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Fluttering caresses...

First of all thank you for taking the time to read through my profile! :)

Mature but not dead, lol, moved from Europe to South Africa a number of years ago, and loving this country! Divorced for a while now and although not desperate, I'd certainly appreciate meeting someone that is feminine, intelligent and very sensual..

Im not going to give a long list of likes and dislikes but respect (which includes respect for boundaries) is a given and required. In terms of sensuality, I have to admit that the mere act of copulation has lost it's attraction for me.. I am far more enticed by the prospect of reading my partner's curves in Braille.. I consider sensuality to be an art form.. One where the female curves can be cherished and made into tantalising receptors of sensual caresses!

If you know what a Yoni Massage entails, then you'll be on my wave length.. (Google is your friend: white lotus yoni massage).

If you're multi orgasmic, I'd be privileged.. Wicked wink..

Life is about making your own life enjoyable! Let's see what happens..

(no drugs, not negotiable)

Don't be shy and say bonjour! :) Ultimately looking for a Lady in person.. Virtuality is not my fetish!

Have fun and enjoy whatever it is you do!


Just to be clear, one of my own boundaries is that I'm a straight male and have no inclination of pushing that boundary.

Thanks for the interest, but no thanks. Ladies most welcome, gents good luck somewhere else.

Have fun!

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2193

Just an ordenary man looking for NSA fun. Would love to join the swinging lifestyle. I have a good sence of humour, love to laugh. I will try anything once and if I like it I would do it again.

Hygiene and cleanliness is priority. Respect and good manners is very important to me.

Benoni, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

New to the lifestyle and looking to ease into things...learning the ropes and meeting great people along the way..we are down to earth and respectful...we live busy lives but always find time for a bit of fun..especially bike runs on weekends

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Looking to meet for fun and adventure.

Open minded,kinky,down to earth,easy going,friendly,clean,fit and respectful.

Randburg, Gauteng
Im a chilled out very relaxed kinda guy, making friends and having fun..
Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619

Have been enjoying the lifestyle for sometime and looking to explore different fantasy with like minded people without any expectations or pressure . Couples and Single Ladies welcome to message me . I am Straight and not in Men or Bi male stuff other then  that very open minded .

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have our permission to use any of our profile, our cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

2198, Houghton Estate, Johannesburg, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Thanks for reading my intro .. so for those of you that wants to know what my fantasies are they are

Relaxing with an Erotic massage with pussy eating and finger fucking. ..of course cuddling with a good blow job and enough banging. ...till cum

So who is in ? Day time fun and you must provide a venue.69,MMF,FMF still curious 

Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
We are looking for a Well Hung Single Guy,that would be willing to join us At Club Poizen for some naughty fun..... Must be willing to chat on what's app first..... Please in all due respect we,do not cross the race barrier.... If your married please don't waste our time,we are not intrested. .... Single avaliable men only....
Brakpan, Gauteng, 1540


Love to have a good party. .. meet new people and socializing. Have a huge sexual appetite. .. and love the naughty lifestyle. Easy going with no hang ups. Live life to the fullest with no regrets. She can play alone..... so single guys that don't feel comfortable with having a hubby around for whatever reason are welcome to make contact.

We are looking for like minded straight single guys for the wife and couples..... No means No.... We know what we want... life is short, so let's live it

Will be waiting to see where this goes.

1709, Weltevredenpark, Roodepoort, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
horny.... mmmm isn't that obvious?? Curious, very! Respectful, only if its deserved. Love to laugh and always see the bright side of everything. So if you looking for someone serious then please move on as that's not me. I'd love to chat, interact, fuck, play and party with other fun adults who are not too full of themselves. If you have any questions please just ask and I'll answer honestly Yours in my fantasies G
Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2194
seeking a lady that's looking to meet daytime in and around jhb.i travel a lot between jhb and centurion.cleanliness and discretion assured.lets make it a long term nsa relationship
Gauteng, South Africa
thanks for reading my ad, guy looking for fun with couples and single ladies
Bryanston, Gauteng, 2021

Hi there and thanks for looking at my profile.

I am just your average down to earth single guy with a good sence of humour, I am genuine and not here to waist your time.I am looking to meet up with like minded people for fun and friendship,I am clean and respect all boundaries.

If you would like to know anything else feel free to ask.

Springs, Gauteng, 1559

A bit of a dad bod happening. Very comfortable in my own skin.

Exploring and enjoying my m2m side.

Meet when the mood strikes... Weekends only.

Caucasians only.

2191, Epsom Downs, Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
Hi there we are two friends with an extremely wild kinky and fun sexual friendship and we are busy exploring all sexual activities possible. We are looking for a kinky bi girl to join us preferable not older then 35 and must be in springs, brakpan benoni area. So contact us if you up for some great play, licking, sucking and amazing fucking. ;)
Springs, Gauteng, 1559

We are a couple . we love foreplay and just fun  . we are a down to earth cpl and easy going,love to meet cpl at club POIZON. if you invite us or inbox us you must know we play on weekends at night and no quickies during the day and WE DONT PLAY ALONE .  Sorry NO SINGLE -  MALES  Or FEMALES  Sorry guys only couples ! MARRIED COUPLES ONLY.

Montanapark, Gauteng, 0159
Single guy exploring life and living with NO regrets! ! ! ;-)
Centurion, Gauteng, 0157

We all adults, we on here to have fun!! If we do click on your profile and we not your type, please have the balls to say no thanks, we wont be offended! We all have different tastes and preferences. Also not into the endless messaging!! Please only request is that the pics you are showing is recent once

We into, kissing, sucking, nipple play, body contact, being naked, porn, underwear and swimwear fetish.

.......... ************* * NOW START TYPING ****************

2191, Lone Hill, Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Well now, to bitch this out or not to bitch this out... such a canumdrum. We are a very sexual, open minded, fun loving couple. We are currently open to Single Males (worth my time.. i.e.: package to be above average) Bi / Bi Curious Ladies... and most definitely couples.

We don't send additional pics (don't even bother asking) We don't play separately, full swop, same room, hubby loves making movies (but this is optional obviously) Currently we prefer to meet at Club Rome. No time wasters, photo collectors or pervs.

Rude mails will be deleted and your ass will be blocked, lame (hi.. tell me more) will be deleted, profiles with not pictures will be ignored and your message will be deleted. AND ABOVE ALL ELSE.. Respect the people you meet or play with.

And remember boys and girls.. safety first. Prevention is always better that crabs lol!

1739, Krugersdorp, West Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

Looking to meet new friends with benefits :-) if you would like to know more - please drop us a message

Generally enjoy having someone over , have a drink and a chat, and see where it goes.

2188, Jukskei Park, Randburg, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

29 year old white male looking for some adventures. Workout regularly and play lots of sports such as rugby and hockey. Naughty sense of humour and am easy going.

Bryanston, Gauteng, 2060

First of all... we will not respond to any single guys.

That said, here's a bit more about us.

We are happily married and deeply committed to each other, but crave some variety and excitement... and hence our decision to venture down this naughty path. We aren't total newbies anymore.... but not experienced by a long shot. All of our experiences - big and small - add to our enjoyment and journey in the lifestyle.

We attribute the positive experiences we have had thus far, by getting to know playmates quite well first before we jump. This does not imply we drag things out unnecessarily, but don't message us expecting a hook-up tonight! We like to chat on whatsapp and then meet for drinks. The awesomeness of the chemistry will determine the level of play we will engage in.

Randburg, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Feel free to ask me anything .. To the bi guys - in 100% straight . 

I'm here to have fun with like minded singles and couples . Adventurous and a lot of fun . 

Benoni, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
Hi .I’m 37/white married male, ,dark hair and athletic. I’m very perceptive with outstanding communication skills, good sense of humor and exercise exact discretion. Possibly we have a potential meeting of the minds and would be good to investigate our options through clear communicative incentives spiced with passion to the extent that u are most comfortable with. I’m not a demanding type of person and respect privacy.
2191, Fourways, Sandton, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

White male fun friendly open minded love and enjoy life add me REMOVED BY ADMIN whatsapp

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1618
Im a down to earth guy understand that no means no I'm here to have fun and im open minded looking for couples or a female that would like to join me with a couple good hygiene is very important hope to hear of you soon
Krugersdorp, Gauteng, 1739

Travel extensively throughout the freestate and northern cape. spend a lot of time in Kimberly upington, bloem and the vaal triangle. looking for lady friends to pass the time with. Im clean very discreet. White ladies only please.  Im not gay, bi or Bi curious in the least. Im old enough to know my sexuality and what i want. So please guys no thank you!

Kempton Park, Gauteng, 1619
We r a white couple looking 4 fun.We do not cross the colourline.
Vereeniging, Gauteng, 1929

I have been told that my profile is a bit thin so here goes: I am a well rounded guy with a huge range of interests, from art and ballet to rugby and motorbikes, I like classical music and Guns and Roses. I laugh, I cry, I read lots and I am always seeking new knowledge and to find out about things that I don't know about. I can be gentle and passionate and dominant. i will wolf down a boerie roll and slowly savour a meal at a fine dining restaurant. I love the outdoors and a good braai, love sport and other physical activity. Life is too short not to live it too the fullest, suck the marrow out of life and that is why I have such a diverse range of interests. Carpe Diem!

Johannesburg, Gauteng

Well, short version, somewhat artistic, intense at times, extremely open-minded and experimental. Anything else, just ask  I'd love to meet couples and/or females(I do not limit myself by age)  with whom I can build a long term friendship, also available for 'playdates' , the benefits are simply advantageous. 

One more thing, I love to travel, so distance is barely an issue for me, feel free to whatsapp, sms or call me on 060 694 6722.

Pretoria North, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

We have been in the lifestyle for a while. Would like to meet openminded people. Not into full swinging, my lady doesnt want other men to penetrate, but love soft swinging.

We do not play on the "first date".

No single mens please. 

To couples. - If you are intp full swing only please give us a skip. We do soft swing.

To single ladies-Please do not join us if there is a stalker looking for you. If you have a partner I will ask his permission.

We do not like rainbow sex so whites only please. 

We do not swop pics. We will put some on soon but ja dont ask to me to send pics.

We are very openminded and will love to do the swingers camping thing. If you feel you are up for that send a inbox. 

Mr. Has n real muscular. Build body. Well I think he is very sexy and for his age even more so. 

I am 23 and had a son so the dancing body is gone. I am working on it but I can still see my own feet( if I take my boobs put of the way) :-

Looking forward on meeting you all. 


Krugersdorp, Gauteng, 1739
Hi Ladies, Interested in some day or might time fun? I am a very sensual person who enjoys pleasing a woman in any way possible. I believe dat its a mans duty to ensure dat the lady enjoys a roller coaster ride to the world of orgasmic explosions (note dat I said explosionS), meaning that the intention must be to give you more than just a single orgasm. I like it keep when a count is kept and is used as a target to be beaten. I write erotic stories which will make any reader hot and horny. It is thsoe very principles that I use when taking a lady on that journey. Please inbox if interested.
Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2194

I know females and couples get huge amounts of mails from guys, that's why I don't really send a message first, if I've looked at your profile and you happen to look at mine and like it, please don't be shy to say hi.

Well, what to say that will catch attention? I'm a down to earth, well educated, discreet single male, d&d free who is looking to meet a female or a couple for a long term "frienship". I have a great sense of humour, love a good braai and good conversation. Very easy going..........the kind of guy you could invite around your friends and family and not expect anything.

Like to chat a bit first and then meet in person and see where it leads.

Waterkloof, Gauteng, 0181

2015 The year to play be wild naughty and try new things with new people . So lets make 2015 the year of the wild .

Time to make a change .We are still 40 ish we are not new to the lifestyle but did take a break due to all the politics AND PRESSURE TO PLAY . We have been married for many years and still very much in love . MRS is stunning blond and and a very sexy body . MR is carrying a few kg but not to many .

We are looking to make friends that we can braai with do the movie thing and of course the naughty thing

If this make sense to then mail us . We don't play alone


Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2050

We're just normal fun to be with couple, with no jeaslousy issues so  looking for the same. 

 No winks pls. Rather ask what more you would like to know

Roodepoort, Gauteng, 1724

I am just a real normal down to earth guy and easy to get along with. I am here to make friends and also to fulfill couple's fantasy for them. I am not a pic collector and wont waste your time. So lets have some fun.  

Roodepoort, Gauteng, 1724

Athletic, healthy professional single male looking for single woman for sexy fun times. I'm not here to write long winded emails, become your whatsapp buddy and please no the difference between this site and Facebook. Cleanliness and personal hygiene are an absolute must for me. I'm a competitive athlete. I'm single out of choice. I believe in "value added" and in mutually satisfying experiences and encounters. I've been in this lifestyle for some years and understand the rule completely. Respect, privacy and discretion are paramount! My profile nick says it all - if here for sexy, simple and fun times.

Distance - I'm not looking to spend my time dealing with traffic. Ideal distance from me is 10 to 20 km's.

Due to recent experiences and comms with couples - you guys are just hard work and have such a low view on sigle guys... 100's of questions, 1000 face shots.. and the endless messages kill me! Random time arrangements... the list is long.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I look forward to hearing from you.

2191, Bryanston, Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
We just looking to meet some like minded people ,if we have fun getting to be friends great . No into wham bam do your maam !!
Krugersdorp, Gauteng, 1752

My wife has told me to find a sexy lady to bring home.

The problem is that I m now old and my cock is sleepy.

But if you would like to really please an older guy please call me.

I am turned on by someone who is horny, preferably slim and someone who can get along with almost anyone would be nice.

My wife has her own bf to make up for times when I am not satisfying her. We are always both present.

I am turned off by sloppy boobs. They do not have to be really firm (which is ecstatic) but just not floppy or droopy.

I can give a massage and it cam be soft sex - easier for me that penetration.

Otherwise re men:
We are currently inactive. Might try going to Pharoahs or Suneden (anyone a member there?) one day. Previoulsy this was our profile:

Our 17 pics can  seen - all of them - if you scroll up - scroll up and click on photos (19)

Search for funrisk when you get to stories for some fact and some fiction

There is no bi-tolerant category - we accept ppl as they are but we are not gay or fully bi.

NEW GROUP - Funrisk party group. To join a group scroll up and click on Groups. Find the group and apply to join. If we have chatted and mentioned this to you as a non smoker and you have been told  you may be invited please join this group

We are ONLY looking for new friends. Real friends. People who want to discuss interesting things and enjoy each other's company without any sex. People who can welcome us at their home day or night. No secrets. As close as possible to Doornpoort, exit of N14 and near offramp from N1 at Zambezi Drive Pta. Montana. Or Mossel Bay - we need friends there to show us around.

The lady wants someone but is not looking. So I am making friends and if that works she will of course meet them. But only as friends. She will not know where I found you at first. Professional and/or well educated is a must. Interest in natural foods and
plants is great. What happens from there we will see..  If you want to meet over coffee let me know. Or whisper to me in the live chat room...anytime.

If we chat please reply without deleting what has been said before. It is important to see what is being discussed.


If you are horny and want a thrill go to Stories on this site and search for 'funrisk'. 

Consider chatting in a whisper. We can chat about what might happen in an imaginary world in which somehow you get to seduce one or both of us or capture  or win in a bet or a hunt as in THE HUNT story. It can be exciting to role play in that might even lead to something more, who knows.

Hey there funrisk awesome profile!!

funrisk: it needs to be changed


funrisk: Too many people want NSA and not friendship of a meaningful kind involving other activities.

funrisk: Both of us need sex but my capacity has dropped. I am way older than her.

Sorry funrisk she is hot

And I don't like having her go elsewhere for it without involving me

Nor the other way around


funrisk: so I need a special kind of person or couple

funrisk: She wants to choose her own man. I want it to be either a bi man or a couple. Or a single lady willing to help me out with some cuddles probably 'soft porn' and when she has her man - all in the same room of course.

Well that said, she is not looking for anyone so I have to find new friends with common interests. As above - good conversations and like minds, with enough other interests.

If you want an interesting personal friend who influences people in high places, and knows a whole lot that many people do not know and who will learn from you as well, make friends with Mr. 

Go from there. Being new to South Africa, we definitely need NEW FRIENDS. Not sex, but that possibility adds interest.

Sorry not a whiff of smoke please. As slim and athletic as possible but a strong and warm personality can offset that.

Absolutely no smoking or even smoke filled hair or clothes.

I never meet guys with her the first few times. Making friends. Don't ask if she will be there.


If you need to open up to your wife and have not done so yet then try telling her fairy tale stories about your fantasies or ask her what ones she has. Swop fantasies.

See if she likes your tales.

Knowing fantasies gets your relationship sorted - eventually.

0186, Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa

Just your ordinary next door guy lookinf for some uncomplicated sex with gay, married and bi men! Gaurenteed discretion!

1739, Krugersdorp North, Krugersdorp, West Rand, Gauteng, South Africa

I am a handsome and fair 20 year old indian male from Umhlanga, Durban who is on holiday in Johannesburg. I'm attracted to women who are older than me because they know exactly how to please a man. I am interested in single women and couples ONLY.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa

Hi there! I am single, intelligent, witty, extremely well-read, and above all, a gentleman. I would love to meet open-minded women. I'm not here for endless chatting, or to score nude pics. Should the chatting go well, and we both want to, then I'd like to meet as soon as possible. A girl that's into exhibitionism, and would love to show herself off in front of other people, would be considered a bonus. I'm also open for single girls looking for a regular partner for adult parties, or to meet privately on a regular basis.

To all couples: As it has always been my fantasy to have a mmf-threesome when seriously involved, but have never had the opportunity to fulfill it, and as I'm currently single, it would be the closest thing if I could meet up with couples who share the same fantasy. When involved, it has always been my fantasy to show off MY naked woman, and seeing her with other men. If there are couples who can relate, and should you find my profile acceptable, please feel free to contact me at any time. I have no problem with hubby watching up close when I'm busy with wifey! I fully understand that the couple will be 100% in charge, and will set all of the rules. And I have a LOT of staying power. Hope to chat soon!

I am not bi or bi-curious.

Moreletapark, Gauteng, 0044

fun, fit, sexy, healthy, considerate ...looking for the same

I enjoy being invited to share in a couple's intimate space, as well as 1-1 with a sensual woman.

I live in Johannesburg but visit Cape Town regularly and enjoy meeting new and existing friends on those occasions.

Sandton, Greater Johannesburg Metropolitan Area, City of Johannesburg Metropolitan Municipality, Gauteng, South Africa
we a couple who r open to 1 on 1 sex if u can host We a open minded couple from jhb south in south hills we looking for black guys and ladys for hot fun and horny if u bi bouns we would like to try two or more guys while hubby watch and maby let us do sum pvt fun looking for guys who r not shy and can greet and pull my cloths off immediately any age smaller sizes we got bbm and wats app so if u want fun then get adding coz we not here to play games unless u wanna play naked games i am pregnant so no hard rough sex but long sex is a must fuck buddys is wat we want get adding if u horny enough to have hot kinky fun dont ask just give numbers no number no fun no pic no chat only two or more guys no singles if the mood is rite my hubby can leave us alone if u game and if u can please me then hubby will let us do naughty things alone but now we looking for females and black guys only coz all the white guys are all talk but when it cums to fun they caint get hard or they just don't finish wat they started so we wanna try black guys for the first time if u don't stay in the south of jhb don't bother if u don't leave your number don't expect a reply couples welcome if u willing to do different room fun if u a black guy with a nice dick u can do me alone my hubby won't b there to watch
Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2190

I enjoy making friends and having fun. Like to meet first for a drink and have a chat.My motto is "no lies, no promises, no expatations"! I work shifts so dont have every weekend to do what I want and like to plan ahead but sometimes the spur of the moment flares up. And NO, means NO! En assb, die manne wat net wil pics loer, hou maar verby.

Swinging isn't about just fucking other ppl, it is an extension of physical pleasure to the benefit of both partners in the relationship.

I recently lost my left hand in an accident, but still is the same person.

Vereeniging, Gauteng, 1935


We are a very committed married couple with a happy family life. So when we can escape from our children we try leading a life between husband and wife that extends past being a mother and a father. While we are still exploring our sensual excitement within our marriage and love every minute, we want to explore our mutual imagination and fantasies with others. We are seeking fun hot sexy adventures with educated people with good spirits and humor.

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2105

Living in Gauteng now so ignore the username please! Open-minded individual. Just here for the thrill and to enjoy good company. 

If you have no intention of actually meeting then dont waste your time. My profile is verified so dnt ask for pics. I am interested in meeting people that are comfortable with themselves. You must KNOW that you are sexy!! The journey leading much more enjoyable...... 

Edenvale, East Rand, Gauteng, South Africa
Fun fueled and naughty Guy looking for fun
0184, Equestria, Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa

I am looking for a lady who will enjoy a special relationship exploring sexual ecstasy through the ancient Tantric practices and beliefs, and other advanced techniques such as EMO. The lady will need to be intelligent, spiritual, and mature. I am happy to correspond until a meeting is mutually desired, and in that time to exchange information about the practices and techniques. I promise they do take you to the greatest heights. I enjoy mutual stimulation by writing, chatting or phoning and building up to intense pleasure when we do meet. We do at your pace. I like to give, and my pleasure comes after and because of the lady's. I am a mature, educated and very fit professional. I respect women and their own preferences. I want to be clear that I am not seeking a partner or a quickie. I am seeking a friendship with sexuality as our common interest.

Gauteng, 2198

Coloured guy with partner both new to swinging,looking for singles or couples preferably with bi male and preferably a well endowed one.we up to watch as well

Johannesburg, Gauteng, 2094