Being *Turned* on.....

What part of a body turns you on immediately??

Looking at a face, boobs, bottoms legs ,eyes, what??

I know men like to visualize sexyness...Though for me,it should not be those blatant in your face genitals photos, those where you see what the poor woman had for breakfast, to me that is not really sexy...I do have a male mindset with my female mindset...I was after all Pansexual.
Nope,ladies it is the pose you strike, the see through dress you wear...the hint of your breasts....the hint of nipple rings or a nice belly button stud....The idea of what the lady is hiding with her clothes...is what really turns me on..and I am sure for the males as well. I know I also post genital pics...but those I do post I always try and cover up...just as I cover up my face......it is for the knowing and seeing in REAL life...not on a page!!!  I also like tatoo`s.. In fact, I LOVE tattoo`s
Women again Love to hear/read about romance....the idea of sexy things to come, to imagine, to think ...yeah sure, we do like LOOKING at sexy men. but we do get revved up a lot by hearing  or reading about sex or sexness. Females, I have found over time is very diverse about what they find sexy...some might like a beard some a bald guy...who know what may turn you on 

I know for me it is a gents hands, it is certainly the first thing I look at...it does not have to be smooth and pedicured like a females...nope,  it may have some calluses due to hard work...as long as the gents nails are clean!!! At least when they are NOT working with oil soil or whatever . When they are NOT working it should at least be short and clean.

I would of course have liked to SEE six-pack abs, but as you all know THAT is certainly NOT the norm for a normal male!!!! Hell, I know some females who sport bigger biceps that the normal male!!  Hands by far is something to look at, it tells a lot about a person.
When naked...  I like to check out ..... NO you damn perverts.....not the gents genitals,  I like to check out his feet!!!!  I DO have a big foot fetish... the same can be said for a person's feet....is the nails nice and short, and MOST certainly Clean???? BETWEEN the toes nice and clean????
Once again if these parts of the person is NOT perfectly clean, I steer far from that person!!!

 Why not share what the first thing is you look at when meeting a new potential sexual partner???

For me it is all about the eyes and the smile. At a glance these two features can set my motor running. Another feature I find particularly endearing is her willingness to stay and chat for a while. I imagine after that and the kit starts flying cleanliness would be important.

Kry nie meer baie die geleentheid om die skoonheid te bewonder nie. Nee dit is maar net dat  mense nie in die gewone gang van die lewe meer sexy aantrek nie. Maar wat my oog vang is in engels "well dress" wil nie sien haar panry steek uit nie maar daar moet genoeg wees om die verbeelding aan te gryp. Wanneer gaan die skone dames besef hulle borste is is die fokus punt van baie mans, gebruik dit tot jou voordeel.

For me I find a woman's back sexy. I'm not really a tit or ass kind of guy never have been.

But the thing that turns me on the most is if a woman has a little bit of cellulite just under her bum and this is visible when wearing those denim shorts ...

The things I will do .... I will not be held responsible. Lol

@bob969 Aaaahh  a Smile.....and Eyes..... A smile can be bogus, BUT combined with the eyes, it should be a great smile, showing how pleased the person is to see you!!!  Then of course willingness to stay & chat while the clothes are flying through the air........Revealing.......sex in the making!!!!! YUM......

@Adonis  Agge Nee!!!!!  Hoekom kry jy nie meer geleentheid om die dames te bewonder nie??? Ek stem `n elegante self versekerde dame bly darem maar seksie!!!!  Sooo jy is `n boobie man HUH???  Ek sal dit moet onthou!!!!! Nie dat my boobs meer *cleavage* het  nie...dit is pure slote deedse dae!!!! LMGA....Weet jy wat ek vind is erg...die jong mans wie se broeke omtrent op hulle heupe hang en hulle hele onderbroek uitsteek!!!! Shees, tenminste kan hulle commando gaan en iets vir die oog gee om na te kyk!!!! Daai Boste en Boste hare moet natuurlik moet getrim wees, anders is dit ook net `n nagmerrie!!!

@PoohC   Aaaah the slope of a ladies back...the dimple right at the top of her nicely rounded bottom, while a little drop of water runs down the indent of her spine...aaahhhh...Shorty,shorty denim shorts surely!!! To see those little wobbly wobbles  just under her bottom when she walks... a light spank to get them all to quiver....OKAY!!!!  I need to put a muzzle on you by now I am sure!!!!

Yeah, I can see it...  a nice back to showcase a long string of pearls, while wearing a sexy open backed dress!  I will also salivate I promise!!

I'm loving this post this the reason I felt the need to respond, not sure if my tastes are regarded at the norm but a women that takes the time and effort to always smell and look good is always a great thing. 

My personal favourite is when a women with either short skirt or dress and wears it with boots, really gives me that goo goo gaga feeling inside, especially whilst adorning some specs.

I love the female form so if I see a lady who looks after herself (body shape does not matter) I get turned on 

@Funky1za  I do agree, a well groomed lady(or gent) is always a pleasure to behold.  I also like perfume, but dislike an overpowering smell of perfume, I like just the hint of smell when you are close. Sad thing is, perfume taste awful!!!!!! Ahhh  a boot fetish, yeah?? A lot of people do have one believe me!! NOW specs are a new one, for SH, I think...you like the bookish/scholarly  type? There is really some sexy ladies wearing glasses/specs.!!!

@Henny55  I also agree. I know a LOT of really obese ladies and let me tell you, they TURN me on.  JUST because they are really well groomed!! 

I think i have to concur on your comments, let's be honest some people, need not mention are into the quickie thing, whilst on the other hand, can last much longer or rather have many different tools to keep the opposite party interested, but alas I digress, yes the opening of the soul or leading discussions are sometimes more intimate than just intimacy or could be used interchangeably such as when they cooking or doing that extra sexy moves on the dance floor, its sometimes about a connection I am assuming?

@Funky1za  Sadly I have to say that you sound like a romantic kind of person, and YES any lady would like to know there is someone who she can chat to, who will see her and NOT just her boobs and ass. As for a connection, that is what most of the peeps here are trying to achieve, sadly, until anyone who is single, gets included into a SWINGING group of couples who plays together regularly. A *quicky* is the only thing this site offers. 

Yesterday, I browsed  sexy men....and boy There are SEXY men out there....Their Mothers would be so proud of them!!!! From 6 to 8 rectus abdominus Now this made me wonder how in the world they achieved that!!!!! I know ladies get *implants and collagen injections   I read somewhere that some men get implants to simulate the rectus abdominus....... soooooo  I was wondering while admiring those yesterday!!! Ohhh...sighing this side of the computer...oh and nice bubble buts....and nice pecs....drooling.....

i like sturdy, muscular men, tall large framed with strong built thighs. Im a sucker for full lips and nice butts I can grab....I'm so drooling. And a square jaw oh lawd!!!

@ Sofistikitty     Drooling with you!!!   

A confident woman, tattoos just visible on lower back. Flirty and loving herself, body shape not an issue. 

For hubby I know he likes full lips and a thick woman and also a woman who wants to be In charge turns him on

Wifey I like athletic men but for me it's somone that can chat turn me on with his talk 

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For hubby I know he likes full lips and a thick woman and also a woman who wants to be In charge turns him on
Wifey I like athletic men but for me it's somone that can chat turn me on with his talk 

 I have the lips and thickness but not sure if I'm an I  charge sort if chick. I'm full of shit though, dunno if that counts lol

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For hubby I know he likes full lips and a thick woman and also a woman who wants to be In charge turns him on
Wifey I like athletic men but for me it's somone that can chat turn me on with his talk 

 I have the lips and thickness but not sure if I'm an I  charge sort if chick. I'm full of shit though, dunno if that counts lol

LOL he loves women that are full of shit he married me as proof lol?? I just showed him your profile pictures he says you beautiful and have a sexy thick body

A naughty smile/smirk from a confident, but not bossy, woman gets my engine roaring! A firm buttocks also goes a long way in getting my mind racing. Full lips . . . Ag , just everything about a naughty woman gets me going. ??

well it all depends..if she is walking towards me its her boobs..if she is walking away its her bum..simple hahahahahahah...but in all seriousness i think different things turn me on at different times..it could be a coy smile...a braless woman...dress that becomes see through in the light....hard to put it down to one thing

@swingfantasy & haveusbc   Nice one`s guys!  I agree, even if I have my own list, sometimes someone just *bowls* you right on over....and then it has nothing to do with your list....

I'm definitely a feet and bum guy, both turn me on lots 

Feet, toes and bum 🔥 😋 😂 

@ Aromatic_Man   Thanks for sharing.  

On first glance, the lips, mouth, eyes. Then the butt. Legs, boobs

Smile that connects to the eyes does it for me. And hands, as @pussinboots1 said - don't have to be perfectly manicured, working hands are good too, but clean nails definitely! I love the sense of strength in hands, the anticipation of the touch. 

And to be completely selfish/ego-centric, I'm totally turned on by a man who makes it clear he finds me attractive and wants me.

Personality, that is all

Just the idea turns me on

When my wife goes on a date I am so randy just thinking at what stage they are now and the creampie she will bring home, always wears a panty to keep it in for me

pussingboots1   "I also like tatoo`s.. In fact, I LOVE tattoo`s"

We actually have a "Tit for Tat" special on at the moment. Let me know where I must send the pictures of our Tattoos...

For me it is all about a sexy cleavage, I am a sucker for subtle cleavage and the promise behind it.

For me it's about body smell.......I make a point of hugging a person when I first meet to engage their smell.  The smell of clean skin is a huge turn on.  Body odour of any sort a huge turn off.