Quote by KC_ Something that I have noticed while in the chat room, is how some guys make race an issue when it hadn't crossed my mind. Here is an example: after the basic hi, how are you's him: do you like the look of my cock? me: it looks nice him: would you suck it? me: maybe him:is it because im indian/balck/coloured that its only maybe? He doesn't even ask why its only maybe, he just assumes that because I'm white I wont suck his cock. Maybe I'm chatting 'wrong', but I never asked for a cyber-sex conversation, so I'm not participating in the ooh-yes-cum-all-over-me conversation. Would I suck his cock? Maybe, if I decided that he was a cool guy, and he got me excited. I'm not going to suck you cock if your don't turn me on. As LeeEC stated in a different post, ladies are much fussier about who we shag, and for me, race has less to do with it than personality. C
KC i agree that person was out of order and remember he was more that likely rejected by at least 98% of this room and maybe had enough and felt a little angry, but dont judge him, you should of schooled him in the art of Seduction .
What?! Schooled him in the art of seduction! That is what coaches are for dude.. she's married, she got her man, why should have work for it when the rest of you delicious dudes are just waiting in line for it?
Nah, not a chance.... no respect, no brain, all chip-on -the -shoulder and ego .... no luv for you buddy!
@Lee, you put into words what I was thinking.
I am already married, with a wonderful cock-on-demand, so I am not desperate...
I am happy to chat to people, and hear about their stories... its how I begin to decide whether they are an option for a meet or not...
I want to be seduced by intelligence and charm, and being defensive and rude is not attractive. As soon as he said that, he went from being a maybe to a NOPE.
The mistake is to assume that your potential playmate is "into" the exact same stuff you're into, which in actual fact is highly unlikely.
The truth is, she doesn't have to be "into" guys of other races in a broad fetish sense, to be into you.
And she doesn't have to be, in order for you to get laid and have your fantasy fulfilled.
But when you make 'being "into" guys of other race groups' a requirement.... well that seriously narrows your chance of scoring, or for that matter even getting to play....
There are a lot of us who just don't care either way as long as you meet our OTHER requirements, we will shag your sock off (hey C?) But for a lot of women in that category, bringing race issues into the bed is a turn off...
....Your need to understand....... I do sex BECAUSE don't do politics dude!
I say this not in defence of the guy that chatted to kc , but I think that the response " oh it's because of my race ..." is more of a defence mechanism .its easier to think that someone has race issues rather than to face the fact that they are just not into that way we dont have to deal with the fact that we may be problem..
Quote by ash I say this not in defence of the guy that chatted to kc , but I think that the response " oh it's because of my race ..." is more of a defence mechanism .its easier to think that someone has race issues rather than to face the fact that they are just not into that way we dont have to deal with the fact that we may be problem..
Yes, but that eliminates him anyway.... I don't want to shag insecure little boys with issues I want to have wild and amazing sex with REAL men who got nice tools and know how to use them! Like I said to the last guy who pulled the race card on me... If I don't like you, I guarantee it has absolutely nothing to do with the colour of your skin and EVERYTHING to do with you being an arsehole. :twisted: Personally - and I know people will tell me I'm being insensitive to the past etc etc, but come on guys if you're my age you should be over this stuff now, or at least not so hung up about it or people's small minds - This race over-sensitivity thing just pisses me off, isn't there more to you than your skin? I thought there was, perhaps I was mistaken? It's worse if you pull the race card with me and you actually know me IRL - I've dated any number of guys of colour, and I have a black brother, so it's like the stupidest thing I've ever heard! When guys do the sort of thing to me that that guy did to C, I just get mad and I want to bitch-slap the twit! Ok, had my rant Let the shagging begin!
This whole topic is a lot of nonsense, just be secure in who you are! life's too short to worry about those who classify us by colours, intelligence, class!! it goes on and on and on!! If you are a good person, love, lust, friends will be there! From this we can go on to religions, politics, wada wada wada. some of the best most beautiful people happened upon me when I wasn't looking and surprise, surprise, they were all colours and creeds and after all the years are still there through my sorrow and happiness and are genuinely just there because of mutual love and respect. Girlfriends, lovers gone...friends, yes still there, have a drink or just in passing and they remember my hurt and I theirs, a hug and smile and it's all covered... I suppose all I'm trying to say is when will we all grow up and realise its our actions that define who we are and not our colour, etc, etc etc..hehehe, honestly, 2013, technology, we can fuck on cam, but thousand year old problems, still can't be sorted!! daily, children, woman, the same as we are wanting to meet and greet (oops not the children) are being killed, and are fleeing for their lives and we sit in our complacency and watch on tv and then complain cause we are offended because we can't get a fuck cause of the colour of our skin! You will get a fuck if you are NICE ...OKAY!!
We live in a open democratic country, yet everyones minds across all colours are still stuck in the past. That is due to our attitudes and way of thinking and also what was passed on to us by our ancestors.
This all needs to change. That may be hard.
However, we are not all that bad and we do try.
In this world there are worse countries than ours.
So come what may, let's leave the past in the past and move on.
Be yourself and have kindness and respect, and you will have whatever you want. Nobody is being opressed or suppressed.
But I will say... Only just
To put it in a nutshell... Jack99 is probably right , it has a lot more to do with attitude and approach than Real colour issues.
Which more often than not, only exist when you bring them into play, so stay away from the issue and it shouldn't affect your batting average :)
Plus, one should always consider, perhaps you need a bit of guidance .... in the approach.. I know it is a bitter pill to swallow, but you have to consider the possibility of the problem being your "game" rather than the colour of your skin :)
If anyone wants some tips from willing female participants, feel free to join us in the new thread...
Just like in everything else the person determines if you meet up.
For example I like tall skinny woman with very small breasts but all my female friends are short and round with big breasts, I like them for thier sexy minds and this goes for colour as well
We are a white couple and my wife loves black guys says they bigger than most white guysshe has had a few black guys (been doing them since 95) I enjoy watching her but we find it hard to get black guys those that do respond don't pitch on the night or don't reply when the time comes so you make arrangements and are then left high and dry. she also has a fantasy of having a gangbang with 6 to 10 black guys and I am trying to arrange one but to no availe so any blackguys out there interested drop us a line
Well, just a small update.
I have spent the last week at te south coast and I met and played with numerous white women. So about a previous comment about areas playing a role, I don't really agree with that anymore. Especially so because there were women from the free state, natal, and the eastern cape I had fun with.
Quote by jack99 Well, just a small update. I have spent the last week at te south coast and I met and played with numerous white women. So about a previous comment about areas playing a role, I don't really agree with that anymore. Especially so because there were women from the free state, natal, and the eastern cape I had fun with.
dude. You are lucky. Did you meet anyone from this site? Or did you meet randomly?
Quote by Vee1 Well, just a small update. I have spent the last week at te south coast and I met and played with numerous white women. So about a previous comment about areas playing a role, I don't really agree with that anymore. Especially so because there were women from the free state, natal, and the eastern cape I had fun with.
dude. You are lucky. Did you meet anyone from this site? Or did you meet randomly? It wasn't anyone from the site. They were women I met on the beach, clubs and pubs. I don't like to think of it as a matter of luck, but more of having an interesting and confident approach. I agree with paulus, it shouldn't be a matter of skin colour. It's about what two, three or more people are in the mood for and what they find attractive in one another. Just last night, I went to visit a woman from twitter I have chatted to a bit. It's all in the choice of words and how they relate and are interpreted to those involved.
This thread has been completely hijacked..
The POINT of the thread was: (mostly single) guys of colour WANTING to hook up with white women/couples, and asking if their lack of success was because the white folks had issues.
The unanimous response is; no, while there are couples who won't cross the colour line, the vast majority don't care either way what colour your skin is...
HOWEVER, the white folks in question do have a problem with the people of colour MAKING colour an issue, AND, as Jack's fantastic research efforts have confirmed, it is ENTIRELY down to your skills in seduction and flirting.
So , go forth an shag!
Ps. Clearly those of you who are not "scoring" regularly need to engage Jack for some personal tutelage.
Quote by MattLeeEC This thread has been completely hijacked.. The POINT of the thread was: (mostly single) guys of colour WANTING to hook up with white women/couples, and asking if their lack of success was because the white folks had issues. The unanimous response is; no, while there are couples who won't cross the colour line, the vast majority don't care either way what colour your skin is... HOWEVER, the white folks in question do have a problem with the people of colour MAKING colour an issue, AND, as Jack's fantastic research efforts have confirmed, it is ENTIRELY down to your skills in seduction and flirting. So , go forth an shag! Ps. Clearly those of you who are not "scoring" regularly need to engage Jack for some personal tutelage.
Well thank you for the compliment MattLeeEC. The funny thing about that statement, I use to teach guys how to pick up and attract women. If there are any guys who want to chat about their approach I'm always willing to chat and offer my opinion
To you too sir, and where have you been? We have missed you! Wow i feel loved thank you MattleeEC, i was on holiday on the west coast, stunning place.... And you happy new year to you i hope you have a great one filled with lots of Orgasims....
To you too sir, and where have you been? We have missed you! Wow i feel loved thank you MattleeEC, i was on holiday on the west coast, stunning place..... WHAT??!! They don't have internet on the west coast!!?? This is terrible news!
To you too sir, and where have you been? We have missed you! Wow i feel loved thank you MattleeEC, i was on holiday on the west coast, stunning place..... WHAT??!! They don't have internet on the west coast!!?? This is terrible news! I know but i guess i was in holiday mode far away from the computer as possible lol. MattleeEC did you have some interraical fun?
Quote by Dogging MattleeEC did you have some interraical fun?
Dude I told you - I don't care what colour people are - so I don't go looking for specific race people to have fun with - I just find nice people I like and be friends with them and then we (if I'm also attracted to them) might shag or play or have some sexy fun. Just so happens that there hasn't been any "new" fun for us - we are currently just maintaining the friendships we've made - this finding new playmates is flippin hard in the EC... Truthfully it's really all we can do at this stage, I mean there are 3 members in our 100km radius! 3!!!! What are the chances of us even finding people we like, are a attracted to and want to meet out of 3 members!? See in our situation - things like race and height and hair colour or eye colour can't even come into the equation when you only have 3 members to choose from ! Our most regular playmate is a friend who travels more than 200kms to see us! (The distance is important because of how difficult it is for us to get away from the farm) Anyone willing to visit us often is welcome to send me a PM!! :twisted:
Lee can you please as a new mod for the forum looked at page 2 of this topic, i think the web adres placed there was wrong fully approved because it looked to under age pics.
Quote by Paartielus Lee can you please as a new mod for the forum looked at page 2 of this topic, i think the web adres placed there was wrong fully approved because it looked to under age pics.
No, sorry Paartie - those are their pictures - as the some of the same pictures - and more of the same person - appear on their site profile as well. Just be cause she looks young and just because the other site says she is a teen - doesn't mean she is. Lots of 20 something people and even some 30 something people look at lot younger especially when you include props like teddy bears! If you don't trust my judgement, you are more than welcome to refer the issue to admin but I am quite certain they are infact images of (Mrs) frikkiein1Annie.
Sorry for hassle yo, i knew Admin wil look at the web site thought you appoint as mod for the forum but i am wrong.
Admin steve look at this web site its been put in a massage on page 2 of this topic firdtly its a web adress thats i tnink is wrong and on a web for teens dit not look good for SH:
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