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Let me be perfectly honest here:  I'm not here to make friends.  This is a sex site and that's what I'm looking for. I am in a very happy, yet sexless marriage. That's all you need to know. If this bothers you I suggest you walk away right now.

Because my intelligence is above average I can also hold a decent conversation. My sense of humour is a blend of Billy Connolly, Douglas Adams, Rowan Atkinson, Terry Pratchett, Eddie Murphy, Robin Williams, Eddie Izzard, Mad Magazine, Barry Hilton and genetics. My musical tastes have been described as eclectic - I call it I like a little bit of a lot.

I am looking to meet with non-smoking women. Or at least, women who can handle not smoking while they're around me.  Looks are not that important. Of prime importance is your mind, that you enjoy sex and you don't mind the fact that I'm married.

I like boobs, I like giving and receiving oral sex, I like toys for ladies. I don't like pain, anal sex (a real pain in the arse) and people who don't keep their word. I am available mostly during the day, however I could make the odd plan here and there. Weekends are out.

Let's meet over a coffee (who needs alcohol anyway?), chat, share a few laughs and see where it goes from there.

One last thing:  If I take the trouble to contact you and invite you for a coffee, please have the decency to write a reply, even if you aren't interested.  It is, after all, just good manners, n'est pas? I promise I won't bug you after that.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7708

Looking for some new friend(s). Would like to have a nice braai, going to Sandy Bay or similar. Would be great to meet single lady or nice couple. Like good company, a fire and something to drink.

7441, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
I'm more of A BBC. I play clean I'm educated Im addicted to interracial fantasies Im well hung black bull I love Jamaican songs. I do myself Jo . I hate those who pretend loving me Im eager to play with those who wanna play too. I reside around Cape town.
Grabouw, Western Cape, 7160

I believe that we are here to live life to the fullest every day! 

South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

The guy next-door looking for couples and singles who enjoy life to the fullest. Young at heart, mind, body and spirit. My philosophy; none of us are getting out of here alive, so please stop treating yourself like an after thought. Eat the delicious food. Walk in the sunshine. Jump in the ocean. Say the truth that you're carrying in your heart like hidden treasure. Be silly. Be kind. Be weird. There is no time for anything else.

Sagittarius (half man half horse).....if that is important to you. I only bite of you ask me too so feel free to say hello. Not gay or bi but ladies, I will tolerate your better half (to a point). Have fun, cheers for now

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7974

Hi there thanx for viewing my profile.I am into watching ladies play and even couples.would like to meet up for a dogging somewhere in the near future. Would really love to experiment 

Would like to meet up with ladies that can show me how they squirt..... My biggest fantasy 

Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7600
Good day. Thanks for viewing my profile. I am down to earth, well mannered gentleman looking for ladies or couples to befriend or more. Hope to hear from you soon.
Table View, Western Cape, 7441

People please do not send us friend requests if you have not even spoken to us and a wink will get you blocked!!!! 

We have pics, so please ensure that you do have some pics for us to see.

Mrs is stilllooking for a guy,  but he MUST be willing to travel to ceres for fun. 

we are a young MIXED couple. She is clrd he is whte. If this is a problem move on! We are here to have fun, as you can see by our photos. We not looking for endless emails. If you don't meet cool, but don't lead us on a wild goose chase for nothing. 

We are looking for a lady to join us, Mrs is looking to have her first bi experience. Couples are welcome, guys we will contact YOU!

Want to know more, feel free to contact us. 

Dnt bother to contact us if you are not in the western Cape or plan on traveling to the Western Cape any time soon. 

Chat soon!

6835, Ceres, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa
Msg me. Id like to watch or make videos. Can always orgenize a girl or 2 to come
Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

Interested in all WOMEN only ... ages 18 and up.

Love liberated women, single or married who are comfortable in their own skin.

Love to watch and be watched by women.

Do you just want a loving ear and emotional support? Happy to oblige

Western Cape

I am chilled quiet and easy. Just looking for discreet NSA fun with the right people, should the opportunity arise. I am not one for serious relationships at the moment, if you (and maybe your partner) are cool, fun, not pushy and have no expectation, then maybe we can meet up and see where it goes. I am respectful and am just seeing where things go... 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7735

Hi there reader ! Thanks for reading my profile - I hope that you will not feel that you have wasted anytime!

I am a very energetic man who just loves giving sexual favours and enjoy sucking and licking your soft breasts till your nipples go hard - also loves to muffdive you till you orgasm with your lovejuice all over my face !

Sexual games always means the more the merrier - but people we not at a tea party - so we will get naked and yes we will enter each other ! The message always is that if you can be in a group and behave accordingly - you will be invited again and a dogging relationship starts !

I love woman - 1-2-3 love to see how they get soft in my or anther man / womans arms. Love to interact with couples as this is sometimes just the stimilus the husband or wife needs to go home and make addictive love to each other again... love that freedom to kiss and have sex with a wife while hubby is busy getting a great bj !

I am here to fulfill sex fantasies and also to be a player helping others !!

Meet up soon and kets play !

George, Western Cape, 6531

I am fit  self confident clean upmarket single guy from Cape Town..I am not new in swinging life ...actually had some 3sums with nice couples and enjoyed a lot ..also love seeing ladies 1 on 1...and I am non pushy up market guy ...travelled most of world and based in Cape Town in seapoint

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We're a couple who love each other very much, which means we only play together. A luscious lady would be the ideal as the Mrs is bi. Couples with bi'female also great as the guys could watch the ladies having fun. As we're new to the lifestyle, we' d like to socialise with like minded people and if the chemistry is right, perhaps take it further. Please we not interested in SINGLE GUYS......

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
HI there; Im sure we have all thought of what to write here. Im a discreet, GSOH male, married, wife also plays, looking for open minded clean couples/ladies looking to explore and break out of the every day mudane. As gathered there are a lot of time wasters, Im not one. If you want to know more, please feel free to ask
Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130

I am shy at first, but when I get to know someone I come out of my shell. Even tho I have been on the site for a while, due to being shy I have not met many people. I would like to learn more about the lifestyle and broaden my horizons and hopefully have some wonderful new experiences.

If you would like to know more, just drop me a message, or if you see me in the pool, just ask.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405

I'm am very straight.
Looking to meet up with straight ladies and couples looking for a straight single guy.
I am NOT married or in a sexual relation with anybody.

I do have a house mate that stay with me, so discretion is very important and unfortunately I can not host.
Contact me if you serious.
Please no pushers, I need to be comfortable and want to meet you first.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Curious couple looking to meet with people in the lifestyle. 

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Just a discreet guy wanting discreet and clean fun,for bi,str8 and gay guys.
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, 6507

We a naughty coloured couple very new to the swinging scene. We not regular swingers but enjoy the thrill of being with other partners once in a while. We the average couple next door and bet the neighbors wouldn't imagine we into this lifestyle so please discretion is an absolute must. We are parents so all hookups will be subjected to prior planning. We can not host so if u can that would be advantages. Alternatively we book a room and we split the cost. So what are we looking for:

-All couples welcome

-All females welcome

-Single guys will be contacted if we are interested

-Clean shaved

-Drug and Disease free

-No married ppl playing without partners consent.

-People who can keep a conversation.

-People who is interested in building a long term friendship

-ALWAYS play safe

We prefer full swops and we don't have hang ups with playing on the first meeting if everyone agrees. People who send automated msgs and have no pics will be ignored and blocked. Also please don't invite us if u ddn even have the decency to chat with us first. Last but not least, if race is an issue then plz move on!!Now let's start chatting and hopefully soon we all be CUMMING!!

7490, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We married for 23yrs and feel its time to xplore whatever fantasies we suppressed all these yrs,its our time to live!
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785
hey :)* my Name is Anthony :)* I stay in somerset west and study in stellies! I am 20 years old white male very musclar body no fat ;) xx I have dark blond hair. and 177cm tall and 101kg of muscles :p xx invite me over bbm or whats app ;)*!* xx mail my don't be shy :p xx looking for girls between 18 and 34 :) x
Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130

Hubbies health has deteriorated quite badly ago we are putting this new adventure on the back burner for now. 

Ok so here it goes..... My husband was diagnosed in 2012 with colon cancer. We fought and won the fight and up to a month ago he was clean. We went for his yearly check up and sadly we have been informed his cancer is back. 

We are firm believers in "life is to short to waist!" So have decided to explore something we've spoken about allot. 

Honesty is very important to us, hence us being upfront about out our situation. 

So here we are. Not looking for a one night wonder. Looking for friends with benefits and lots of discretion. Someone who we can have a braai with, go for coffee and other activities and there be no pressure. 

If nothing happens but we have a lekker kuier then that would be fine as well.  Someone we can explore and have fun with. We don't play alone. 

We will not cross the colour barrier where sex and play is concerned. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Coloured 22 year old male looking for casual fun with women from Cape Town. Age isn't really a problem for me. Please be disease free and we're halfway to a good time. I have the appearance of a very young guy (look easily 18 or younger) Any ladies into the younger look im your guy.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Haven't done this before and very curious to see what it's about
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

We are a white middle aged couple looking for fun. Ages 59 (male) and 53 (female). We are not into bi male or bi females. We do mingle with single guys and single ladies. Meaning single ladies we mean married ladies as well. If you are picture hunters please forget us. All ages welcome. Cleanliness, discretion and respect is very important. Don't make an appointment if you not going to turn up. If we ever give somebody our phone nr you will speak to Hendrik and not Zelda. Whenever arranging a meeting arrangements will be done with Hendrik. IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY PUBLIC PICS ON YOUR PROFILE DON'T INVITE US. DONT ASK TO SEE OUR PRIVATE ALBUM IF YOU DONT HAVE XXRATED PICS YOURSELF. PLEASE TAKE NOTE IF A SINGLE GUY MAKE AN APPOINTMENT AND DONT TURN UP WE WILL BLOCK YOU PERMANENTLY.


Cape Town, Western Cape, 7550
Good day lovely ladies, want it tooo be all about you??? Decent,respectful male looking for friendship and NSA FUN !!!!! Can host and make you feel like a woman!!!!! Meet a male with self respect and morals

Up for some fun and new experiences

We pretty much newbies but keen to meet like minded couples and single......HOWEVER...... single guys we are not at all even keen to start any convo if it begins with you waving your c*ck around, if thats all you have to offer the friendship will be short lived! We keen on people who have imagination, wit, a good sense of humour, intellect and are open to taking things as they come with no expectations.

If you dont have a cam for whatever reason dont bother.....sorry but its the only way we can confirm you are who you say u are.

We are keen on same room, roleplay, general adult chat and what ever may go with that as comfort zones grow (like all good things should) ;-) 

Couples and single ladies only feel free to whatsapp us....074 55 00 551

Richwood, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I am a inexperienced submissive sissy CD girl looking for friends to explore my feminine side with..

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7460
We are looking to chat with a coloured or indian guy who has the following qualities (at the ladies request): be between 20-30's, well built, "tight ass" as she says, very well hung, able to chat on whatsapp in the evenings. Outside of Cape town is ok, as long as you can chat on whatsapp. She also wants her Master to direct the conversation, so you should be open to being submissive and be comfortable with some touching by all involved. My friend is mature, very sexy red head, busty and very very open minded..
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Hi....We are a mixed couple,he is 43 year old coloured guy and she is a 37 year old white lady.We are an adventurous married couple who like to explore our sexuality with each other and possibly with the right couple or lady.Unfortunately not interested in single gents and neither married guys playing alone.

We are just your regular couple next door and have stable jobs,kids and the same responsibilities as most people.

Not really into the 'lifestyle' of swinging but do like to share our fantasies with each other and explore them within safe boundaries.NO drugs and NO pain.

We do not discriminate on ethnicity but more on whether we have made a connection with like-minded people.

If you like what you read and find us even remotely interesting,feel to drop us a message....say Hi...don't just peek..

Have fun

Mr and Mrs Unicorn_hunter

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7435

I am in joburg Mellville till next week monday
any ladies up fr fun contact me

33 year old male looking for strait female , bi female , 3somes , couples,

guys im not GAY!!!! so gay guys stop trying to make contact!!!!!!

Parow, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Normal, sociable, loving, passionate. We meet in public or private parties...if you're just a chatter, don't bother. Profiles with body &/or face pics get attention 

Do not send friend requests or just album is ignored. If we are in the chat room.'s to chat to Cape Town people to meet...not camming and chats not leading anywhere 

Have some experience with couples, male- & female singles + swingers club.

Seek ages 35-50. Prefer BI-crious females within a couple.

We are not pushy/desperate nor against newbies, but it's about equal pleasure & an experience for everyone.

7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a recently married fun loving couple. We have been together for more than 6 years prior to getting married.

We have no children but we are both professionals so discretion is very important to us.

“Beware the Jabberwock, my son!

The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!

Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun

The frumious Bandersnatch!”

We have very limited experience in the lifestyle but we are eager to learn. So far we are into same room sex and dogging.

Please contact us if you would like to get to know us better. We prefer to establish an online relationship first. (some chatting, emails maybe trade some photos)


Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

She loves her man fucking other women.....wants to share...

we are a sexy clean couple looking for women or couples.

Bellville, Western Cape, 7530

I would love to spend time with open minded couples or singles. Would love to make friends, with or without benefits just to have fun with people that are on the same page as me.

Mosselbaai, Western Cape, 6506

ek is wie ek is. hou van nuwe mense ontmoet en leka gesels. maak tyd om my te leer ken en sal sien ek nie so bad ou ni. respek vir almal is die main woord. 

Kuilsriver, Western Cape, 7580
We both new to this and would love to explore our boundaries
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi... I have a bf, but i do also date girls and (girls) couples sometimes. My bf is not around most of the time since he works overseas.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

Single adventurous male seeking to fulfill his naughty fantasies with like minded females and couples. I am new to this and have played with one couple before and found it really sexy. I am not looking for hit and run but rather building friendships with people that embrace the lifestyle. My ideal would be to meet a girl that is open to the lifestyle and that if there is chemistry maybe start exploring together long term

Somerset West, Western Cape, 7110

I am here to meet like-minded people and take a break from the demands we allow society to place on us. I enjoy getting to know people and
sharing laughs. I am not looking for Prince Charming because I'm my own Hero. I have no resemblance to Barbie and I am a proud owner of my curves. Intellectual conversation and a good sense of humour will get me to interact with you.

I rarely meet up with people, but if I do it will be purely social and after consideration with the man in my life.

Hope you have fun here among us. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I hope I don't come across like the other men on this website do.

Just a little bit about myself.

I’m an asshole. I won’t open doors for you, in fact be careful as I will likely trip you as you go through the door for laughs and giggles. I expect you to cook for me and clean up my mess after I eat. And by the way, I’m a really messy eater. Food everywhere, on the floor, in my lap, but these are the least of your worries.

I leave my socks on the floor in the bedroom, and yes they stink. I will not do laundry, and insist that you do it. Not just insist, you must LOVE to do my laundry and look forward to it. Look forward to it like you look forward to water in the desert. Look forward to it like you look forward to seeing your family after years of separation. I think you get the picture.

Also I don’t do romance, I expect action on the first date, big time action, and I won’t sleep over (yes this will be at your place because I don’t want you to know where I live).

Oh shit I sound like the rest of the men on this website. :-)

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7550
Hallo everyone. Easygoing white guy here. I don't really know what to here goes. I am looking for couples or single ladies for long term friendship and fun times. I enjoy having threesomes, had a few in the past and had a blast. I love oral, giving and receiving! I am up for most things. So lets see where this journey takes me.
Bellville, Western Cape, 7530
Keen to show women of all ages a good time, currently 23 and well built - decently hung
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700
We have a healthy and active sex life but we are looking to fulfil some of our fantasies with like minded people. New to the scene so would need to be guided in the right direction at first. Cleanliness and discretion a must.
7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a happily married couple that have been together for many years. We are just looking for occassional fun to spice up our sex life. We are not looking for anything particular, we will take the moment when it excites us. Sorry we don't go over the ethnic boarder and we are not into pushy or forward people.

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

We are a fun loving couple that love the out doors. We are your avg middle age couple that are seeking to spice up our sex lives. We are looking for straight couples when I am at home and single males that can entertain the lady while I am away. While I am away, single guys to meet the lady at Lizas please. It provides a safe place for her to meet strangers. Single straight and bi curious ladies also while I am at home to join us as a couple. Preferably to meet and greet at Lizas Lounge on Thursdays and Saturdays. If all goes well then we are already at the right place :) With sex almost anything goes, but be gentle with the lady bits please. Condom use a definite and not negotiable including during BJs. Please have some pics on your own profile before you send a message or request. Strictly NSA sex!!! White only...... Sorry. One life live it.

Parow, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We are a very horny couple and are new to this, looking for a young bi female to join us in our 1st 3some
Kuils River, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

40 something male, educated, well travelled and well groomed....looking to meet likeminded ladies and couples?

Uncomplicated quality adult fun, no drama, discretion guaranteed....if race is an issue please move on!!

8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa