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we are an attractive young couple new to the scene with no experience in the lifestyle,looking for other young couples to explore our sexual desires and fantasies with...we will not cross the race barrier...sorry white couples only! We are looking to take things slow, maybe same room sex first but if the chemistry and mood is right, who know's....NO SINGLE GUYS PLS!!! We will only play as a couple so couples that think that only the lady will be involved, think again....we are exploring fantasies together so pls be respectful and understanding in that regard....again....SINGLE GUYS....MOVE ALONG!!! Pls do not send msg's or 1 liner's stating that u want to know more!!!!!!So to all the sexy young white couples....get in is as straight as the come and the mrs is bi-.....hope to hear from you soon.....!!!

Fish Hoek, Western Cape, 7975

Well educated, well mannered, respectful guy here - looking for a foxy minx for a FWB. Just some regular, NSA fun! Would love to meet someone link minded, and have some fun without any baggage...Lets chat :)

7966, Tokai, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair 

and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

MUTUAL RESPECT and MANNERS. If you don't have them, then move along. 

Update:  January 2017

To friends and acquaintances:  These days I am hardly on this profile, so if you wish to stay in touch, pop in on my couple profile HubblyBubbly.  

Thank you and hope to hear from you lovelies soon.


Durbanville Hills, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
someone to have a lot of good times with -
Hi all, i am a male who who is looking to meet up with like minded people ( couples or ladies) who share in thesame sexual adventures and embrace this lifestyle. i have no hang ups and am not looking to find that "special person" here but just to enjoy this amazing lifestyle with others.
Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

We are a normal professional couple that want to meet like minded people and make friends. We love to braai and have a glass of wine..... or three. Like most South Africans, we love sports and are enthusiastic about it. Love talking about it... good or bad... We love the outdoors and traveling. We meet for coffee in a public place and what happens from there..... stays there.. Hopefully becoming friends with benefits. We love making jokes..... Humour is the spice of life. Now for the down side...... We only play together..... So sorry single guys, we will approach you. We only play in same room. So to conclude......We are here for FUN......

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Would like to meet some nice ladies or couples willing to invite a single guy. I am clean shaved all over. Also STD free, which I would like to remain, so playing protected is very important. After conversing for a while more pics can be supplied on request.

I really do hope to get some feedback, my first steps into this lifestyle.

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

Hi all.

I am very kinky and will try most things more than once. I prefer the submissive roles and enjoy all kinds of play. I do believe it's all about enjoyment. If there are any questions please ask. Wishing all a kinky fun day.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7441
Looking for Fun and exitement -
Hi I'm a 33 year old male, looking for NSA fun and exitement. Also looking for a type of relationship, some one to talk to.
Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Im Athletic and fit. I like a hard workout. 

I can travel and host at hotel. Trust cleanliness and health are critical.

Please note, If i invite you to my private albums without you asking in the first place, please don't take offense. Its just an invite. 

Have a look and if you like what you see come over and say hi.

Century City, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Heya -
Hi. Im a tall attractive white guy. I hv blonde hair and blue eyes. Im in the medical field and im fit n clean. REMOVED BY ADMIN..Mike
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700
Horny young guy looking to join parties and couples and singles for a dogging an good times -
Hi there everybody I am looking to join people for all sorts of fun. I am new to the strand area and recently single so now I wanna have alot of fun with alot of people I have never tried dogging before and would love to find a lady that is keen in the strand area or gordons bay area. Drop me an email and let's chat.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Young guy seeking to broaden his sexual experiences -
Just a 30 year old professional guy, working in the CPT media sphere, looking for women who are comfortable in themselves and their sexuality. No pressure at all, just be in each others company and see where it goes. Discretion is a MUST
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

halo there, please READ CAREFULLY!!

I am not into guys younger than 40, I prefer people from my own ethnic group, I DON't DO HORNY TALK, I dont do anal, I dont do mff, I dont do pic swapping, not a porn site.

Now, If you like to become friends and we see what happens, by all means.

Hubby knows I am on here and we play together when he is in the country. I enjoy good clean play, no pain, love to give and receive oral, like to be clean, and squirting is big time thing.

I am not a young poppie, if fact I am very much so a bbw, respect that or move on to your next victim.

Thanks for reading

7530, Boston, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????

We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.

Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we

have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer Caucasian only - just personal taste.

We are a very DTE couple.

7551, Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi There. We are sexually very active and have sex at least twice a day. We had our first threesome with another lady and loved it. We are both professional working people and plan to have a breakaway weekend with another woman at least once every two months. Looking for bisexual woman to have either a once off weekend or to cultivate a sexual relationship. Looking forward to hearing from you.

George, Western Cape, 6529

Working professionals who work hard and play harder! We love living and experiencing what life has to offer and will always try things at least once...

He is tall, outgoing and loves meeting people. She is blonde, bi (but not essential) and a little shy at first but soon becomes the life of the party.

Sexually we are pretty much open to most things if the mood is right and we are attracted to the people/person we are with. If there is a physical and mental click then we are always up for some fun.

Drop us note if you are:

1. A couple or single females (Single guys, you may have a 30inch penis that goes all night, it is not going to happen)

2. Above average looking. We are not looking for supermodels but this is about a physical attraction

3. Serious about meeting... if hours of email banter is all you are looking for we are not your couple

4. Any age between 18 - 55... see point 2


Hout Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I am fit  self confident clean upmarket single guy from Cape Town..I am not new in swinging life ...actually had some 3sums with nice couples and enjoyed a lot ..also love seeing ladies 1 on 1...and I am non pushy up market guy ...travelled most of world and based in Cape Town in seapoint

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


I'm Shawn

I'm here to meet up with couples and ladies, those who want to enjoy sexual experiences. 

I live but once , I'm having the time of my life and a rush ride of note. I have no hangups, age is a number and women of bigger stature drives me wild. Respect and the ladies pleasure are the the most important points that I adhere to. I work hard in my professional life and  I play even harder. I keep fit and I like to push my body to the limit, adrenaline keeps me alive. If your looking for a carefree spirited guy, I'm that guy .

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001
Straight Male -
I am a single athletec guy staying on my own and would like to meet up with other people to indulge in pleasure outdoor activities.
Bellville, Western Cape, 7536

I am a single professional white guy with lots of free time. I am open minded and discreet, I would like to meet ladies, couples and men for friendship and regular get together's.
Take a look at my pics, I am cut, shaven and clean, so if you are interested then please send me a message!!!!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I am
75 years old Irish born but lived here in South Africa 53 yrs.I have
lived in many provinces and traveled Europe .

I am unique and wont waste your time or mine .A few good friends is
all I need and I am not concerned with having tons of people. 

I know
its hard to get to know someone by just a few photos or even 100 .

A picture
is just that an image no depth. there is more to me than that, soul and

A few paragraphs just doesn't cut it either 

So if you
really want to know me better just message me That would be a good decision on
your part. .

I prefer
the younger man ,yes I am a cougar .

N.B  Men under 48 please and please  white only 

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441


We are only intrested in people that have respect for themselves are can enjoy a conversation and drinks.

Are shaven and clean and not just wants to jump in bed and respects the lady 

We are mostly intresed in just having fun and if theres a conection you never now

Conection between all are of value for us

Planning are needed to escape our daily routine and we like to get wild now and then LOL

We prefer to keep it at 3 as we find it much more fun an it mingles and are more relaxed for us,we did not yet find a lady for the wife and she is very keen on exploring but as we all now its not that easy to find.We are still open to couples as long as theres a connection.

If you are a guy and think our ego and muscles are very important and forgot to consentrate on manners and being a gentleman please pass

To be nice and have respect is what are important to us 

7200, Hermanus, Greater Hermanus, Overberg District Municipality, Western Cape, South Africa
Girl on girl action -
I have not had the opportunity to really play with another woman alone. Had quite few experiences when we swapped with couples. I want a girl that I can explore my bi side with. Reguarly if possible of just once off. Lesbian couples can also contact me. So let make this happen
South Africa

Very discreet white married couple for NSA SEX in the Garden route area we are very open minded And we do not cross the racial line...please no married men playing alone...we are always  game for some excitement and fun....

George, Western Cape, 6531
sexy new couple -
New couple to the life style looking to explore with all you sexies out there. We are extremely horny at all times and we will upload pics soon... Hope to hear from you all
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Hi. So what to say..., well I am a attractive guy, decent, respectful and fun.

Looking for decent, no strings attached couples and ladies. However not multiple ladies at this stage. I would prefer to meet someone decent and respectful that can join me in a "fun" exploration.... as such.


Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Open minded fun couple 

That loves trying new thinks in life, We are looking for like minded people to have sexy fun with.

We prefer couples and single ladies, single men will be considered tho.

Discretion and cleanliness a must...

Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140

about me:

early thirties slim athletic built looking for great sex, no strings attached !

i am open to any fantasy with any women straight or bi (older women preferred)

also a great lover of watersports so ladies if you want to live out that fantasy i am your man...

i do have a job so my daily schedule is subject to what i have to get done ...

distance for me is no problem - i love the open road

lets hook up lets have safe discreet fun mutual pleasure for both of us !

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I am a SHEMALE!!! Open minded and love MEN. I do not have a pussy. Yes my pics on my profile. Do not ask for pics if you don't have a profile pic .  I AM NOT SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO MEN WHO CROSS DRESS. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there

We a fun loving, naughty when appropriate couple, both in our early 40's, with a few extra curves here and there. We enjoy a braai with a drink or two and can be very naughty when in the mood.

We're not into the wham, bam thank you ma'm situation, prefer to chat a bit first, maybe even a meet n greet somewhere for a drink, then, if all is cool, move on to the main course, preferably in a one on one basis, so to speak.

We are looking for, preferably white/coloured females (singles), but are also considering couples (white).

Look forward to hearing from all those naughty folk out there.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

And here I am………. testing the waters to see who is out there. I really enjoy meeting people in the real world. Been down this road
before but I am giving it another shot as a lady expanding and broadening my horizons. I’m looking to meet with people who are genuine,
intelligent and has a good sense of humour - being genuine is very important to me as that leads to long-term friendships that are easy to maintain in our
mutual pursuit to our passions and desires…..

I'm unique in that I will not waste time with "shallow" interactions. I'm only open to meaningful, honest, and exclusive meetings with like-minded people. I'm not concerned with having tons of friends. A few good friends are all I need. Therefore my motto in life has always been and will always be "Quality vs. Quantity." So guys I am not on here looking for sex only. Sex will always be an added bonus and very rewarding, but friendship is what I will build on.

I'm always up for trying new things and rarely afraid to take risks in life. In fact, I thrive on it……….

Take the time to write to me if you have any level of interest...... one liners just does not do it for me..... those WILL get ignored!!!!!!

Let's see where it goes.

Mossel Bay, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there I'm a white male 2,10m tall small heart .

I am a fun open minded guy who like to have a lot of NSA fun. 

I like to please a women a few times before i think of myself.Love the outdoors and love my private time just as much . 

Love animals and yes I'm a workaholic but play just as hard . 

Here to make friends have fun and maybe more , very easy going guy but don't push it to far.Anything else u will have to find out by yourself.

7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

WARNING:  - You do not have my permission to use any of my pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. You have been warned.

Now ....

I am not into bullshit, games and not here to cause KAK for anybody or 'out' anyone!

I am discreet!

I am easy going & easy to get along with.

Quick chat, number, meet, and what happens happens.

420 friendly.

into kink play too.









Oudtshoorn, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there 

been on the site for a while and having some luck lol 

looking for friends not just chancres and fake people 

i am open minded 

32 yr old indian male 

from cape town who is looking to spice up my sexual life more 

if interested please contact or ask for whatsapp number thanks for your time 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hate to start the bio negatively, but as people clearly don't read all of it, we're putting this statement up front and in bold: 

We understand every relationship is different, but we're not interested in married people who play alone.

Now that's out the way, we can move on to the important stuff.

We're a very happily married couple looking to have a bit (or a lot) of naughty fun. We've always discussed the threesome/foursome fantasy for all our married years, and are now making it a reality....and we are having SO MUCH fun doing it rather than talking about it.

Both of us are loving exploring our bi-curiosity.  This bi-side is a significant part for us of the attraction to playing with others, so we are very keen to find bi men, women and couples to continue this adventure with. That being said, we want to play together, so the other person/people need to be interested in both of us, otherwise it probably won't work.

So, we're looking to find couples where at least one partner is bi or bi curious, or for singles that are bi. At this point we'd be overjoyed to find a bi or very bi-curious lady who is willing to play with us. Please be assured that we are respectful, so if you are a couple and only one of you is bi or bi-curious, we will respect that fully and will not push the boundaries (unless you want us to).

Our ultimate is the idea of a 4sum or moresum where everyone plays together without gender boundaries, all just enjoying each other.

We are a straightforward, no nonsense couple with little or no tolerance for drama. We would love to find regular playmates that can be more than just the sexual - dinners out, braai's at home with our family, etc. Real friends with benefits...

We are surprisingly 'out there' and there are more than a few X's to go with the L's in our body sizes...but we are what we are, and what you see is what you get. We both love giving pleasure as much as receiving it.

Hosting is complicated as we have young kids and a grandparent living with us, but with enough notice (and motivation) we might be able to make a plan.

Please don't send us a friend request if we haven't even communicated previously ...we will just deny it which is a waste of time...please chat to us in the Pool or send us a message first. We are always up for a message...and then...well, you will just have to contact us and see...

7550, Aurora, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are new to this life style and we have a very strong relationship. We want to explore the boundary of sexual bliss. We love and enjoy a very exciting naughty and kinky sex life. We looking for friends in this lifestyle but discreet who we play with. Hygiene and safety is of out most importance to us.No single guys.

Blackheath, Western Cape, 7580

Just looking around to see what people are up to daily. 

Western Cape, South Africa

We are a sexy and playful couple. We enjoy spicing things up and having some adult fun. We love dining and dancing and having a good time. We like to have a bit of naughty fun and broaden our social circle. We also love the outdoors, hiking and spending time on the beach.

We are looking for other COUPLES that are stable in their relationships and life who want to go out for dinner, dancing or even just a cocktail. If there is chemistry we can take it further. We are not interested in endless photo swopping and chatting. We are on the site to meet couples that know what they want and have a naughty streak !! We would like to see what you look like to decide if we want to meet you and you can do the same.

We are a professional couple and privacy and cleanliness is important to us and we will reciprocate.

Fake Singles (married men).....GET A LIFE and stop perving. Very tired of the HUGE amount of FAKE profiles on this site. You give the good Single guys a bad name.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Tulbagh, Western Cape, 6820

Let me be perfectly honest here:  I'm not here to make friends.  This is a sex site and that's what I'm looking for. I am in a very happy, yet sexless marriage. That's all you need to know. If this bothers you I suggest you walk away right now.

Because my intelligence is above average I can also hold a decent conversation. My sense of humour is a blend of Billy Connolly, Douglas Adams, Rowan Atkinson, Terry Pratchett, Eddie Murphy, Robin Williams, Eddie Izzard, Mad Magazine, Barry Hilton and genetics. My musical tastes have been described as eclectic - I call it I like a little bit of a lot.

I am looking to meet with non-smoking women. Or at least, women who can handle not smoking while they're around me.  Looks are not that important. Of prime importance is your mind, that you enjoy sex and you don't mind the fact that I'm married.

I like boobs, I like giving and receiving oral sex, I like toys for ladies. I don't like pain, anal sex (a real pain in the arse) and people who don't keep their word. I am available mostly during the day, however I could make the odd plan here and there. Weekends are out.

Let's meet over a coffee (who needs alcohol anyway?), chat, share a few laughs and see where it goes from there.

One last thing:  If I take the trouble to contact you and invite you for a coffee, please have the decency to write a reply, even if you aren't interested.  It is, after all, just good manners, n'est pas? I promise I won't bug you after that.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7708


So small things to keep in mind when contacting me. I will never just meet you for a quick fuck(dogging is not among my interests). If you can't first meet me for a coffee/drink,and a chat then you have no chance of getting into my bed.

I do NOT cross colour lines... that means no coloured, Indian or black gents, it's my body and therefore my choice.. and no you are NOT going to be the exception to my rule!

 I am playing alone without consent,so discretion is essential.

If you make it too my bed, condoms are not up for negotiation,I've heard every excuse in the book. No condom,no play...that simple.

I prefer my sexual friends to be between 35-55, however, this is a guideline and exceptions have been made(but no one under 24 will be considered).... preference will be given to intelligent,tall white males?

That said I have a few regular such, between work, kids and other commitments I AM  CURRENTLY NOT MEETING NEW POTENTIAL PLAYMATES. 

PS. Friend requests will be denied unless we have met and I actually would want to be your friend.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Looking for fun -
Looking to meet like-minded singles or couples...
Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130

I'm a single, clean, slim, healthy and fit male. I enjoy virtually all sexual and intellectual activities - I just can not picture myself being 

excited by people with poor conversational skills, whether discussing BDSM or the weather.  I have a good bit of experience, especially with mmf, but continue to search for the couple where the male is genuinely bi-curious, and not simply saying so to attract new partners.

I'm involved with a much younger lady, but that may be outlined in private.  Suffice it to say that we are unable to live together openly, at least until early 2017. (I'm divorced, she is in the process at the moment (Oct 2016)).

I'm cut, shaved and have very few hard limits.  Can travel, stay over, do pretty much whatever is desired.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405
Mature guy and laid back -
Just a mature laid back guy looking for mature fun
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, 6510

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well..

Ons is n baie openminded couple wat graag mense wil ontmoet . Ons is baie nuut in die lewenswyse en ons toets die waters. Ons geniet braai, rugby, kamp en die buite lewe. Agv klein kinders is ons tye beperk veral weeksdae , maar elke 2 de naweek is kinders by die ander helfde van de ouerpare. Beide van ons is geskei en ons bly tans bymekaar

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

We are a couple that have been in a long term relationship, now seeking to broaden our experience, with same age group. Respectable and good behaviour is a big must.

We are not always able to be available as HE travels often. We are an open friendly couple. SHE will do mostly all the correspondence, but I will be around. We will not give out any private info such as phone numbers and emails

other than the one we have set up. PLEASE, if you don't have public pics of both male and female or recent pics, don't waist your time or ours. If not public pics, then please send us an album when you contact us, thanks. We are looking forward to meeting some sexy friendly folk.


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700

I'm a 38 year old open minded man. I love to explore with women and couples! I'm kinky and playful and adapt easily to situations and partners preferences. I genuinely appreciate a good smile above all else. Very discreet and respectful of your privacy.

I am not into men and NOT interested!

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
traveling -
Hi all Going to be in Swellandam for the weekend anyone looking for a bit of fun. let me know and i will help.
Sedgefield, Knysna, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Well .... eks afrikaans , bly in die mooie Kaap en is nie heeltemal nuut hier op die groep nie , maar nuut in die leefstyl.

Julle is meer as welkom om te gesels op die chat groep sonder om toestemming voor die tyd te vra , soos die reels bepaal lol .. diskressie en respek vir mekaar en die leefstyl is baie belangrik en moet gerespekteer word , nie hier om fotos bymekaar te maak nie , maar om vriendelike dames en paartjies te ontmoet wat die lewe wil geniet ...kom se Hallo ..... 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

7560, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa