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smashingduo (Straight Male - 50) , smashingduo_2 (Bisexual Female - 49)

No single men ! Single guys, whilst we are flattered with the attention and amused by your demands, please respect the fact that we are not interested in chatting to you via email or in private chat, please keep it to the chat Room. We do feel for the genuine guys with manners and respect (few and far between) .. we do chat to singles but please let it be us that initiates the contact We a fun loving couple who have been in the lifestyle for quite some time We are spontaneous, honest, issue free and both live life to the full. If you are visiting the Garden Route, please drop us a mail as we would love to meet you, we would also love to receive party invites as we love to travel. We do spend a lot of time in Johannesburg, Cape Town and KZN due to work and private commitments.. We are a happy, totally laid back and at ease with our sexuality and we are looking to share, sensual intimate, fun filled evenings or weekends with the right couple. We enjoy sensual evenings which involve flirting, touching, feeling, soft swap or full swap. There is no written script and we like to just go with the flow and respect everyone's wishes and boundaries. Chemistry plays a huge role when we meet people, we like spontaneous and confident people who are able to be themselves . Of course there has to be a physical attraction but brains, manners, respect and a good sense of humour go a long way on their own.

Persephone_1 (Bisexual Female - 48)

I am a confirmed bisexual libertine, not interested in your race, age issues, if you prefer none hirsute and I am particularly not interested if you don't know what that means. I am here to enjoy what I enjoy; in me you will find exactly what I say I am, lets hope I will find what I seek Please read the profile, inbox me; However, please don't even contact me if you married or in a committed relationship, where she or he is waiting for a ring on left hand and knows not of your penchant for all things sexual , on that I am not negotiable, all else invite me and let the non emotional, no strings attached exploration commence. ps. if you have no manners, and cannot treat me like a lady, don't expect me to be interested in you, its been said "a lady in the street, but a (you know what), in the bedroom". I enjoy sex, am vocal about my enjoyment and am open to most suggestions, keep the lines of communication open and we are sure to have an incredible experience.

Vaughn (Bisexual Male - 39)

Chilled guy looking for fun with my age or younger...always keen, so drop me a line if your interested.

bekkie_1 (MRS) (Straight Female - 42) , bekkie_1_2 (MR) (Straight Male - 54)

We are a white couple and seek white straigt couples NO mixed races to join us for 4somes and we seek single guys for 3somes . SINGLE GIRLS ages between 45 and 55 for hubby and please no BI- FEMALES . ONLY people from OUR ETHNICH ORIGIN we would love if you guys are in OUR age range. Please guys we are serious about this. We would love to meet you guys first and become friends and see where it go from there. It count for single guys, couples and single ladys.. We have 2 children and we must be very discreet and we can only play on weekends. Hope we hear from you and that you guys respect our rules. Guys we don't play with married men WITHOUT there wifes and lady's we don't play with married women please .So don't even reply . If YOU ARE INTERESTED PLEASE READ OUR PROFILE AND THEN REPLY.

Simon_Templar (Straight Male - 42)

I'm a married professional guy in an upper middle/senior management position. I'm here alone and therefor discretion is extremely important to me. I'm of a slim/medium/athletic (whatever you want to call it) build, no facial hair, and clean. I can play during the daytime and I'm serious about meeting people, if I only intended to look at naked pics, I could surf porn. I do realise that most couples on here are not interested in a profile like mine though, but unfortunately that's my reality. Oh and please be kind enough to respond to a message, even if it's just to say "bugger off". Oh and I do travel quite often (mostly to Gauteng, but not exclusively) so I am happy to chat to people from other provinces as well.

Tink (Bi-curious Female - 37)

Smart cheeky confident and passionate Dutchie with a love for wit, good conversation and connection is looking for awesome humans to share exciting experiences. Would love to meet people with whom I connect for great conversation, laughs, long lingering kisses and lots of sex. Looking for something regular - no hook ups.

TandC (Him) (Straight Male - 47) , TandC (Her) (Bisexual Female - 39)

Just being sexy confidence....oh....lets play. Not into cyber sex...prefer the real deal. Do not chat/mail us if you are in another country/province and do not plan to visit Cape Town soon - please ;) We are SWINGERS and would like to meet people...not just chat or pic swapping. AND: yes, we do meet together, ALWAYS...a lot of the single guys on here wants to have 1 on 1 fun with me (lady)...I am not interested, he will sometimes give me some alone time with singles, but it always end up as a 3some - thanks - and if you do not know how swinging works, please Google it. I am not here to teach you how to have sex. My husband is straight. Girls - we will treat you with respect and give you the time of your life! That said and done - we are very relaxed, social people, who appreciate good food and wine....nothing like a good braai and a warm jacuzzi. Unfortunately we do not play during the day - and guys, please please please shave your pubic hair...

Garthwelsh (Straight Male - 34) , Garthwelsh_2 (Straight Female - 34)

Hi all we are fairly new to all this, we are a decent upmarket couple looking for similar couples. We prefer to take things slow and we also prefer that single men do not contact us unless we put a add up for that. We love to visit Sandy Bay so feel free to contact or join us in the summer. We are Afrikaans speaking and reside in Somerset west and can host, hope to hear from some nice couples. And please: any " I would like to know more" messages will be ignored, that's just insulting considering your effort... Guys that play without their spouses knowledge is not our type sorry, we are not breaking up couples.

mishelley (Transvestite Straight Male - 32)

Hi there, thank you for taking the time to read my profile! please dont contact me if you not in Cape town or coming to cape town NOO, your eyes don't deceive! I am a guy that looks much hotter in a dress and stilettos! I have been experimenting with cross dressing for most of my life. I am looking to explore my femininity and am open to most experiences. I would prefer to experiment with an open minded couple but am not completely closed to the idea of and daring single guy. Sing ladies more than welcome too!! I don't do cyber sex, so if you not in Cape Town or planning a trip to Cape Town don't waste yours and my time. I am looking for real life encounters, no once off wam bams! Hope to hear from you!

Maxtunx (Straight Male - 42)

ABOUT ME So........... I'm up for a bit of fun and chatting. I am easy going and like to meet people to chat with and have fun. interested in online chat or email. a bit of spice

Only genuine ppl from Table View area.

Okay, so we have not had any luck with above spec. Unbelievable, yes but true all the same. If you are not from the Table View area, not single or a married couple, not available at most reasonable times, do not have your own venue, like pain in any form, are not older than 30 and younger than 55, have a name for your dick or your profile name relates to a dick or dick size or you advertise a monster dick, do not contact us. We are serious and are obviously looking for a normal everyday kind of guy or couple who is honest and has a personality for long term friendship. We prefer to communicate on Wechat or Whatsapp. We expect a normal FB type pic for ours in return. We are not hardcore swingers and we dont go to parties. Simmilar cpls are also welcome. We are a 40+ cpl with kids and a very active social life with braai and rugby saturdays the norm. We gym but do not fall into the "gym body" cat and are not interested or impressed by it although some shape and size is important as is hygiene, health and cleanliness. Damn thats a lot.

charger (Straight Male - 49)

Just here to have some fun and make some new friends.....happy! I travel to JHB regularly.

cumon_summer (Straight Male - 60) , cumon_summer_2 (Bi-curious Female - 41)

Seems profiles should be updated and changed as required - - We want to meet so we are not keen on a multitude of messages, chatting, e-mails, cam or pic swapping - also anyone from outside reasonable travelling distance please do not bother contacting us. - If we arrange to meet and you do not pitch or change the arrangements - we will have fun without you -but do not expect to get another invite -We do not cross the color barrier and do not entertain during week days (Day time fun is a No no) - somebody has to work in this country - Males, couples and bi females more than welcome - Husband does not always join in but will be present - loves directing and the voyeuristic aspect of wife enjoying herself - Hope to hear from you soon

charln123 (Straight Male - 23)

hay im a young guy that is very willing for fun heheh i may be young but i heard thats what they want hehehe... I am actualy more atracted to any girl older than me if its a year or 20 do not matter to me just love it. im open for a lot of things so msg me and we can arrange something UPDATE: im realy horny most of the time so im always keen girls if you close call me i love to muff nothing in return i just love it. only watsapp REMOVED BY ADMIN

Flytime1000 (Straight Male - 52) , Flytime1000_2 (Bisexual Female - 38)

Hi There. We are sexually very active and have sex at least twice a day. We had our first threesome with another lady and loved it. We are both professional working people and plan to have a breakaway weekend with another woman at least once every two months. Looking for bisexual woman to have either a once off weekend or to cultivate a sexual relationship. Looking forward to hearing from you.

rm730 (Straight Male - 48) , rm730_2 (Bi-curious Female - 38)

Keen to experiment in most aspects of sexual fun. Possibly bi male also,

sampdp (Straight Male - 51)

Hi I am a retired man is now ready to embark on a new journey who: -values good friends and friendship -is comfortable with NSA aswell -enjoy visiting kruger park -has got a good sense of humour -can laugh at myself -is comfortable in my own skin -enjoys good conversation -has a zest for life -is discreet -is adventurous -loves fun with friends -has a naughty side ...when unleashed ....... -do like to experiment in bed ..and else where ... -can host during day time -is not into the gay scene ...sorry no offence intended -realy loves oral ..and good at giving -loves lots of foreply In conclusion I am new at this ...but excited thank you for taking the time viewing my profile looking forward to chat to you if you do so wish . if not interested ..i wish you well Regards S

Mr.Hotdog (Bi-curious Male - 30) , Ms.Hotdog (Bi-curious Female - 35)

NO SINGLE MEN !!!! We will only swing with couples and single bi-females. On the positive side, we don't care what age or shape you are, we are kinky like that. CHEMISTRY IS OUR ONLY CRITERIA....

couple seeking couple

We looking to meet single ladies or couples We are an open minded married couple, we are swingers and like to together with other couples who we can make friendships with. Please respect us as a couple Note: I do NOT meet men on my own! Hubby does not meet women alone dont even ask....we not looking for single men so please respect that guys.........


Here to see what life has to offer & the pleasures of it

Retro (Straight Male - 48) , Siren (Bisexual Female - 41)

We met online, back in the days of Erotic Personals. Jumped straight into the lifestyle and havn't looked back. Things have been rather slow for the last year or two because kids, but that too will change. So hi to all the many nice people we've met, and hi to all the nice people we're about to meet :-) (and hey peeps? On the friends thing? Those would be people we've actually met, and clicked with. Would love to have you all on there, but let's do it the fun way, OK?) Note: We're getting numerous requests from single guys in their early twenties. Dudes. Get A Life. You should be out there getting yourself a girlfriend, not here trying to score with married people old enough to be your parents. Go to your room! Get a haircut! Stay off my lawn!

VinceL (Straight Male - 42)

I recently moved to the atlantic seaboard and would like to meet new open minded people. Frienship is a plus. I prefer well travelled, well groomed and well read people. A sense of humour is just as important.

ctguy1978 (Straight Male - 37)

very well mannered, respect-full, descent Guy . Completely Straight. still looking for first MFM Well single dad so no real time for this. maybe if we in the same boat it could work. mines 5

barmax11 (Straight Male - 48)

Naughty but Nice !!!! Good looking & well hung married man looking for NSA naughty fun on the side with likeminded discrete married or "it's complicated " single ladies or those amazing adventurous couples who do not have hang ups and really enjoy having sexy fun. Most important is that we are serious horny adults who are clean & discrete and know what turns ourselves on and are living out our fantasies. Hope to meet , have a drink and some laughs and if there is that sexual chemistry then some very naughty but nice fun. Making discrete regular playmates is an added bonus

SssSuperStar (Straight Male - 37)

I am a straight forward person, comfortable with who I am, and a bit tired of complication in a relationship...I have never done this before, so I am very new to this, but I can't wait to explore the thrill that the thought leaves in my mind...

cptcouple1981 (Straight Male - 34) , cptcouple1982 (Bisexual Female - 33)

Hi all we are a happily married, young & professional couple. You can decide if we hot :), we are keen on 3 sums with women or being with couples. PLEASE NO! NO! SINGLE MEN!!!....we here 4 fun,no hang ups and complications, we are very discreet. Thank u..........

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ons is n couple wat nog nie regtig geswing het nie maar wil dit graag as n couple doen.en jammer geen single mans nie ons is n couple en doen dit as n couple

youngentleman (Straight Male - 30) , youngcpl_2 (Bi-curious Female - 31)

We a young married couple fun at heart had some experince in the swinging life looking for a fun down to earth and respect full couple. Not forcefull and willing to take it slow to get wife at easy. No singel men pls

missb (Straight Female - 33)

Hi guys thanks for visiting my profile. I am very new to this bt have realized that i would have to let u guys know what i am looking for. I dnt cross the ethnic line, sorry. I am looking for a white guy between the ages of 25 and 45 that are neat and clean. He must be willing to get to know me b4 it goes any further. The first meeting will me in public on my terms. I am a big beautiful woman and a bit shy at first . I love exploring and trying new thing. Would love to hear from u! Cant wait for ur interesting mail.

Luckylips (Gay Male - 53) , Luckylips_2 (Gay Male - 57)

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........???? We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups. Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer GWM - just personal taste. We are a very DTE couple.

Capeviking (Straight Male - 49)

Just looking for someone to have some good times with, in and out of the bedroom. If you are gymming or enjoy MTB riding it would just be a bonus


My first time around , a little nervous.

swartskaap (Straight Male - 33)

New to the lifestyle would love to meet up with like minded LADIES or COUPLES with straight male. NOT interested in Bi or GAY males

superpawnstar (Straight Male - 32)

Im looking for a lady who is confident in what she can and can not do. Not be shy to speak her mind when it comes to her fantasy and if she wants to try something. I am open minded wild card can hold a conversation on different levels and in a moment be as as crazy as can be. I'm lady's pleazer i love to be part of help you reach whatever you are wanting to achieve or do. So ladys couples feel free to get in touch with me im willing and able to assist as far as i am capable to do so. Please don't hesitate.... even if you just want to chat and make a possible friend will love that just as much. PS. If i can take the decenty to read your requirements and your hole profile and then do the effort to send you a mail at least have the decentsy to reply you did do the effort to read it seriously

devilish (Straight Male - 35)

hi i am a fun loving guy, who always likes to make new friends in the life style, who has very few taboos, if wink u interesting pls send me a msg. iam up for anything from meet and greets to mmf / dogging ect, ,

Collisons (Straight Male - 40) , Collisons_2 (Straight Female - 38)

About us We know what we want and what to expect out of this lifestyle and can smell bullshitters a mile away. We are not your cover model types but take good care of ourselves and have been told we are very easy and appealing to the eye. If you are just here for the pics...pass us by....SINGLE GUYS!!!! stay have automatically been blocked and dont even come with friend requests, even married men "playing" alone....we will look for you if and when the need arises. We also dont need anyone with hangups and issues like the woman is to shy to chat etc. You know what you are here for but nothing wrong with doing it with respect and tact. Also no control freaks works 50/50 with us or nothing at all!!! Please dont ask for pics if you do not have yourself or are not willing to exchange. Last but not least....WE ARE A MIXED COUPLE...He white and she mixed all the so called " stick to our race only" that keeps on checking out our profile....get a life as it is clear that one of you are not honest in your relationship and living a lie. So if you can relate to our description and us and let the fun begin.....MWAH !!!


we are a couple looking for down to earth couples, friendships first and foremost and lets see what happens from there..


I am a good looking male looking to join sexy couples for NSA fun.


30 something married colored couple looking for couples under 40yrs old for friendship with benefits and same room sex.We dont swop yet but love watching others have sex.We busy professionals so planning is essential and discretion a must.We can unfortunately not host.Would like get togethers/ braai which may end up with the ladies getting topless :-).Hubby likes curvy busty women and wifey likes boy-ish faced men.Wifey 36D and hubby loves boobies.Make contact if ure interested.lets play 28DF022D

happyfeet987 (Straight Male - 42)

I am done playing cat and mouse with endless messages that is going nowhere! I am a straight single male looking for a female that enjoys sex as much as I do…. Sex should be fun….. Love watching porn, playing pool, hang with friends, bla bla bla …. Let’s meet and hang out and decide from there…… if you are a bi-female it is a bonus....

MagicalHands (Straight Male - 36)

U having a good sense of humor and being extremely openminded will have my full attention Athletic build fit,healthy,respectful and disease free green eyed short black hair bilingual guy who loves the kinky rough yet gentle and sensual sexual side of life. All welcome to make contact with me, doesn't say we gonna end up in bed though as I'm a firm believer in mutual chemistry & attraction. If it comes to friendship I'm like a taxi...there's always room for more Thanks for taking the time to read my profile

hotjenkins82 (Straight Male - 33)

WELL ... I am single again ... so let the fun begin ... I consider myself a gentleman, I know how treat and respect another person. I have a witty sense of humor and are open-minded about life. I'm into anything if the mood is right. I love to explore my naughtier side which ever way it might go. ;) FYI: I don't really care for your automate WINK messages. Or profile with limited content. I am not here to waste anybodies time. If you are committed to meet up and see where things go ... so am I. I do have a few rules ... - ages: between 20-40 - race: Caucasian (sorry!) - not fuzzy about body types but expect you to be clean and well looked after. - no time wasters - ladies, if you are married I am not interested in being your "skelmpie" - R.E.S.P.E.C.T. is important. - Life is too short to not be open-minded :)

Giveme_Him (Straight Male - 42) , Giveme_Her (Bi-curious Female - 39)

Married couple wants to meet people who wants to live out their fantasies and have lots of fun... Lets chat, meet for drinks and see where it takes us. Long enough in the lifestyle to know what we want out of it....Hou van braai en net lekker kuier met stout gedagtes


Hi I am an experienced fetish BDSM Master. Looking for a long term cuckold relationship. Ideally male and female are submissive but very happy with a dominant hot wife too. First timers very welcome as are bi and bi-curious male couples. I'm a down to earth guy. Loves travel good food and wine. Just happens to have a few kinks. Respond now.

calidum (Straight Male - 47)

Orally addicted.....are you sweet? When it comes to sex, I have long since learned that you only get out of it what you are prepared to put in, so you can be sure that I like to please. I also have a passion for giving oral, the smell and taste of a woman is a big turn on for me. Sexy lingerie is my other big turn on, I just love a lady in silky stockings. I am well educated, extremely well traveled and also athletic. I have a preference for slender ladies, but that said, I know that there is more to a women that the shape of her body. I adore long legs, even more so when they are clad in silky stockings

Shawn (Straight Male - 38)

Hi Everyone About myself. I'm an outgoing and an adventurous person. I love the outdoors and keep fit by running and in the gym. I don't have any hangups at all. I can hold own in any kind of conversation and be silly too. I like ladies of the fuller figure and those who allows pleasure to be at the order of the day. I prefer to meet couples or single ladies and as the other parties meet to decide... So do I. I like the lifestyle but I do go about it respectfully, clean, responsibly and safe. I want to build a friendship based on that which have been mentioned. If love sex and want to please as I want to pleased, its a two way street. Text me if I do meet your fancy

senorita_mj (Straight Female - 37) , senorita_mj_2 (Straight Male - 35)

We are a young married, open minded, coloured couple in our mid 30's looking to explore our sexuality and meet exciting like minded couples. We are very discreet and respectful towards each other and will extend the same courtesy towards our friends willing to share the experiences with us. We look forward to meet and make new friends. So drop us a line and lets see where this leads....

Dboy69CT (Straight Male - 31)

Fun loving guy up for ... well... fun... Tho, good quality company always > a whole lotta fun! *NB... no airheads... a lil mental stimulation never hurts Get in touch...xx