Fear of not being noticed snd unwanted by partner

Hi well this is just my 5 cents and what we i and my partner think of the life style both partners must be on the same page and not feeling neclected or undesired by there partners if so we will alway agree to just for a while step away from the lifestyle to give more attention to each other we dont need this its just to spice things up and live out some fantasys we love each other and communication is very important plus trust and respect we will alway be honest and talk about everything to know if and when one of us are not relaxed or in the mood or have insecuritys about a situation and no one of us are in the lifestyle to just please the other one we must be both in it or nothing hope that will help in your situation 

Greetings 

Then its time to speak up if you love each other you will be able to talk about it even walk away until its all strong again 

Well as the Mr of a couple.

Mrs enjoys large to extra large cocks.

We start off playing, then sit back and watch her totally let go and enjoy herself.

At times with consent she has played with our regular playmate.

It's about trust and being in tune with each other.

Good evening I Derek the hhsband mentioned in the above post have congratulated  coupleno9 and chappoe assisting  Lucy to over come her fears 

She  took a step 

But wiith out me and she is now single and I have taken my son wiith me

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Obviously your relationship was not that healthy, to blame others for your problems won't help, swinging is about having fun, nothing more, nothing less.

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Obviously your relationship was not that healthy, to blame others for your problems won't help, swinging is about having fun, nothing more, nothing less.

 Was wondering if that was how it was aimed at us?

Honestly swinging is for couples minus issues in healthy trusting relationships. 

Not a tool to try repair a damaged relationship as that generally ends in tears.

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Quote by hanky123
Obviously your relationship was not that healthy, to blame others for your problems won't help, swinging is about having fun, nothing more, nothing less.

 Was wondering if that was how it was aimed at us?

Honestly swinging is for couples minus issues in healthy trusting relationships. 
Not a tool to try repair a damaged relationship as that generally ends in tears.

 I fully agree with your statement as we have came across couples newbies where I told them it is not a wham bam thank you mam you have to trust each other and also the couple or person joining