng, 0157

Im a young white male looking to have some fun with others and dabble in new experiences. Please message me if you would like to know any more.

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619
Discriptions are soooo old ... I think we all looking for fun and new experiences ! I think we all think we decent and good people ... im just here to make new connections and bury my face between your legs and fuck as many holes as possible ....
2188, Jukskei Park, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
Contact me for a fun interesting time to be had if you can handle it
Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2192


The first thing you need to know about me is that I am tall. I say its the first thing you need to know about me because its the first thing any body ever notices and comments on. I am 6'5" which is 1.95m tall, so yes I am tall and everything is in relative proportion. Now that we have that out of the way let me give you more substantive details about myself.

I used to work as a writer so don't be surprised if I use full sentences with proper grammar and punctuation when I communicate with you. I am more than willing to chat through the site, via email or which IM is the flavour of the week (BBM, Whatsapp, etc). I have a rather creative mind (or should I say dirty) and I enjoy doing some erotic writing.. if only to get the lady's heart beating faster. 

I have been in the lifestyle a little over 4 years and have had mostly good experiences. I prefer to continue my friendships with the single ladies and couples that I play with because none of us want to feel wanted only for a night. That being said, if you do only want to play for one night then I am more than willing to help fulfill whatever fantasies you may have. I have a fair bit of experience but I am always up for learning new tricks, but also teach you a new trick or two. 

My desire to maintain friendships with the people I play with is rooted in respect for myself and those people. In this lifestyle you will meet a lot of people who don't respect others, but I am not one of them. No means no (unless we have a different safe word) and I have never and will never force a person to do something that they do not want to do. I'll help you explore your kinks, but will never force mine on you. 

I enjoy hanging out with people from the lifestyle. I find that when everyone is on the same page people tend to be more open, honest and willing to reveal fascinating details about themselves. Simply put; if you are with me do not self-censor. People can be too scared to say what they think or feel, but I feel that in this lifestyle we are trying to be as true to our inner natures as possible and we must embrace that completely. With that in mind it doesn't mean that we can't go out, have a drink, have a party or just have a braai. 

I am uncut and believe in hygiene. This is very important to me. I have never had any negative comments or complaints and do not want anyone to say I don't look after myself in that manner. However if you are not into playing with someone who has a foreskin I won't hold it against you, we all have our personal preference. I do not have any facial hair (a 5 o'clock shadow doesn't really count) due to requirements of my job and I am clean shaven below the belt. 

If you want to strike up a conversation then please drop me a message. I WILL respond and if both parties are interested we can meet for coffee, or a drink.


Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a naughty couple that love to explore our sexual desires. She is petite in her naughty fourties, he is well built in his late thirties.

We are well groomed, gym daily, look after ourselves and dont smoke. Besides enjoying naughty things, we both have professional careers so work and family come first

We are looking for couples who have a profile picture, dont smoke, intelligent, healthy, clean, funny, professional, same race, not drunks, shower at least twice a day, well groomed and between the ages of 25 to 50. All you awesome single guys and gals - thanks for the interest however its couples only for now. We will advise or contact singles should we wish to venture ...

If you dont fit this profile, please don't contact us, you will be blocked.

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
Me and the wive just wane have fun looking for couple that close so we can meet up We in roodepoort close to florida we are people that like to go out and hanging with frends We white afrikaans speakend
Florida, Gauteng, 1709

hello to all you beautiful ppl present at my profile I do appreciate it first I would like to pull you attention to my location is Benoni so please if you live in western cape of some other worldly location please don't sent me msgs now on to what you wanted to know I'm very openminded up for anything ...I mean anything I want to play around and see what I like the most and hopefully in the process make good friends for long turm relationship and share great moments 

1501, Rynfield, Benoni, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
hi ek is getroud, ek soek net skoon nsa fun, en ek speel in die geheim
Pretoria, Gauteng, 0083

Hello everyone,

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

I'm an energetic straight single guy not looking for any serious relationships at the moment. I'm here to make new friends and just have some fun. Open to meet intelligent and adventurous couples and singles ladies.

I'm open-minded, adventurous, very competitive, love sport, good-natured and have a high sex drive?

So, if you're looking for some refreshing laughter and fun in your lives, why not give me a call??

Centurion, Tshwane, Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi. We are new to swinging. We would like to meet males and females for threesome fun or couple swops.

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619
Hi We are a couple seeking a men for 3 some. Want to treat the wife.
Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619
Hi .I’m 37/white married male, ,dark hair and athletic. I’m very perceptive with outstanding communication skills, good sense of humor and exercise exact discretion. Possibly we have a potential meeting of the minds and would be good to investigate our options through clear communicative incentives spiced with passion to the extent that u are most comfortable with. I’m not a demanding type of person and respect privacy.
2191, Fourways, Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a couple - been in the lifestlye for some time and enjoy it. Mrs Entrista will not shy away from sharing intimate moments with a lady but definitely prefers men. We are based in Honeydew but can travel as might be required. We have children in the home and have to plan around them when setting up dates, parties and the like. Our children and family life come first and will never be compromised by our involvement in the lifestyle.

We pretty much avoid profiles without any pics on them. All of us on the site have responsible jobs and we have all heard the tired old reasons as to why you can't have pics on your profile. Subtle pics are always possible to create. In your face genitalia pics are also not a requirement.

We prefer to engage with men over 35.

We are quite comfortable with same room sex or soft swing when all concerned are in agreement

If you like what you see above, we look forward to hearing from you




WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have our permission to use any part of our profile, our cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

2161, Sundowner, Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

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ABLE TO MEET ASAP....if you still have kids and difficult to meet...then get your priorities straight and get off the sex site

We are not new to the lifestyle. We are seeking WHITES ONLY playmates to join us for some fun. Allow our whispering hands to take you to another fantasy world and join us in our PleasureDome. Only ages from 30 - 57 need apply. HYGIENE AND SAFETY A MUST AT ALL TIMES. ONLY SAME ROOM AND WE DON'T EVER PLAY ALONE!!!!.... SOFT SWING if all parties are comfortable with each other. Although I am straight I have played with ladies before who are bi-curious.... all depends on the request of the lady and the males. We will also play each couple with their own partner in same room if that is what the couple would prefer. Fun play for all and no bullshit please...... RESPECT NON-NEGOTIABLE!!!

Centurion, Gauteng, 0157

Gay but curious. Would like to explore my bi curiosity side. I respect straight guys completely, but need your 'expertise' and guidance! Be my teacher?

Boksburg, Gauteng, 1459

Bi-curious woman looking for fun, no strings attached. PLEASE TAKE NOTE I,M NOT INTO MEN PLEASE. I would like to explore WITH ANOTHER WOMAN.

***DELETED BY ADMIN***- contact me should you share the same curiosity

Ladies Krugersdorp Honeydew???

Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there, Just a few lines about us.

ONLY SAME RACE.// NB NB?? We will not cross the race barrier




U are requested to at least have a face photo on your profile. No photo no responce, unless we have spoken on chat

Sorry NO offence meant. WE DO NOT CROSS THE COLOR LINE.... OUR preference.

SINGLE MEN if we like what we see WE will contact U.

NO Single men This means "U TO" married men Playing single

NB wife will not make any contact on HERE with ANY man . If she has met you at a party and she likes you THEN and Only then will friendship be extended

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619

Fun couple with insatiable sex drive wanting to explore (discreetly).

We do like to chat on what's app and send emails as well, As we have little ones our time is planned and only really have fun after 8pm or respond to messages when we are both together.

Even though we love taking saucy pictures and sharing we are a very private couple and wont take facial pictures and share, you would have to get to know us very well for that :-) and in that case we would meet for coffee.....

We have many fantasies yet have never been with other Singles or Couples and there is lots we would like to try. As we are very open-minded we do talk about everything possible when it comes to Play / Fantasies yet we don't like any abuse or pain it needs to be fun at all times.

There are many things we would like to try to much to wright here though but if you message us I am sure we can talk about it get turned on and you never know where it will lead too.

Cleanliness hugely important and no drugs please. Safe play at all times.

We will not respond to generic mails, winks or profiles with no pictures.

Same race only please, no disrespect, simply our preference.

And lost but not least our photo's are for viewing and fun and are not to be copied or used in any way for publication or advertising. As we respect others and there wishes we hope you respect ours.

Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

Well I am a very mischievous, very naughty guy, that enjoy the alternative and taboo.

I have a huge fetish for women wearing boots especially the shiny thigh-high black ones or knee length black ones that sticks to the leg like a glove and looks so totally gorgeous.

Totally a lover of boots, especially the shiny ones, love to be made to worship them, lick to a glistening shine and be used as a carpet and be trampled under them.

Also a butt and leg man. Love the beautiful peach bums, that you can literately bounce a coin off. Also in to big butts. Love to sniff, worship, lick and any thing else you would like my tongue to do.

Also a lover of good looking legs and beautiful feet.

Oh yes also a sub by nature, so if you would like to tease me with your gorgeous, boots, butt, feet and pussy, please do, you will have me following you like a puppy dog, doing your bidding.

Also like being tied, bound and blindfolded while you have your way with me.

If you into and enjoy Dominating sub males, and would like to Dominate me, then I would love to hear from you.

I am open to your imagination, so entice me, let me know all your wicked kinkiest fantasies.

Finally as you can see I am very naughty and like to have Fun!

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2001

Hi all, I'm a single male based in Bryanston. I'm athletic built (see my public pic). I love joining couples, Milfs and Cougars.

I am a professional (work wise, lol) and I keep things discreet.

I do have a few stories posted if keen, just search for my profile name in the Stories section.

Oh, and I do visit Durban often.

**PS. Please do not send me a friend request if you will not chat/message me....there is no competition to see who has the most friends.

2191, Douglasdale, Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Not into couples or men, sorry!! Married and dont play alone.. Girls Only ;)

We are a clean white Afrikaans speaking couple and play as a couple..
Only clean and dicreet girls, married or single, NO men please.. looking for some NSA discreet clean fun. Same race only.
No men! Please take time to read carefully, some don't!

Only comtact if you are serious to meet.. To many players or men that pose as women! 

East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi, I am here to explore new things, and I am willing to try almost anything at least once, after all how do you know what you like if you don't experience it. I am not looking for anything serious, just here to have fun with like minded people, and who knows, perhaps a longer term friendship may develop. I am looking forward to hearing from other fun loving people. It doesn't hurt that im a qualified massage therapist. :)

Randburg, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Ons is 'n gelukkig getroude couple wat opsoek is na like minded couples wat oop kop oor die lewe is en wat 'n sin vir avontuur het. Ons is down to earth sonder veel giere. Ons is gesond en stel hiegene hoog op prys. Ons speel altyd saam maar deel graag ons ervaringe met ander. Ons wil graag ons vriendekring uitbrei met paartjies wat soortgelyke belangstellings het.

Ons is gemaklik met partner swop, maar dis nie outomaties nie so moenie dit as vanselfsperekend beskou nie. Mev sal bepaal hoe ver ons gaan, ons geniet ook soft swing, same room en samebed sex. Rooikappie stel belang in FFM en in FMM pret!

Single guys please take note that we are not there when we do reach a point where we would be interested in MMF, Mrs will do the shopping and I will be doing the contacting,,,,until that single men please (irrespective whether you are married and playing alone). We will only reply to couples.

A last thing...come on guys be realistic, if you stay in Capetown or Bloemfontein or KZN and there is a distance of more than 75 km between us and you, we will not make the effort to travel nor will be waste the energy to invest in aimless chat that at the end of the day will lead to nothing.

En neem kennis ons gaan nie selnommers uitruil vir jare se sinnelose chats op whats app nie. Ons is hier om mense te persoon. As julle duisende sinnelose whats apps wil stuur is ons nie vir julle nie.

As julle so ver gelees het, kan julle net sowel hallo se.


0186, Doornpoort, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

We are a fun Caucasian (white)couple, She is 47 blond 1.55m and 48kg , He 49 1.75m and 89kg, who loves to go out doors and share nature.
We are very discreet about our personal lives.
Respect is a major issue in our lifestyle. Pushiness is a big turn off. We love to explore and be spontaneous. ...

We are very much a non pressure couple, A NO DRAMA couple, that is perfectly content to go home and play ourselves, we are not opposed to play on the first date if the chemistry is there,
We like to laugh and joke, poke fun and be poked! and looking forward to meeting some new friends that can show us around the block. ...
We are looking for CLEAN & SHAVEN curious Couples and BI Lady's, . ** NB - CLEAN & SHAVEN **

We are very active and fit couple. We still fund our way in this swingers fertility.
We have a great sence of humour. Love mountain biking , hiking and sailing .

Would like to meet Ladies / couples.

We're happily married, and well-travelled. We enjoy each other at all levels, in our continued pursuit of the ultimate experience.

Now that their is a empty nest, We are looking for Ladies or Coupels to be pleasure and pleasured by our self's..
We are only interested in Couples and ladies /Swingers without hang-ups, jealousies, and who are prepared to "play fair". We are DD-free and expect the same in return and we practice safe sex in all of our lifestyle pursuits. Also, generally, “Bi doesn’t Fly with HIM ”.

We are none smokers, so if that is a problem, preferably give us a miss.

As a package deal we play together .

So, to put it plainly, we look forward to sexual encounters with like-minded Couples; Ladies may join us
and together we can experience fun.

Bryanston, Gauteng, 2021

Hi all!! Just love to explore and have some fun!!

Very open minded and ready to try anything!! Descretion , hygiene and respect guaranteed and expected.

So let's chat it up and see if there is chemistry that will make us do silly things toghether!! Lol!!

Gauteng, Gauteng, 1609

looking for some good fun with a bi male or gay guy can travel in and around East Rand:blast::hump:

Benoni, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

About me...........

Before you read on, take note that I am not desperate. Nope, not at all. If I play,  it is to have a bit more fun than usual. 

I am married but playing alone with consent. Hubby also plays alone with my consent and we often play as couple as well. 

A brief introduction normally gets my interest going - much more than a album invite or friend request before we have spoken.

I am NOT into phone sex, cam sex or pic swapping - go get your cheap thrill somewhere else.

Also not into younger men or  Married men playing without knowledge or consent.

Prefer non smokers.

And please, no drama or issues - Really not into that. 



Vereeniging, Gauteng, 1933

im looking to have fun with single ladies and couples. Dont mind exploring new things and am extremely open minded so try me

Alberton, Gauteng, 1449

Openminded dude trying into the lifestyle slow and steady, 

Please dont judge me before you know me. That poor people skills

Primrose, Germiston, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
We are new, want to experience all that the lifestyle has to offer. Want to get to klnow and enjoy the people we meet
Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2198

really looking for someone who would like to play, lots of people on this site but I have not hooked up with anyone yet. wondering if anybody is real or just all vouyers. I am british Australian very fit ex sports pro, well travelled up market. please contact me if you are serious

Edenvale, Gauteng, 1609

Single White Male

Looking for couples and single woman for long term fun as well as good friends

Not Into one night stands

I'm fun and outgoing

I love extreme sports and do tend to be an adrenaline junky

I like meeting new people and having a braai and getting to know one another

Im open to anything sexy and fun as-long as no pain is involved

Benoni, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Well where to start ...

Me and my dearly departed wife was in the swinging scene for a couple of years and we enjoyed it immensely and had a lot of fun. We did go to a club once but was not really the scene for us and we continued to meet people and got to know them before we went the whole way. Friendship and getting along well with both partners was essential to us.

This philosophy continues with me and my lady by my side and we would love to meet couples and single straight or bi ladies for fun encounters and friendship.

For now single men don't need to apply but as my lady grows sexually this might change in the future ;)

Pretoria-Noord, 0182

We have been in the lifestyle for almost 3 years now...Had a lot of fun so far and also a fair share of disappointments..we are easy going and down to earth looking for friends with benefits..please no bullshitters as we get plenty of those...and NO Single Men!!! will be ignored as we strictly play as a couple..We do full swapping and prefer normal sex pain anal or weird kinky shit as its not our cup of tea..We also prefer age group 30 and above and Same Race please..our if you are interested and is in the JHB area..West us and lets meet and greet and see if there is a mutual spark for fun and games


1709, Florida Glen, Roodepoort, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa