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I'm in a committed, long-term relationship, but my partner has started questioning if "this is it"

Straight White/Caucasian Female, 40
Pretoria, Tshwane, Gauteng, South Africa
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I'm in a committed, long-term relationship, but my partner has started questioning if "this is it".  We are fully committed to working through this.  However, he is pursuing other partners on his own (we used to play together on occasion).  I suppose I am asking myself the same question, but I am not looking for any kind of serious emotional attachment.  We are being very European (I hope) about this, where we both get one night a week to go and explore our desires.

I'm not a robot, like a lot of women, sex for me starts in the mind.  So, I am not interested in any type of "wham bam thank you mam" scenario.  I like good conversation, intellectual stimulation, feeling flattered and pampered.  

I suppose there is a Chris De Burgh song that best describes where I'm at, called "Much more than this".  Give it a listen.

My photo's will be private, but if you use the right approach (non-generic message/no dick pic) I'm happy to share, meet for drinks and make a night of it.

Hope to hear from you soon.

PS. I'm a smoker - if that is a problem - no need to get in touch.

Profile Summary

I am a year out of a long-term committed relationship and some familial loss. I am not looking for any kind of serious emotional attachment, I am on a mission of fun. I cannot guarantee that I will never discuss anything about what I am going through, but that will depend on the person. I'm doing me. Thank you very much. #I share the above in order to provide context - not to garner your pity. Please avoid starting any messages with "I'm sorry for your loss". I am looking toward the future, not...
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Straight White/Caucasian Female
Age 40
Height 5' 5"
Build Medium
Assets No comment
Drink When I'm out
Smoke Average Amount