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We are still very new at the lifestyle 

Same room rule applies and just having fun.

Hope to meet a easy, fun, out going couples or single females as well as respectable and clean shaven a must

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Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

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NOTE:  Please guys, girls and couples – Private albums are loads of fun but please don’t ask us to open ours before we get to know you and that applies to sending invites to yours as well.  You albums will just be deleted – same as friend requests where we didn’t start chatting even. We are a active lifestyle couple but still want to know you before receiving private albums or friend requests. A private album is something special – to share there must be a connection. And if you are married or show in relationship ... Dont even ask us to chat if your partner is not joining. To say you have their concent ... Please who are you bull shitting ... We in this to enjoy ... 

About Mr Stoutgat:                                                                                                                                                                                                                             Mr Stoutgat was as a single, married couple and now in a committed long term relationship active in the lifestyle for about 10 years. I am 42 year young, white male, 1,8 m, slender buildt, short brown hair, green-blue eyes, wears glasses with full facial hair.  I can be on the shy side until you get to know me.  Once that happens the sky is the limit when it comes to being adventurous. I do love to treat my partner with respect, pamper and treat her …  I love socialising with friends and family.  Braaiing and camping are among my favourite things to do. Clubbing is not high on my favourite list. I do enjoy a party now and then but prefer an intimate gathering of a few couples at someone’s house to a large party. 

Iets omtrent Mev Kortgat:                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Ek is nie so lank in die leefstyl soos Mnr Stoutgat nie, maar geniet elke oomblik daarvan.  Mnr Stoutgat het my uit die kas gehaal, nou weier “delila” om weer in te klim lol.  Ek is 51, blank, en 1.52m kort.  Ek het ‘n avontuurlusitge kant wat maklik sy verskyning maak.  Ek lag maklik en geniet die lewe ten volle.  Ek is stout .. skaam .. maar ‘n babbelkous en naugty avontuurlustige girl.  Hou van “tender sex”, maar die “wild side” maak my ekstaties.  ‘n Klap op die boud, blinddoek, “teasing” en “handcuffs” maak die girl mos behoorlik resend van lekkerkry … “Teasing and pleasing is my aim”  Ek hou van stap langs die strand, braai, kamp en die buitelewe  en veral kuiers saam met vriende.  Elke speel “date” is uniek en heerlik om die ervarings saam met Mnr Stoutgat te deel.  Ek is “bi-friendly” – het al ‘n paar ondervindings gehad en het dit geniet.  Ek is ‘n “squirter” en geniet dit terdee!!

About us:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            We always play together. We don’t play during daytime. We respect other lifestyle friends boundaries.  We do condomise with penetration.  Love exploring. We looking for new friends and if benefits included, what a bonus.  We don’t bite … nibble YES lol.  We like to meet new friends, chat or meet new couples not more that 150km from us.  The chances are slim meeting if you staying further than that.  Chemistry between all the people involved are high on our list.  We in the lifestyle to enjoy it – not having trouble with bull shitters that’s not really single, or married men not playing with their wife’s concent – if you one of them reading our profle – please pass our profile – WE ARE NOT INTERSTED. We do bi-couples play dates – Mr Stoutgat will give but for now not receive … and Mrs Kortgat, if she is comfortable with the lady of the couple … will explore and enjoy.  Mrs Kortgat don’t do anal …

You made it this far … thank you for taking time reading our profile. Would love to hear from you. Send us a mail. We love group chatting on whatsapp with all involved.  We do meet before all the action start  … have a naughty fun-filled day


Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140

Always looking for fun and adventure and always keen to meet new people.

Have a few friends in this lifestyle and have had good experiences. Keen to have more and meet fun hot people who are keen on enjoying life.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7925
Just a discreet guy wanting discreet and clean fun,for bi,str8 and gay guys.
Mossel Bay, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Really keen to chat and have fun!

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi we are your average married couple . We looking to make friends with like minded married couples .We are NOT INTO FULL SWAP AT ALL !! We enjoy same room sex , watching and being watched and soft swing .The lady enjoys girl on girl action and loves to be watched while performing. So if you like the above and have the same interests please contact us .We would love to hear from you. If there is chemistry well then, let us explore!!!


Melkbosstrand, Western Cape, 7441
He is 41 white and she is 34 coloured. Both clean, clean shaven and like naughty fun. Looking for couples that are not pushy and interested in having naughty fun with us. We are a normal good looking couple looking for fun with a couple. Also hoping to meet groups for good parties.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

I am a adventurous guy who loves sex with men and/or woman and couples of all kinds. I am up for anything and love to try new things. I have my own venue and can also travel. Whatsapp me 0824568859

Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

Curious couple looking to meet with people in the lifestyle. 

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441
Any straight,bi or bi curious guys for some day time fun? Send a pvt message to set it up!
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001
just looking
7441, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Easy going married couple! Enjoying life to the fullest-why? Becausewecan

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500
Straight forward looking for a couple that wants to fuck till they drop. Tired of ping pong messages and photo swop an nothing comes of it. We looking for the real people.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Mostly looking to make online buddies. Those guys and girls that gets you and you know how they are screwed together. Not sure if I intended that pun :)

Western Cape, South Africa

New to this and let's see who dare mi xx

Open to the (interacial)Human race


I'm a free spirit, down to earth straight guy luking to have fun wth like minded people xx Jst want to explore my nawty side and full fill my fantasies xx 

Why have a black dildo wen u can experience the real deal xx

If you like it, go for it, if you go for it the sky is the limit xx

Independent, spontaneous, shy at first but very adventurous xx

Straight peeps pliz xx

Only pple wth profile pics to respond and no pic hunters.xx

Let's take a step at a time xx

So let the game begin xx

Free to comments and  msgsxx

No pushy pple xx

And if you don't cross the racial barrier, don't view my profile xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7140

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????

We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.

Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we

have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer Caucasian only - just personal taste.

We are a very DTE couple.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7551

We are looking for long term friendship with like minded couples. We just Love nature, braai and camping, and have a great sense of humor! 

We guarantee and expect discretion and respect.  We do like people who think differently.

We are not age or body conscious. 

If you like our profile and are seriously looking for friendship and more, do contact us. 

Tell us what you are looking for and lets meet over a drink or coffee.

We are not here to break up relationships....... all 4 or nothing at all.

No friend requests will be accepted if we are not friends.

We only exchange pictures with friends.

 WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well


Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560
Hi - I've bumped into someone and asked me to join. Why not - nothing to loose and always game for something new.
Brackenfell, Western Cape, 7560

Just a young sane educated male, out here to explore my sexual horizons:) No BS/NO drama, just going with flow and seeing where this adventure takes me...Im laid back, not pushy and just out here to gain some memorable experiences. Drop me a msg always up to chat and who knows fun/friendship could be had by all:)

Rondebosch, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

So its time for a change here......

This profile was old, things change.

We have had some good fun and met some great people here.

We have been quiet for awhile but are back and want to see where the new adventure takes us.

If you are interested.. Lets meet and see where it goes.

7945, Muizenberg, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Hi , I'm a international student in varisty let's get to gather and have fun
Stellenbosch, Western Cape, 7600
Seeking white,chinese, japanese or other asian females for gf or just fun between ages of 28 to 35. I might be willing for ages differences. Should be in cape town or very near. I wana expand my life experiences. Iam a soft hearted guy. But im loyal to one in my life if one or more. I had vasectomy few years ago even. Try me u never know if ul like me. To txt dont show real person. Life is too shoft to say why did i not do that or try that. Im single and can travel when possible for me to do so.
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7406

Im an explorer whom looks for the passion that drives 1nce soul. I am happily involved with a woman so pure of soul yet so inlust with life and exploration. Eventho hot men turns her on, we seek the lust of life in the sheer beauty of feminity. We intern would love to meet couples and bi women that can trigger that sheer lust of feminity. Please be aware that the conventional approach of swopping is not in the cards however being around people that are excited by the open minded and social interaction. There are no public or x rated pics asthe safety of my woman is of most importance.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

always difficult part......

We are both easy going, enjoy sexual encounters and (if) any friendship comes with it. Then the term will be fulfilled **Friends with Benefits**. Not in anything with complications, no to any gender playing behind their partner.

Not saying NO to singles but the filter you need to go through is tough.

We do not reply anyone without profile pic or if you have private album and requesting contact from us, be kind and share them or be prepared to mail one.

Both here for opposite sex but do not scare from the touch of the same ones also, so call it bi=friendly.

The rest ask us..............

Bloubergstrand, Western Cape, 7441

Hi there

We a fun loving, naughty when appropriate couple, both 42 yrs old, with a son, so we the average couple in their forties, with a few extra curves here and there. We enjoy a braai with a drink or two and can be very naughty when in the mood.

Also not looking for a wham, bam thank you ma'm situation, would prefer to chat a bit first, maybe even a meet n greet somewhere for a drink, then, if all is cool, move on to the main course.

We would prefer white (caucasian) males/females generally, but are willing to consider coloured males/females.

Look forward to hearing from all those naughty folk out there.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

looking for some good fun with a bi male or gay guy can travel in and around Cape TownI'm versatile 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are new to this.Very clean and discreet couple,who looking for like minded female or couple having fun with us,prefer people that's also new in this to discuss first and see where it leads us,please no single male and if you pretend to be a couple there are ways to find out.So for this stage couples and single female. NO SINGLE MAN!!!!! We buzz you when we want single man,don't annoy yourself cause you aint annoying us WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000


So small things to keep in mind when contacting me. I will never just meet you for a quick fuck,move along rapidly if that is what you are seeking(dogging is not among my interests). If you can't first meet me for a coffee/drink,and a chat then you have no chance of getting into my bed.

I do NOT cross colour lines... that means no coloured, Indian or black gents, it's not a racist choice it's a personal preference... and no you are NOT going to be the exception to my rule!

 I am playing alone without consent,so discretion is essential.

If you make it too my bed, condoms are not up for negotiation,I've heard every excuse in the book. No condom,no play...that simple.

I prefer my sexual friends to be between 30-55, however, this is a guideline and exceptions have been made.... preference will be given to intelligent, dominant,tall,fit and classy white males?

That said I have a few regular FWB, and rarely have the time to meet new candidates... if you're only into the thrill of the chase and don't have the balls to meet in person... don't waste my time.

I know I sound like a right royal bitch... but be warned that side of my personality does exist if the occasion warrants it.

PS. Friend requests will be denied unless we have spoken in the pool or have communicated in some way at least.

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

we are a fun loving couple enjoying good sex we are staying to our own race please.  We only want to chat and meet couples.  No single men, sorry guys.

George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm a kinky, playful, creative person who is looking at expanding my experiences with like-minded people. I'd like to excite your imaginations, and share new ideas; also to experiment - and in the process produce super turn-on material.

Another satisfying hobby of mine involves the joy of making sex(y)-furniture with the aim of increasing the fun-factor. I'm always busy building some sexy contraption, swing, or custom kinky aid.

I'm here to make new friends, have fun, and evolve

Somerset West, Western Cape, 7135

2016....time for update!!

Im a single, young, fun, friendly but also very strong willed 38 yr old male living in CAPE TOWN area, I love going out dancing/clubbing at night and also enjoy the outdoors and doing anything fun.  Those are the things that usualy turns me on especialy anything that gets adrenalin pumping or just fun to do. So make sure you can keep up whether your 24 or 45.


Girls....mwah.......GUYS SERIOUS!!!!!!!!! can you imagine what any single guy gets troubled with here .... try and be realistic when chatting with me in any way please - as you can see i have a face pic up and that's exactly what i also want to see first!! YOUR FACE!! 

Felt i had to repeat this part again at the top lol

if your ashamed of being here then you really shouldn't be here in the first place - especialy not reading my profile cause if you're not wiling to show me what you look like (and by that i mean your face!!)

only ages between 24 - 45 and prefer curvey & married women : ) (Very discret thought)

**cuckolds would love my company! 



I'm a very friendly hot gentleman who loves having fun - very independent, adventurous, and absolutely loves pleasure. I've got a very strong personality. Do not underestimate me at all cause that is the one thing that really gets me mad. Very down to earth but a bit of a snob when being attracted to someone. If you are up for a challenge then let me know - make sure you know you are and that your not thinking it 

Cape Town, Western Cape

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves. The Mrs prefers singles between the ages of 30 - 40.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months (only Friday- or Saterdaynights) - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on whats app first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

If you like to have a nice conversation, maybe a drink, some flirting followed by some kissing then we can have loads of fun together 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a recently married fun loving couple. We have been together for more than 6 years prior to getting married.

We have no children but we are both professionals so discretion is very important to us.

“Beware the Jabberwock, my son!

The jaws that bite, the claws that catch!

Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun

The frumious Bandersnatch!”

We have very limited experience in the lifestyle but we are eager to learn. So far we are into same room sex and dogging.

Please contact us if you would like to get to know us better. We prefer to establish an online relationship first. (some chatting, emails maybe trade some photos)


Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

I am chilled quiet and easy. Just looking for discreet NSA fun with the right people, should the opportunity arise. I am not one for serious relationships at the moment, if you (and maybe your partner) are cool, fun, not pushy and have no expectation, then maybe we can meet up and see where it goes. I am respectful and am just seeing where things go... 

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7735

Looking for NSA fun and friendship. Preferably with someone who can hold a conversation before and after.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

I am fit  self confident clean upmarket single guy from Cape Town..I am not new in swinging life ...actually had some 3sums with nice couples and enjoyed a lot ..also love seeing ladies 1 on 1...and I am non pushy up market guy ...travelled most of world and based in Cape Town in seapoint

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi! Recently turned bi guy looking for straight/bi couples. Note - "recently turned bi i.e. I used to be gay and now, well, I'm not!

8001, Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Clean healthy couple, gym fit, & safe, looking to fulfill our fantasies NO SINGLES.. We been told we young looking... not necessary in a wheel chair 

and are extremely clean, :) NO SINGLES.. up for any challenge if you want honesty & EROTIC pleasure you've cum to the right place..NO SINGLES We don't do endless emails late night gossip or early morning smoke signals we not good spellers & you might get the wong :) message lol mwa xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

Youthful intellegent guy, looking for some good honest fun no strings attached hook ups.

I enjoy life and try not take myself or everyone else to seriously cause life is to short to worry. So if your like minded drop me a message and let's have a chat and take it from there

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8003

We are a couple that have been in a long term relationship, now seeking to broaden our experience, with same age group. Respectable and good behaviour is a big must.

We are not always able to be available as HE travels often. We are an open friendly couple. SHE will do mostly all the correspondence, but I will be around. We will not give out any private info such as phone numbers and emails

other than the one we have set up. PLEASE, if you don't have public pics of both male and female or recent pics, don't waist your time or ours. If not public pics, then please send us an album when you contact us, thanks. We are looking forward to meeting some sexy friendly folk.


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700
I am a guy looking to meet women who might be interested in joining with my wife later on
Kuils River, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are looking for easy going people with no hang ups. We look after ourselves and are looking for professional couples. NO SINGLE MEN!!

We don't want any pushy couples, just friends with benefits and being able to laugh along the way.

We are open for anything so drop us a line!

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

 I'm a good looking guy looking after my body. I find fit and muscle men attractive!

I'm looking for fun with similar guys.. Friends with benefits perhaps.

Goodlooking straight and bi curious guys hit me up..

Discretion is vital!!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are an easy going couple, we enjoy friendships first. We are not into Wham Bam Thank you Mam type of relationships. We are wanting to find a lady that wants to have fun with us as a couple. Our interests outside of this lifestyle are getting away, photography, reading and good food. Couples will not be discounted, we do enjoy fun times with couples too. You will either have to get to know us for who we are or you will have to be able to hold a really good conversation with us to make us interested...... In any event Mr U believes he is as old as the woman he feels - so that could determine how old you want him to be ......

Our aim in this lifestyle is to make friends. If things develop beyond friends that is a bonus. If not - we still have really great friends.

WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7945

GENTLEMEN PLEASE I Am NOT Bi Nor Gay - Please don't waste your time, I am not available.

Looking for Ladies and Couples to chat and share experiences. Then see where it leads.

I love seaside adventures. And braai. and naughty and kinky stuff too.

Prefer unshaven ladies.

Some of my interests I have experienced. A lot of them still wanting.

Gordons Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Never really done this before, but just a young guy looking to explore a bit and have a bit of fun. Nothing serious. Ladies, wanna take a seat? ;)

Open to MMFs, or FFMs if that's what you're looking for - pretty casual my side. Generally only looking for under 40s. Here's to good times ahead.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7735

Slim and trim.  Looking for a Fuck Buddy for NSA fun, with a guy or guys....I love to be naked in the open air.  I am versatile but love to bottom.  I visit Fish Hoek on a regular basis. 

I can't speak Afrikaans so messages in English please.

Montagu, Robertson, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa

Have been popping in and out of the lifestyle for the last 9 years. Enjoy exploring and experiencing the pleasure aspects of life....especially giving pleasure. 

Will add more here shortly

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700
Im very interested in this lifestyle and Id love to experience more had my first encounter about a year ago....single and older women are welcome Im very open-minded and love the outdoors
Kuils River, Western Cape, 7580