I am here for fun and to make friends, like most of us I guess. I am not looking for a wife or a girlfriend. Life is way too short to go through it too seriously. Good times, good friends, and fun should be a part of everyday life I believe. If you want pictures of me, ask. Inbox me, lets chat and see where it goes. I am open minded and up for most things within reason. Try everything once but if I dont like it, respect it.
New to the lifestyle (not so new anymore, we have found our footing around a little)... Which mean that we are getting to know ourselves better and our reasons for doing what we do. We're are a fun, loving, honest couple who practice discretion at all times.
We'd love to meet /if it fit both our schedules/ without any expectations and have some fun should we feel comfortable with one another. Should that not be the case we will not harbor any hard feelings. There has to be a connection...
We do have children, which make hosting a problem. But is most probably something we can overcome with alternative arrangements. We're open to suggestions. We prefer to meet couples and single ladies for now. Single men may have also a chance.
Should you have 'limits' or issues /of any kind/... Please be kind enough to voice those before we meet.
Please feel free to message us.
I'm a good looking guy looking after my body. I find fit and muscle men attractive!
I'm looking for fun with similar guys.. Friends with benefits perhaps.
Goodlooking straight and bi curious guys hit me up..
Discretion is vital!!!
Saucy as my name say.Love big white cocks and i lick,suck and i swallow.Always up for discreet fun seeing that im married and satisfying my mate is the name of the game.In short,Im the slut you have been looking for your whole life!so you have tried the rest now pave way to the best!pls white guys only!!!!
Ps.Do NOT contact me if you have no pics on your profile pls!Your messages will be ignored and you will be blocked!!
We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????
We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.
Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we
have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer Caucasian only - just personal taste.
We are a very DTE couple.
Open minded fun couple
That loves trying new thinks in life, We are looking for like minded people to have sexy fun with.
We prefer couples and single ladies, single men will be considered tho.
Discretion and cleanliness a must...
New to this and let's see who dare mi xx
Open to the (interacial)Human race
I'm a free spirit, down to earth straight guy luking to have fun wth like minded people xx Jst want to explore my nawty side and full fill my fantasies xx
Independent, spontaneous, shy at first but very adventurous xx
Straight peeps pliz xx
Only pple wth profile pics to respond and no pic hunters.xx
Let's take a step at a time xx
Once upon a time there was a handsome young man and a sexy younger woman; they found each other while traveling the world. They fell in love and decided to go on a magical sexual journey only to find that there was this intriguing and alluring world out there referred to as ‘the lifestyle’
Their curiosity was piqued; they packed their ropes, their toys and assorted paraphernalia and embarked on the journey of finding this magical place.
As they walked along this intriguing path they found some winks, friend requests and some just senseless messages with photos from some two legged animals who thought they were a new species. Their brains lodged between their legs keeping their genitalia company.
This made them realize that it was going to be a long but also interesting journey to get to that magical place by way of Swinging Heaven.
And as they progressed along their path they met some very interesting & naughty couples, ravishingly delicious single ladies and eager to please gentlemen. Some they would enjoy as friends and some they would enjoy a whole lot more … And sadly some they would much rather forget.
At last they found this little piece of heaven and they were so over joyed that they build their very own magical B&S (bed with sex) fairy castle and celebrated it with a new found group of mff and mfff friends.
So i decided to update this profile thingy.. here goes:
In a world where everything seems to be sexualized we find ourselves still being discreet about our whims and fancies.
On SH we let loose and often find people with who we can connect with on a whole new level and i find that being honest will often surprise you on this site.
This is one of the main reasons i joined.
I'm married to a beautiful woman whom i love very dearly but she does not understand this side of me.
I'm here to free my sexual prowess and on the odd occasion be a bit of an exhibitionist.
I dont care if you small or big, white or black, beautiful or ugly, male or female.. come and chat to me :)
Good Day, all
I am just looking for a descent lady or couple for long term friendship and see where the road takes us!!
Please respect people on this sight, some just don't care what they say and who they say it to !!!!!!
O please note I am married and discretion is needed.
Afrikaanse boerseunjie but also like playing in English lol
Hope u all have a great day and enjoy Cheers till we meet again!!!!
We are new to this and are looking to make friends to explore the lifestyle. Friends with benefits.
We want to be good friends first ( that means there is respect, understanding, honesty.) among this friendship. Hiegene and cleanlyness a must. Wife only likes clean shaven.
We want to have fun but it must be wow for both couple. NOW!!!!! We tired of bullshitters. We not into heavy drinkers, youngsters, wanaby swingers (on SH but not swingers. ).You have a look at our profile and photos, we are XXXL people (fat people) . If interested you can contact us. We are not interested in any other ethnic group. We ONLY interested in WHITE CAUCASIAN.
Married couple from capetown. we'r a great adventurous cpl looking for the thrill and excitment of having a cpl join us in our bedroom as a voyeur experience. With some play experience, we are sexy clean (extremely clean) very attractive ppl slim and fun ppl.indian formerly from durban .my lady also loves the thought of being touched by another female but we would like to take it slow and easy,,looking for a cpl that we can be extremely comfy with. we'v sadly realised there rnt many serious ppl out there with a mature approach to experiencing such lust and enjoying the thrill of sharing this experience with us .only serious ppl make contact with a bbm or fone no .please no time waistes. Only serious like minded ppl stay in touch. Bbm. or email us. Funpeople2007@hotmail.com. Please only email if u have face and body pics.
single guys also welcum with face and body pics . Remove by admin
Halo, thank you for looking at my profile.
please, I am not interested how horny you are, then you are a false bullshitter. If you not interested in becoming friends over a cup of coffee or a drink, that I will pay for myself, then you can find some other person who will jump into your lap with a first meeting. I prefer meeting in a public place as well, sorry don't trust anybody.
I enjoy playing with people older than 40 and of my ethnic group, please respect that and I wont change my mind. Young men UNDER 40,you dont stand a chance, DONT EVEN TRY.
Love lots of oral, fisting, squirting, good clean fun, NOT INTO ANAL OR ANYTHING WITH PAIN.
Love nudism, everything with respect, I am a mature bbw, know what i want and need.
Hubby plays with when he is in the country, so yes, he knows I am on the site.
Chilled guy, hit me up and let's see where things go...
I am a professional, discreet, hygienic white male, who commutes between Cape Town and Gauteng , having business in both areas. I am 49, 1.78m, slender athletic build, brown short hair, (bald on top), Blue eyes, clean shaven, who has realized life is short, is only lived once and ought to be lived to the full. I have lived alone for the last 14 years and am in a full time relationship with my work, thus am not into falling in love or wanting anything more than a no strings attached friends with benefits type of relationship.
I am a broad minded, well endowed, sexually adventurous person, in search of friendship or an erotic encounter, to experience the magnitude of experience on the adult gourmet menu and to share in the pleasure, of some of those small passing moments in life. I am willing to learn, and eager to try or share anything new and different.
Life is like a menu, or a wrapped present or package. You don't know what is inside until you open it and with a menu, you are presented with the available selection, but do not know what each item is like, or how good it can be until you try it.
I enjoy good conversation and can hold a discussion on most topics and am not of the pushy type, but go with the flow of the moment. I am fully bi-lingual, and continuously horny due to a thorough drought in that department over the last number of years. I enjoy long extended foreplay, love oral and giving sensual massages.
I trust that what I have presented is sufficient for me to hear from you soon
We are a mixed married couple for 18 years...he white an she mixed (white and coloured).
We are an easy going, secure, healthy..no hang ups couple that enjoy good witty conversations and company.
Want to meet with couples with similar interests. That are open minded and have no issues with race. We still do not comprehend how you can say open minded and dont cross the race barrier in the same sentence anyway!
Single Ladies...you are most welcome too.
We like to group chat first to see if there is mutual interest, but do not mind if the ladies want to chat first and if we click...meet up and take it from there.
Single guys...Please read our profile properly....we are not interested...you have been automatically blocked from sending mails.
Last but not least. If we message you and we do not appeal to you..at least have the decency to reply with a simple thanks, but no thanks..there will be no love lost..no love found.
M & R
Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair
and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx
Ok… so let’s start:
I’d like first to apologize for the typos I might have
I thought I would throw some keywords that would describe what I like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile. If you don’t keep on reading, I swear I won’t be upset with you. I will never know anyway
Travel, surprises, music, dancing, sports, books, last minute plans, open mind, photography, museum, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, flip flops (yes, the sandals), down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), people, casual, word, news, work, sense of humor about yourself, awareness.
And yet another short list of things that I’m not really fond of:– Cars (can’t tell why I put this one first
Self-centered people (but, hey… Have you already heard anybody saying “yes, yes, I am definitely self-centered.” So this one doesn’t really count!!)–
TV (even if I like one or two shows and some movies)–
Excessive work out / complete body addiction–
Superficial people (but same problem as #2…
In addition, if you happen to pronounce the following sentences regularly, we’re definitely increasing the chance of a good match here:
“Ok let’s give it a try”“
To be honest,
I don’t know”
“I respect that”“
And last (I promise), if you think that Cape Town is the most beautiful city in the world, throw your hands up in the air and wave them like you just don't care,lol hope that made you smile
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We are still very new at the lifestyle
Same room rule applies and just having fun.
Hope to meet a easy, fun, out going couples or single females as well as respectable and clean shaven a must
WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for
study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam
or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be
considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.
Just being us....love sexy people...love confidence....oh....lets play. Not into cyber sex...prefer the real deal. Do not chat/mail us if you are in another country/province and do not plan to visit Cape Town soon - please . We are not skinny, but we do look after ourselves and work out five time a week.
We are SWINGERS and would like to meet people...not just chat or pic swapping. AN yes, we do meet together, ALWAYS...a lot of the single guys on here wants to have 1 on 1 fun with me (lady)...I am not interested, he will sometimes give me some alone time with singles, but it always end up as a 3some - thanks - and if you do not know how swinging works, please Google it. I am not here to teach you how to have sex. My husband is straight.
Girls - we will treat you with respect and give you the time of your life!
That said and done - we are very relaxed, social people, who appreciate good food and wine....nothing like a good braai and a warm jacuzzi.
Unfortunately we do not play during the day - and guys, please please please shave your pubic hair...
Looking for fun...
im a extreamly horny guy, with an average cock, i love to tease women before fucking them... when i fuck it tend to be hard deep and long strokes... i do it with passion, because i love pussy... i suck or lick pussy hard nd biting softly on it..... i wuld love 2 put my hard big warm dick in your wet warm slippery pussy! Nd fuck it hard nd fast... Nd cum waistd all ova....
ek is plat, n gewone ou wat net n biekie pret soek, its buiten gewoont, opwindend. ek hou van stout wees, ek like couples dop hou.... its wat my nog meer warmer is om dop gehou te word deur die dame se partner en sien hoe baie plesier sy daar uitpit... eks up vir amper enige its, laat weet maar ons kan gesels,
Regular traveler to Gauteng, very open minded and extremely discreet. Looking for long term friendship and fun. Professional, easy going, medium build, clean and take care of myself. I am straight as an arrow and looking to have some fun and to explore with the right discreet partner. No rush, would like to chat first and then see from there. I do not like multiple relationships at the same time, and prefer to have one lady friend to play with.
I love giving oral and enjoy the taste of a women.
Gents; if we have not chatted in the pool and you perv my profile, you will be blocked.
I BLOCK GAY GENTS, SORRY BUT I LOVE WOMEN A LOT MORE.
I'm a fit sporty guy, well travelled and all rounded. I'm very sexual, open minded and always up for new experiences.....
Happy hunting guys
I'm young good looking guy bit chubby and nice personality I aim to please and just have fun laugh and make friends will u be my friend?
I'm wheelchair bound paraplegic. I'm fully functional and Independent. I'm a nudist by nature,has been to 2 nudist colonies so far. Sun Eden my fav. Love been naked whenever i can. I'm also a biker,have a trike build up for me so i can live my lifestyle.
Got a great deal of fantasies,maybe i can fulfill some of them with you. I have a bi curious streak in me that wont let go. Also into water sports and insertions. Open for fun outdoors as well as indoors.
Dogging is my new thingie i like like. Like to be watched or watching. Even if couples just want to have a naked toy in their room watching them,im the one.
Would love to meet a Trans. Any out there,please shout. Oh and i was a photographer between 2004 and 2009. So if you need personal pix or videos. You know who to ask. :)
I think life is to short to have issues and not enjoying it. SO i look for girls and guys i can chill with. Anything from sex,just pure naked fun and mutual pleasures, with a dry red in the one hand and maybe something else in the other hand.
If you feel the same and looking for fun....hit me up.
Please feel free to ask me anything....
almost 75 years old Irish born but lived here in South Africa 53 yrs.I have
lived in many provinces and traveled Europe .
I am unique and wont waste your time or mine .A few good friends is
all I need and I am not concerned with having tons of people.
its hard to get to know someone by just a few photos or even 100 .
is just that an image no depth. there is more to me than that, soul and
A few paragraphs just doesn't cut it either
So if you
really want to know me better just message me That would be a good decision on
your part. .
the younger man ,yes I am a cougar .
We a fun loving couple who have been in the lifestyle for quite some time, we are spontaneous, honest, issue free and both live life to the full.
If you are visiting the Garden Route, please drop us a mail as we would love to meet you, we would also love to receive party invites as we love to travel. We do spend a lot of time in Johannesburg, Cape Town and KZN due to work and private commitments and would love to meet regular play friends in these regions.
We are a happy, totally laid back and at ease with our sexuality and we are looking to share, sensual intimate, fun filled evenings or weekends with the right couple and or single/s.
We enjoy sensual evenings which involve flirting, touching, feeling, soft swap or full swap with M/f / FFM / MMF / FFMM .... There is no written script and we like to just go with the flow and respect everyone's wishes and boundaries.
Chemistry plays a huge role when we meet people, we like spontaneous and confident people who are able to be themselves . Of course there has to be a physical attraction but brains, manners, respect and a good sense of humour go a long way on their own.
Thank you for showing interest in our profile
NOTE: Please guys, girls and couples – Private albums are loads of fun but please don’t ask us to open ours before we get to know you and that applies to sending invites to yours as well. You albums will just be deleted – same as friend requests where we didn’t start chatting even. We are a active lifestyle couple but still want to know you before receiving private albums or friend requests. A private album is something special – to share there must be a connection
About Mr Stoutgat: Mr Stoutgat was as a single, married couple and now in a committed long term relationship active in the lifestyle for about 10 years. I am 42 year young, white male, 1,8 m, slender buildt, short brown hair, green-blue eyes, wears glasses with full facial hair. I can be on the shy side until you get to know me. Once that happens the sky is the limit when it comes to being adventurous. I do love to treat my partner with respect, pamper and treat her … I love socialising with friends and family. Braaiing and camping are among my favourite things to do. Clubbing is not high on my favourite list. I do enjoy a party now and then but prefer an intimate gathering of a few couples at someone’s house to a large party.
Iets omtrent Mev Kortgat: Ek is nie so lank in die leefstyl soos Mnr Stoutgat nie, maar geniet elke oomblik daarvan. Mnr Stoutgat het my uit die kas gehaal, nou weier “delila” om weer in te klim lol. Ek is 51, blank, en 1.52m kort. Ek het ‘n avontuurlusitge kant wat maklik sy verskyning maak. Ek lag maklik en geniet die lewe ten volle. Ek is stout .. skaam .. maar ‘n babbelkous en naugty avontuurlustige girl. Hou van “tender sex”, maar die “wild side” maak my ekstaties. ‘n Klap op die boud, blinddoek, “teasing” en “handcuffs” maak die girl mos behoorlik resend van lekkerkry … “Teasing and pleasing is my aim” Ek hou van stap langs die strand, braai, kamp en die buitelewe en veral kuiers saam met vriende. Elke speel “date” is uniek en heerlik om die ervarings saam met Mnr Stoutgat te deel. Ek is “bi-friendly” – het al ‘n paar ondervindings gehad en het dit geniet. Ek is ‘n “squirter” en geniet dit terdee!!
About us: We always play together. We don’t play during daytime. We respect other lifestyle friends boundaries. We do condomise with penetration. Love exploring. We looking for new friends and if benefits included, what a bonus. We don’t bite … nibble YES lol. We like to meet new friends, chat or meet new couples not more that 150km from us. The chances are slim meeting if you staying further than that. Chemistry between all the people involved are high on our list. We in the lifestyle to enjoy it – not having trouble with bull shitters that’s not really single, or married men not playing with their wife’s concent – if you one of them reading our profle – please pass our profile – WE ARE NOT INTERSTED. We do bi-couples play dates – Mr Stoutgat will give but for now not receive … and Mrs Kortgat, if she is comfortable with the lady of the couple … will explore and enjoy. Mrs Kortgat don’t do anal …
You made it this far … thank you for taking time reading our profile. Would love to hear from you. Send us a mail. We love group chatting on whatsapp with all involved. We do meet before all the action start … have a naughty fun-filled day
No single guys - it means no
If you do not have any pics or your partner does not know you are on this site, please dont contact us. No single or bi males please!
We love to travel,make friends, party and cook outdoors. Have trailer, will travel (haha). When we ask for pics, please dont send Penis or fanny pics., we are more intersted in what in you as a person.
Down to earth couple, no hang ups. If you only want pics, move on. If we dont reply to message dont be offended, sometimes it is better to say nothing than to reply without offending any persons feelings.
look forward to hearing from you.
If you send us pics or invite us to your album, please send us pics of what the two of you look like, not explicit pics, we are more interested in the who you are than tits and penis.
Thanks you for reading my profile. As you can see i am an intelligent guy, with values and respect. very discreet
I am in no means desperate to play but will do so when required or its pre arranged. I am looking for a couple or female but is also able and willing to do nsa. If you want to have me as a f w b let me know
Although I'm with someone I do play alone as she is not interested in the lifestyle
Feel free to make contact if you want to play
I can travel when required
We are new to this.Very clean and discreet couple,who looking for like minded female or couple having fun with us,prefer people that's also new in this to discuss first and see where it leads us,please no single male and if you pretend to be a couple there are ways to find out.So for this stage couples and single female. NO SINGLE MAN!!!!! We buzz you when we want single man,don't annoy yourself cause you aint annoying us WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well
A friend told me that this site is frequented by some very strange people, so I figured I should filter out a few folks by asking some serious questions. Please answer carefully:
1) Are you a fan of Justin Bieber?
2) Have you watched more than 2 episodes of Jersey Shore?
If your answers to both questions was 'no', then congratulations, you've passed the first test! If you answered 'yes' to either question', then I'm afraid there's no way we'll get along, sorry!
Now that we've gotten the formalities out of the way, let me introduce myself...
I tie my own shoes, brush my own hair, and make my own bed... When I'm not busy 'saving the world' or 'being awesome', I can be found sitting in on set, feverishly tapping my phone with hopes of getting a new high score on Candy Crush. I like to spend my evenings watching re-runs on the Discovery channel while sipping on a glass of Single Malt. I play a mean game of rock-paper-scissors (was the national champion for 2 years straight), and love the smell of coffee in the morning.
Anyway, if you're easy-going and at least 87% awesome, feel free to drop me a line sometime!
Down to earth Tranny, open minded yet not into woman sorry. Men who are men. Men who loves a woman with a difference contact me. Men of all races welcome.
I am a adventurous guy who loves sex with men and/or woman and couples of all kinds. I am up for anything and love to try new things. I have my own venue and can also travel. I`m a cop so give it all you got. Lol
I am looking for NSA fun times. Someone/Couple who can hopefully keep up with a high sex drive and willing to try new things.
PLEASE NO SINGLE MEN, messages or chats
Thank you for reading our profile.
We are interested in a Straight Female or a Bi Female or a Couple ...............
We have been part of this lifestyle for years but there is still allot we can learn. We are a down to earth couple, honest, clean, professional and decent family people so please no bullshitters and we do not cross the racial boundary, our preference. We are open to playful ideas, and are interested in trying new things.
We’re a Non-pushy, easy-going, relaxed couple (she cute, petite, high sex drive and bi-curious), (he Average Build ) loving and playful. We are respectful and we play by woman's rule .We don't have any hang ups and we are not here for a one night stand but for long term friendship with sexy friends. We are seeking mainly Straight Female or a Bi Female companion (18 to 40 ) or a Couple for some hot sexy times. We can host, only weekends. We like a nice chat and allot of laughs have a glass of wine and just relax and be yourself. We like it intense and slow.
If you feel like chatting , feel free to reply and lets chat.
Hope to hear from you soon.
WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not
have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you
have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is
recommended that other members post a similar notice as this.
We are easy going couple who love to laugh and have fun.
We have been in the life style for some time and had some awesome experiences.
We not Barbie and Ken but lead a very active life.
We are looking to expand our friendship circle while enjoying the perks of playmates.
Life is short and we want to make the most of it.