I was contacted by a lady I used to play with asking if I was willing to give a lecture on Chemical play, and then maybe use her as a sub demonstrating some sort of chemical play scene at a private play party. She was talking to some people in the BDSM community and told them about a Figging scene I introduced her to a few years ago when she asked me for a chemical play session. I had to decline but I know she will get a Domme/Dom to do the lecture and scene with her.
BUT it made me reminisce.
Now I know this is NOT normally something you vanilla guys would even consider or even think about, I just had to tell you what you are missing...
Doing any scene in BDSM is NOT just about the ONE thing...it is doing a LOT of things, all happening at the same time.
Think about something one would think of as soft kink... like a nice sexy spanking. For us Kinky people it is NOT just a thing to do...NOPE it is the build up to it....the MIND fuck so to say...for the pleasure one would expect to enjoy. I will describe a nice sexy spanking later on.
The same could be said about Chemical play, One would think just sticking a piece of ginger in a vagina or ass, walla, the scene is set...NOPE THAT is the LEAST part of a scene with Ginger/chemicals....or any BDSM scene really. One has to KNOW what a certain chemical will do to a person, and on how to increase the pleasure and the reactions. And of course(very important) KNOW your subs allergies!!!!!!!
Lets say I did take the lady up on her offer to use her as a sub while I demonstrated on how to do a Figging (as showing on how to use a chemical on a body)....each Domme Or Dom would do it their own way and might disagree with me, they are most welcome to do so..This is my way. Although ginger is not really a favorite of mine. There is way way better and exciting chemicals to use on/in a person. You might want to ask about some chemicals, I will answer to the best of my ability.
Setting up a special place, this area is to be specially suggestive and sexy as to already start creating a sexual atmosphere, dimmed light,maybe some soft music as back ground. Toys for visual stimulation as I lead my little lady to her playtime....(some I most certainly might/would NOT use like huge dildo`s & nipple clamps and such.)
I would use.....
A blindfold....a pussy flogger (specially small light one) a few restraints, could be scarves or rope to leather cuffs (ankle and wrists) some vibrating bullet and of course chemicals, in this case the Figging supplies.(like gloves/ carrot peelers/ knives and plain Bulgarian yogurt(safety measure) some ice water.
I would expect my sub to come to me with just a robe NOTHING underneath..... I would place her on the bed, cover her eyes.....I would then restrain her movements and OPEN her genital and anal area.... with the restrains (I might start of by inserting the bullet vibrator BUT not activate it....and I might use the nipple clamps maybe on her nipples or labia`s depending on what I feel like doing....
Once she is lying there OPEN and WAITING...
I would like her to hear me move around doing things BUT not knowing what..........
I would start preparing the GINGER I would be using in her..... the smell of me peeling and cutting the ginger in the appropriate shapes...I would verbalize what I am doing step by step and would tell her what I would be doing and WHAT she will/might feel.....I will, once everything is prepared give her a slice to chew on....before I would insert the first piece into her anus.....the second piece goes into her vagina and the last slice onto her clit (maybe rub some ginger all over her nipples)........then I would sit back and WAIT...NOT talking myself but encourage her to tell me what she is feeling...Once she starts to wriggle and beg me to give her relief...(this part usually is VERY verbal and loud as ginger usually BURNS) might take up to 15 minutes and last 20 or less minutes,I would take the little flogger and start to lightly flog her nipples.....alternating between her nipples, thighs and and legs to her exposed butt cheeks to her labia`s and then her clit........ I might even now activate the little vibrating bullet..and lightly flog her clit.....this time untill her orgasm over takes her......The Ginger also works like an aphrodisiac. BUT mostly it has a burning sensation IT CERTAINLY differs from person to person. AND there is way MORE exciting chemicals to play with.....and to age your Ginger before use, makes it way more potent....
Now the above is just a little of what really happens during a scene, the safety and the safe use of the ginger and the after care is not mentioned here. SO do NOT try this at home untill you have read up on the safety measures.
And Hopefully you will have noticed I used/added a few other kinky stimulation's to peak the scene and make it way more pleasurable for the sub. That is WHY I say doing a scene for one thing you actually using/doing way more than what you or the sub might realize.
