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Hi there everybody I am looking to join people for all sorts of fun. I am new to the strand area and recently single so now I wanna have alot of fun with alot of people I have never tried dogging before and would love to find a lady that is keen in the strand area or gordons bay area. Drop me an email and let's chat.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair 

and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001
We are a lifestyle polyamorous swinging couple that hosts exclusive meet & greet as well as play events for discerning couples & singles. The exciting experiences offered 'by invitation only' include meet & greets, intimate parties, private yacht cruises & multi-day getaways to name a few, as we are always open to novel ideas & suggestions. To ensure compatibility & high quality experiences for all, invitees are pre-screened and only those meeting our criteria will be accepted in our group "Exclusive Events For The Discerning" used for sending out invitations. Should you be responding to a posted ad for a current event & not already be in our group, you will be subjected to the pre-screening process to qualify. If you are a selective single or couple with discerning tastes that want to meet & enjoy a good time with other like-minded, uninhibited, fun people we look forward to hearing from you. If you are a selective single or couple with discerning tastes that want to meet & enjoy a good time with other like-minded, uninhibited, fun people we look forward to hearing from you.
Scarborough, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are just your average couple looking for some fun to spice things up a bit.

We are looking for either single male/female or couple to join us for some fun. If you part of a couple and one wants to join and one wants to watch that's also fine. If you want to play with only one of us that's also fine if the other partner is there to enjoy the show.

If you like what you see send us a mail and lets have a chat and see. Age is not really a issue, if the connection is there let the fun begin. If you see us in the chat room, feel free to have a chat. You welcome to "Whisper" 

Like every thing else we have some rules:

We always play together even if one off us just enjoys the show.

 Same race only pls 

Safety first - always

Pls don't ask for more pics. If and when we meet you can look, play and enjoy as much as you want

Ms. has the final say.

Single men pls note that a pic of your "tool" alone in not enough to get the Ms. approval. Its not how big or small it is but what you can do with it that's important.

So if you like drop as a line, lets chat and see what happens.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7407

Hi there

We a fun loving, naughty when appropriate couple, both 42 yrs old, with a son, so we the average couple in their forties, with a few extra curves here and there. We enjoy a braai with a drink or two and can be very naughty when in the mood.

Also not looking for a wham, bam thank you ma'm situation, would prefer to chat a bit first, maybe even a meet n greet somewhere for a drink, then, if all is cool, move on to the main course.

We would prefer white (caucasian) males/females generally, but are willing to consider coloured males/females.

Look forward to hearing from all those naughty folk out there.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

newly single and looking to enjoy life :) and hopefully find a playmate with an interest in philosophy and pancakes... 

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

We would like to socialize with like-minded couples...meeting for drinks first.


Absolutely no single guys. You will be deleted.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We have a healthy and active sex life but we are looking to fulfil some of our fantasies with like minded people. New to the scene so would need to be guided in the right direction at first. Cleanliness and discretion a must.
7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are an upmarket, professional couple. She is very Bi and he is straight. We love the outdoors, but we are equally at home chilling with a glass in the hand.

We are happy to invite couples and single ladies to join us for fun times. We can accommodate, depending on when our children are at home. We would love to hear from you. Looking forward to hear from you.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Fit, healthy, outdoorsy, extremely chilled out, married couple looking to make friends with other like minded couples and bi ladies. (And that is exactly what we have done on this site.)
For us it's about fun, sun, sundowners, chilling outdoors, parties round a fire, live music and hot sex. Wild weekends away are always on for us.

No single guys please. Not sure how to put this but did I mention the part about like minded couples and bi ladies - not single guys?

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

colouerd male well spoken very professional lookimg to interact with couples and single females a like race and age doesn't phase me 

Fun is the name of thegame right ? Afer all that's why we all here 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

7800, Plumstead, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi, and thank you for stopping by. Don't be scared to say hello. I almost always respond:) Im a fun guy to hang out with. I don't do drama and complications. I'm a professional career person that travels quite a bit and I use this medium to meet new people. I love adventures and never regret the choices I make. 

What I'm looking for...i think we all are searching for that ultimate sexual experience. Other then that I enjoy the company of a friendly person that is open minded and that is not scared to try new things/adventures.

I enjoy couples as well but only if the male partner is straight.

I am a chatter box so feel free to ask more. 

PS: Personal hygiene is a must.


Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there, easy going and laid back with a nawty streak.....

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

we are a young fun married couple, looking for some NSA fun.

Paarl, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa

Im looking for special lady friend  it dont havento be just about swx but that will be a bonus..... im very discreet and will treat you with respect....

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Willing to sexplore.....

Goodwood, Western Cape, 7460

Thank you for reading our profile. We are young at heart and physically very active We are happily married and have a relatively healthy sex life. We play with single guys that we feel comfy with. Couples more than welcome. Single guys above 40 preferred and please guys if you are married don't say you are single on your profile, it always comes out! Mrs has a bi streak but Mr is as straight as an arrow. We can host as we don't have children living at home anymore, the Jacuzzi is a nice form of relaxation and sets the mood. Daytimes are out we are way to busy for weekday fun.  We prefer to play within our own ethnic origin.

Bellville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi to all. I am a gentleman by nature love all things sexual. My preference is voyeurism but not shy to be naked.

Thanks for reading,S

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

We love to enjoy life and meet groups, couples and single males. We like the raunchy nights and nights out for a drink and maybe more. Like to be spontaneous. Discreet but sexy fun! Have met some good friends but at the same time like to keep everything simple.:)

If you like the same send us a mail.

Being honest and discreet is a must. Can accommodate sometimes. Do not cross the colour line.

Fantasies? Yes – We have too many to count. You’ll have to meet us to hear our favorites. :)

We are looking to hear from Males, Females, Couples and Groups, but if all you have to offer is a cock pic, you'll be disappointed.

Knysna, Western Cape, 6570

We are a fun loving couple, new to the scene. Keen to explore but want to take it slow. Looking for a like-minded couple to talk dirty, cam and see where that takes us. Sorry, no single guys but ladies welcome. Looking forward to exploring...

George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Would love to have clean fun. No strings attached no fuss , no complications.

Mossel Bay, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

I am
75 years old Irish born but lived here in South Africa 53 yrs.I have
lived in many provinces and traveled Europe .

I am unique and wont waste your time or mine .A few good friends is
all I need and I am not concerned with having tons of people. 

I know
its hard to get to know someone by just a few photos or even 100 .

A picture
is just that an image no depth. there is more to me than that, soul and

A few paragraphs just doesn't cut it either 

So if you
really want to know me better just message me That would be a good decision on
your part. .

I prefer
the younger man ,yes I am a cougar .

N.B  Men under 48 please and fair complexion .Thanks 

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
He is 41 white and she is 34 coloured. Both clean, clean shaven and like naughty fun. Looking for couples that are not pushy and interested in having naughty fun with us. We are a normal good looking couple looking for fun with a couple. Also hoping to meet groups for good parties.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

Hi there 

been on the site for a while and having some luck lol 

looking for friends not just chancres and fake people 

i am open minded 

32 yr old indian male 

from cape town who is looking to spice up my sexual life more 

if interested please contact or ask for whatsapp number thanks for your time 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


we are in s.a on holiday and keen to meet up with like minded people.  We come here once a year for up to three months at a time. long term friendships sought. In the. Hermanus area next week. Usually around Cape Town..  Don't do water sports, big beer bellies, beards, or people who cannot string a few words together. We are both proffessionals, and like lively conversation  before any action. Lots of experience in the UK. Try anything once.  Happy swinging.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm self employed architechtural technician, average built and had no complaints, lovable, sensual and like yo cuddle and love to give sensual massage and not getting away from a gud foreplay. I love gud conversation with some humour. I love to touch and do cook .....

Wanna take u to a sensual place in yr moment of pleasure while I massage u I'm not athletic nor everyday in the gym but ......I'm just as gud....its all in the hands and lips.

I love sex and more sex I'm not mr know all but we can explore together I'm ready when u are.......mwah

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

I am fit  self confident clean upmarket single guy from Cape Town..I am not new in swinging life ...actually had some 3sums with nice couples and enjoyed a lot ..also love seeing ladies 1 on 1...and I am non pushy up market guy ...travelled most of world and based in Cape Town in seapoint

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Working professionals who work hard and play harder! We love living and experiencing what life has to offer and will always try things at least once...

He is tall, outgoing and loves meeting people. She is blonde, bi (but not essential) and a little shy at first but soon becomes the life of the party.

Sexually we are pretty much open to most things if the mood is right and we are attracted to the people/person we are with. If there is a physical and mental click then we are always up for some fun.

Drop us note if you are:

1. A couple or single females (Single guys, you may have a 30inch penis that goes all night, it is not going to happen)

2. Above average looking. We are not looking for supermodels but this is about a physical attraction

3. Serious about meeting... if hours of email banter is all you are looking for we are not your couple

4. Any age between 18 - 55... see point 2


Hout Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Some good humour, good food and certainly good company, is what makes us tick. We are happy to meet couples and singles to enjoy naughty fun times. Would be great to meet others, with no strings attached, just open to honesty, nice tits........ok and all the other stuff that makes up a package of fun.

Prefer first meeting for a drink, chat and then just maybe, we all get lucky

The lady makes the rules, so best you play by the rules or you get eliminated! Married guys, do not make contact if wifey does not play, sorry!

Would love to meet people we can go camping with, enjoy holidays, drives etc, it just adds some spice to life. We have a 12 year old, so open to meeting others with children.

OH..................THOSE WHO HAS ISSUES WITH COLOUR....................THERE'S THE DOOR!!!!!

Catch everybody else soon!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7780
hi hope all is well. I am looking for wives and couples who seek a bit of adventure in their lives. Wives do you want to look into hubby's eyes and tell him you love him while I please you in every way? Hubby's do you want to give your wife the satisfaction that she deserves? Then I guess I'm your guy haha. So if you are into cuckolding feel free to contact me. I am really looking forward to hearing from all you hotwives. Oh and ladies should be treated with the utmost respect!! I prefer mature couples so don't hesitate to contact me. Cheers G
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
DON'T CONTACT US IF YOU ARE NOT STRAIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T CONTACT US IF YOU DON'T LIVE IN CAPE TOWN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T CONTACT US IF YOU DON'T HAVE PROFILE PICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DON'T CONTACT US IF YOU CAN'T READ AND UNDERSTAND OUR ADVERT COMPLETELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are a happily married , (13years),mixed couple, I am white, 42 years old, average build and she is Indian, 35 years old, slim and very petite and shy. We are not new to swinging but have not been active in the swinging scene for the past 6 years due to our busy schedules and all the time wasting bull shitters out there. Over the years we have both had various fantasies but never made them a reality until recently we decided to do something about it and found this site via an internet search. Primarily we are looking to find people who are on the same mind set as us and who are wanting to help make our fantasies become a reality. Fantasies are listed here and if you feel you would like to join and make one or all of them a reality then you may respond to our advert. We will only respond to straight persons who live in Cape Town and who have pics on their profiles as we are not going to waste time looking around for your pics or requesting them. 1). Looking for a male who will meet up on the beach with her and allow her to give him oral. 2). Her been alone in a club or pub and a complete stranger coming up to her and chatting her up and progress to sex in a pvt room. We would prefer it not be a total stranger but rather someone who we have been able to check out via this site 3). Fantasy of her having a 3some, (her and 2 guys or more). If you think you fit what we are looking for then drop us a message, tell us about yourself and include your stats including your pics and we will get back to you. Note that we will be picking those that suit us best.
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Good day I'm a young athlete gentleman looking for fun.not picky as I get along with most ppl.Good conversion is key So to make a long story short, looking to meeet new ppl and friends with being FB in the future.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7490
New to the swinging concept and looking to explore our curiosity.
Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Hi all We are a white married couple looking for other couple or single ladies for some swinging fun. We are into full swop. We only available mostly on saturday evenings and would love to have people over as we are able to host. We are not fussy. Once a couple contacts us we normally make a whatsapp group for the 4 of us and chat for 2 or 3 days. After that we find most are sure they want to go further. Once at our place we can have some snacks or a braai, jump in the jacuzzi and see what happens from there. Hubby is straight and wife is fully bi.. but that will not be forced onto any lady. All ages welcome to make contact. PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN.
Century City, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi, Im an attractive bi guy seeking couples for sex. Stellenbosch
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7602

Well .... eks afrikaans , bly in die mooie Kaap en is nie heeltemal nuut hier op die groep nie , maar nuut in die leefstyl.

Julle is meer as welkom om te gesels op die chat groep sonder om toestemming voor die tyd te vra , soos die reels bepaal lol .. diskressie en respek vir mekaar en die leefstyl is baie belangrik en moet gerespekteer word , nie hier om fotos bymekaar te maak nie , maar om vriendelike dames en paartjies te ontmoet wat die lewe wil geniet ...kom se Hallo ..... 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

7560, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as this.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

She 24, bi-curious, brunette, sexy, average build. He 39, average build, dark hair. Both about 1.65m. We are a very open minded and easy going couple looking to broaden our experiences together.

We are non-pushy, respect others wishes and are easy to get along with most of the time. Not looking to cause trouble in anyones relationship !!! We are looking for other white fun singles/couples who are also open minded, discreet and easy-going. Decent single guys welcome, preference to large cocks. Goes without saying that cleanliness is a priority as well as safe sex, this means condoms for those who don't understand.

We enjoy the outdoors, camping, bit of dam fishing, water, watersports, braais, seeing new places. Prefer a good party around a fire with good friends rather than the nightclub scene. Also looking to build up a long term friendship with the right kind of people.

If you have no profile picture, then don't even bother trying to connect with us. Whats the point in joining a swingers site and not loading a profile pic?

George, Western Cape, 6534

I would love to meet singel or married woman in my town for some regular fun! Couples are welcome! I love to explore and try new things. Open minded!

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

We married couple looking for some adult fun. We early 40 ties, attractive and look after our bodies. We fun couple and easy to get along with. We only in for same room fun, no swopping.Have small kids, so time management is a challenge.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

We are new to this and are looking to make friends to explore the lifestyle. Friends with benefits.

We want to be good friends first ( that means there is respect, understanding, honesty.) among this friendship. Hiegene and cleanlyness a must. Wife only likes clean shaven.

We want to have fun but it must be wow for both couple. NOW!!!!! We tired of bullshitters. We not into heavy drinkers, youngsters, wanaby swingers (on SH but not swingers. ).You have a look at our profile and photos, we are XXXL people (fat people) . If interested you can contact us. We are not interested in any other ethnic group. We ONLY interested in WHITE CAUCASIAN. 

Gordons Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa


So small things to keep in mind when contacting me. I will never just meet you for a quick fuck(dogging is not among my interests). If you can't first meet me for a coffee/drink,and a chat then you have no chance of getting into my bed.

I do NOT cross colour lines... that means no coloured, Indian or black gents, it's my body and therefore my choice.. and no you are NOT going to be the exception to my rule!

 I am playing alone without consent,so discretion is essential.

If you make it too my bed, condoms are not up for negotiation,I've heard every excuse in the book. No condom,no play...that simple.

I prefer my sexual friends to be between 35-55, however, this is a guideline and exceptions have been made(but no one under 24 will be considered).... preference will be given to intelligent,tall white males?

That said I have a few regular such, between work, kids and other commitments I AM  CURRENTLY NOT MEETING NEW POTENTIAL PLAYMATES. 

PS. Friend requests will be denied unless we have met and I actually would want to be your friend.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

A friend told me that this site is frequented by some very strange people, so I figured I should filter out a few folks by asking some serious questions. Please answer carefully:

1) Are you a fan of Justin Bieber?

2) Have you watched more than 2 episodes of Jersey Shore?

If your answers to both questions was 'no', then congratulations, you've passed the first test! If you answered 'yes' to either question', then I'm afraid there's no way we'll get along, sorry!

Now that we've gotten the formalities out of the way, let me introduce myself...

I tie my own shoes, brush my own hair, and make my own bed... When I'm not busy 'saving the world' or 'being awesome', I can be found sitting in on set, feverishly tapping my phone with hopes of getting a new high score on Candy Crush. I like to spend my evenings watching re-runs on the Discovery channel while sipping on a glass of Single Malt. I play a mean game of rock-paper-scissors (was the national champion for 2 years straight), and love the smell of coffee in the morning.

Anyway, if you're easy-going and at least 87% awesome, feel free to drop me a line sometime!

Strand, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

OK... Where to begin...I'm a 37yo bi white guy. I'm married to Erasmia (check out her profile). YES she knows and I sometimes play alone with her consent. We also play together. I am very comfortable with my sexuality at the moment and seek to have no hang ups, respectful, fun times with like minded people. Bi or gay boys, couples and girls are welcome to send me a message. I am currently on an extended business trip in Cape Town so please hit me up for chats and meets!

I prefer peeps between 18-40 of slim to average build and will only respond to messages/chats of people that fit that profile.

I will be the first to admit I'm no Greek God! I'm of average build and hope to make up for the rest with captivating conversation (or amazing sex - whichever comes first). I do exercise but I'm no gym bunny. I can't host in CT but can travel, all with a bit of planning of course... I always play safe! Drop me a line if you'd like to chat, I love making new friends as well. As you can see, there's no obligation, no expectation... It is what it is. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We married for 23yrs and feel its time to xplore whatever fantasies we suppressed all these yrs,its our time to live!
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

Fun and out going. Have a very high sex drive (pretty sure most men do) looking to meet like minded woman who want to explore a little. 

Strictly NSA uncomplicated fun :) 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7945

Gelukkige stoute paartjie wat die lewe geniet en kan kuier tot die son opkom.

Ons is opsoek na cpls wat dieselfde gedagte en idee as ons het. Ons is nie hard core bangers nie en soek nie net n spyker nie. Daar moet verseker n aantrekkings krag wees tussen beide partye.

Ons nooi ook graag single mans om te join in n MFM action ( asb geen MM action). Let wel ons wil graag n vriendskap bou met mense wat die selfde idee en gedagtes as ons het. Ons is lief vir dans, kuier, braai mal oor house partiies

Enkel (Single ) mans / vrouens wat met ons wil kontak maak sorg eers dat jy n gesig foto van jouself kan wys. Laai dit in n private Album en invite ons, ons gaan nie persoonlike email adres of sel nr gee vir foto's nie. Persone met n eie plek is altyd n bonus.

As jy wil ontmoet maak jouself reg om eers te ontmoet vir drankies na ure by n publieke plek, en dan neem ons dit van daar of daar enige verdere afsprake sal wees.

Let wel ons speel ook nie alleen nie en ons doen alles saam as n cpl. 

Single guys please don't make contact if you can not commit to play. We don't have time for BULLSHIT.

Sy verkies enkel mans tussen die ouderdom van 30 tot 45.

Ek verkies dames tussen die ouderdom van 30 tot 45.

Ons is nie daytime players nie.Ons kuier net oor naweke en na-ure.

Dames asb, sy stel nie in vrouens belang nie.(Ladies please she is not into women).

Just for legal stuff below.. 
WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If youhave or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It isrecommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Western Cape, South Africa
Tall, slender, long dark brown hair, fair skin, green eyes, very openminded and adventurous . . .
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7405
Hi , we are the once very private & still loving couple. That was very traditional in the bedroom, slowly we started exploring our sex life to a new level which opened up to total ecstasy. For the past few years we been very open & crazy enough to find out what works & what does not. We looking to exploring more possibilities & the option of either group sex or couple sex while being watched is playing high at the moment. Wife swopping will take sometime for us to explore but its a possibility. Thanks
Cape Town, Western Cape