Well, this is quite a thing but basically need to move past the ordinary and really explore. Get to the point where hang ups disappear and you just go with the flow. And hopefully try things you never tried before, some you may always have wanted to and others you would never have dreamed of doing a few years ago. Total no holds barred sex! But with good friendships along the way too. So not all about getting down and dirty but still hoping for a lot of that too!