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I am here to meet like-minded people and take a break from the demands we allow society to place on us. I enjoy getting to know people and
sharing laughs. I am not looking for Prince Charming because I'm my own Hero. I have no resemblance to Barbie and I am a proud owner of my curves. Intellectual conversation and a good sense of humour will get me to interact with you.

I rarely meet up with people, but if I do it will be purely social and after consideration with the man in my life.

Have fun boys & girls. I know I intend to. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

We are a couple looking for the right man to join us for some fun. We want someone we can become friends with, not just a one night stand.

Single white male between the ages of 28 and 49. Don't send us an email saying "when can we meet" or "when can we fuck" etc. You will be ignored. Sell yourself a bit, make it interesting. We are NOT interested in married men at all. Body type not very important, but no obese men will be considered. You need to be at least as tall as the Mrs to be in the running and must be a non smoker. Also don't contact us if you are not in Cape Town or surroundings.

All correspondence will be through the Mr, as well as the first meet.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair 

and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

We are new to the game, full swing, same room couple looking for fun. Single guys we will contact you, otherwise dont contact us thanx

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Ceres, Western Cape, 6835

Golden rule for avoiding time-wasters on this type of site: If after a week of talking about getting together someone for whatever reason won’t give you their cell number, realise that they have no intention of hooking up and are a cockteaser and/or virtual fantasist ...

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

WELL ... I am single again ... so let the fun begin ...

I consider myself a gentleman, I know how treat and respect another person. I have a witty sense of humor and are open-minded about life. I'm into anything if the mood is right. I love to explore my naughtier side which ever way it might go. ;)

FYI: I don't really care for your automate WINK messages. Or profile with limited content.

I am not here to waste anybodies time. If you are committed to meet up and see where things go ... so am I.

I do have a few rules ...

- ages: between 20-40

- race: Caucasian (sorry!)

- not fuzzy about body types but expect you to be clean and well looked after.

- no time wasters

- ladies, if you are married I am not interested in being your "skelmpie"

- R.E.S.P.E.C.T. is important.

- Life is too short to not be open-minded :)

Bellville, Western Cape, South Africa

First of all no single guys!

We are an easy on the eye couple seeking a lady that wants to be our friend. We have had a previous playmate, sadly she emigrated. We are a hard working couple, so we play when we can. We value discretion. I have no desire for another male, he keeps me satisfied. We prefer someone we can connect with, have fun with and occasionally have some naughty fun with. Pics will be mailed or txt'd to select respondents.

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

If you are a  married guy, we will not reply to your messages.
We are a STRAIGHT couple looking for like minded couples . We been in the lifestyle for awhile and would like to meet people who have the same interests. We have been married for years and want to spice up our life. We are quite adventurous and open to new experiences. Just to note that Mrs does smoke so if that is a problem don't contact us. We also want to mention that we are no swimsuit models - Mrs would call herself "pleasingly plump ",  and this goes for Mr as well, but size does not matter to us.

When you send us a mail please, include your cell phone numbers and most important take time to read our profile, to make sure we meet your expectations as this will save us all time. We can then create a Whats-app group with both persons cell numbers as we chat together as like we play together . We will first read your profile and should we feel we have common ground we will take it further , We can then meet and see where it goes. We like to make friends and if something more comes from it, all the better. For us it is more than just notches on the bed post or a quick jump into bed . The Lifestyle is and extension to our life's, We will not just except a friend request without first chatting to you via Whatsapp. Thanks for taking the time to read our profile.

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

We are still very new at the lifestyle 

Same room rule applies and just having fun.

Hope to meet a easy, fun, out going couples or single females as well as respectable and clean shaven a must

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study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam

or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be

considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I am a single professional white guy with lots of free time and I can host. I am open minded and discreet, I would like to meet ladies, and couples and men for friendship and regular get together's.
Take a look at my pics, I am cut, shaven and clean, so if you are interested then please send me a message!!!!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Fun and open minded man with a penchant for all things freaky. I love older women, especially if they enjoy being pleased and pleasured.

I'm a bigger guy, definitely built for comfort. I enjoy good food, good wine and I don't have a preference of a certain body type, each woman is beautiful in her own way. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
HI there; Im sure we have all thought of what to write here. Im a discreet, GSOH male, married, wife also plays, looking for open minded clean couples/ladies looking to explore and break out of the every day mudane. As gathered there are a lot of time wasters, Im not one. If you want to know more, please feel free to ask
Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130

I looking for a lady for discreet NSA fun. My ideal date is to meet and enjoy a good conversation first and get to know each other before we progress to a foreplay session where we can let each other feel special. I love outdoors and keep myself in shape with running, cycling and toning at gym. Safe discreet sex is a must. Please Guys my profile says Straight only.

7800, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi there. We`re a couple new to the scene. Need to take it slow and enjoy what this lifestyle has to offer. I am a sexy bi female ,with a partner,looking to join couples for hot fun.I am open to invites and loves sex.
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, 6505

Fun fun fun..... Passion , kinky , wild , love making

Let's indulge

Kiss kiss

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001
Going to Meerendal today midday, wine and rugby and lots of flirting, pull in!~~ Nothing set in stone, just having a look around to see how this all works, new here, discretion an absolute must and given. Photos can be sent once we have established a connection.
7550, D`urbanvale, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Ok. So here goes. I hate this part. I am a recently single (amicably so) bi (finally acknowledge that part of myself) guy who wants to fully experience his new found uninhibitedness. Basically looking for fwb of both sexes. Online flirting and a coffee or drink first is a must (there has to be a rapport). Safe sex and cleanliness goes without saying. I'm laid back and respectful and would hope for the same in return.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7945

Things I cannot apologise for

* that I'm drawn to intelligence, and to warm personalities; 
* that neither age nor perfection are of much concern to me, but the medium to slender body remains a preference; 
* that I really don't mind any gay activity at all and would even watch, if invited, but it is the female touch that ignites my passions; 
* that all boobs are good, but small, smaller, smallest are sexy, sexier, sexiest;
* that in public life race is hardly a concern, but in intimate life, strangely, it is; 
* that in encounters I enjoy a quick 3 minutes,  but prefer a good 3 hours, and have gone non-stop for 3 times that - no lies, and no pills; 
* that I travel the country and the world quite a bit, and can maintain equally well  and in different places good friendships and short-term liaisons;
* that safety and discretion are offered and expected, always and non-negotiably (even though, sadly, that has lost me a few hot dates);
* that,  except as a birthday star sign, I'm not a virgin.

Things I will apologise for:



A suggestion for the editors of this web service:

I'm not given to complaints. One thing that bothers me here, though, is that people (generally a couple, or perhaps someone pretending to be a couple...) here would ask for a picture. To which I easily agree, on condition that we swop pictures.  And then they decline: "We never send our pictures". YET you ask for other people's photographs??? How very unfair...

And their defence: "We are picky".

As if I am not...

I have a suggestion for the editors of this web service of a tweak to the programming that can solve this kind of problem. No idea how to pass it on to them, though. Perhaps somebody can advise me. And we then make this good web service even better...

7600, Stellenbosch Central, Stellenbosch, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a mixed married couple for 18 years...he white an she mixed (white and coloured).

We are an easy going, secure, hang ups couple that enjoy good witty conversations and company.

Want to meet with couples with similar interests. That are open minded and have no issues with race. We still do not comprehend how you can say open minded and dont cross the race barrier in the same sentence anyway! 

Single are most welcome too.

We like to group chat first to see if there is mutual interest, but do not mind if the ladies want to chat first and if we up and take it from there.

Single guys...Please read our profile properly....we are not have been automatically blocked from sending mails.

Last but not least. If we message you and we do not appeal to least have the decency to reply with a simple thanks, but no thanks..there will be no love love found.

M & R

Kuilsriver, Western Cape, 7580
Ons is baie gelukkig getroud, doen als saam en wil onsself graag weer bederf met n baaaiiieeee "lekker sexy" massage van iemand wat weet hoe... Ons is nie hier vir enigiets anders, maar is oop vir n great massage. Man is gekwalifiseerd in massage gee, so geen kansvatters asb.
Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hello and thank you for taking the time to read our profile.


We are a happily married couple who only play together (Never separate). We are both 100% straight and have no interest in changing that. We have young kids and therefore our time is not our own. If you are not a patient person or available nights and weekends then don't waste your time reading further.

We were formerly know as HellTeddy here on site. So trust me, we are not new to the bullshit some people try. Nor the let downs of those time wasters who have no regard for others. Hence the reason for the new harsh, yet clear profile description. Sorry to those it offends but we are all here for our own reasons and this is what we are and aren't looking for.

WE DO NOT cross the racial barrier EVER. So please don't bother trying to persuade us otherwise (Also if you can't be bothered to fill in your Ethnicity on your profile, we cant be bothered reading any further). Our main interest is MFM Threesomes (For now). We are only looking for Men between the ages of 28 and 43. Age may just be a number, but these are our numbers, so please respect that. We are not up for casual hook ups and one night stands with people from out of Town (They turned out to be the biggest let down and time wasters of all). That being said we are also not up for casual hook ups and one night stands with locals either... We seek someone to play exclusively with over a long term period, and we are in no hurry to rush into anything. (Mrs Teddy is not looking to be a notch on someone's belt nor does she wish to put many on hers) We know our Profile says couples and woman, but that is more a fantasy we aim to try out in the future, once both of us are comfortable with the idea.

We do have pic's but have no intention to load them onto site. Due to that being the problem with our old profile. Once we are comfortable with someone and happy they are who they say, after chatting a while and maybe even seeing them on cam (And I'm talking about a face cam thanks) Then we will gladly share through a safer means.

Thank you kindly

Mr and Mrs Teddy

(We will update as we go)

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Always horny and looking for fun. We are a couple looking for other females to play with us

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Down to earth Tranny, open minded yet not into woman sorry. Men who are men.  Men who loves a woman with a difference contact me.  Men of all races welcome.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005
Hi we are a happily married couple. We are highly discreet, decent, well mannered and clean. Looking for like minded couple for same room/swing or open minded females for exotic threesome. Looking to start slow. Cleanliness and discretion a must.
Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Little bit of an update....

Well, we have been around for a while - met some great people as well as 1st class a-holes ( learning curve in this lifestyle sure as hell skyrocket! ) We are your average white, middle aged couple, DD free (expect the same) do not have too many hang-ups - like having a good time with friends. Respect is very important for us - we will not cross your boundaries and expect no less in return.

Our ideal scenario:- A group of three or four couples committed to the group - is that possible......... let's try :)

Update On "Our Ideal Scenario"

Scratch a group of three or four couples - Hell, we will settle for one decent couple..........

First step would be a coffee date - we like coffee!!

As for Single Guys - same as before - go away!

Western Cape, South Africa

Hi There. We are sexually very active and have sex at least twice a day. We had our first threesome with another lady and loved it. We are both professional working people and plan to have a breakaway weekend with another woman at least once every two months. Looking for bisexual woman to have either a once off weekend or to cultivate a sexual relationship. Looking forward to hearing from you.

George, Western Cape, 6529
Just here looking to find likeminded fun and horny people.If you interested,don't be shy,get back to me.
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

We are a normal professional couple that want to meet like minded people and make friends. We love to braai and have a glass of wine..... or three. Like most South Africans, we love sports and are enthusiastic about it. Love talking about it... good or bad... We love the outdoors and traveling. We meet for coffee in a public place and what happens from there..... stays there.. Hopefully becoming friends with benefits. We love making jokes..... Humour is the spice of life. Now for the down side...... We only play together..... So sorry single guys, we will approach you. We only play in same room. So to conclude......We are here for FUN......

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi im new to the seen here to have fun while exploring I'm clean and decent and want to enjoy life with good friends and I play alone nsa and discreet 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Okay, here’s the deal. You’re not gay. And I’m not gay. But you either love being anally stimulated or you think you’re going to love it. I specialise in that. See the photos for what I have available to use on you. We are not going to have sex. I am going to keep my clothes on. But you are going to take yours off and have no inhibitions about offering up your most taboo spot to me so that I can take control of your body until you cum like a runaway horse. Then we part ways. This adventure is only available if, like me, you are white and well looked after and under 40. And not gay. Do not respond if you are not going to be willing to swop cell numbers, because I will not provide an address over the internet. No pic collectors please, but photos of me are available if you send clear recent ones of yourself first via email.
Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

I'm am very straight.
Looking to meet up with straight ladies and couples looking for a straight single guy.
I am NOT married or in a sexual relation with anybody.

I do have a house mate that stay with me, so discretion is very important and unfortunately I can not host.
Contact me if you serious.
Please no pushers, I need to be comfortable and want to meet you first.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Married decent professional straight guy looking for "softish" swing. Would like to socialise and become friendly (FWB) with couples where the woman has flexibility to engage in soft swing either with or without their partner, or with single ladies.

I am selective, discreet, trustworthy, honest and would please expect the same.

Cleanliness, hygiene, non smokers (preferably) and people who look after themselves are important to me. I keep in shape by swimming and exercising regularly. 

Don't enjoy clubs or drinking, and prefer people that are laid back, not pushy, non confrontational and who respect the wishes of others.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Hi. So what to say..., well I am a attractive guy with manners and loads of sexual charisma haha

Looking for decent, no strings attached, fun ladies. However not multiple ladies at this stage. I would prefer to meet someone decent and respectful that can join me in a "fun" exploration.... as such.


Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Hi, New to the scene and looking to explore with other couples we not hardcore swingers but have a naughty streak so who knows... NO SINGLE MEN!!!

7441, Big Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

we are a fun loving couple enjoying good sex we are staying to our own race please.  We only want to chat and meet couples.  No single men, sorry guys.

George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa
Im looking for singles and couples in George and Garden Route are who loves to play during the day. Loves to taste, and be tasted, loves to explore and try new things, I enjoy being with couples as well as singles. I am bi Curious and would love to explore that too. Day time Fun is easier.
Wilderness, George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi there We are a couple who enjoy having fun with another woman, but find it vry difficult to meet women open enough and adventurous to join us. We are also shy which does not help! :-) We are looking for a woman to help her explore her bi side as well as be joined by him when comfortable. Couples also a possibiity if we become comfortable enough. It would be great to meet up and have a drink and see where things lead :-)
Table View, Western Cape, 7441

I'm a Milf/Gilf LMAO!!! BBW looking to flirt, chat, laugh and have fun. You like naughty funny chats....... Let me know!!!

Love interaction with other sexy people... Making friends can lead to more fun... and lasting friendships. Not into Hit and runs or one night stands. Friends with benefits are more my style. Wanna laugh and play and just have fun. The before sex is just as important as the after sex. I'm a very lovable passionate woman who loves kissing. Its a huge turn on to see a man enjoying what I have to offer.

If you can laugh at yourself... join me!! No Barbie doll here just yummy me!!! To me a sexy mind is worth soooo much more than just a big cock and no brains. I love teasing and playing and having fun. If you wanna chat, send me a mail but nooo winkies... I will check your profile if your mail interest me. Even better send me a face pic with your mail.... Cockpics really don't do it for me... I prefer seeing the man I'm talking to.... Send me something interesting!!!! Run around in my brain!!!!

I LOVE MY BODY, I LOVE BEING A BBW!!!! Yeah, maybe I would like to I lose a kg or 10. Yeah I would like my boobs to be as firm as a 15 year old girl. I know I can have them fixed but then they won’t be mine anymore. Yeah I would like to have sex 3 times a day, who won't. This is me! What you see is what you get! If you don't like it, its ur loss. Don't insult me by making excuses when you meet and I'm not what you want. Have the decency to tell me. I'm nobody's 2nd choice or good time girl when the one one you want is not available. I'm better than that and worth a hell of a lot more. You might be pleasantly surprised if you get to know me...


 Tall bearded guys with nice smiles and nice hands are def my type..... 

Parow, Western Cape, 7500

Mixed couple, very much into each other with some experience with couples, singles and the swingers club. Only available weeknights or alternative weekends

We are not into drawn out ping pong chats,but rather a meet over a drink / supper so you can see we are real and vice versa and take it from there. 

Sorry sweetheart, if you're not bi-curious that reciprocate oral and foreplay, it's not going to work for her. Only females with some experience please, simply because the pleasure is for both of us, not JUST you or JUST him

we are not looking to make friends with single males or -females beyond playing, but we certainly are not the fuck & go type. Repeat plays are definitely on the cards, just not social visits beyond.  Committed couples comfortable in lifestyle we are more than willing to socialise & befriend. 

Mrs will only chat to the Mrs & expect a voice note or phone call to prove same. If male leaves his nr,  Mr will communicate 

7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We have a healthy and active sex life but we are looking to fulfil some of our fantasies with like minded people. New to the scene so would need to be guided in the right direction at first. Cleanliness and discretion a must.
7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Straight male looking for discreet confidential NSA fun. FWB. Ladies and couples. (Sorry,  I am straight. Do not play with males!!)

Married but playing alone (without consent) not as a couple. Afrikaans and English. 

Looking forward to hear from you. Lets arrange to meet and get to know each other.

7441, Bloubergstrand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there

Thanks for taking a look. We love the outdoors ie camping braaing kuiring etc

We looking for nice couples to make friends with and take it from there . We not interested in quick flings and once offs

Like to meet for drinks and see what transpires

7460, Tygerdal, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi, we are new here
We are a polyamorous couple looking to meet like minded people (couples or singles) for hopefully more that just a fun time :)
We feel having a good connection must come before any sort of sex can take place so we want to take things slow

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

35 year old in a long distance relationship. Looking to make new friends, preferably friends with benefits. Down-to-earth and discreet.

Bellville, Western Cape, 7536

PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN, messages or chats

We are interested in a Straight Female or a Bi Female  ...............

We have been part of this lifestyle for 8 Years. We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! 

We’re  a Non-pushy, easy-going, relaxed couple (she cute, petite, high sex drive and bi-curious), (he Averge Build ) loving and playful. We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! We are respectful and we play by woman's rule .We don't have any hang ups and we are not here for a one night stand but for longterm friendship with sexy friends.We are seeking mainly [b]Straight Female or a Bi Female companion[/b] (18 to 40 ) for some hot sexy times. We can host, only weekends. We like a nice chat and allot of laughs have a braai drink a few drinks or wine and just relax and be yourself. We like it intense and slow.

If you feel like chatting , feel free to reply and lets chat.
Hope to hear from you soon.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as this.

Worcester, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa
Look Upon Her I look upon her face lying on my pillow Lit by the light of my bedroom window Wrapped within my gently arms Knowing she will come to no harm I look upon her hair, soft and fair Unable to find the words to compare Answers she has given me in times of pain That love and hope will visit again I look upon her lips, moist and red Giving me life when all was dead She restored my heart when it was lost Melting what was covered in frost I look upon her breasts, firm and strong Knowing that love could not be wrong Slowly moving with every breath Always knowing she was not like the rest I look upon her hips, round and smooth Gently touching not daring to move I fix the sheets with delicate care But a gentle kiss is all I dare I look upon her face staring into mine Filling my body as if it were wine I close her eyes with gentle kisses For she has answered all my wishes.
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

fun like to laught want a friend and we can have fun times and not just one night stand.... I knw how to make a lady feel like a lady xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

If you like to have a nice conversation, maybe a drink, some flirting followed by some kissing then we can have loads of fun together 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi... I have a bf, but i do also date girls and (girls) couples sometimes. My bf is not around most of the time since he works overseas.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005