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Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

I'm a real person , good converrationalist looking for a medium term arrangement 

6571, Knysna Central, Knysna, South Africa


We are interested in a Straight Female or a Bi Female  ...............

We have been part of this lifestyle for 8 Years.                                                                                                                                                                 We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! 

We’re  a Non-pushy, easy-going, relaxed couple (she cute, petite, high sex drive and bi-curious), (he Averge Build ) loving and playful. We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! We only play together. We are respectful and we play by woman's rule .We don't have any hang ups and we are not here for a one night stand but for longterm friendship with sexy friends.We are seeking mainly [b]Straight Female or a Bi Female companion[/b] (18 to 40 ) for some hot sexy times. We can host, only weekends. We like a nice evening where a lady come visit us in jeans and t Shirt no dress up because we are a plain couple and like to keep things simple. We like a nice chat and allot of laughs have a braai drink a few drinks or wine and just relax and be yourself. We like it intense and slow.

If you feel like chatting , feel free to reply and lets chat.
Hope to hear from you soon.

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Worcester, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi there, we are a Coloured couple, been married for 14 years and been together for longer. We are an average looking couple just wanting to add some spice to an already kinky sex life. We love sex and would love to experience something new. We do not want seasoned swingers as that's a little intimidating for us at this point, maybe later we could explore with the more experienced couples out there. So hit us up and let's get chatting and see where it goes. Looking forward to hearing from you.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7800
Hi all back again - looking to meet like minded people build friendships and explore possibilities. Open to much and closed to less - intellect and personality with a touch of sexy and more wins the day. Carpe diem and looking forward to meeting good people kinky and toys yummy!!!
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Hi there married indian man plays alone looking for couple who are interested in having a mmf together Im clean and dnd free Very discreet and respectable !!
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi, im a young french man of 26yo, i search a couple, woman or group to have good times. Safe sex.
Paarl, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa
I am 30 years of Age. I am part of a BDSM group of people in the cape and have been interested in swinging also. Ask me questions you would like to know and I will answer with best I can. Im willing to learn and am sure to make mistakes but wanting to learn from them. I believe in total honesty and keeping the lines of communication to the best of our abilities which will help us through problems/ concerns that come up. I am in the Durbanville Cape Town area.
Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

We are a down to earth open minded married couple.

Goodwood, Western Cape, 7460

Some good humour, good food and certainly good company, is what makes us tick. We are happy to meet couples and singles to enjoy naughty fun times. Would be great to meet others, with no strings attached, just open to honesty, nice tits........ok and all the other stuff that makes up a package of fun.

Prefer first meeting for a drink, chat and then just maybe, we all get lucky

The lady makes the rules, so best you play by the rules or you get eliminated! Married guys, do not make contact if wifey does not play, sorry!

Would love to meet people we can go camping with, enjoy holidays, drives etc, it just adds some spice to life. We have a 12 year old, so open to meeting others with children.

Catch you soon!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7780

Single guy in my 40ties looking for some m2m fun. Straight acting.

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I am fit  self confident clean upmarket single guy from Cape Town..I am not new in swinging life ...actually had some 3sums with nice couples and enjoyed a lot ..also love seeing ladies 1 on 1...and I am non pushy up market guy ...travelled most of world and based in Cape Town in seapoint

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

were not a very active couple , but leave a message who knows what might happen.

Hermanus, Western Cape, 7200

I'm a Milf/Gilf LMAO!!! BBW looking to flirt, chat, laugh and have fun. You like naughty funny chats....... Let me know!!!

Love interaction with other sexy people... Making friends can lead to more fun... and lasting friendships. Not into Hit and runs or one night stands. Friends with benefits are more my style. Wanna laugh and play and just have fun. The before sex is just as important as the after sex.

Bearded guys with nice smiles and nice hands are def my type.....

OOOOh I like music too..... Who remembers this song :"You and me baby aint nothing but mammals so lets do it like they do on the Discovery Channel"

If you can laugh at yourself... join me!! No Barbie here just yummy me!!! To me a sexy mind is worth soooo much more than just a big cock and no brains. I love teasing and playing and having fun. If you wanna chat, send me a mail but nooo winkies... I will check your profile if you mail interest me. Even better send me a face pic with your mail.... Cockpics really don't do it for me... I prefer seeing the man I'm talking to.... Send me something interesting!!!!

So come make me tired! Run around in my brain!!!!

I LOVE MY BODY, I LOVE BEING A BBW!!!! Yeah, maybe I would like to I lose a kg or 10. Yeah I would like my boobs to be as firm as a 15 year old girl. I know I can have them fixed but then they won’t be mine anymore. Yeah I would like to have sex 3 times a day, who won't. This is me! What you see is what you get!

SORRY LADIES i'M STRICTLY ON THE COCK........ only DD and Meraaitjie is allowed ....

Parow, Western Cape, 7500

My boyfriend and I are looking for a sexy girl or couple with to join us for awesome fun.
No offense but white/caucasians only please. 

Age is not too important but you must have everything in all the right places. I'm extremely sexy and bi-sexual; my boyfriend is well built and well hung. We love to go out, dining, clubbing anything you enjoy.

Both my boyfriend and I are white and healthy. 
When you contact us please send a meaningful message and at least some basic details about yourself.

We are gentle and well mannered and treat everyone with utmost respect.
Discretion is an absolute must as we are business people and don't want to risk to be recognized by other people than our chosen playmates !


We're looking forward to hearing from you soon!

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


We are looking for a fun couple or/and single female who would like to hang out. We like getting naked and naughty.

This would include same room sex sessions and soft swinging. We are very chilled, love a good conversation but love sex more LOL.

Time is always a problem for us so please be patient if we don't respond immediately. Please bear in mind discretion is a priority for us.

PS. We are colored :)
PS. We are not looking for perfect people just decent.

PS. We like threesomes/foursomes/moresomes

PS. Anyone excited about the Superman VS Batman movie?

PS. We like pizza.

PS. No playing in summer is a bummer.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Western Cape, 7764

I won't bite, but if I do..... it won't hurt.......

I cannot promise endless hours of infinite stamina, funky positions and gifted suppleness.... Bottomless pit of kinky ideas, a shaft of love pulsating gloriously till the early morning hours......

Model features, rippling torso, washboard abs, sculptured legs, sweet smelling toes is not what you will get......

I do have a sense of humor

So whom do you get?????

Average guy, single, looking for friends and fun.

Do I expect sexy fun to happen with every meet..... No I do not, do I expect sex to happen at all.....Not at all, it would be simply awesome if we became just great friends.

Quiet, not pushy at all, will wait for you to make the first move, always respectful of others.

Being in the lifestyle for a while already, I haven't got the inclination for endless emails, if you like what you see, contact and lets meet....

Meet happens like this....

I like - You like - We play......

I like - You don't like - We still play

I don't like - You like - You play

Remember I have a sense of humor OK..................

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

We a young married couple fun at heart had some experince in the swinging life looking for a fun down to earth and respect full couple. Not forcefull and willing to take it slow to get wife at easy. No singel men pls

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441


Great Sense of humour


enjoy life

he must....

.... have a great sense of humour

..happy in his own skin and happy with me in my minded persons please....

Please single men around my age....

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

touch... look.. lick... kiss... explore..

Maybe meet up with someone see what happens ....specially if she is mature and know what she wants :)

Message me and lets see what happens , whatsapp should be a great tool

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

Interested in WOMEN only ... ages 18 and up.

Love liberated women, single or married.

Love to watch and be watched by women.

Do you just want a loving ear and emotional support? Happy to oblige :)

Western Cape

So its 2015 and time for change.yes we still happily married and we have a very open relationship and understanding of wot we want.we both are free to do as we please but only with the consent of the other.we are still young but know wot we want otherwise we wouldn't be here and in the same breath we have no boundaries only that we expect to be respected and u will receive the same.we dnt see that age or ethnic group should be a factor as we are here only for erotic steamy and naughty fun strictly binded by the NSA rule.if u do something do it right or dnt do it at all so pls feel free to make contact and yes with ur reply will come an invitation to our private album and u can decide from there. If u willing and serious then let's have FUN!oh and single guys my hubby will contact when needed so dnt and I mean DNT message or wink or friend request cos it will be seriously looking for the real deal.whole lot of bs's on this site.

Gatesville, Western Cape, 7764
Hey there, I like threesomes and moresomes... Yummy! Sex with couples is uncomplicated and the focus is always on her, I like it that way! Sure we all enjoy attention but its great to give and add that bit extra. I enjoy and get a thrill from seeing and feeling someone squirm with pleasure. I'm respectful, clean and attractive (if you don't mind the rugged kind) and interested in chatting to serious couples. Sure, there are a lot of males wanting to join you on this site so why choose me?.... Theres one likeable character out of every ten that you will trust enough to have a good time with from this site. Ive had 9 time wasters. The odds are in our favour!
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
I'm a fit student looking for someone I can have fun with both physically and mentally. Looking for more an ongoing thing or FWB situation. I mean if the experience was good why only have it once. I love women of all ages given you are well kept and fit. Im also more that willing to exchange some more pics after some proper dialog
Bellville, Western Cape, 7530
We are very much interested in this part of the lifestyle but also see it as a stepping stone to perhaps go deeper. We would like to make contact with couples who share the same interests and who has not been around to long. We are not interested in couples who are full swingers as you will put pressure on us at some stage to swap. Please ensure that you read and understand our profile before making contact with us. The system generated messages will not receive replies and so to for winks. Friend requests without getting to know us first will be rejected. Our profile is registered as a couple and for the attention of couples only. We are very much inlove with no hassles and not looking for any couple with insecure and problem relationships. We both would like to watch and the thoughts of playing infront of another couple turns us on. Who knows meeting the right couple and becoming friends might have us go into a long term friendship with lots of exciting times. No single men and no single ladies!!!
Western Cape, South Africa

We are a couple that have been in a long term relationship, now seeking to broaden our experience, with same age group. Respectable and good behaviour is a big must.

We are not always able to be available as HE travels often. We are an open friendly couple. SHE will do mostly all the correspondence, but I will be around. We will not give out any private info such as phone numbers and emails

other than the one we have set up. PLEASE, if you don't have public pics of both male and female or recent pics, don't waist your time or ours. If not public pics, then please send us an album when you contact us, thanks. We are looking forward to meeting some sexy friendly folk.


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700

We're a couple who love each other very much, which means we only play together. A luscious lady would be the ideal as the Mrs is bi. Couples with bi'female also great as the guys could watch the ladies having fun. As we're new to the lifestyle, we' d like to socialise with like minded people and if the chemistry is right, perhaps take it further. We not interested in single guys.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

we are a young MIXED couple. She is clrd he is whte. If this is a problem move on! We are here to have fun, as you can see by our photos. We not looking for endless emails. If you don't meet cool, but don't lead us on a wild goose chase for nothing. 

We are looking for a lady to join us, Mrs is looking to have her first bi experience. Couples are welcome, guys we will contact YOU!

Want to know more, feel free to contact us. 

Chat soon!

Table View, Western Cape, 7441

hey there.. hmm well, am a fit marathon runner..gentleman, classy professional. believes in world peace and potato crisps.. Am a wacky full of life dude. Have worked overseas for a while and find it so unusual about all the race schpeel here..Dont need the people that are on about race and age judgments, love meeting people that are intellectual, mature, genuine and truly appreciate live and let be.. anyhoooo hope to hear from ya even if just to shoot the proverbial schpeel.. Don't care if you're black, purple or white just as long as there's aesthetic chemistry with great, mature convo

8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Young Vibrant and energetic. Looking to meet new and interesting people. Who knows what might happen.

If I do pluck up enough courage to send you a message. Please have the decency to reply to it. Even if it is just a straight "No".

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????

We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.

Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we

have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer GWM - just personal taste.

We are a very DTE couple.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7551
Coloured 22 year old male looking for casual fun with women from Cape Town. Age isn't really a problem for me. Please be disease free and we're halfway to a good time. I have the appearance of a very young guy (look easily 18 or younger) Any ladies into the younger look im your guy.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405

Let me be perfectly honest here:  I'm not here to make friends.  This is a sex site and that's what I'm looking for. I am in a very happy, yet sexless marriage. That's all you need to know. If this bothers you I suggest you walk away right now.

Because my intelligence is above average I can also hold a decent conversation. My sense of humour is a blend of Billy Connolly, Douglas Adams, Rowan Atkinson, Terry Pratchett, Eddie Murphy, Robin Williams, Eddie Izzard, Mad Magazine, Barry Hilton and genetics. My musical tastes have been described as eclectic - I call it I like a little bit of a lot.

I am looking to meet with non-smoking women. Or at least, women who can handle not smoking while they're around me.  Looks are not that important. Of prime importance is your mind, that you enjoy sex and you don't mind the fact that I'm married.

I like boobs, I like giving and receiving oral sex, I like toys for ladies. I don't like pain, anal sex (a real pain in the arse) and people who don't keep their word. I am available mostly during the day, however I could make the odd plan here and there. Weekends are out.

Let's meet over a coffee (who needs alcohol anyway?), chat, share a few laughs and see where it goes from there.

One last thing:  If I take the trouble to contact you and invite you for a coffee, please have the decency to write a reply, even if you aren't interested.  It is, after all, just good manners, n'est pas? I promise I won't bug you after that.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7708

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read our profile.


We are a happily married couple who only play together (Never separate). We are both 100% straight and have no interest in changing that. We have young kids and therefore our time is not our own. If you are not a patient person or available nights and weekends then don't waste your time reading further.

We were formerly know as HellTeddy here on site. So trust me, we are not new to the bullshit some people try. Nor the let downs of those time wasters who have no regard for others. Hence the reason for the new harsh, yet clear profile description. Sorry to those it offends but we are all here for our own reasons and this is what we are and aren't looking for.

WE DO NOT cross the racial barrier EVER. So please don't bother trying to persuade us otherwise (Also if you can't be bothered to fill in your Ethnicity on your profile, we cant be bothered reading any further). Our main interest is MFM Threesomes (For now). We are only looking for Men between the ages of 28 and 42. Age may just be a number, but these are our numbers, so please respect that. We are not up for casual hook ups and one night stands with people from out of Town (They turned out to be the biggest let down and time wasters of all). That being said we are also not up for casual hook ups and one night stands with locals either... We seek someone to play exclusively with over a long term period, and we are in no hurry to rush into anything. (Mrs Teddy is not looking to be a notch on someone's belt nor does she wish to put many on hers) We know our Profile says couples and woman, but that is more a fantasy we aim to try out in the future, once both of us are comfortable with the idea.

We do have pic's but have no intention to load them onto site. Due to that being the problem with our old profile. Once we are comfortable with someone and happy they are who they say, after chatting a while and maybe even seeing them on cam (And I'm talking about a face cam thanks) Then we will gladly share through a safer means.

Thank you kindly

Mr and Mrs Teddy

(We will update as we go)

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Haven't done this before and very curious to see what it's about
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

Gay bottom that love to suck and be topped - just LOVE to wrap my lips around a cock .......  roll my tongue around the head of your cock and feel it getting bigger ...harder ...stronger my mouth

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there,

I'm an open minded, free spirited, nothing phases me kinda guy - Always up for a good, fun and intellectually stimulating conversation!

Not looking for a quick hookup...I would like to make a friends where possible - If anything else happens along the way, well so be it :-)


Table View, Western Cape, 7441

I am a married male playing alone without permission or should I lie about it?, so don't shoot me for being human (getting that out of the way before it becomes an issue) with daytime on my hands looking for a lady in a similar position. Self employed - I travel in the Western Cape so getting around is not an issue. Looking for a longer NSA arrangement which suits both parties - there will be no consequences or I would not be here.

Free to discuss my home situation when and if you feel it is necessary.

I have a very broad mind and good sense of humour. Generally a quiet person and not a pushy type. Slightly bi curious, also enjoy cyber and phone chats with compatible partner.

I am a recognised business man and need absolute discretion and cleanliness and I will assure the same in return.

Would also love to make contact with a couple looking for a straight male, slightly bi, to join them for 3-somes or to watch. (My fantasy)

Lets meet and have a coffee and see if we have any common interests and take things from there.

Thanks you for reading my profile and understanding. Looking forward to hearing from you.


Strand, Western Cape, 7140

MWC. 45 , she 43 . We are not super models , and we don't expect to meet super models ! Hygiene and safety is not negotiable . Single men , pls do not hound us . No means no . We will contact you !

Single ladies or bored housewives: the mrs is willing to go it alone , should you want some ff action ! We are only available in the mornings,during the week ! Thanks for reading . Play it safe !

Kraaifontein, Western Cape, 7570
Looking to meet like minded females who are out going, open minded and just down to earth.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7806

We are an intelligent fun loving sexy couple wanting to spice things up a bit.

We don't have any preconceived ideas, we are open minded and willing to entertain creative ideas.

Would be great if we made some interesting friends along the way.

We will not respond to "Really like your profile, why don't you drop by and have a look at mine, and let me know what you think."

Please get to know us before you ask to be friends or to view our photo album!!!

SINGLE GUYS/MEN =====>>> NOT interested in single guys ... sorry!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7800

we are a happily married couple - very new to the scene. Keen to meet other newbies and see where it leads. Unfortunately not prepared to cross the colour line. No single or bi/gay men to contact us please.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7550
We are a couple, very good looking according to most, and looking for some extra exciting experiences with like minded people. Would love to see whether we can meet up with similar people on this site so if you feel you fit the profile please drop us a mail. We are both white, professional, intelligent people who enjoy socializing and meeting new friends. Looking forward to hear from you soon.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7400
Hey all decent coloured male well build my title says it all 'ek wil bos gaan' that being said safe and all in the spirit of sex! and explore the beautiful mother city dogging im keen on anything that is new and exciting to do specially when it comes to chubbylicious ladies age aint no problem @ all have female friends thats willing to join in on the fun eventhou they not on the site very spontaneous and have some sex toys that will add to the fun oral oh fuck yes it takes two to tango so ladies feel free to contact and lets keep it rocking until the neighbours come knocking we just wont care we wont care mwah
Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130

this add is not for the fainthearted, if you single married or wateva and into golden showers , rimming , fisting and all kinda kinky messy sex please feel free to drop me a line. No males ai tog. Ladies and couples only.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We're a Naughty, Young & Adventures couple from the Northern Suburbs of Cape Town.
We enjoy going to Swingers Parties, Nude Beaches and meeting like-minded Young, Attractive couples.
Our Vanilla hobbies include hitting the gym, taking our pooches for long walks, hiking with our mates & partying up a storm.

She is a gorgeous, athletic & tall blonde with beautiful full natural breasts and legs for days.
He doesn't let his side down, average build leaning towards the muscular side with dark features and well hung.
We aren't perfect but then again we aren't looking for perfection.

Thanks for taking the time to read through our profile, drop us a mail if your interested, hope to hear from you soon!

Monte Vista, Western Cape, 7460
Me: brown hair and eyes, little tummy, She: red hair, greenish eyes, little tummy We are just ourself, no issues, is afrikaans sprekend, geen enkel mans en slegs blankes asb, ons keuse van maats, aanvaar ons soos ons is of hou verby, geen one night stands nie, vroulief maak die keuse aan die einde van die dag of iets gaan gebeur
Saldanha, Western Cape, 7395

Hi there, thanks for reading my advert!

I'm a fun single male looking for something a little different... Would love to play with a nice, clean and intelligent couple or sexy single female.

Would prefer something regular where we could build up a relationship on lust and trust.

I'm a real gentleman when and where it counts and know how to treat people with respect.

Ideally I would like to massage a lady in the presence of her man, she rules and will determine what happens!

Not looking for drama, or long drawn-out email tennis, pic swapping and so on... lets swap a few mails and meet ... if we like each other then nature will take its course...

I'm not a macho man with something to prove, just a nice laid-back guy looking for some decent sexy kinky fun!

I do a great sensual massage :-)

Love to hear from you soonest ...

Paarl, Western Cape, 7655

We are a recently married fun loving couple. We have been together for more than 6 years prior to getting married.

We have no children but we are both professionals so discretion is very important to us.

“Beware the Jabberwock, my son!

The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!

Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun

The frumious Bandersnatch!”

We have very limited experience in the lifestyle but we are eager to learn. So far we are into same room sex and dogging.

Please contact us if you would like to get to know us better. We prefer to establish an online relationship first. (some chatting, emails maybe trade some photos)


Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

We love and enjoy each other dearly, would like to make friends that enjoy the same simple things in life - good food, good wine, a burlesque show, some art, outdoors and good laughs

We love dressing up for each other (well she does...think corsets and feathers) think old school - dark smokey rooms....

Erotic stories intrique us.

We are predominantly looking for couples and will ONLY play together and will ONLY play is Miss is happy with it.

We dont want jealous lovers and kiddy fights, so please leave your drama at home....only bring the glitter and corset type of drama :)

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for

study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam

or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be

considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Rondebosch, Western Cape, 7700