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Orgasminator
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I can't believe it, my time machine works 

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@Mike...What time mashine?? Did I miss something??

Forum Virgin
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Well in reality its more 90% of women on adult sites that prefer men to be well hung to the fact that any prospected guy should be hung like a show horse and guys like myself of average to normal length does not even get a glance over lol... Have a look at the profiles and see how many women prefer well hung. No wonder guys post dick pics and most of them at angles to enhance the look (lenght) of their dick
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Complete codswallop. 90% of women here are married, and they are not here because they're unhappy with the size of their husband's cock. I have a size limit all four ways (maximum and minimum, girth and length).  Largely (excuse the pun),  because guys with BIG dicks mostly never bother to learn how to actually please a woman, because they (like hot vapid women),  think they can get by on that one trait. 

The reason men shove their dick pics at us is because  you think that all women want to see is 'how big' it is ...  But sadly no matter how many times we tell you that size is only one of 24 things we're checking out, and 'horse hung' isn't vaguely close to desirable for the vast majority of us. You all mansplain how we should feel and decide for us that either we're lying to save your egos (like we care about random guy's egos),  or we're too stupid to know what we want in our own sex life. 

Don't believe me? Search the forum threads for awesome examples of this EXACT phenomenon! 

But it's fine...  keep believing that. It's what makes ya'll so grateful when you get some :P

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Complete codswallop. 90% of women here are married, and they are not here because they're unhappy with the size of their husband's cock. I have a size limit all four ways (maximum and minimum, girth and length).  Largely (excuse the pun),  because guys with BIG dicks mostly never bother to learn how to actually please a woman, because they (like hot vapid women),  think they can get by on that one trait. 
The reason men shove their dick pics at us is because  you think that all women want to see is 'how big' it is ...  But sadly no matter how many times we tell you that size is only one of 24 things we're checking out, and 'horse hung' isn't vaguely close to desirable for the vast majority of us. You all mansplain how we should feel and decide for us that either we're lying to save your egos (like we care about random guy's egos),  or we're too stupid to know what we want in our own sex life. 
Don't believe me? Search the forum threads for awesome examples of this EXACT phenomenon! 
But it's fine...  keep believing that. It's what makes ya'll so grateful when you get some tongue.png

Lol i merely said 90% of women on adult sites (plural) not just here on this one site.. Lee women like you are few and scattered. If we must blame something do it on main stream media and the porn industry coz then its always bigger is better. 

Orgasminator
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i feel sorry for the bi and gay guys who's preference on penis size hasn't been mentioned yet here.

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Well I like my Dick. I like to show it off, just like some woman like to show off  their boob or ass or pussy. Woman like it when a guys complements them on the boob pic, just the same  when a woman say hey nice dick. If you dont want to see the dick or you dont want to see the pussy go else where. 

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Depends on what you looking for, Mrs and I both like large cocks, she gets turned on watching up close how it goes in me, plus plays with it afterwards so size is the most important aspect for us, to see what you packing you need to see a photo, so yes we enjoy looking at cock pics first before considering the rest, regardless of how stunning the person looks may be, if he has not got a large one we will pass.

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My honest opinion... to each his own.

Some will like it, some won't.

Some display double-standards stating that they dont respond to people without face-pics on their profile yet are reluctant to have their own face-pics displayed.

Some are comfortable with having their faces displayed in their profiles.

Some flash and some don't.

Personally i think the onus should be on running with your own preferences and skip the ones that don't meet them.

In the end, this is a massive mix of all sorts having many things in common and others not.

The big thing for me is when someone enters this site without really understanding the concepts of all these interests and preferences, then cross lines and destroy relationships that should not have been necessary.

A lot of people, men unfortunately the highest percentile, are truly only here assuming its a free-for-all fest... which in truth it isn't.

Couples indulge in this to enhance certain aspects and interests in their relationship but tgen a guy purposefully pulls in with the intention of a piss-up contest, causes crap and then revels in the consequences thereof as if he is some self-proclaimed sex guru.

It is cruel and inconsiderate and grossly disrespectful of relationships.

Singles also suffer in this as there are tons of fake people who really do no good to the mattr.

But... those are risks in the world of sex that exist and hopefully helps people be more vigilant about their selections.

So dick-pics to me in my opinion are a small-time matter in comparison.

To each his own... but respect the lifestyle and live true to its boundaries.

Warming the Bed
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I have always been told to put my best foot forward and my 11 inches is the closest thing to a foot I've got.

PS This statement is not to be taken seriously!

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just like women men can take more erotic pics of themselves...and less hardcore....take a look at my profile....i try to be more to enhancing the fantasy alot of women have (i think) but even the more softcore photos have had me a 0% success rate....which either means I am a DICK or women are FULLofShit

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and that my dear people is why there are too many horny people in the world

Warming the Bed
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Never had any pics at all for years online. Interest was very low to non existent. Added a dick pic a week back & interest sky rocketed. It’s a decent calling card it seems on a swinging site. This is not a dating site.