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Cape Town, Western Cape, 7808

I would love to meet singel or married woman in my town for some regular fun! Couples are welcome! I love to explore and try new things. Open minded!

Strand, Western Cape, 7140

Happily married couple looking for uncomplicated adult fun. No drama, no BS. Singles (m&F) are welcome to introduce yourselves, although we prefer couples.

Please note:

The lifestyle is not our first priority! We play once in 3 months - if you're impatient then DO NOT contact us.

Chatting also does not gaurentee a play. Bc we don't play that often we want to get to know you either on here or on bbm first, to make sure we don't waste a meet.

We have enough experience to not get intimidated by abusive people, so please dnt clutter our mailbox with tantrums.

Please don't just send a friend request without making contact first - how on earth can you know if you want to be our friend if you've never spoken to us

Sorry we're not into interacial play...

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

40 something male, educated, well travelled and well groomed....looking to meet likeminded ladies and couples?

Uncomplicated quality adult fun, no drama, discretion guaranteed....if race is an issue please move on!!

Cape Town City Centre, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi we are your average married couple . We looking to make friends with like minded married couples .We are NOT INTO FULL SWAP AT ALL !! We enjoy same room sex , watching and being watched and soft swing .The lady enjoys girl on girl action and loves to be watched while performing. So if you like the above and have the same interests please contact us .We would love to hear from you. If there is chemistry well then, let us explore!!!


Melkbosstrand, Western Cape, 7441
looking for a naughty weekend breakaway. any suggestions? couples and singles welcome to reply. We dont want to travel more than 300km.
7200, Hermanus, Greater Hermanus, Overberg District Municipality, Western Cape, South Africa

Multi-orgasmic, bi-sexual, foreplay loving, loud expressive, fuller figured milky white female...melts under her brown straight partner's passionate kissing and light touches that can soak her through without reaching orgasm. His endurance allows her to use him until she's spent, not that he complains.
Her love for dressing up in see through lingerie nighties thrills them both to deeper kissing that turn into love making. Her toys are stored in a case for the odd occasion.
We have experience with swingers club, couples and singles...where laughter and socialising is the warm up of fun and where her more seductress side comes out, where she likes to be fucked and receive/give pleasure to/from both male and female...him loving the sight and always putting his attention on her before anyone else, where he still reminds her she is a lady deserving of love making and nothing less, but knowing he can enjoy the touch and taste of another woman with her

7439, Table View, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

We are a couple that have been in a long term relationship, now seeking to broaden our experience, with same age group. Respectable and good behaviour is a big must.

We are not always able to be available as HE travels often. We are an open friendly couple. SHE will do mostly all the correspondence, but I will be around. We will not give out any private info such as phone numbers and emails

other than the one we have set up. PLEASE, if you don't have public pics of both male and female or recent pics, don't waist your time or ours. If not public pics, then please send us an album when you contact us, thanks. We are looking forward to meeting some sexy friendly folk.


WARNING: Any institution or person using this site or any of its associated sites for study or projects - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile, my cam or pictures in any form or forum both current or future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice as well.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7700

We are new to this and are looking to make friends to explore the lifestyle. Friends with benefits.

We want to be good friends first ( that means there is respect, understanding, honesty.) among this friendship. Hiegene and cleanlyness a must. Wife only likes clean shaven.

We want to have fun but it must be wow for both couple. NOW!!!!! We tired of bullshitters. We not into heavy drinkers, youngsters, wanaby swingers (on SH but not swingers. ).You have a look at our profile and photos, we are XXXL people (fat people) . If interested you can contact us. 

Gordons Bay, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
I am bi and craving to experience a woman again. I have the most amazing man who I want to see pleasure another lady...nothing turns me on more...
7550, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I'm an independent fun loving, laid back guy. I enjoy keeping fit and doing anything at least once.  Have some mmf experience and enjoy it very much. Completely Straight. Here to meet and chat, pleasure and indulge in everything sexy and sexual. No hangups, just awesome and exciting fun. 

Id prefer contact from people with similiar physical attributes. Physical attraction is important as its the connection that makes the experience and not the experience that makes the connection. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
Curious male seeking pleasure in western cape cape town
Brackenfell, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

I love to give pleasure to ladies, and also love to receive pleasure !!! Oral stimulation is one of my secrets. 

So why wait, lets play and have NSA fun while we can !!

Durbanville, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
We are looking to chat with a coloured or indian guy who has the following qualities (at the ladies request): be between 20-30's, well built, "tight ass" as she says, very well hung, able to chat on whatsapp in the evenings. Outside of Cape town is ok, as long as you can chat on whatsapp. She also wants her Master to direct the conversation, so you should be open to being submissive and be comfortable with some touching by all involved. My friend is mature, very sexy red head, busty and very very open minded..
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

We luv everything from watching, flirting touching to full swaps, if we click. Enjoy meeting new people...maybe just a saucy chat..maybe more.

If you don't even have any pics on your profile, please give us a miss

*** would love to do some private parties..please let us know of ones around Cape Town***

Table View, Western Cape, 7441
Hi there. We`re a couple new to the scene. Need to take it slow and enjoy what this lifestyle has to offer. I am a sexy bi female ,with a partner,looking to join couples for hot fun.I am open to invites and loves sex.
Mossel Bay, Western Cape, 6505

Looking for discreet adventures.

I have a really busy work schedule and sometimes I just need to have some discreet nsa fun.

I enjoy life, and live everyday as if it is my last. I work hard & play hard.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

We are a gay couple interested to meet other people for fun and ........????

We enjoy groups or 3somes. Not into drama queens or people with hang-ups.

Not looking for relationships - we have been together for a long time. Our hearts are not available but we

have other throbbing organs you might be interested in . We would just like to make friends with benefits.Please do not feel insulted but would prefer Caucasian only - just personal taste.

We are a very DTE couple.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7551

Hi all

I'm an athletic male looking to meet single females and couples for some NSA fun. I am very interested in voyeur and in fact watching a couple playing would be ideal. If the situation allows further play and we are all comfortable then we can see what happens.

I am available most days for some fun, so married housewives looking for fun...drop me an email and lets get chatting and see if we hit it off.

Parow, Western Cape, 7506


Been on the site for a a number of years now. Met some great people and made some awesome friends. We've been quiet, so to speak. for a while now and have decided it's time to have some adult fun again ! If we look like we might be the sort of couple that you're looking for please drop us a message and let's chat.

Durbanville, Western Cape, 7550

Down to earth Tranny, open minded yet not into woman sorry. Men who are men.  Men who loves a woman with a difference contact me.  Men of all races welcome.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8005

I am a straight forward, say it as it is person, comfortable with who I am and easy on the eyes "or so I am told" (just in case some may take me as arrogant). I am here to have decent mutually agreed upon fun...

Worcester, Western Cape, 6850

We are a married couple new at this. She is 46 and he is 48. We are looking for a couple or a single guy to fulfil our fantasies and intend to take it slow. We would like to meet for drinks and take it from there.

Milnerton, Western Cape, 7441

hay im a young guy that is very willing for fun
heheh i am actualy more atracted to any girl older than me if its a year or 20 do not matter to me just love it.

im open for a lot of things so msg me and we can arrange something

UPDATE: im realy horny most of the time so im always keen

girls if you close call me i love to muff nothing in return i just love it.
only watsapp REMOVED BY ADMIN

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

fun like to laught want a friend and we can have fun times and not just one night stand.... I knw how to make a lady feel like a lady xx

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

We're a couple who love each other very much, which means we only play together. A luscious lady would be the ideal as the Mrs is bi. Couples with bi'female also great as the guys could watch the ladies having fun. As we're new to the lifestyle, we' d like to socialise with like minded people and if the chemistry is right, perhaps take it further. We not interested in single guys.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000
Looking for an attractive couple for same room fun in the Southern Suburbs. Must have pics, and be close to us. Preferably able to host.
7806, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Hi there people I'm clean discreet guy looking for fun. I would like to attend swinger parties. I'm looking forward to a great 2015. I'm respectfull and expect the same. I would like to chat to ladies from the garden route couples. Also welcome. Had some nice experiences with people from SH. I like foreplay a lot. Privacy and safety is always on top of my list if u likeminded get in touch. All races welcome.

George, Western Cape, 6529
Married guy, easy going but bored with my wife. Looking to spice things up with NSA sex.
Constantia, Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa
Love the lifestile always looking to make new frends.
George, South Cape DC, Western Cape, South Africa

Willing to meet couple and single ladies for some sexy clean fun.

Knysna, Western Cape, 6570

hi ~ We are absolute beginners just dipping our toes in the water... for some fun, some flirting, some fantasy... and perhaps if there's the right chemistry with the right couple we may be tempted to explore further. Sorry if that sounds a little too soft and slow for the more seasoned out there, but for now we are content to just wriggle our toes in the shallow end...

just a little P.S or two as we don't want to splash on anyone's feelings but...

please no single guys

to the more seasoned folks out there. sorry but we're not going to meet and jump into action straight away. we're wriggling our toes remember. please understand & respect this and no one will be disappointed or feel that they're wasting their time with us... thanks ;-)

Cape Town, Western Cape
I may not be Brad Pitt, but I definitely don’t qualify to be Brad “Spit” neither (smile). NOW THAT I’VE GOT YOUR ATTENTION…….You’re dealing with the ultimate gentleman/bad boy. No matter what happens, at the end of the day I’ll make you smile, laugh, and wonder, “How come I’ve never met a guy like this before??!!” I love to talk smack when I’m beating someone in a game of pool. I hate it when women are “DROP DEAD GORGEOUS” on the outside and “DROP DEAD GARBAGE” on the inside. On a typical Friday night I am: Doing whatever makes me smile! If you win my sweepstakes, you will automatically win a chance to do these things with me as well. TICKETS ON SALE NOW!!! A girl’s gotta have a… sense of style, the ability to run in heels, a spark in her eye, and a killer smile. (Smile) (WINK WINK)
Cape Town, Western Cape, 8001

Hi guys thanks for visiting my profile. I am very new to this bt have realized that i would have to let u guys know what i am looking for.[b] I dnt cross the [/b][b]ethnic line, sorry[/b]. I am looking for a white guy between the ages of 25 and 45 that are neat and clean. He must be willing to get to know me b4 it goes any further. The first meeting will me in public on my terms. I am a big beautiful woman and a bit shy at first . I love exploring and trying new thing. Would love to hear from u! Cant wait for ur interesting mail.

Western Cape
Hi guys! My partner and I are looking for serious BDSM people. Male and female doms and subs in Western Cape area. We would love to hear from you!
Stellenbosch, Cape Winelands, Western Cape, South Africa

hi, i am looking for an easy going relaxed couple to help me to enjoy my first time experience of something i have fantasized about for so long and in so many different scenarios :) I am very relaxed, friendly and easy to get on with -  slim , medium build -6ft - 78kg, very hygenic and clean. Please contact if you think you could help:)  Single ladies welcome too 

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

 I'm a good looking guy looking after my body. I find fit and muscle men attractive!

I'm looking for fun with similar guys.. Friends with benefits perhaps.

Goodlooking straight and bi curious guys hit me up..

Discretion is vital!!!

Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Im Athletic and fit. I like a hard workout. Looking at a few fantasies i'd like to try out.

I love chatting online, love showing off on cam, Skype and Whatsapp, love being watched and watching.

I'm ultimately just like everyone else, looking for a good partner to enjoy some taboo fun and get a safe kick as often as possible.

I can travel. Trust and Health is critical.

Friends, if i invite you to my private album, please don't be upset. Its just an invite. Im not pushy, ill wait for you to approach, have a look and if you like what you see say hi.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7441

Thank you for viewing our profile...

About us:

We are in our late 20's & fairly new to this experience  |  We are a down to earth couple who has been together for 7 years & seeking to explore our sexual desires with a female or perhaps the right couple  |  believe in fun, chemistry, cleanliness & discretion.

We do not:

Play alone (always together)  |  cross racial barrier  |  NO SINGLE MALES

If you like what you see, send us a message & we will be in contact :kiss:

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Hello looking for friends, all ages. If you a lady that likes to go to movies or have lunches and such, am the person that wana share that tyme with you. Please alow yurself to have fun and makethe hapiest guy alive.. Pleas contact if you want more than just

Also I re entered the photography scene. I am amateur but is very good and discreet. Iwill add pix I took timously.

Grabouw, Caledon, Overberg District Municipality, Western Cape, South Africa

A loving, passionate couple looking for sexy fun and friendship. We are highly discreet, decent, well mannered, educated, hygienic, professional married couple looking for real couples for swing/ same room or open minded females for exotic threesome. Looking to start off with same room sex. We are new to the lifestyle and want to start slow.



Cape Town, 8000

We are a mixed race couple. My partner is white and she is open to new experiences. I am a brown male with an open mind. We are both new to the scene and have engaged in a few activities . We are keen to explore this lifestyle further and wouldnt mind some guidance in this regard. We are both professional people with repected occupations. Discretion is therefore of the utmost. So please feel free to contact us.. 

We do not play alone. NEVER EVER. Same room only. If the circumstances dictates we may consider seperate rooms. 

Clean and always protection is non negotiable

We had some reponse from people who appear to be all talk and no action. So only serious people need to make contact.

We are here to have fun. Let the fun begin.

South Africa

Professional male, no hang ups Seeking open minded couples, married and single females for fun and pleasure.

Cape Town, Western Cape, 8000

Mature male looking for NSA fun with intelligent straight women.

I am a well groomed male, very young at heart, looking for someone to enjoy life with. I am Caucasian, honest, financially and independent. and love to tease,  joke, pamper and can make sure that you are well looked after, and that you should feel comfortable, secure and totally relaxed with me, so that we both can enjoy what we both want and may need.

Western Cape, South Africa
Hi ladies, I'm a tall, confident, attentive person. not un-attractive, caucasian, well-groomed. Looking to meet with someone who shares a sense of intrigue and excitement about this kind of lifestyle. I don't mind taking it slow, I'm fairly new to this myself. I find confidence extremely attractive, but I like the shy types too :-) I hope to find someone who also likes the idea of having fun, sexually, without emotional or social entanglements. I'm especially turned on by the idea of meeting a stranger for casual sex. After all, isn't that what the swinging lifestyle is all about? don't be shy, message me and we'll see what happens. Oh, and I don't post pics publicly (might be awkward if someone I know socially were to see it) but if you message me I'll put some in the reply. A
Cape Town, Western Cape, 7708

First and foremost I am an openminded mature straight coloured professional person and therefore discreet essential. I look at life as a journey enjoy the ride.I am expert in foreplay especially by using my magical hands and good at oral giving and receiving. I respect others views and opinion and are not demanding but a team player. Race and age is not a problem, so if you are not willing to cross the race line, lets not waste each others time. I am here to meet open like minded ladies and couples of all races and shapes. Married, but plays alone. Discretion required. Decent, clean well educated looking for nsa fun. I am not looking for wham bam thank you mam, but long term friend with benefit relationship.So hope to hear from you soon. 

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7785

We are a happily married couple seeking medium to the fuller figured Bi-Curious female or other couples for a friendship basis. He is straight, not interested in bi males. Age 30 - 40. We are all new at this playing game. We only play together, so no single men please. Guys we can chat and that's where it will stay, please respect that.  We are a hygienic couple and expect you to be as well. We are not here to exchange photos or do phone sex!!!! RESPECT goes a long way. We only play with in our boundaries. Seeing as we are all new to the scene, we will like to first meet to see if we click or not and then we take it from there. If you do happen to whisper and get no response don't feel offended...Looking forward to meeting new people and this new and exciting adventure!

Cape Town, Western Cape, 7500

hi open minded tall male looking to pleasure the nawty lady out there. Have a bi female partner if wanted.

Muizenberg, Western Cape, 7945
Hi I am an experienced fetish BDSM Master. Looking for a long term cuckold relationship. Ideally male and female are submissive but very happy with a dominant hot wife too. First timers very welcome as are bi and bi-curious male couples. I'm a down to earth guy. Loves travel good food and wine. Just happens to have a few kinks. Respond now.
Cape Town, Western Cape, South Africa

Thank you for showing an interest in our profile . Let's hope you make it all the way through .

NOTE:  Please guys and girls and couples .... Private albums are loads of fun but please dont ask us to open ours before we get to know you and that also applies to sending us invites to yours. Your albums will just be deleted  .... We are a active lifestyle couple but still want to get to know a person before just receiving private albums ... A private album is something special ... To share a album at least there must be a connection ... So please keep your album private untill we learn to know each other better.

For all those who got to know me as a single male I'm now in a committed long term relationship with a lovely lady & we are now pursuing the lifestyle as a couple. I will still be chatting to old friends & hopefully some new ones too , but obviously the dynamic has changed.

Let's do some filtering so we don't waste each other's valuable time .
If you are only looking for pictures, a quick romp in the hay or a one night stand then please move along
If you can't string a few sentences together or hold a conversation then we will most likely not get along
If you expect to play on the first meeting or even worse before even getting to know us , then we're not what you are looking forIf you want to play during the day on weekdays then please find someone else

If you live more than 150 km from us then the chances are we wont meet and that is ulitimately what we want So please think before you send us a message 

Please don't request access to any photos without having chatted with us first
Clicking on a button requesting friendship doesn't constitute being friends , so please don't send us friend requests without a conversation first .

Now that that's out of the way we can talk about us & what we're are looking for .

About Him:
I've been in the lifestyle as a single, as a married couple & now in a committed relationship so I do understand it from both perspectives. I'm currently 42 years old, white male around 1. 8 m , very slender , short brown hair & blue-green eyes , has full facial hair & wears glasses .
I can be on the shy side until you get to know me & visa versa . Once that happens the sky is the limit when it comes to being adventurous. I love socialising with friends & family . Braaing & camping are among my favourite things to do . Clubbing is not high on my favourites list .I do enjoy a party now & then , but prefer an intimate gathering of a few couples at someone's home to a large party.

About Her:
Ek is nog nuut in die leefstyl , maar het n avontuurlustige kant wat maklik sy verskyning maak. Ek lag maklik en geniet die lewe en als wat dit het om te bied....
Ek is n stout ..... skaam .... avontuurlustige naughty girl. Hou van tender sex , maar die wild side maak my ekstaties. N klap op die boud.... blinddoek maak die dier in my wakker. Teasing en pleasing is my aim.
Sal daarvan hou om mense te ontmoet met die oog op iets meer lang termyn as net "one night stands ". Hou van saam kuier , braai, fliek , kamp & buite lewe. Opsoek na couples & genuine enkel mans om ons fantasies te kan uitleef.

In a nutshell we're looking to meet new people to socialise with & build a long term friendship with . Playing is not our first or only priority . If it happens then that's a bonus

If you are still reading it means you may be interested in meeting us , so take the plunge & contact you. We don't bite ( nibble yes ).
Look forward to hearing from you .

Thanks again for taking the time to read our profile

Gordon'S Bay, Western Cape, 7140