The last instalment for us Female/Female genital play.
The first one was:- the approach and the build-up.
We all should remember that ALL females feel vulnerable when they are going to spread their legs for you to view her pussy for the very first time. Most women think their pussy should look like a porn model`s or like that of a young nude lady... which of course in all photos viewed, most to all of those photos are most likely photo shopped or the models had some plastic surgery like the Reduction of the large and smaller labia`s. Making it seem more stream line and less flappy! So let her feel beautifull as you show and verbalize your appreciation for letting her allow you to view that most private part of her.( You will get invited back for seconds, I am sure)
To be fair, vulvas and vaginas are tough to navigate. Females are all different and they all like different things, so figuring out what each one is into can be very challenging. If the lady isn't comfortable giving you a lot of verbal instruction she may move her body so your tongue is on the right spot. Pay attention to how she is moving and don’t assume it's random writhing. If you think she is hesitant to offer instruction, you should ask her to tell you what works and what doesn't, or at least to show you if she doesn`t want to say it.
Your Lady is excited and like putty in your hands right now, while you are cradling her pussy in your hand. Squeeze it lightly now and again
Do not just clap your mouth to her pussy and start to furiously licking her clit with the tip of your tongue while finger fucking her...eish...
Start slowly, using your WHOLE face and both of your hands to show her how you enjoy doing what you are doing
Remember that the noises you make can add to her experience. If you’re feeling turned on, by moaning, you are letting her know. She might be able to relax even more into the experience, knowing you are right there with her and not just doing something out of obligation. When you moan, or even hum a tune, the vibrations on your lips, even letting your warm breath wash over what area you are busy with, will all creates sensations that can be felt by your lady.
Approach her with your whole face. Graze her vagina and thighs and tummy as you approach to nuzzle her clitoris with the bridge of your nose. Remember Your nose, your cheeks and your chin all create different sensations and pressures when brushed against or rhythmically rubbing along her vulva and clitoris.
You can also use her outer labia to massage her clit by gently pressing her outer lips together and kneading her clit between your finger tips or while you are cupping her, put firm pressure on the mons pubis (the mound) and incorporating circular motions which will also help to awaken the ladies pussy and clit. Use other parts of your body to stimulate your ladies genitals as well. Just stroke/ rub her clitoris with your fingers, or mash and circle it with your tongue, vary what you’re doing, with both pressure and approach. Take not to what she respond too. and repeat as often as possible.
By using different parts of your tongue. you will notice to what and how your lady responds to the flat part of your tongue, to the sides of your tongue, to the tip of your tongue. Also notice how you can change the way the tip feels by extending it and making it firmer. Try flattening your tongue and using broad strokes.
Bring your tongue, lips, and entire mouth into the equation. Playing with suction can be another way to intensify the ladies experience. You can take her labia or the clitoris or both at the same time into your mouth and gently create a sucking sensation. Some ladies will like a powerful sucking and others may just want a hint of it. With a part of the lady in your mouth, you can add sensation by moving your tongue inside your mouth. Or humm a hymm.
Spread her labia`s and focus on licking the area of the front just above the clitoris. Use your index finger of your free hand to occasionally intersperse horizontal finger strokes across the clit or downward strokes and right upwards again, or just use vertical tongue strokes above the clit.
Make sure your movements are slow, steady and rhythmic. You can use very light, slow circles flicking the hood of her clitoris like you are teasing it.
Some ladies will orgasm best from tongue circles around the clitoris, others prefer a light sucking motion to direct stimulation.
As you continue tracing circles, every so often flick your tongue and see how she responds. If she likes it, then begin doing it a little more often. If she doesn't, then immediately stop and continue tracing circles. Using the flat part of your tongue.
She may not find proper pleasure from the previous methods and other stimulation of the clitoris is necessary. Remember it's all okay, all women differ in their sensitivity.
Instead of using circles around her clitoral shaft, you will want to lick her clitoris sideways with light strokes
Start at the top of her clitoris and lick her downward, until you reach the bottom of her labia — move straight back up the line you initially came down on, repeat and keep a constant rhythm.
With your free hand, you can touch her breasts, gently squeeze her nipples, caress her stomach or place your hands under her butt cheeks for support or to lift her slightly , also keep her *open* but press he labia`s together for extra friction.
Some women like oral and manual stimulation at the same time, while others don’t.
One of the *not for everyone* techniques, but some ladies really love the feeling of their partner's tongue penetrating them. Obviously even with the longest tongue, tongue penetration only goes *so* deep. But for some ladies, it's a technique that, at the right moment, feels intense and wonderful. As always, every person is different. This is of course done if you do not use a dental dam. But is possible if you keep the dental dam more *loose* to it can penetrate with your tongue.
As the ladies arousal is increasing, you can insert a single finger, or possibly two. Use your tongue at first to enhance arousal and then a finger to complement and push arousal to the next stage. Don’t try to *fuck* her vagina with either your tongue or fingers. Just press your fingers upwards into her G-spot, while applying persistent licks. It is the *full feeling* you need.
Keep up the rythm untill orgasms is over.....
Then take a tight grip on your ladies pussy letting it rest into the palm of your hand while you both come *down* from the experience while you hug her tight and tell her how beautifull you find her....
Ever listened to the song by Little Big Town *Girl Crush* ??????
Using toys is usually with your more permanent partners who you need not use a dental dam or gloves with. (for me at least)
Ensure that you have all your little *extras* with in reach. Like dental dams & gloves if it is a Lady not your usual Lover. Some ice cubes, HOT, Hot tea (not coffee) keep in a thermos/travelling mug to keep it nice and hot. Maybe some eno`s or citro soda ( I know both taste terrible!! But it is fun) a little bullet vibrator or 2 and a dildo or butt plugs (condoms is a must to cover your toys for extra cleanliness).
Using the toys on hand..only if you want to use these items, it is not part of the whole oral experience for the first time you meet up with the new lady you are playing for keeping her of kelter of what to expect next. ( This is of course also something you could consider to use with giving Blow Jobs to/for men)
Ice cubes....put one in your mouth and create a cold freezing sensation to her clit and labia If you want to insert a FEW ice-cubes INTO her vagina, which the men would like to do, and then to penetrate her with their cocks, remember to be safe and slick the ice-cube with your mouth so it does NOT give the lady a frost burn as it freezes to her vagina walls or entrance....so WET THE CUBE to ensure easy safe insertion. Vary this by inserting some into the anus itself....REMEMBER the safety tips....
Use the HOT tea to heat up your mouth after the ice cube to give the lady a heated sensation on her clit and insides of her labia`s
By just keeping some Eno`s or Citro-Soda in your mouth as you clamp your whole mouth to her clit and pussy, letting the flat of your tongue press the fizzy-ness to her genitals, those fizzy bubbles let loose, will give her a ticklish sensation without the infection of using a sweet fizzy substance.
The little bullet vibratos can be inserted into her pussy, or anus or in both areas while you give her some oral!!! The same with the butt plug.....the use of the dildo...well that is self-explanatory.
As mentioned both men and females can use this method on their ladies. I am sure both sexes might benefit if they keep on with the practises.
Just one thing remember NOT to do the same thing all the time or every time, so that the lady becomes USED to what is going to happen next, try and vary your methods to keep her on the edge of the bed!!!
I am sure there is way more methods our other ladies (and men) might add. Please feel free to do so.
