Soft swinging , with singles ?

Now yes everyone has their own interpretation of what soft swinging is , but 99% of swingers will agree that it is having sex with your own partner in the same room as another couple. It's the age old baby step before moving to foreplay and full swop. 

Now I have noticed an alarming amount of singles that tick the soft swing box . 

Sam would love to know ... Guys how do you as single bloke soft swing? Do you choke that chicken while the couple goes at it ? 

Please enlighten me 

VERY good question, Sam!!  

Can it be for some couples who would like to be watched as their fist step, see if it arouses them? :-)

Intelligent comment Biggles.... Can be ... But that would be voyeuristic on the part of the single guy .... Not really soft swinging.... 

we always understood soft swinging as touching or tasting all but no fucking,so single guy's could always play with

Had the same idea as Frontosa about soft swinging, also thought that sex was not involved, might have the idea wrong

well to start off, singles cant really swing, they just have sex with someone who is not their partner. its the couple who swings lol. to answer the question in question, hehehehe, maybe the guy is so desperate that he will be satisfied with some soft play. i mean, a blowjob is better than no job.

Question: Do you choke that chicken while the couple goes at it ?

Answer: Yes.

Wrong idea of soft swinging! It can be everything but penetration - fondling, oral and kissing.

So singles can soft swing with a couple!

oh bonbons ... 

Soft swinging by definition is having sex with your own partner in the company of others doing the same . 

Some might have adapted the definition over time but in reality that's still what it means . Most swingers would just pass by if they see soft swing.  Because having sex in a same room and not getting to touch gets kinda boring.... it really does 

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I would rather use the term soft-play instead than soft-swing where a single man or single lady is involved