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Sexlightened
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ooooooo K. so the mrs and myself were speaking the other day, when does one become addicted to sex, or porn or swinging?

is it when you have sex and there has to be porn on the tv? even though you're not constantly looking at it, but it is there.

i like looking at vids of her giving oral to another guy, while she is giving me the most awesome bj, every time (yes, shes that good)

you are on this site 5 to 10 times a day, looking at the new pics in the gallery.

you download porn for the mood of the week IE - threesome, mmf, ffm, interracial, bi, or what ever.

are you addicted to swinging? are you addicted to porn? are you addicted to sex?

at what point do you realize that you cant go without the blue movies, the fantasizing, the role playing. the what have yous.

our sex life went from begin pretty good, to f***ing amazing, since we started swinging.



Forum Virgin
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I must agree our sex life and even our marriage went from great to amazing since we started swinging 

Sexlightened
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When most guys watch Porn they imagine that they are the guy F#%king the female in the movie, I don't! Instead I imagine that my wife is the female. Makes it allot more fun.

I download Porn (short clips) almost daily. My favourite Porn that does it for me honestly is the movies that We make and the ones with my wife in. It sounds biased but it's true.

Am I addicted to it....

Definitely!

Am I going to try get help to stop...

Nope!


Warming the Bed
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Well done you enjoy what ever excites you,nice one dude,lucky to have a partner two supports your style 

Sexlightened
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Ya the swinging lifestyle has made our sex and marriage a whole more exciting as for porn yes we love porn but can it really be an addiction? I guess sex I can safe say me and Wifey are addicted lol?

Master of Sex
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I do believe that any person becomes addicted to something (even chocolates)...one does not go out with the idea to BECOME addicted, it just happens...BUT once it becomes a problem to/for you and your daily living and for your family..then it is true addiction....and you would need help to over come it.

What I read in the comments, the people commenting is not really addicted, they just enjoy what they do....it has NOT become a problem for them or their family or their enjoyment is NOT influencing their jobs and lives. So ENJOY.......

Sexlightened
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I was a bit hesitant to say that the most porn I watch, is the videos i make while the mrs is giving oral to the guy. It makes me soooo horny. No other porn does it for me realy. And yes, when we do actually look at porn, i always always always imagine that she is the girl in the movie. Als9 very selective of the girls in the movie, as i like them to look like her, so the imagination can be manipulated easier. 

Sex God
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I have gone 7 days without porn / pics now . . . . I am starting to loose vision in my left nostril

Sexlightened
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Quote by SDM
I have gone 7 days without porn / pics now . . . . I am starting to loose vision in my left nostril

 How did you not see any naked pics getting to this forum?

Sexlightened
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I was a bit hesitant to say that the most porn I watch, is the videos i make while the mrs is giving oral to the guy. It makes me soooo horny. No other porn does it for me realy. And yes, when we do actually look at porn, i always always always imagine that she is the girl in the movie. Als9 very selective of the girls in the movie, as i like them to look like her, so the imagination can be manipulated easier. 

 I see we have allot in common. After my Hard drive was damaged i lost about 4TB of Porn. I have started to collect again and probably have almost 1TB. All that porn combined plus all the porn i have ever seen still does not even come close to how much seeing my wife's pictures and videos turns me on. 

It is a bit of a problem because I can't keep my hands off her and I want to F#$k her every second minute 24/7.

Sexlightened
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@Poohc

feel exactly the same way