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Condom, yes or know

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No (1 vote) 50%
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During lockdown I had the time to spend on the site and I got a few serious concerns about our sexual actions.

In the world that we live in it is serious that STDs and other bugs are lurking.  But we do not play safe and we do not care it appears to me.


Bareback is the way to go, dont get me wrong...... I hate a condom with the best of them, but I like bugs and stuff even less.


Guys, please be safe and dont bragg how you have unprotected sex with the cleaner at the guesthouse, and then plan swinging parties........

Master of Sex
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@ Fun4two  Eeeww..... really!!!! Oh well we will always have people who do not think like us...SAFE...and Sane....USE protection people...STD`s can happen to anyone. You really DO NOT know who is the Other party`s partners when they are not with you....

Warming the Bed
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only with a person you comfortable with and trust. Not just anyone

Sexlightened
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If we read how someone brags about bareback we simply block them to eliminate a later by chance encounter. 

Its either safe sex or no sex.

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Always play safe, unprotected sex= no sex 

Warming the Bed
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strange that this is even discussed..a bit like people ignoring covert

Warming the Bed
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Bareback ing is dangerous as we all know why play Russian roulette 

Warming the Bed
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For us, condoms are non-negotiable.

We both love having sex without condoms, but reserve that for our exclusive girlfriends only.

Warming the Bed
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this post will be unpopular but here goes. 

Most ... especially new people throw caution to the wind . It's rare to see people insisting and playing with condoms. Or maybe we just move in the wrong circles? 

People are lying creatures.  If your profile says no glove no love they follow suit . If it's time for the nasty and you didn't go for the condom they probably won't either . 

We have been with people who agreed " never without a condom " and then see them riding bare back at a party . 

I'm not preaching to the experienced ... but if you are new hopefully you learn from this trend. 

Always use condoms ( of good quality) and never believe peoples lies. No one is exclusive and no one is that close that you can know who they have been with. 

Not all std's have symptoms u early onset 

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Condoms of course but you can easily pick up herpes and warts with them....extremly common as my ex works in the medical field