Ok so I am curious to know, why do most men like women to be on top. Is it the whole visual thing? Does it feel different or better when the woman is on top?
Personally I feel to selfconscious and over exposed to be on top. Being a big chick I worry about squashing the guy lol(that's why I prefer sturdy men lol) but still guy wants me on top and not even half dressed-fully NAKED. When I'm on top I always overthink "what if I'm moving wrong" always ask my guy "am I hurting u? U ok" kinda is a buzz kill lol.
Quote by Sofistikitty When I'm on top I always overthink "what if I'm moving wrong" always ask my guy "am I hurting u? U ok" kinda is a buzz kill lol.
Kinda the same reason Plus it's nice to sit back and enjoy the feel of her and the view. When your on top you don't get to admire the view and feeling.
I don't know why guys like it but I LOVE it and I have a long list of reasons why.
Oh kitty, you should know that any guy under you has the best angled view that he could possibly have, he is in heaven baby, you should just go with it. Oh but a tip: use kegals or ben wa balls to get those muscles super trim and won't have to move much at all. . You can just SQUEEZE him happy
Quote by LeeEC I don't know why guys like it but I LOVE it and I have a long list of reasons why. Oh kitty, you should know that any guy under you has the best angled view that he could possibly have, he is in heaven baby, you should just go with it. Oh but a tip: use kegals or ben wa balls to get those muscles super trim and won't have to move much at all. . You can just SQUEEZE him happy
Got that covered lol my guy never complains and often begs. Its us super self concious women(well some)
Quote by Sofistikitty Ok so I am curious to know, why do most men like women to be on top. Is it the whole visual thing? Does it feel different or better when the woman is on top? Personally I feel to selfconscious and over exposed to be on top. Being a big chick I worry about squashing the guy lol(that's why I prefer sturdy men lol) but still guy wants me on top and not even half dressed-fully NAKED. When I'm on top I always overthink "what if I'm moving wrong" always ask my guy "am I hurting u? U ok" kinda is a buzz kill lol.
There's not one person on this Site or indeed any other Site that periodically hasn't felt " Self Conscious " in the Swinging Scene.
I learnt long ago that when I'm worrying about what I look like during sex, I am not enjoying myself at all!
Do the positions that feel great for you, and with each partner, things are different, so its always fun to experiment with other angles etc...
I love being on top, the angles feel great for me, but if I try control how much my tummy hangs down... then I will be paying too much attention to what I look like, and not enough to the awesome feelings being created by each downward thrust I make...
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Considering I see only female coments here, let me give you the opinion of at least one male.
In my experience, I prefer a woman on top, as it put her in full control. She decide how deep inside her my cock goes, she decides what pace is good for her and she decides how hard the thrusts are. Other then the fact that with a woman on top, she can feel the entirety of my 8 inch asset inside her and I prefer this position to any other deep penetration position.
And no man really cares what you look like when you ontop of him... in his mind you are a goddes... (we can only use 1 head at a time... hence when you ask questions you get nondescript answeres...)
Quote by darkjedeyw Considering I see only female coments here, let me give you the opinion of at least one male. In my experience, I prefer a woman on top, as it put her in full control. She decide how deep inside her my cock goes, she decides what pace is good for her and she decides how hard the thrusts are. Other then the fact that with a woman on top, she can feel the entirety of my 8 inch asset inside her and I prefer this position to any other deep penetration position. And no man really cares what you look like when you ontop of him... in his mind you are a goddes... (we can only use 1 head at a time... hence when you ask questions you get nondescript answeres...)
I totaly agree with u I just love that position. And I adore every inch of a ladys body
Quote by Mike_Pta Considering I see only female coments here, let me give you the opinion of at least one male.
Someone please remind me when I traded my penis in for a vagina, I need to update my profile apparently Sorry man.... didn't see.... I wasn't veiwing the profiles.
Ok so I get why most men dig this position. So, what kind of movements/thrusting works best? Circles, back n forth, up n down, grinding , figure 8 or all of the above?
Quote by Sofistikitty Ok so I get why most men dig this position. So, what kind of movements/thrusting works best? Circles, back n forth, up n down, grinding , figure 8 or all of the above?
That's why you are on top, you get to decide what feels good. But generally I prefer to have her grinding on me so I can get to bite and tease her nipples.
My self, I love a woman on top. In a way for me it's about letting go and letting her be in control. And aside from that, the view is just amazing ;-)
I have yet to come across a woman that is not self conscious about her body or looks. Regardless of her figure. And from my experience, the "hotter" the woman the more self conscious they are.
My observation, guys are not as concerned with their build or worried about being naked in front of someone.
It use to be something that I found very uncomfortable. That though was at a time in my life when I was constantly told how skinny I am. I haven't been worried about that for about 14 years now
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