So when a person asks another person or a few persons (people) a question, they tend to get a largely accurste answer but seldom 100% from all questioned . . . . . people tend to give the type of answer they think you expect to hear.
What I would like to know is, what is your take on oral sex?
As in:
Ladies, do you really like receiving or is it a non issue either way for you?
Men (and Stamina) do you really like receiving or is it a non issue for you?
Myself, I really like getting, however, there is such a thing as a "bad suck" and those I tend to stop rather early on.
Please, can we leave the "I like to give" part out for now (@Mike_Pta will hijack the thread on page 2 for that)
I agree there is something like a bad BJ and had to stop a female before LOL
Personally a good BJ can be just as good as sex for me. I actually prefer a BJ instead of a quickie.
Sex unfortunately takes time LOL
Sex is SUPPOSED to take time! Well good sex is...
I enjoy receiving BUT lack of skill is VERY noticable, but more frustrating is lack of ability to follow instructions or encouraging moans! There is DEFINITELY something called a very weak attempt at cunnilingus! It's not something I expect from others, I do however make a considerable effort to ensure I taste good!
I don't mind giving in most cases, but I firmly reserve my right to refuse (or to refuse to swallow or have it sprayed in my hair...).
I don't think I'm very good at it, though my husband refutes this, I do however believe there's such a thing as being good at "doing" someONE specific... everyone has their own likes and dislikes in this department too...
It's not something I crave or desire and I certainly have no desire to swallow specifically... but don't mind if the chap in question actually has some secret knowledge of how to make it taste better than drain cleaner!
Generally I find, swinging does make it easier to make your wants known (or at least gets you into the habit of voicing them)
Quote by LeeEC Sex is SUPPOSED to take time! Well good sex is... I enjoy receiving BUT lack of skill is VERY noticable, but more frustrating is lack of ability to follow instructions or encouraging moans! There is DEFINITELY something called a very weak attempt at cunnilingus! It's not something I expect from others, I do however make a considerable effort to ensure I taste good! I don't mind giving in most cases, but I firmly reserve my right to refuse (or to refuse to swallow or have it sprayed in my hair...). I don't think I'm very good at it, though my husband refutes this, I do however believe there's such a thing as being good at "doing" someONE specific... everyone has their own likes and dislikes in this department too... It's not something I crave or desire and I certainly have no desire to swallow specifically... but don't mind if the chap in question actually has some secret knowledge of how to make it taste better than drain cleaner! Generally I find, swinging does make it easier to make your wants known (or at least gets you into the habit of voicing them)
Sorry @Mike_Pta, despite my best efforts to keep the subject matter for at least one page, it appears that someone has decided they were not prepared to wait until page 2 before changing the course of the forum topic.
i like recieving, very very much, especialy from my wife, she knows how i like it. other people we have played with, also like giving, they all differ when it comes to techniqe. cant say i have been pleased by a lady that doesnt like giving.
the mrs also loves revieving.
You know I wrote a response now that really highlighted precisely how I feel reading this thread now. But I've deleted it because I'm a moderator and I can't say the things I want to say here. So suffice to say:
You've made me livid.
I don't know if I like receiving, it is enjoyable but I worry about how I taste and smell. Sometimes guys focus on the clit, I hate that I don't see the point( well, for me) they flick it and I hate that feeling. I have recently received oral from behind...now that was something! But I usually decline, its not a biggy for me I guess. Have to really like u or be in another zone to allow it. Sigh
Quote by Sofistikitty I don't know if I like receiving, it is enjoyable but I worry about how I taste and smell. Sometimes guys focus on the clit, I hate that I don't see the point( well, for me) they flick it and I hate that feeling. I have recently received oral from behind...now that was something! But I usually decline, its not a biggy for me I guess. Have to really like u or be in another zone to allow it. Sigh
Your comments are exactly what I was hoping for @Sofistikitty, thank you for your insight into what I would suggest us males (well in fairness & females) take into consideration the next time our heads are buried between someone's legs.
Hi guys and Gals
Trust I am welcome to comment on this post. I see there are only a handful of you that comment on the forums.
This is my favourite subject - I have been told I am extremely good at BJ's.
As LeeEC mentioned in the post earlier - 'frustrating is lack of ability to follow instructions or encouraging moans!' – or the lack of knowledge of how to please a man/women.
I enjoy receiving as well if a man knows what to do – my hubby has mastered the art after taking instruction and has pleased many ladies.
This is how I see it .... I do not really have an issue regarding oral. I too have to be in a "zone" to get oral, therefore I decline most of the time, as it never seems to do anything for me except make the guy I am with happy, or so he says, as most guys seem to tell us ladies that they really love to please us in that way. I feel that I could be doing something so much more satisfying in that time... like actually pleasing the one I am with. I have only orgasmed once maybe twice from it as it takes forever, because I am thinking about how he is feeling... is his tongue getting tired, his neck sore perhaps etc... so I have stopped it many times and proceeded to something else.
Also men seem to enjoy it way more than woman in my opinion, and because of that they think that it is always what we want. I agree with Lee regarding the mention of instruction as guys need to listen... but I also don't want to keep telling him to move as that can become a chore for him eventually and make him feel inadequate.
This is my opinion and experience so please do not judge me for it.
Wow Chaturbate, you hit the nail on the head. Its the same with guys that think all woman want their clits to be rubbed. I really do think the way you have described, I worry if he's ok, can he breathe lol? And the men seem to love it even more than I do. Maybe there's something wrong with me. When I've had experiences with females I shy away from it, I believe women are less forgiving when it comes down to stuff like that and are very judgemental(my opinion). I will say though that when I am with someone I have awesome chemistry and that I'm comfy with, it feels better and its sexy to taste myself on his lips.
Quote by Chaturbate This is how I see it .... I do not really have an issue regarding oral. I too have to be in a "zone" to get oral, therefore I decline most of the time, as it never seems to do anything for me except make the guy I am with happy, or so he says, as most guys seem to tell us ladies that they really love to please us in that way. I feel that I could be doing something so much more satisfying in that time... like actually pleasing the one I am with. I have only orgasmed once maybe twice from it as it takes forever, because I am thinking about how he is feeling... is his tongue getting tired, his neck sore perhaps etc... so I have stopped it many times and proceeded to something else. Also men seem to enjoy it way more than woman in my opinion, and because of that they think that it is always what we want. I agree with Lee regarding the mention of instruction as guys need to listen... but I also don't want to keep telling him to move as that can become a chore for him eventually and make him feel inadequate. This is my opinion and experience so please do not judge me for it.
Well Chat, I have to admit, I really do like the taste of an aroused woman...just saying.
Very interesting takes from @Chatterbate & @Sofistikitty.
@Sofistikitty, one of the biggest mistakes men make (in my opinion) is that they read crap in magazines and on-line and wherever about how to "please women" and just about everything available to read is how they should pay more (much more) attention to the clit . . .
Perhaps if we as the male of the species, pay a little more attention to the lady we were with (as opposed to ourselves) we might actually "hear" what we are being told.
Quote by Chaturbate Also men seem to enjoy it way more than woman in my opinion, and because of that they think that it is always what we want. I agree with Lee regarding the mention of instruction as guys need to listen... but I also don't want to keep telling him to move as that can become a chore for him eventually and make him feel inadequate.
I really don't mind getting some guidance from. For me I love to see a woman in pleasure so any advice goes a long way.
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