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Forum Virgin
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Meeting great people.

But please guys (Married and Single) if the lady says no, it means no.

Have had some guys become very abusive when thet reaise they not going to get sex.

Women rules. Dont ruin it for everyone. My wife is rethinking us swinging because of this.

Also we play as a couple or not at all. Messages saying u still want to fuck my wife are not on.

To the beautiful people on the site thanks. You make it worthwhile.

Sexlightened
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yea you get those arseholes. but you guys should consider meeting first, explain your concerns, and only arrange a playdate a week after. or telle the guy from the getgo, that disrespectfulness will not be tolerated.

Forum Virgin
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We do. Always meet first go for drinks to see if there is a connection.

They seem to walk in with the expectation that they will have sex. Even if has been explained before hand.

Sexlightened
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Sorry that you guys have this experience. Have had this discussion with a couple of women and couples. It is sorry that manners is not included with the site registration.

Hope the good is more than the bad though!! Have fun guys!

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sorry for the bad experience but I totally agree; NO MEAN NO! 

Regards

Kerneelz

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My wife deleted her account because of this. You should do an experiment and both speak to the same guy at the same time and see how respectful they pretend to be with you and how they speak with your wife not knowing

Sexlightened
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Quite a few blokes who do not measure up to our advertised requirements for male member size get snotty and sarcastic, as if that will help their case, its what we like and want, so why should we change this, the result is Mrs leaves the checking of replies to me, but she enjoys the other parts of the site. Also learnt to have a dedicated pay as you go number for this site......... so you dont get hassled late at night. We wait a while before making contact as the repeat message types insisting is also not for us as we not interested in a friendship outside the play room.

Another interesting fact is many of the blokes answering our bi male adverts profiles dont even mention they may be bi or open to it.