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I have reached a stage in my life where I realise that there is so much more that I can give to as well as learn from other people and I'm not holding back! I'm so excited at the thought of all the endless possibilities and experiences waiting for me out there!

I am super clean, respectful and discreet and and I'm not in it just for the fuck... and I prefer who I'm fucking to have a bit of intellect and charm... I am very creative and have a great sense of humour so you should be well entertained in many ways. icon_wink.gif

If you share my vision then I would love to hear from you...

Big Yeti

Somerset West, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Ladies, let's meet, eat and just enjoy ourselves, explore new things and pleasures
7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Let me be perfectly honest here:  I'm not here to make friends.  This is a sex site and that's what I'm looking for. I am in a very happy, yet sexless marriage. That's all you need to know. If this bothers you I suggest you walk away right now.

Because my intelligence is above average I can also hold a decent conversation. My sense of humour is a blend of Billy Connolly, Douglas Adams, Rowan Atkinson, Terry Pratchett, Eddie Murphy, Robin Williams, Eddie Izzard, Mad Magazine, Barry Hilton and genetics. My musical tastes have been described as eclectic - I call it I like a little bit of a lot.

I am looking to meet with non-smoking women. Or at least, women who can handle not smoking while they're around me.  Looks are not that important. Of prime importance is your mind, that you enjoy sex and you don't mind the fact that I'm married.

I like boobs, I like giving and receiving oral sex, I like toys for ladies. I don't like pain, anal sex (a real pain in the arse) and people who don't keep their word. I am available mostly during the day, however I could make the odd plan here and there. Weekends are out.

Let's meet over a coffee (who needs alcohol anyway?), chat, share a few laughs and see where it goes from there.

One last thing:  If I take the trouble to contact you and invite you for a coffee, please have the decency to write a reply, even if you aren't interested.  It is, after all, just good manners, n'est pas? I promise I won't bug you after that.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7708
call me if interested reali into milf's bbw and have a lil foot fet and anything else else you would like a young hot stud
Oudtshoorn, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa
I have a very very high sex drive. I need someone to satisfy my needs and to keep up in bed. looking forward to be hearing from you. Regards Jake
Paarl, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi all, i am a male who who is looking to meet up with like minded people ( couples or ladies) who share in thesame sexual adventures and embrace this lifestyle. i have no hang ups and am not looking to find that "special person" here but just to enjoy this amazing lifestyle with others.
Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Arabian ,, Is my Style

single women & couples are welcome. They always say Arab has the biggest dick, im sure its absolute right!

Consider my self very sexy, attractive and knows how to turn women crazzy!

I always leave a *naughty* thought behind and always asked to meet again.guess I'm funny!decent! Or may be knows how to touch and tease (sure also knows how to put my big dick in,lol).

I know how to get out the wild side of her. Love to turn her crazy till she can't take it any more.

Let's give it a try and you will never forget this experience.

Please no Gays or bi guys unless there are a woman involved .im straight but if you got a sexy lady then I will let u watch! And fantasies about it.


Cape Town, Western Cape

I've had some very selective adventures through this site over the past few months, most of which have been wonderful. I've decided to try something different! I'm looking for a really well endowed man. If you are small or medium, don't respond, I want someone big!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Always looking for fun and adventure and always keen to meet new people.

Have a few friends in this lifestyle and have had good experiences. Keen to have more and meet fun hot people who are keen on enjoying life.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7925

We are a white middle aged couple looking for fun. Ages 59 (male) and 53 (female). We are not into bi male or bi females. We do mingle with single guys and single ladies. Meaning single ladies we mean married ladies as well. If you are picture hunters please forget us. All ages welcome. Cleanliness, discretion and respect is very important. Don't make an appointment if you not going to turn up. If we ever give somebody our phone nr you will speak to Hendrik and not Zelda. Whenever arranging a meeting arrangements will be done with Hendrik. IF YOU DONT HAVE ANY PUBLIC PICS ON YOUR PROFILE DON'T INVITE US. DONT ASK TO SEE OUR PRIVATE ALBUM IF YOU DONT HAVE XXRATED PICS YOURSELF. PLEASE TAKE NOTE IF A SINGLE GUY MAKE AN APPOINTMENT AND DONT TURN UP WE WILL BLOCK YOU PERMANENTLY.


Cape Town, Western Cape, 7550

Hi there thanx for viewing my profile.I am into watching ladies play and even couples.would like to meet up for a dogging somewhere in the near future. Would really love to experiment 

Would like to meet up with ladies that can show me how they squirt..... My biggest fantasy 

Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7600

Orally addicted.....are you sweet?

When it comes to sex, I have long since learned that you only get out of it what you are prepared to put in, so you can be sure that I like to please. I also have a passion for giving oral, the smell and taste of a woman is a big turn on for me. Sexy lingerie is my other big turn on, I just love a lady in silky stockings.

I am well educated, extremely well traveled and also athletic. I have a preference for slender ladies, but that said, I know that there is more to a women that the shape of her body. I adore long legs, even more so when they are clad in silky stockings

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I am single I wan NSa fun with women if you down invite me on whatsapp or mxit at 0718607434

for private chat

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7808

First off, I'm in the chatroom a lot of the time, would love it if you drop me a whisper and just chat, really like chatting to ladies, couples and to an extent guys as well. 

looking for someone to have discreet friends with benefits type of relationship, anything goes as far as I'm concerned. Not looking to cross the racial lines, my preference. Also discretion of the utmost importance is required as I am married but not happily, hence me being on this site. Will not judge anyone and expect not to be judged, and will appreciate anyone who is in a similar position to make contact, even if we only keep it online.  Not looking to fall in love, not looking to be fallen in love with, this is purely physical, nothing else. Oral sex as well as anal sex would be preferable as well as to just watch a couple have a go at it. I might not have the biggest cock around, but I do know my way around a ladies body, for I do consider myself an unselfish lover... Looking for a lady or couple to become good friends with, whether online or not.

Montagu, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi im a young single male. This is my first time ever trying something like this. I am a fun guy thats full of excitement. I can keep up a good conversation. And like to try new things. I am shy in the beginning but when a start to get to know the person i get fun. I love outdoors. I live for sports and love to go to the gym and be active.

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We a young married couple fun at heart had some experince in the swinging life looking for a fun down to earth and respect full couple. Not forcefull and willing to take it slow to get wife at easy. No singel men pls

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

Young Vibrant and energetic. Looking to meet new and interesting people. Who knows what might happen.

If I do pluck up enough courage to send you a message. Please have the decency to reply to it. Even if it is just a straight "No".

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405
Hi Thanx for reading my profile. I'm part of a couple and mrs also swings occasionally. I don't work in Gordons bay so I'm not always available.
Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140
I'm a fit student looking for someone I can have fun with both physically and mentally. Looking for more an ongoing thing or FWB situation. I mean if the experience was good why only have it once. I love women of all ages given you are well kept and fit. Im also more that willing to exchange some more pics after some proper dialog
Bellville, Western Cape, 7530

Looking for nothing but new adventures and fun times:) all about expanding my circles and experiencing new things!

Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7600

I'm brought to my knees by witty banter and raw intelligence. 

My legs quiver and part through delicious engagements with mature, Alpha Males who present strong masculine presence, have gentle awareness of their feminine power yet is suited with old school charm and firm sexual confidence. 

Please know that egoic dominance I don't find indulgent - there is a huge distinction between that and masculine presence.

I prefer sensual, connected sex over entertainment fucking.

                                                             Sapiosexual.                Feminine Fairy.          Exhibitionist.               Submissive

                                    Height: 1.58 cm.               Bra size: 38 DD.              Dress size: 14/38.                 Weight: 83 kg.                 Foot size: 6

"There is a kind of sex that she is longing for that seems elusive. While you may fantasize about fucking her anally, your favorite porn position, or coming across her tits, she fantasizes about overwhelming passion, feeling ravenously desired, having her soul penetrated by a man's gaze, being touched by expert hands that seem to know her body better than she knows it herself. Her heart melting and her pussy on fire. She fantasizes about getting so turned on in every cell of her body that she explodes into the most powerful orgasm she's ever had the moment she is penetrated with that very first thrust."

 - The Evolved Lover, Destin Gerek

7441, Bloubergstrand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Looking for someone not so uptight to have a little fun with happy.gif

edit: please I am not looking to jump straight in and meet you after 3 messages!! I am not desperate, don't try your luck

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Thank you for reading our profile. We are young at heart and physically very active We are happily married and have a relatively healthy sex life. We play with single guys that we feel comfy with. Couples more than welcome. Single guys above 40 preferred but not the rule, and please guys if you are married don't say you are single on your profile, it always comes out! Mrs has a bi streak but Mr is as straight as an arrow. We can host as we don't have children living at home anymore, the Jacuzzi is a nice form of relaxation and sets the mood. Daytimes are out we are way to busy for weekday fun.  We prefer to play within our own ethnic origin.

Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
We are looking to chat with a coloured or indian guy who has the following qualities (at the ladies request): be between 20-30's, well built, "tight ass" as she says, very well hung, able to chat on whatsapp in the evenings. Outside of Cape town is ok, as long as you can chat on whatsapp. She also wants her Master to direct the conversation, so you should be open to being submissive and be comfortable with some touching by all involved. My friend is mature, very sexy red head, busty and very very open minded..
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Biker wanting nsa fun, enjoy long foreplay and really enjoy multi-orgasmic women.

Western Cape, 7160
Single cd, non scene, ultra discreet, looking for a 'straight/bi' masculine male for regular fun times.
8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm simple and easy going. Enjoy chatting and making friends. I'm very flexible and adaptable.

I'm a curious soul wanting to experience as much as I can.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I'm am very straight.
Looking to meet up with straight ladies and couples looking for a straight single guy.
I am NOT married or in a sexual relation with anybody.

I do have a house mate that stay with me, so discretion is very important and unfortunately I can not host.
Contact me if you serious.
Please no pushers, I need to be comfortable and want to meet you first.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
iv travelled to several various countries aiming to sleep with women, couples in each, i have succeeded so i thought to bring it back home and have some fun with my fellow locals. straight guy looking to have fun with either gay or bi female couples, straight women or even bi women. im quite well hung drop me a message if youre keen.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001
Looking for an attractive couple for same room fun in the Southern Suburbs. Must have pics, and be close to us. Preferably able to host.
7806, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi....We are a mixed couple,he is 42 year old coloured guy and she is a 36 year old white lady.We are an adventurous married couple who like to explore our sexuality with each other and possibly with the right couple or lady.Unfortunately not looking for single gents at the moment.

We are just your regular couple next door and have stable jobs,kids and the same responsibilities like most people.

Not really into the 'lifestyle' of swinging but do like to share our fantasies with each other and explore them within safe boundaries.NO drugs and NO pain.

We do not discriminate on ethnicity but more on whether we have made a connection with like-minded people.

If you like what you read and find us even remotely interesting,feel to drop us a message....say Hi...don't just peek..

Have fun

Mr and Mrs Unicorn_hunter

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7435

Once upon a time there was a handsome young man and a sexy younger woman; they found each other while traveling the world. They fell in love and decided to go on a magical sexual journey only to find that there was this intriguing and alluring world out there referred to  as ‘the lifestyle’

Their curiosity was piqued; they packed their ropes, their toys and assorted paraphernalia and embarked on the journey of finding this magical place.

As they walked along this intriguing path they found some winks, friend requests and some just senseless messages with photos from some two legged animals who thought they were a new species. Their brains lodged between their legs keeping their genitalia company.

This made them realize that it was going to be a long but also interesting journey to get to that magical place by way of Swinging Heaven.

And as they progressed along their path they met some very interesting & naughty couples, ravishingly delicious single ladies and eager to please gentlemen. Some they would enjoy as friends and some they would enjoy a whole lot more … And sadly some they would much rather forget.

At last they found this little piece of heaven and they were so over joyed that they build their very own magical B&S (bed with sex) fairy castle and celebrated it with a new found group of mff and mfff friends.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


We are looking for a fun couple or/and single female who would like to hang out. We like getting naked and naughty.

This would include same room sex sessions and soft swinging. We are very chilled, love a good conversation but love sex more LOL.

Time is always a problem for us so please be patient if we don't respond immediately. Please bear in mind discretion is a priority for us.

PS. We are colored :)
PS. We are not looking for perfect people just decent.

PS. We like threesomes/foursomes/moresomes

PS. Anyone excited about the Superman VS Batman movie?

PS. We like pizza.

PS. No playing in summer is a bummer.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Western Cape, 7764

Married open minded couple

We are 41 and 31 years old, no longer twinks, no longer young and cute, but sure as hell not over the wall.. We are just a down to earth, often misunderstood, average looking gay couple. Seeking similar like minded guys for whatever crosses our paths. We are incredibly proud of who we are, for every laugh line, wrinkle and scar that we have... it's taken us a long time to just accept that there are things we can't change, and also things that we can change.

We don't go to clubs and bars.....instead we like to just relax at home with good friends.



Bellville, Western Cape, 7530

We are a happily married couple that have been together for many years. We are just looking for occassional fun to spice up our sex life. We are not looking for anything particular, we will take the moment when it excites us. Sorry we don't go over the ethnic boarder and we are not into pushy or forward people.

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN, messages or chats

We are interested in a Straight Female or a Bi Female  ...............

We have been part of this lifestyle for 8 Years. We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! 

We’re  a Non-pushy, easy-going, relaxed couple (she cute, petite, high sex drive and bi-curious), (he Averge Build ) loving and playful. We are a down to earth couple and honest so please no bullshitters! We only play together. We are respectful and we play by woman's rule .We don't have any hang ups and we are not here for a one night stand but for longterm friendship with sexy friends.We are seeking mainly [b]Straight Female or a Bi Female companion[/b] (18 to 40 ) for some hot sexy times. We can host, only weekends. We like a nice evening where a lady come visit us in jeans and t Shirt no dress up because we are a plain couple and like to keep things simple. We like a nice chat and allot of laughs have a braai drink a few drinks or wine and just relax and be yourself. We like it intense and slow.

If you feel like chatting , feel free to reply and lets chat.
Hope to hear from you soon.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Worcester, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm a clean, well groomed male looking for a good time. Willing try anything once, very experimental and open minded. I enjoy pleasing, more than I do being pleasured. I also enjoy sextexting and if you willing to share a pic with you, I'll be more than happy to return the favor. I'm respectful (or so I've been told) I treat women and people in general the way would like to be treated. Tand even though I know what I like, and what gets me going, I'm always up for sugestions or a compromise ... So if you intrested, feel free to drop me a line, I look forward to hearing from you.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

hi ~ We are absolute beginners just dipping our toes in the water... for some fun, some flirting, some fantasy... and perhaps if there's the right chemistry with the right couple we may be tempted to explore further. Sorry if that sounds a little too soft and slow for the more seasoned out there, but for now we are content to just wriggle our toes in the shallow end...

just a little P.S or two as we don't want to splash on anyone's feelings but...

please no single guys

to the more seasoned folks out there. sorry but we're not going to meet and jump into action straight away. we're wriggling our toes remember. please understand & respect this and no one will be disappointed or feel that they're wasting their time with us... thanks ;-)

Cape Town, Western Cape

We are still very new at the lifestyle and not looking to swop first time around

Same room rule applies and just having fun.

Hope to meet a easy, fun, out going couple as well as respectable.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for

study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam

or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be

considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Hi there, easy going and laid back with a nawty streak.....

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

Need a nympho lol. Just a fun sexual girl for nsa descreet encounters. Maybe make it a regular thing

Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140

How many people actually read a persons profile, in my experience not many..........

I am a single lady enjoying the lifestyle and all it offers on her terms. Not going to bother listing a story on my likes and dislikes, its counter productive and honestly, have you read this far. As in any sphere of life, there are only two essential requirements that work's for me and that is MUTUAL RESPECT and MANNERS. If you don't have them, then move along.

Durbanville Hills, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We married for 23yrs and feel its time to xplore whatever fantasies we suppressed all these yrs,its our time to live!
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

Fun Love and laughter , enjoy life to the fullest, We are a white mature fun loving , clean healthy afrikaans couple with a wonderful relationship who want to meet with like minded couples, we are excited to have the utmost adventure of a lifetime, . We love to camp, braai enjoy a glass of wine , fireplace, outdoors and passion ... the rest you have to find out ......

Western Cape, South Africa

lovely slimmish couple. WANT NEW ADVENTURES AND WILLING TO LEARN. man happy to watch and will participate if ladies happy. WE ARE PROFESSIONAL WHITE COUPLE AND LIVING CLOSE TO Saldanha sms and chat and then decide. no single gents sorry

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Hi there all you sexy people,

We are a loving, clean, professional couple who are very committed to each other. We love experiencing new adventures and enjoy having fun. 

Swinging is an added extra in our lives which we do not over indulge in. We are selective and would never compromise our relationship in any way. We are open and honest with each other about what we want, which has enhanced our relationship in many ways. We have children and enjoy indulging discretely. When we indulge we always do so together - our pleasure comes from seeing each other's pleasure -- TOGETHER OR NOT AT ALL.


Single Ladies, Bi-Curious Ladies, Bi Ladies & Unicorns are all very welcome!!!


We will NOT exchange naughty pics, Contact details e.g. WhatsApp, accept Friend Requests unless we have exchanged some messages and FACE PICS here and we know each other better.

We will also NOT share anyone's info/pics/videos with anyone else at anytime, EVER! We expect the same in return!


Pig and Bunny 

Southern Suburbs, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a white couple looking to explore a little

Come say "Hi

The aim is to create a safe environment where we can explore with a select few friends and this might take some time to establish trust as we don't just let anyone (and drama) into our lives. We rock each others worlds and don't need any replacements, but merely someone that can add to our already awesome relationship.

one never knows

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Western Cape, South Africa

We are a coloured couple interested in same room sex. We want to spice up our sex lives and enjoy life to the fullest. Very down to earth and like the simple things in life. Wife is bi curious. We don't swing alone and do everything together. No single guys need contact us.

Vredenburg, Western Cape, 7380

We are a genuinely polyamorous couple who enjoy a wonderful relationship unburdened by selfishness and petty jealousies, and enhanced with totally open and honest communication. We enjoy testing our boundaries by exploring exciting new adventures with each other and with others, as a couple and alone. While we both enjoy exciting sexual experiences, highly sensual ones with regular playmates is definitely our preference.j

The lady is exactly that, a true lady with class who is highly sensual & truly bisexual. When she moves into the sexual exploration mode she is more deviant then he is and he can be very deviant. She is a beautiful curvaceous woman who knows how to move and work that gorgeous body of hers. The profile says she is 39 because she looks much younger than her actual age of 48.

The gentleman is a perfect gentleman in every sense of the word. He considers himself bi -friendly at this point of his evolution in sexuality. Being a typical male he is always horny while appreciating & indulging in the beauty & sensuality of the female body. He is constantly seeking exciting new frontiers to conquer. While his looks and profile age indicate 49, in the spirit of total honesty he is a very fit 59 years young.

Although this couples profile is new, we are not new to the site and lifestyle. We have a good network of close friends & have decided to expand it by seeking other couples & singles to join us. We look forward to new friendships & adventurous exploration..

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa