So small things to keep in mind when contacting me. I will never just meet you for a quick fuck nor is dogging among my interests. If you can't first meet me for a coffee/drink,and a chat then you have no chance of getting into my bed. I'm after long term FWB's not notches on my belt.

I would describe myself as bi friendly. I'm not bi or bi-curious...I definitely prefer men. I will kiss a girl (if she kisses well, which many girls do).. however I don't eat pussy. I'd much rather enjoy a beautiful, hard, white cock.

 I am playing alone without consent,so discretion is essential.

If you make it too my bed, condoms are not up for negotiation.

I prefer my sexual friends to be between 35-55, however, this is a guideline and exceptions have been made(but no one under 30 will be considered). I also definitely prefer men a lighter shade of pale (ie. Caucasian)

That said I have a few regular FWB's..And as such, between work, kids and other commitments my time is scarce and precious to me... if youre not going to pitch for the “date”...dont ask to meet

PS. Friend requests will be denied unless we have met and I actually want to be your friend.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Im very interested in this lifestyle and Id love to experience more had my first encounter about a year ago....single and older women are welcome, don't care about race Im over that bs. Im very open-minded and love the outdoors and public sex the thought of getting caught thrills eight three two six eight eight two two nine. Ii

Kuils River, Western Cape, 7580

A masculine man, in or around Cape Town, that has an insatiable appetite happy Prefer single men, it's less complicated with schedule committments. Also not interested in someone that goes from one playmate to another, safety, health and discretion come first. 

8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Welcome and thanks for taking the time to read our profile.

I'm a 34 yr old female and my hubby is 32....and we have a fantastic sex life, we jus feel its time for a bit of fun and adult play!

We are new to this lifestyle and are looking for another average couple or lady of the same race to join us for some fun as we would like to broaden our sexual experience.

We like the idea of a light hearted approach, to have a laugh and have fun messing around.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Solo male looking for a compatible and exciting couple or single for play and more. I'm open minded and have no preferences with regards to age, race or body type. What is important is mutual attraction a bit of chemistry and of course tequila. Looking forward to meeting new and exciting people. Cheers

Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I recently moved to the atlantic seaboard and would like to meet new open minded people. Frienship is a plus. I prefer well travelled, well groomed and well read people. A sense of humour is just as important.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Just a young tall dark and handsome guy looking for a sexy milf to teach me a few things ;) and maybe me teaching her ;)

Maitland, Western Cape, 7405

I'm overflowing with sexiness(bbw) and in need of someone(or multiples) to satisfy my insatiable sexual appetite! If you think you can keep up, drop me a line. I don't respond to winks or friend requests without a message first.

I'm married but we are fully polyamorous. Which means I am open to various types of connections with people...

PLEASE NOTE: our first meeting would need to be somewhere public for various reasons.

I have no interest in playing with men who are playing behind their significant other's back.

Muizenberg, Western Cape, 7945

I'm a down to earth guy, believe that the natural act of two human beings getting lost in that moment when their cravings, pleasure and orgasms come together can only be beaten by the next play date.

The hunt is just as much fun as that first moment when your body reacts to what your lips, fingers and tongue sends in magical waves to your center of being......

7500, Parow, Western Cape, South Africa

Our profile name is somewhat misleading as people assume that we are naturally submissive. The select few good friends that we have been rather fortunate to meet in this lifestyle would describe us as: Mature, mindful, stable, attractive, smart, responsible, sexy, people who know how to have hot sexy fun.......

Definitely not into BDSM or any form of pain, but will never judge you if thats your kink.

We are an attractive easy going  couple with some experience in the lifestyle.  

He loves indulging her naughty sensual ways, either with couples or mainly singles.
We seek other fun and stable couples and singles for NSA safe and clean fun times.
Single guys you are most welcome and are primarily what she enjoys–but due to our past experiences, you will have to meet the following requirements:  be decently hung, smell nice, be willing to perform with hubby watching, have great self awareness, not pushy.  

Strictly NSA fun where we are not expected to fulfil any voids in your relationship etc.

We will not send you any face pics- and please guys...respect this decision of ours.  We are however, willing to meet (no obligations on any party off course?) at a mutually agreed upon venue and take things from there.
We also lead busy everyday lives and don’t tolerate pushy or desperate people well. We are not available to chat often as 'life happens', and should this be a major concern or requirement of yours, please give us a skip.
If you are still reading and intrigued-hit us back with some background info and lets get to know each other.

Rules aside, once we meet, you will soon realise that we are an awesome couple going through life and enjoy letting our hair down and indulging in some of our kinks when opportunities are available.  

Unfortunately we cannot host but definitely open to discuss alternatives when we get to that stage.
Visitors and holidayers to CT who can host at your hotel- you guys are most welcome to contact us too.

We are also keen on being part of a small group of select likeminded fun people who get together to share memorable experiences.  

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Thanks for visiting our profile. If you are a single guy. Please don't waist your time or ours. We here for real and would like to make good long term friends with open minded mature couples and single mature woman. Looking to make true friends. For Us its not all about sex. But making good friends. He has had this profile for a long time now with his ex partner. She is new to the life style and more than willing to try anything at least once or twice. If you'd like to know more about Us please feel free to contact Us. We are both very much open minded and love sex. 

Melkbosstrand, Western Cape, 7441

I'm a relaxed, laid-back guy, fairly tall, brown hair, green eyes, medium build. I'm always up for a chat, don't be shy cum say hi!! Also I'm a big fan of soccer (football), rugby, basketball and anything with 2-wheels.

Been in the lifestyle for a number of years and partied at most of the clubs and have met some awesome people I'm always looking to meet some new people, make some new friends and to just have some good fun on the way!

Moved to Cape Town recently, so keen to meet and make some new friends here in the Mother City. :)

If you have any questions or would like to know more about me, just ask.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi to everyone reading our profile. We are a MIXED RACE couple who are laid back and easy going. We enjoy meeting people and socialising. We enjoy the erotic nature of the lifestyle and are currently having a blast. So if you would love to share your fantasies of the lifestyle with us, you are so welcome to contact us. We are open for contact to all persons as we are also in the lifestyle for friendship before sharing adult fun. So if you find us interesting, give us a call. Please note, single guys, we might befriend you but that does not mean we are gonna play or meet with you privately. All gentleman please note the lady is more receptive to guys who are clean shaven in the face and where it counts. This is unfortunately non negotiable. We will be friends but their will be no kissing or playing with guys who are not clean shaven.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7460

Married couple from capetown. we'r a great adventurous cpl looking for the thrill and excitment of having a cpl join us in our bedroom as a voyeur experience. With some play experience, we are sexy clean (extremely clean) very attractive ppl slim and fun ppl.indian formerly from durban .my lady also loves the thought of being touched by another female but we would like to take it slow and easy,,looking for a cpl that we can be extremely comfy with. we'v sadly realised there rnt many serious ppl out there with a mature approach to experiencing such lust and enjoying the thrill of sharing this experience with us .only serious ppl make contact with a bbm or fone no .please no time waistes. Only serious like minded ppl stay in touch. Bbm. or email us. Please only email if u have face and body pics.
single guys also welcum with face and body pics . Remove by admin

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7100
Mister -
I am overweight around the middle am difficult to make ejaculate most times have never had group sex and am straight mostly want to play in the day anyone care to try me?
Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

I am a inexperienced submissive sissy CD girl looking for friends to explore my feminine side with..

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7460

Always looking for fun and adventure and always keen to meet new people.

Have a few friends in this lifestyle and have had good experiences. Keen to have more and meet fun hot people who are keen on enjoying life.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7925

Well here goes a brief description.
Im single 39 years old white male residing in the northern subs of Cape Town in Brackenfell.
We all know what sites like these are so no games please.
Im not looking for relationship or to fall in love... I've been a loner far to long to ever be relationship material.
All I'm looking for is to meet a female that would be interested in a friend with benefits situation.

I'm not here to brag or claim to make your world spin i dont suffer the big cock sindrome of most men on sites like these and i dont get into useless conversations with men or woman that believe that bigger is better...
With that said yes I'm a man of short build about 1.63m with a dick in proportion (small what i think is average to my body) to my height and weight and believe that my body is in proportion to my build.

So lets chat get to know each other and maybe we can meetup.

Hope to hear from you ladies soon.

Brackenfell, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I’m discreet and shy and love being sensual erotic and passionate in bed - it’s all about being hygienic and laid back 

Western Cape, South Africa

2017, year of the Cougar, Milf & Nymph. 

Cougars, Milfs & Mymphs in CPT, Gauteng and Far North (Bosveld) feel free. I am at your service. No ones toy boy, looking for FWB.

South Africa
Please to meet you -
Outgoing, spontaneous and fun. Well travelled and easy going...
Cape Town, Western Cape

We would like to socialize with like-minded couples...meeting for drinks first.


Absolutely no single guys. You will be deleted.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Thirty something , single , of mixed race, chunky but funky guy. I am fairly open minded, respectful, easy going, pretty chilled with a dry sometimes sarcastic sense of humour. 

I'm looking to have fun with likeminded individuals.

My preferences are individuals between the ages of 25 to 50, both male and female. All races welcome.

I know I may not be to everyone's taste but if you are interested inbox me and we can take it from there.

People with issues and hang ups  regarding skin colour and their sexuality or are not certain of what they want. Please stay away.

Pic hunters and time wasters, stay away too.

P.S. Don't be a p..s, be lekker.

Cape Town
Couple for couples -
Ons storie klink so: Ons is reeds 30 jaar getroud en "swing" sedert 25 jaar gelede, maar ons het in die verlede dit so min gedoen, agv kinders en ander verpligtinge. Ons kan host of ry na julle. Ons is beide str8, alhoewel ma fine is met girls wat met haar speel. Sy verkies egter 'n man met stywe piel. Sy het jare gelede 2 piele gelyk in haar pussy gevoel en sal dit graag weer wil doen. Ons is steeds baie verlief en naai elke dag. Ons maak elke aand vuur en drink 'n dop en is dus baie rustig en hou van lag. Ons speel net met couples en geen singles nie. Ons is ernstig om te ontmoet en nie net lus vir chat en chat en fotos en nooit ontmoet nie. Op ons ouderdom, besef mens dat mens jou kanse moet gebruik, voordat dit te laat is .....hahaha GEEN ENKEL MANS, ASB.
Worcester, Western Cape, 6850

hello to all you beautiful ppl present at my profile I do appreciate it,first I would like to pull you attention to my location is Bellville western cape I recently moved here from Jhb for competitive esports reasons and work as well now about myself I'm very openminded up for anything ...I mean anything I want to play around and see what I like the most and hopefully in the process make good friends for long turn friendship  and share great moments together I used to be into the whole bi sense and now not anymore I have taken what I have all I have learnded from it and decide that it is not what I want I have very brand of bond that I would like to develope with my partner one that runs very deep roots I would rather have a deep relationship then a sexual one. As always you are welcome to view my photos And send me msgs I’m always happy to see msgs in my  inbox

Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

hi open minded tall funny down to earth male very relaxed and respectful, looking to pleasure the nawty lady out there. Have a bi female partner who play when available.

Muizenberg, Western Cape, 7945
Open minded game for a lot! -
I am open minded.. like playing with couples..enjoy friendly atmosphere
7441, Western Cape, South Africa

Im here for fun, lets see where it goes,

Im not desperate so im taking my time getting to know you if we chat ....... im looking for couples or females

im easy going and can keep a decent convo going

i have pics on request , wil upload some soon

hoping to hear from u sexy people

Table View, Western Cape, 7441
Looking for a FRIEND? -
Single. Great Sense of humour positive enjoy life love touching love kissing Not to mention foreplay ....plenty ... plenty... lets meet and see what is to short.. Must have a great sense of humour ..happy in his own skin and happy with me in my minded persons please....
Uitzicht, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
easy going !!! -
well i love meeting new people, if you get to know me we would be friends for ever! we can get together for fun like maybe go to places that you like.? love music and talking. Not looking for model types, but a healthy mix of beauty, intelligence and sophistication.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Horny young guy, want to hook up with guys, girls or couples. Send me a message, I give good head! 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

Even though I have been on the site for a good few years, I sometimes still struggle with a bit of shyness.

I am a young and fit"ish" 40 guy that enjoys meeting new people and making new friends.

As it says above I am a straight male, not Bi or Bi Curious, yet I still seem to have more views from single men than what I do from ladies or couples.

I am interested in one day getting together with a couple from the site. This is one thing I have never done and would love to experience. A meeting in a public place first to get to know each other will be a prerequisite to see if we are comfortable with each other and yes, I will probably have lots of questions to ask.

To me the most important thing is to make the lady I meet feel comfortable and treat er with respect. I enjoy giving the lady the proper attention that is deserved especially when it comes to foreplay. I can spend a lot of time exploring my partners body and working out what she likes or does not like. It is all about the lady when it comes to the bedroom antics.

 Each person has their own preference in the bedroom and I feel this is important to talk about and find where the limits are and what the other person enjoys or does not enjoy.

If you would like to know more, just drop me a message, or if you see me in the pool, just ask.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405
Stellenbosch -
Hi, Im an attractive bi guy seeking couples for sex. Stellenbosch
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7602

Hi there

We a fun loving, naughty when appropriate couple, both in our early 40's, with a few extra curves here and there. We enjoy a braai with a drink or two and can be very naughty when in the mood.

We're not into the wham, bam thank you ma'm situation, prefer to chat a bit first, maybe even a meet n greet somewhere for a drink, then, if all is cool, move on to the main course, preferably in a one on one basis, so to speak.

We are looking for, preferably white/coloured females (singles), but are also considering couples (white).

Look forward to hearing from all those naughty folk out there.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
swinging couple -
we are new to this and would like to take it slow at first
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

We a mix couple. We are happily married.

1. Honesty(tell us is straight up, we can take it.)


3. Our health is very important to us, so disease free friends

4. Safety first


Ons wil die rit geniet, ons hoop julle ook.

Dankie/Thank you

mr & mrs M 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not

have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you

have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Western Cape, South Africa

If you want to experience sliding down a firemen's pole contact me!!!!!! i get the whole picture thing but really ladies i am a professional fire fighter i cant just plaster my face here so please understand thank you.

Western Cape, South Africa

have been involved in lifestyle before out of it for a while

love to pleasure women love eroticism in every way

nothing better than to see pure lustfull and open

sexual enjoyment. good sense of humour relaxed and easy going

erudite and well travelled


Somerset West, Western Cape, 7130
Hi there -
We are a sincere, happily married couple, looking for interesting, like-minded couples. We are in relatively good shape, upmarket, easy going and friendly (We think we're sexy and attractive! :-)). We don't take ourselves too seriously, we believe that life is a great adventure to be enjoyed!!
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

Enjoy sucking a clean cock - hit me up if you in the mood, I may just have a space open.

8005, Camps Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

STRAIGHT single guy looking for fun couples , single ladies  who wanna have fun

7560, Brackenfell South, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


We are Jungle fever 

We here to meet with couples and ladies for Kinky fun and mutual extacy , those who want to enjoy sexual experiences. 

We live but once. We have no hangups, age is but a number and women of larger figure drives me wild. Respect and the ladies pleasure are the most important things that we  adhere to. We work hard in our professional lives and  we play even harder. We keep fit and we like to push our bodies to the sexual limit, adrenaline keeps us alive. If your looking for a carefree spirited couple, we are that two.

NB: "WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects or whatever reason - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there, thanks for stopping by and reading my profile.  Well i am a straight guy takes life easy and they say i have a naughty smile. I love to talk and get along with anyone. Love to meet new people that makes life so much more intresting. What i hate in life is people pretending bs does not get you far in life eventually it catches up with you. Please do not take the effort to go that route.

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

UPDATE: All of the below still applies, but guys if you are a "married single" PLEASE do not contact us.  We do not judge you for your choices but we're here to play.  Trying to set up a meet on a Friday or Saterday evening with a married or attached single is just a waste of our time. And once again - we only play or meet on a Friday or Saterday evening. Oh yes abd if you're single but you cant host it's probably bc you're not so single after all - please pass us by, hate being lied to.....

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

We're a couple who love each other very much, which means we only play together. A luscious lady would be the ideal as the Mrs is bi. Couples with bi'female also great as the guys could watch the ladies having fun. As we're new to the lifestyle, we' d like to socialise with like minded people and if the chemistry is right, perhaps take it further. Please we not interested in SINGLE GUYS......

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I'm a down-to-earth kind of guy who likes to socialize and party. Although I'm here out of promiscuity, I'm perfectly happy to make new friends and I am open to any new experiences.


So I've had a few meets now, mostly mmf experiences. I've been verified and although I still consider myself a newbie, Im no longer a complete greenhorn and will happily give references.

Feel free to contact me if you want to meet a polite, open minded and very horny gentleman!

7945, Muizenberg, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

we are a couple from the overberg seeking friendship to start with. we like spending time with frieds around a good braai and enjoy what ever the outdoors bring.

Western Cape

We are a young fun loving couple looking looking for the same ;)

NO single guys please...if you send a wink or invite you will be ignored!

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

im a normal mid 20s good looking guy, who has a fantasy to meet up with straight guys, or curious guys for discreet hookups and fun. afrikaans, farmboy, who is very discreet and will respect relationships. I love to suck cock, so id be happy to take ur load down my throat. Hit me up, you wont be disappointed. Whites only, sorry, and have some sort of healthy lifestyle. Eks ook afrikaans. In mosselbay george area. Gimme some loads.

Mossel Bay, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Single guy looking for long term friends, be that couples and single ladies. No single men!! I am the real deal, no pic hunter.....when i give my word for a meeting or play date, i pitch up!! No need for endless messages. If you want to arrange something, but you cant send messages, wink at me and i send my cell number. Easy peasy....lets play.

Bellville, Western Cape, 7530