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When I was thirty my dates had to be young, slim, tall, handsome, rich, intelligent. Now I'm 50, they only have to know how to read and use the reply button. -
When I was thirty my dates had to be young, slim, tall, handsome, rich, intelligent. Now I'm 50, they only have to know how to read and use the reply button. Hip, sharp sense of humour, world traveller and galaxial hitch hiker, seeking couple (MF) for sexy times.
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Horny young guy looking to join parties and couples and singles for a dogging an good times -
Hi there everybody I am looking to join people for all sorts of fun. I am new to the strand area and recently single so now I wanna have alot of fun with alot of people I have never tried dogging before and would love to find a lady that is keen in the strand area or gordons bay area. Drop me an email and let's chat.
7800, Plumstead, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hello hello I hope you are reading this

I like to meet up people make friends and have intelligent conversation

There's nothing wrong with a little fun but responsibility is still key

If you want to meet up and have coffee I'm up for it

Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130
easy going !!! -
well i love meeting new people, if you get to know me we would be friends for ever! we can get together for fun like maybe go to places that you like.? love music and talking. Not looking for model types, but a healthy mix of beauty, intelligence and sophistication.
Worcester, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa
Newby -
Ideally would love to meet a broad minded fun loving adventurous female who likes to explore and push boundaries.
Constantia, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Once the bug bites...

Yes I am back.. Its been awhile,

My great partner with whom I shared many great adventures in both the swinging world and bdsm had to sadly move on, though we are still great friends,, and for awhile I was  single with a void in my life

The great news is I am back... No, We are back, a new beautiful young lady who has the same outlook as I have and we are ready to play.

So those who are fun, love the lifestyle, want to get to know us, lets meet for a drink and see where it goes.

7941, Zeekoei Vlei, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are all on this site because we have some naughty within us and looking for some moments to make us happy.

If you also looking for no drama adult fun, then just let me know.

We all have our moment for needing a bit of additional pleasures in life.

PS. I enjoy giving ladies a proper massage if they want it.

Looking for ladies only. Thank you

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560
I might be single male, but definitely worth meeting. -
I might be a single male, but I have manners, respect, wisdom and pleasure. I'm unlike others and you would not be disappointed in meeting me.
Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

I'm a professional guy in my mid 40s. Not here for endless message exchanges or to try and compete too much in the pool of "bat-shit crazy single guys" out there.  I'm over the BS and drama phase and looking for single ladies or couples who are interested in spending time with a smart, well travelled, educated, open-minded, respectful and discreet gent who can actually string two sentences together.

I'm not going to bombard you with dick pics - they're on my profile so feel free to check them out... or not. If you want to see more, feel free to ask and I'll oblige as best I can.

If you like what you see and is serious about actually meeting, having great sex, an adventure or two and some orgasms then I'd love to hear from you. If you're into hours of online banter, I'm probably not your guy.  Looking forward.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Gelukkige stoute paartjie wat die lewe geniet en kan kuier tot die son opkom.

Ons is opsoek na cpls wat dieselfde gedagte en idee as ons het. Ons is nie hard core bangers nie en soek nie net n spyker nie. Daar moet verseker n aantrekkings krag wees tussen beide partye.

Ons nooi ook graag single mans om te join in n MFM action ( asb geen MM action). Let wel ons wil graag n vriendskap bou met mense wat die selfde idee en gedagtes as ons het. Ons is lief vir dans, kuier, braai mal oor house partiies

Enkel (Single ) mans / vrouens wat met ons wil kontak maak sorg eers dat jy n gesig foto van jouself kan wys. Laai dit in n private Album en invite ons, ons gaan nie persoonlike email adres of sel nr gee vir foto's nie. Persone met n eie plek is altyd n bonus.

As jy wil ontmoet maak jouself reg om eers te ontmoet vir drankies na ure by n publieke plek, en dan neem ons dit van daar of daar enige verdere afsprake sal wees.

Let wel ons speel ook nie alleen nie en ons doen alles saam as n cpl. 

Single guys please don't make contact if you can not commit to play. We don't have time for BULLSHIT.

Sy verkies enkel mans tussen die ouderdom van 30 tot 45.

Ek verkies dames tussen die ouderdom van 30 tot 45.

Ons is nie daytime players nie.Ons kuier net oor naweke en na-ure.

Dames asb, sy stel nie in vrouens belang nie.(Ladies please she is not into women).

Just for legal stuff below.. 
WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If youhave or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It isrecommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Western Cape, South Africa
Wanted! sexy white bi females -
Hi, we are looking for an couple of sexy white females to please my wife. As I love to watch her being ravished by another lady..and will join in at the apropriate time.. Healthy, clean and smooth shaven white ladies only. We intend to have an evening of drinks,dancing and then some play..
Somerset West, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

For now would like to meet someone for fun and maybe more. friends with benefits

Paarl, Western Cape, 7646

I have been in the lifestyle for more than 5 years. I enjoy playing with couples but single ladies you are always welcome. I made my choices it is my life. 

I enjoy playing at clubs and meeting new people. This is probably the best thing of this lifestyle. 

I am an exhibitionis by nature and like to be nude. Adventure is what I like 

So if you have a fantasy you whould like to try and are to shy to discuss it with others. Try me I will not laugh 

George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

We're a couple who love each other very much, which means we only play together. A luscious lady would be the ideal as the Mrs is bi. Couples with bi'female also great as the guys could watch the ladies having fun. As we're new to the lifestyle, we' d like to socialise with like minded people and if the chemistry is right, perhaps take it further. Please we not interested in SINGLE GUYS......

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Im all about hedonistic perverse pleasures. I lead a double life - normal, professional on one side. Naughty and perverse on the other side. no rules when my demons call.

7966, Tokai, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Couple seeks young female -
Hi We looking to get to know a young female 18-22 for some fun. Wife will watch direct and join in. Willing to be dominated a bit by the wife
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

 I am decent professional guy up for good fun drinks chatting friendship ,and looking for couples or women feel free to message me 

Italian born staying in SA

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7945
Young guy seeking to broaden his sexual experiences -
Just a 30 year old professional guy, working in the CPT media sphere, looking for women who are comfortable in themselves and their sexuality. No pressure at all, just be in each others company and see where it goes. Discretion is a MUST
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005
Feeling a bit adventures -
I don't do this often but I am sure there is a beutifull lady that is willing to live out our fantacys. I have a venue. We will make sure both of us are comfortable before we meet
Brackenfell, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I won't bite, but if I do..... it won't hurt.......

I cannot promise endless hours of infinite stamina, funky positions and gifted suppleness.... Bottomless pit of kinky ideas, a shaft of love pulsating gloriously till the early morning hours......

Model features, rippling torso, washboard abs, sculptured legs, sweet smelling toes is not what you will get......

I do have a sense of humor

So whom do you get?????

Average guy, single, looking for friends and fun.

Do I expect sexy fun to happen with every meet..... No I do not, do I expect sex to happen at all.....Not at all, it would be simply awesome if we became just great friends.

Quiet, not pushy at all, will wait for you to make the first move, always respectful of others.

Being in the lifestyle for a while already, I haven't got the inclination for endless emails, if you like what you see, contact and lets meet....

Meet happens like this....

I like - You like - We play......

I like - You don't like - We still play

I don't like - You like - You play

Remember I have a sense of humor OK..................

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Cape Town based - fun loving, open minded, looking for naughty/erotic fun times with other couples

No singles please

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I am a romantic, shy, quiet, well build guy. Not the extrovert noisy outgoing type. Rather prefer quiet candle light dinners with erotic conversation.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Hi there ....we r seeking someone special for the lady.

Jay is now ready to find her bi side with the right couple  .. someone who is sensual ...elegant and as sexy as herself would however have to include the male partner as thats what she enjoys it would have to be a fmf or mfmf ....we will upload new pics soon ...just had some very sexy piercings done  ;-)

She is seeking someone who is realy very well hung , thick and pref is cut . Someone over 6 foot ....non pushy character...someone who is chilled and dd free. Please have pics as proof ...we have had a lot of time wasters with fake profile pics ...she is very busty ....trim slim figure and orally talented ;-)

I wont take part ...prefer to watch her enjoying her self ;-)

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

Thank you for reading our profile. We are young at heart and physically very active We are happily married and have a relatively healthy sex life. We play with single guys that we feel comfy with. Couples more than welcome. Single guys above 40 preferred and please guys if you are married don't say you are single on your profile, it always comes out! Mrs has a bi streak but Mr is as straight as an arrow. We can host as we don't have children living at home anymore, the Jacuzzi is a nice form of relaxation and sets the mood. Daytimes are out we are way to busy for weekday fun.  We prefer to play within our own ethnic origin.

Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

People please do not send us friend requests if you have not even spoken to us and a wink will get you blocked!!!! 

We have pics, so please ensure that you do have some pics for us to see.

Mrs is stilllooking for a guy,  but he MUST be willing to travel to ceres for fun. 

we are a young MIXED couple. She is clrd he is whte. If this is a problem move on! We are here to have fun, as you can see by our photos. We not looking for endless emails. If you don't meet cool, but don't lead us on a wild goose chase for nothing. 

We are looking for a lady to join us, Mrs is looking to have her first bi experience. Couples are welcome, guys we will contact YOU!

Want to know more, feel free to contact us. 

Dnt bother to contact us if you are not in the western Cape or plan on traveling to the Western Cape any time soon. 

Chat soon!

6835, Ceres, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa

I am a fun guy with experience in the lifestyle. I am easy to get along with and love helping people achieve their fantasies! I am trustworthy, D&D free and know how to treat a lady with respect, unless she asks for something else ;-) I love interacting on every level of the lifestyle from just chatting to watching, being watched, flirting, touching, tasting, all the way to full swap and etc ;) I want to explore and test my boundaries but I also like the simple stuff too. I don't judge anyone for who they are or what they want :)

I love the lifestyle but I'm very cautious.

Been in the lifestyle for a while and am happy to respond to msgs if anyone is looking for advice etc.

Only interested in people who practice safe sex, no glove no love ;-)

I am very much straight but don't have a problem at all with bi/gay people.

My partner is not aware of my profile, I'm just here to stay in touch with the lifestyle in the event she wants to re-visit it.

Cape Town
Couple seeking Firendships with Play Potential -
We are a fit and healthy mature couple, and although not entirely new to the lifestyle, are beginners in terms of wanting to meet couples in search of play potential. We are neither depraved or desperate and would only play once comfort and connection have been discovered and developed, so if getting to know people is as much an interest as getting it on with them, please take a look at our profile and drop us a mail. xxx
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Heya -
Hi. Im a tall attractive white guy. I hv blonde hair and blue eyes. Im in the medical field and im fit n clean. REMOVED BY ADMIN..Mike
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700
Who wants to play -
We are a new swinging couple looking to make like minded friends near us. And maybe more.
Somerset West, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
New to the scene -
Hi, We are a married couple in our late 20's who would like to experiment in Swinging. We are currently looking for Swinging parties and clubs to start out at. We are both interested in threesomes and same room sex. We are both adventurous and enjoy bringing excitement into the bedroom. Any advice is welcome. Hope to see you soon.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

Open minded fun couple 

That loves trying new thinks in life, We are looking for like minded people to have sexy fun with.

We prefer couples and single ladies, single men will be considered tho.

Discretion and cleanliness a must...

Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140


We are only intrested in people that have respect for themselves are can enjoy a conversation and drinks.

Are shaven and clean and not just wants to jump in bed and respects the lady 

We are mostly intresed in just having fun and if theres a conection you never now

Conection between all are of value for us

Planning are needed to escape our daily routine and we like to get wild now and then LOL

We prefer to keep it at 3 as we find it much more fun an it mingles and are more relaxed for us,we did not yet find a lady for the wife and she is very keen on exploring but as we all now its not that easy to find.We are still open to couples as long as theres a connection.

If you are a guy and think our ego and muscles are very important and forgot to consentrate on manners and being a gentleman please pass

To be nice and have respect is what are important to us 

7200, Hermanus, Greater Hermanus, Overberg District Municipality, Western Cape, South Africa

we are a happily married couple - very new to the scene. Keen to meet other newbies and see where it leads. Unfortunately not prepared to cross the colour line. No single or bi/gay men to contact us please.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7550

We are a happily married couple that have been together for many years. We are just looking for occassional fun to spice up our sex life. We are not looking for anything particular, we will take the moment when it excites us. Sorry we don't go over the ethnic boarder and we are not into pushy or forward people.

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

I have lots of swinging experience with couples & singles. I am super clean & only practice safe sex. I don't drink, I don't smoke & I don't take drugs. I am not into anything illegal or weird. I gym 6 x per week and I am sex fit. I prefer super long sessions lasting 2-4 hours. I am clean shaven including chest & back.  I live in Cape Town and travel around SA most months.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Lets make this happen.

My PlayPartner Giggles And I are her for some Playdates and fun . 

We Play together and On our Own . So chat to Use and lets see if we can have some play time.

We like to Play and to play with others so Lets Meet and Make the connection to get the party Started.

Ok here goes. I am More of a practical hands on kind of guy. Like Working with my hands, 
Just a little about me:
I work with my hands, creative, deep thinker, outdoors, nature, animals, camping, business, a sexual creature, adventure, dance, extreme outdoor off-road sports.
I work hard and like to unwind to have fun, to be naughty when I am unleashed from that.
I like to dress up and look good when I go out.

I'm naughty but nice. Gentleman that can take control if it is wished apon. 

I'm DTF also no strings attached. We sexual creatures needing great feelings to come over us. 

Life is like a box of chocolates - you never know what you going to get till you take a bite. 

Let's take next step. You know what to do.

The mystery is cool.

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


I'm Shawn

I'm here to meet up with couples and ladies, those who want to enjoy sexual experiences. 

I live but once , I'm having the time of my life and a rush ride of note. I have no hangups, age is a number and women of bigger stature drives me wild. Respect and the ladies pleasure are the the most important points that I adhere to. I work hard in my professional life and  I play even harder. I keep fit and I like to push my body to the limit, adrenaline keeps me alive. If your looking for a carefree spirited guy, I'm that guy .

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
weekend sex -
im horny col who loves fucking. Any white horny tops or vers interested to cum all over me. You can make me your slut and invite your friends over to come and dick me. Chems welcome. Rate neg.
7140, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

About me: I am a reasonably fit muscular built professional male,

I appreciate honesty, loyalty and expect to be treated with the same respect that I treat you. I always make the most of the cards I'm dealt and I am passionate about life.! I am easy going and fun-loving with a wicked sense of humour. 

I can host.  My picture is available by email once we have contacted through the site.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my
profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Oudtshoorn, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Thank you for viewing our profile...

About us:

We are in our late 20's & fairly new to this experience  |  We are a down to earth couple who has been together for 7 years & seeking to explore our sexual desires with a female or perhaps the right couple  |  believe in fun, chemistry, cleanliness & discretion.

We do not:

Play alone (always together)  |  cross racial barrier  |  NO SINGLE MALES

If you like what you see, send us a message & we will be in contact :kiss:

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Easy going person who loves to have fun and laugh, and shows respect, fit and keeps in shape..

All you fakes out there please don't bother contacting me, and as for one liners contact, really,

use your imagination please!

Take a chance and lets 'Plug it in'

Hermanus, Western Cape, 7200
Fucking machine -
Good day all. I am looking for someone to use my fucking machine on cam here on SH no strings attached. I will bring it to your place and collect it again the next day or whenever it suits you. It really is not a big unit at all , not much bigger than a shoe box. Lokking forward to hearing from you soon. Thanks for taking the time to read my add.
Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

We are on a quest to find exceptional people to explore with on a physical level, people with whom we share a similar outlook and chemistry...fellow epicureans. Our aim is to have an adventure without changing the status quo, to share and live out mutual desires and fantasies. Activity partners we can trust and who add benefit across the spectrum.

We are not particularly looking for Mensa candidates however a quick wit and a good understanding of the mechanism of life, and a pleasing dollop of savoir-faire would be appreciated. We do believe that good communication as well as a high degree of honesty and openness is at the root of any successful undertaking and so from our side we certainly endeavour to live up to that maxim.

Physical chemistry is paramount however we don't have a specific idea of the physical attributes that we are looking for as experience tells us that attraction comes in surprisingly different forms.

We prefer interactions where we are both present. If you are not willing to engage with both of us (her AND him), then refrain from contacting. Health and regard for personal hygiene and safety are of very high importance. No smokers, dimwits or pushy types who get ahead of themselves.

We will ask if we want to see your images of an explicit nature, until such time keep them to yourself.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

i prefer ladies older or young than me and i luv romance ,adult parties ,threesomes

8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm a fit sporty guy, well travelled and all rounded. I'm very sexual, open minded and always up for new experiences.....

Happy hunting guys

8001, Vredehoek, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Looking for a FRIEND? -
Single. Great Sense of humour positive enjoy life love touching love kissing Not to mention foreplay ....plenty ... plenty... lets meet and see what is to short.. Must have a great sense of humour ..happy in his own skin and happy with me in my minded persons please....
Uitzicht, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Just looking for some fun, luv to watch and I love to pleasure. hope I can help you.

Sedgefield, Knysna, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi I am a 42 year old professional male ....divorced

I am well groomed and clean

A gentleman who shows respect

I am new to this lifestyle and am now looking for fun

Not looking for a one night stand but rather a friendship will couples or single females who share the same mindset as myself 

not really an outgoing person a bit on the shy quiet side until a friendship develops 

Ladies and couples let's get chatting and see where it leads

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7100

Young professional seeking discreet encounters in and around cape Town.

I am fun and adventurous open minded guy. Love the outdoors and motorcycling.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001