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I am a tall average guy im fun to be with. I know how to treat a woman.

I have few fetishes but you would have to get to know me ro find out.

Im looking for a woman or a few friends who will help me explore my sexuality to the max.

So send me a message and lets see where Oros takes us.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Please READ our profile to make sure we meet your expectations as this will save us all time.

If you are a married guy and contacting us without your partner/wife's knowledge we will not reply to your messages.
We are a STRAIGHT couple looking for like minded couples.  Just to note that Mrs DOES SMOKE, so if that is a problem don't contact us  We been in the lifestyle for a while and would like to meet people who have the same interests. We have been married for years and want to spice up our life. We are quite adventurous and open to new experiences. We also want to mention that we are no swimsuit models - Mrs would call herself "pleasingly plump ",  and this goes for Mr as well, but size does not matter to us.

"PLEASE READ"  When you send us a mail please, include both partners cell phone numbers and most important take time to READ our profile, to make sure we meet your expectations as this will save us all time. We can then create a Whats-app group with both persons cell numbers as we chat together as like we play together . We will first read your profile and should we feel we have common ground we will take it further.  We can then meet and see where it goes. We like to make friends and if something more comes from it, all the better. For us it is more than just notches on the bed post or a quick jump into bed . The Lifestyle is and extension to our life's, We will not just except a friend request without first chatting to you via Whatsapp. Thanks for taking the time to read our profile.

PS , If intend u sending us a friend request then expected follow thru with it with a meet , if you do not follow thru, it is just a name with little meaning or use to anybody.

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

I am a down to earth non pushy person with a great sense of humor.

I love nature and obviously being outdoors is great.

Love fishing and playing golf but unfortunately due to age restrictions

I can now only watch rugby and cricket.

If there is anything you would like to know please feel free to ask.

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

Looking for some new friend(s). Would like to have a nice braai, going to Sandy Bay or similar. Would be great to meet single lady or nice couple. Like good company, a fire and something to drink.

7441, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Just being sexy confidence....oh....lets play. Not into cyber sex...prefer the real deal. Do not chat/mail us if you are in another country/province and do not plan to visit Cape Town soon - please wink . We are not skinny, but we do look after ourselves.

We are SWINGERS and would like to meet people...not just chat or pic swapping.  He will sometimes give me some alone time with singles, but it always end up as a 3some - thanks - and if you do not know how swinging works, please Google it. I am not here to teach you how to have sex. My husband is straight.

Girls - we will treat you with respect and give you the time of your life!

That said and done - we are very relaxed, social people, who appreciate good food and wine....nothing like a good braai and a warm Jacuzzi.

Cannot always host,  but do not mind travelling.

Unfortunately we do not play during the day - and guys, please please please shave your pubic hair...

Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7600

I am looking for NSA fun times. Someone/Couple who can hopefully keep up with a high sex drive and willing to try new things.

Western Cape, South Africa
looking for straight lady -
I'm single and straight male and looking for straight woman
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
NSA Encounters -
I am 35, and she is 28 - we are both bi-curious, hence the interest, Me black and her coloured - and we can host at my apartment in the City Bowl. We desire to meet bi-minded individuals so that we can eat, drink and pawn them. Hopefully mutual and pleasurable fornication will be the ultimate outcome - although the other other 3 things are perfectly adequate. That is all I can say at the moment - drop me a line to indicate your interest and see if we can take this further. Pretty much everything is on the table as far as sharing goes - both the thorough-bred filly and mare are available for riding (T&C apply though - did you think we are that easy?).
8005, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
hmmm advert.... -
lol i honestly have no idea what to put here but im a friendly guy any questions id be happy to share
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

Hi all We are a white married couple looking for other couple or single ladies for some swinging fun. We are into full swop. We only available mostly on saturday evenings and would love to have people over as we are able to host. We are not fussy. Once a couple contacts us we normally make a whatsapp group for the 4 of us and chat for 2 or 3 days. After that we find most are sure they want to go further. Once at our place we can have some snacks or a braai, jump in the jacuzzi and see what happens from there. Hubby is straight and wife is fully bi.. WE ARE LOOKING FOR 1 OR 2 OPENMINDED COUPLES TO ACCOMPANY AS AT A BDSM PARTY ON SATURDAY 28 JAN NOBODY WILL BE FORCED TO DO ANYTHING THEY DO NOT WANT TO DO THE ENTRANCE IS FREE. THERE WILL BE A JACUZZI A DARK ROOM AND A VOYEUR ROOM ASWELL AS A PRIVATE ROOM THIS IS FOR ANYBODY CURIOUS ABOUT THE LIFESTYLE FOR MORE INFO YOU ARE WELCOME TO SEND US A MESSAGE . WE HAVE ATTENDED MANY OF THESE PARTIES AND ITS A GREAT LEARNING EXPERIENCE AND LOTS OF INTERESTING THINGS TO SEE . PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN I DO NOT ACCEPT FRIEND REQUESTS FROM SINGLE MEN NO POINT WE ONLY PLAY WITH COUPLES AND SINGLE LADIES. 

Century City, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Married Straight male looking to meet fun people . Discreet friend with benefits. Never done this before but woukd like to meet people for friendship and who knows what happens if it flows. I'm easy going and friendly. Enjoy good company , braaing and watching sport.

Mossel Bay, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

We are a couple looking for good clean fun with other couples and ladies as well. No single men and not crossing colour bounderies. We are in North Suburbs

Bellville, Western Cape, 7530
Pinelands cunnilingus -
I work in Pinelands and would love being able to go down on a wet swollen clit during the day. Obviously can't host. Any ladies who feel the need for cunnilingus, contact me.
Somerset West, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

To be updated, in mean time:

Standard still applies; only decent messages where there is a mutual interest will be responded to with fully completed profile and face pix on SH.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
I need her -
Fit, healthy woman, fun wild clean
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
0749766161 add me on whatsapp and get to know me a little
7441, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Aloha and thanks for stopping by.

Please don't let the name fool you, we are NOT pot smoking hippies - but both career professionals in large companies. We are drug free, in shape and very fit.

Outside of the boardroom, we are a chilled, healthy, married couple of 22 years - who like most are balancing family, work and play. We love the sun, offshore glassy surf sessions, sundowners, the outdoors, chats around a fire, live music, getting dressed up, fine dining, a bit of a dance and last but not least wild weekends away with great company.

A zest for life and intellect really appeal to us.

So couples and single ladies, that is us. If you like what you see, lets chat and go from there. Surfer Girl is Bisexual but it is by no means a deal breaker for us at all. 

DO NOT send us friend requests - Why on earth would we be friends if we have never even chatted, let alone met face to face? Single guys - we will make contact if and when required. If you message us we will not reply.

!!!!Please Note - You do not have permission to use any of our images or information contained within our profile.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


I would like to meet a likeminded couple, preferably with a bi or bi-curious female, who are into a NSA liaisons. Chat first, swop some pics and then if we jointly feel some chemistry we can meet and take it from there.


Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I love to give pleasure to ladies, and also love to receive pleasure !!! Oral stimulation is one of my secrets. 

I am mainly on this site to have fun, enjoy excitement and have pleasure with all the beautiful ladies. So if you are horny and want to have adult fun why wait, lets play and have fun while we can !!

I am not here for a relationship, only for fun.

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Update we are moving to George!!

We only live once,
We are Her  bi, and him, straight and are looking for a couple similar to ourselves for adult fun. We are not stunners or body beautiful, just normal looking folk! We like same room fun between all 4, girl on girl, but prefer to save ultimate for own partners only, no full swaps. We are not into pain or water-sports, just good clean fun and a good laugh and it's important that we all get on and feel comfortable - the friendship side is important to us as well.
We are looking for couples and females  - for fun in the sun, on the beach at night, in the Jacuzzi, in the pool ............... oooh the list is endless.

We are looking for couples that can host!!


I dont chat with males in the chatroom!!

George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa
Mature guy and laid back -
Just a mature laid back guy looking for mature fun
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, 6510

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????

We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.

Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we

have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer Caucasian only - just personal taste.

We are a very DTE couple.

7551, Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
fun u cum 1st -
Hi I'm average built guy that wants 2 please u xxxxx
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
here to see what happens -
Just a guy looking what happens... willing time try anything once.
South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

GENTLEMEN PLEASE I Am NOT Bi Nor Gay - Please don't waste your time, I am not available.

My Seeking shows "Gay female" simply because I am not looking for anything.

Gordons Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm a clean decent guy looking for good company in and out the bedroom. Not looking for a relationship, just discrete no strings attached fun. I like good conversation and enjoying a fun time out. I'm generous when it comes to matters of the boudoir, I can be gentle or firm depending on what you're looking for. I'm not looking for pics or time wasters, so message me only if you're really interested in NSA fun.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there I'm a white male 2,10m tall small heart .

I am a fun open minded guy who like to have a lot of NSA fun. 

I like to please a women a few times before i think of myself.Love the outdoors and love my private time just as much . 

Love animals and yes I'm a workaholic but play just as hard . 

Here to make friends have fun and maybe more , very easy going guy but don't push it to far.Anything else u will have to find out by yourself.

7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

WARNING:  - You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. You have been warned.

Now ....

I am not into bullshit, games and not here to cause KAK for anybody or 'out' anyone!

I am discreet!

I am easy going & easy to get along with.

Quick chat, number, meet, and what happens happens.

420 friendly.

into kink play too.









Oudtshoorn, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair 

and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

We married couple looking for some adult fun. We early 40 ties, attractive and look after our bodies. We fun couple and easy to get along with. We only in for same room fun, no swopping.Have small kids, so time management is a challenge.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550
Experienced couple always on the look out for new experiences -
Couple, mid forties, been in the lifestyle for some years, have tried most things but always up for a new challenge. We play together and alone, all serious offers considered, but originality scores bonus points, as do pictures!
Hermanus, Western Cape, 7201


We are only intrested in people that have respect for themselves are can enjoy a conversation and drinks.

Are shaven and clean and not just wants to jump in bed and respects the lady 

We are mostly intresed in just having fun and if theres a conection you never now

Conection between all are of value for us

Planning are needed to escape our daily routine and we like to get wild now and then LOL

We prefer to keep it at 3 as we find it much more fun an it mingles and are more relaxed for us,we did not yet find a lady for the wife and she is very keen on exploring but as we all now its not that easy to find.We are still open to couples as long as theres a connection.

If you are a guy and think our ego and muscles are very important and forgot to consentrate on manners and being a gentleman please pass

To be nice and have respect is what are important to us 

7200, Hermanus, Greater Hermanus, Overberg District Municipality, Western Cape, South Africa

I am a lesbian!!! Please guys nou messages or compliments anything in the chatroom!!


South Africa
Curious exhibitionist tendencies -
A very curious guy with an interest in being naked for a woman. (cfnm - clothed female naked male) Strange fetish - i know compared to all the slam and bang going on here LOL. Looking to experience this with a chilled nad fun lady (or ladys... hehe) -- and who know where it my lead. So any interested gals looking for something a less full contact and a laugh - please send me a shout.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

Hi guys thanks for visiting my profile. I am very new to this bt have realized that i would have to let u guys know what i am looking for. I dnt cross the ethnic line, sorry. I am looking for a white guy between the ages of 25 and 45 that are neat and clean. He must be willing to get to know me b4 it goes any further. The first meeting will me in public on my terms. I am a big beautiful woman and a bit shy at first . I love exploring and trying new thing. Would love to hear from u! Cant wait for ur interesting mail.

Western Cape

We are an attractive easy going  couple with some experience in the lifestyle.  

He loves indulging her naughty sensual ways, either with couples or mainly singles.
We seek other fun and stable couples and singles for NSA safe and clean fun times.
Single guys you are most welcome and are primarily what she enjoys–but due to our past experiences, you will have to meet the following requirements:  be hung, smell nice, be willing to perform with hubby watching, have great self awareness, not pushy.  Single guys, the rules are very clear - if you fail to follow in your first contact with us, we thank you for assisting us in making the decision on you simple and easy.
Strictly NSA fun where we are not expected to fulfil any voids in your relationship.

We will not send you any face pics- but are willing to meet over coffee at a mutually agreed upon venue and take things from there.
We also lead busy everyday lives and don’t tolerate pushy or desperate people well. We are not available to chat often as 'life happens', and should this be a major concern or requirement of yours, please give us a skip.
If you are still reading and intrigued-hit us back with some background info and lets get to know each other.

Rules aside, once we meet, you will soon realise that we are an awesome couple going through life and enjoy letting our hair down and indulging in some of our kinks.  Unfortunately we cannot host but definitely open to discuss alternatives when we get to that stage (hopefully soon)
Visitors and holidayers to CT who can host at your hotel- you guys are most welcome to contact us too.

We are also keen on being part of a small group of select likeminded fun people who get together to share memorable experiences.  

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Easy going person who loves to have fun and laugh, and shows respect, fit and keeps in shape..

All you fakes out there please don't bother contacting me, and as for one liners contact, really,

use your imagination please!

Take a chance and lets 'Plug it in'

Hermanus, Western Cape, 7200

We are new to this.Very clean and discreet couple,who looking for like minded female or couple having fun with us,prefer people that's also new in this to discuss first and see where it leads us,please no single male and if you pretend to be a couple there are ways to find out.So for this stage couples and single female. NO SINGLE MAN!!!!! We buzz you when we want single man,don't annoy yourself cause you aint annoying us WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Seeking pleasure...I'm sure that's why we're all here happy.gif I'm a discreet, fit, professional male who lives for life's passions and pleasures. Seeking to get there with fun, good humour and good conversation and with a couple or single lady who want to open up their sexual lives and really enjoy themselves with a single male.

Somerset West, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there

We a fun loving, naughty when appropriate couple, both in our early 40's, with a few extra curves here and there. We enjoy a braai with a drink or two and can be very naughty when in the mood.

We're not into the wham, bam thank you ma'm situation, prefer to chat a bit first, maybe even a meet n greet somewhere for a drink, then, if all is cool, move on to the main course, preferably in a one on one basis, so to speak.

We are looking for, preferably white/coloured females (singles), but are also considering couples (white).

Look forward to hearing from all those naughty folk out there.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Married open minded couple

We are 42 and 32 years old, no longer twinks, no longer young and cute, but sure as hell not over the wall.. We are just a down to earth, often misunderstood, average looking gay couple. Seeking similar like minded guys for whatever crosses our paths. We are incredibly proud of who we are, for every laugh line, wrinkle and scar that we have... it's taken us a long time to just accept that there are things we can't change, and also things that we can change.

We don't go to clubs and bars.....instead we like to just relax at home with good friends.



Bellville, Western Cape, 7530

What's with all the internet pics, guys? Most of the time it's blatantly obvious you stole them somewhere. Sure, some of them are impressive - but if you actually hook up with someone, she or he is going to be sooooooo disappointed, so what's the use?

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550
So this is me -
I'm a married proffesional guy in an upper middle/senior management position. I'm here alone and therefor discretion is extremely important to me. I'm of a slim/medium/athletic (whatever you want to call it) build. No facial hair, and clean. I can play during the daytime and I'm serious about meeting people, if I only intended to look at naked pics, I could surf porn. I do realise that most couples on here are not interested in a profile like mine though, but unfortunately that's my reality. I travel to JHB roughly every second month and would be keen to hear from couples or single ladies in that area. I mostly stay in Sandton when I'm up there.
Western Cape

I am a single professional white guy with lots of free time. I am open minded and discreet, I would like to meet ladies and couples for friendship and regular get together's.
Take a look at my pics, I am cut, shaven and clean, so if you are interested then please send me a message!!!!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

First off - I'm just an ordinary guy who just loves sex, in any and all forms. I'm into porn, the more hardcore the better... I'm a good listener, have a wicked sense of humour and love the outdoors. I'm not into guys, so don't bother asking me to suck your cock or ask to suck mine, that is solely reserved for women. Just looking for ladies (single or attached) to have a chat to, whether it be normal chats or sex(y) chats. Also wouldn't mind finding a lady or to some extent maybe a couple closeby or in my general area who would like to just chill and masturbate together, perhaps even oral.....also very discreetly. I know it is a tall order, but a guy can dream and wish, right? I don't and won't judge, and I expect the same in return.

Montagu, Western Cape, South Africa
Your straight anal pleasure -
Okay, here’s the deal. You’re not gay. And I’m not gay. But you either love being anally stimulated or you think you’re going to love it. I specialise in that. See the photos for what I have available to use on you. We are not going to have sex. I am going to keep my clothes on. But you are going to take yours off and have no inhibitions about offering up your most taboo spot to me so that I can take control of your body until you cum like a runaway horse. Then we part ways. This adventure is only available if, like me, you are white and well looked after and under 40. And not gay. Do not respond if you are not going to be willing to swop cell numbers, because I will not provide an address over the internet. No pic collectors please, but photos of me are available if you send clear recent ones of yourself first via email.
Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

Thank you for showing interest in our profile

NOTE:  Please guys, girls and couples – Private albums are loads of fun but please don’t ask us to open ours before we get to know you and that applies to sending invites to yours as well.  You albums will just be deleted – same as friend requests where we didn’t start chatting even. We are a active lifestyle couple but still want to know you before receiving private albums or friend requests. A private album is something special – to share there must be a connection. And if you are married or show in relationship ... Dont even ask us to chat if your partner is not joining. To say you have their concent ... Please who are you bull shitting ... We in this to enjoy ... 

We do Boidoir photo shoots on appontment. We take moments and change it into beautiful memories. From lighter / softer side of Boudoir to the more intimate. Also do shoots at the comfort of your home. Send us a mail and we will send you all the detail.

About Mr Stoutgat:                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Mr Stoutgat was as a single, married couple and now in a committed long term relationship active in the lifestyle for about 10 years. I am 42 year young, white male, 1,8 m, slender buildt, short brown hair, green-blue eyes, wears glasses with full facial hair.  I can be on the shy side until you get to know me.  Once that happens the sky is the limit when it comes to being adventurous. I do love to treat my partner with respect, pamper and treat her …  I love socialising with friends and family.  Braaiing and camping are among my favourite things to do. Clubbing is not high on my favourite list. I do enjoy a party now and then but prefer an intimate gathering of a few couples at someone’s house to a large party. 

Iets omtrent Mev Kortgat:                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Ek is nie so lank in die leefstyl soos Mnr Stoutgat nie, maar geniet elke oomblik daarvan.  Mnr Stoutgat het my uit die kas gehaal, nou weier “delila” om weer in te klim lol.  Ek is 51, blank, en 1.52m kort.  Ek het ‘n avontuurlusitge kant wat maklik sy verskyning maak.  Ek lag maklik en geniet die lewe ten volle.  Ek is stout .. skaam .. maar ‘n babbelkous en naugty avontuurlustige girl.  Hou van “tender sex”, maar die “wild side” maak my ekstaties.  ‘n Klap op die boud, blinddoek, “teasing” en “handcuffs” maak die girl mos behoorlik resend van lekkerkry … “Teasing and pleasing is my aim”  Ek hou van stap langs die strand, braai, kamp en die buitelewe  en veral kuiers saam met vriende.  Elke speel “date” is uniek en heerlik om die ervarings saam met Mnr Stoutgat te deel.  Ek is “bi-friendly” – het al ‘n paar ondervindings gehad en het dit geniet.  Ek is ‘n “squirter” en geniet dit terdee!!

About us:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            We always play together. We don’t play during daytime. We respect other lifestyle friends boundaries.  We do condomise with penetration.  Love exploring. We looking for new friends and if benefits included, what a bonus.  We don’t bite … nibble YES lol.  We like to meet new friends, chat or meet new couples not more that 150km from us.  The chances are slim meeting if you staying further than that.  Chemistry between all the people involved are high on our list.  We in the lifestyle to enjoy it – not having trouble with bull shitters that’s not really single, or married men not playing with their wife’s concent – if you one of them reading our profle – please pass our profile – WE ARE NOT INTERSTED. We do bi-couples play dates – Mr Stoutgat will give but for now not receive … and Mrs Kortgat, if she is comfortable with the lady of the couple … will explore and enjoy.  Mrs Kortgat don’t do anal …

You made it this far … thank you for taking time reading our profile. Would love to hear from you. Send us a mail. We love group chatting on whatsapp with all involved.  We do meet before all the action start  … have a naughty fun-filled day


Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140

I am a 45 and my boyfriend are 42 we looking for a single girl or a married woman that likes to play alone my boyfriend is not into couples he wants another woman with me and him. if you are a couple and the woman of the couple married or not wants  to play alone and her husband or boyfriend allow that than its fine you can inbox me or my inbox me at

7395, Saldanha, West Coast DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Always looking for fun and adventure and always keen to meet new people.

Have a few friends in this lifestyle and have had good experiences. Keen to have more and meet fun hot people who are keen on enjoying life.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7925