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As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car... How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc? You will not be accused of vanity so be honest. Also, do not be modest either. I ask this because I think I am very good looking and have been told many times so I tend get a big head. My lady stops traffic and turns heads everywhere. It makes me believe I (we) can get laid easily but so far, it seems the looks are not increasing my success or maybe I am not as handsome as I think (hope) and my girl not as hot as I see her...
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As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car...
How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc?

YES!!!! lol
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As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car...
How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc?

YES!!!! lol
Well done mate! That's how you answer question! Take note people. :lol:
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Quote by Stamina
As opinions and tastes vary, it is hard to know what is hot and what is not. One may like a Ferrari and another may think it is a hideous car...
How do you see yourself? Based on your own judgement looking in the mirror, various compliments (or lack there of) through your life, comparison to others, etc... Do you think (or know for a fact) that you are sexy, hot, ugly, handsome, beautiful, pretty, etc?

YES!!!! lol
Well done mate! That's how you answer question! Take note people. :lol:
Well, you asked a yes or no question and I simply gave a yes or no answer . . .
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I happen to have seen more of Shawn than most people here I think..... and BOY, is he HOT!!!!! I think he is VERY sexy and has ummfff!!!! He has the sexiest mouth EVER!!!!! But then someone else whom who might have seen him as well might not agree!!!! I also have seen you Sean , and you are a healthy and very good looking person, and the same can be said about your lady, she is sexy...I myself would not call you or your lady overly handsome or head turning sexy...it has more to do with whom is looking...as in *The eye of the Beholder*someone else might think you are both Gods in the making. I have seen and met some REALLY spectacular men on here!!!! Some who made my knees weak!!!!And wish for youth once again.... And the ladies I have met ...OH LORDY LORD!!!! sexy beyond words!!!!! As for myself....I am not a beauty never was,nor am I sexy!!!..and I am not being overly modest nor am I trying to get compliments...it is just the plain old truth!!!! @ SDMR you give an Yes answer but to what do you give a Yes answer???? there is a few questions that you could have answered too!!!....so what are you in your own eyes??? And I NEVER COULD JUST GIVE A YES OR NO ANSWER....... although I have taken *NOTE* @ Stamina.... No to beauty or sexiness....................... Yes to ugly....
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I happen to have seen more of Shawn than most people here I think..... and BOY, is he HOT!!!!! I think he is VERY sexy and has ummfff!!!! He has the sexiest mouth EVER!!!!!
But then someone else whom who might have seen him as well might not agree!!!!.

thanks PIB. . . . . (the cheques in the mail) wink
Stamina my old friend . . . SUCK on that lol
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Quote by Pussinboots1
@ SDMR you give an Yes answer but to what do you give a Yes answer???? there is a few questions that you could have answered too!!!....so what are you in your own eyes???
And I NEVER COULD JUST GIVE A YES OR NO ANSWER....... although I have taken *NOTE* @ Stamina....
No to beauty or sexiness....................... Yes to ugly....

@PIB1, Stamina asked if we know if we are this or that, hence my answer was YES, I do know. wink
It's like you said, everyone has a different view on the same topic.
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Without sounding full of my self, I do believe that I am more attractive than the average guy on the street. I get regular compliments about my build and appearance, and do have my share of ladies turning their heads when I walk by. I try to not let this to to my head, but I can't deny I enj y the attention ;-) I think everyone loves attention and being made to feel sexy, attractive and wanted.
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@ FWC You, my dear man are NOT wrong you are a 100% sexy male specimen. One That makes my knees weak and makes me wish for youth again.... AND I know for a fact I am not the only lady feeling like of the forum ladies just has had the privilege to have met you and touch you and stroke you and heck I am starting to drool HERE....
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@ FWC You, my dear man are NOT wrong you are a 100% sexy male specimen.
One That makes my knees weak and makes me wish for youth again....
AND I know for a fact I am not the only lady feeling like of the forum ladies just has had the privilege to have met you and touch you and stroke you and heck I am starting to drool HERE....

@PIB why youth? I would lick, touch, stroke and caress you in a heartbeat ;-) I just need to make way down to your side of the world. Soon hopefully
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Well I guess I'm a late bloomer, in school I was tom boyish so hung out with guys mostly-they always complimented me on my big boobs though. I've always been a big chick, that, to most of society is considered ugly. I'm not a glamour girl, I dress down most of the time. I have been stopped in the street and complimented. I often get told I am beautiful,so I think I am. Over the years I've developed a sort of mysterious sultry sex appeal. It draws a lot of men and women. So looks like the big chick thing doesn't matter anymore. When I do dress up, the guy or date I'm with gets complimented on his tastes(this has happened a lot while out) most guys feel proud, some offended or jealous. I just smile gracefully, must admit I like the attention. Been getting a lot since I've taken up exercise, endorphins maybe? Plus I have a killer smile. I think lol
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Thete are differences between what is hot, that which is sexy, and good looking. Some people can be good looking but have no sex appeal, whereas others can be normal looking and ooze sex appeal. So alot of it depends on how you carry yourself.
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@ amethyst , YOU have hit the hammer on the head of the needle of sexiness and being hot!!!! If there were a *LIKE* button I would give you 100.......likes ! LOL makes me think of another gent on here whom I think is SEXY!!!! and his LOVEY is so lucky!!!!! He is a BEAR of a man and makes you feel very safe...... TAAAAAa DAAAAAA and the gent is...................... Adonis !!!!!!!!!!!
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Ek het die onderneming geneem dat ek nooit weer iets in die forums sal skryf nie, maar vergewe my hierdie een. Pib op 'n baie beskeie manier DANKIEpassionkisssillyassionkiss::passionkiss::passionkiss::passionkiss:
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I happen to have seen more of Shawn than most people here I think..... and BOY, is he HOT!!!!! I think he is VERY sexy and has ummfff!!!! He has the sexiest mouth EVER!!!!!
But then someone else whom who might have seen him as well might not agree!!!!.

thanks PIB. . . . . (the cheques in the mail) wink
Stamina my old friend . . . SUCK on that lol
I think your pics are airbrushed!! :lol:
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Who is shawn and sean?
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Who is shawn and sean?

Ha ha. . Sean = Stamina, Shawn = SDMR
We forget peeps. .. We forget smile
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I think I'll take the middle ground, I wouldn't say I'm sexy or hot but I like to think I'm above average.
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Without sounding full of my self, I do believe that I am more attractive than the average guy on the street. I get regular compliments about my build and appearance, and do have my share of ladies turning their heads when I walk by.
I try to not let this to to my head, but I can't deny I enj y the attention ;-) I think everyone loves attention and being made to feel sexy, attractive and wanted.

No no no! You are not allowed to partake in this thread! You make the rest of us look bad! lol :lol:
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Who is shawn and sean?

Shawn may be sexier than me, but at least my name is spelled correctly.. lol :lol:
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Quote by Stamina
Who is shawn and sean?

Shawn may be sexier than me, but at least my name is spelled correctly.. lol :lol:
What he means to say is, he is the one with no "action" from this site . . . rotflmao
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Who is shawn and sean?

Shawn may be sexier than me, but at least my name is spelled correctly.. lol :lol:
What he means to say is, he is the one with no "action" from this site . . . rotflmao
Er... can't argue with that. :sad:
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Er... can't argue with that. :sad:

Well not to worry young man, after this post, the amount of people looking at our profiles is bound to bring some success . . .
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Er... can't argue with that. :sad:

Well not to worry young man, after this post, the amount of people looking at our profiles is bound to bring some success . . .
Exactly... I am the man with the plan... wink
Desperate times call for desperate measures.. he he he..
Why has the ravishing Lee not yet told us how she sees herself?? I personally would tickle that amazing bum of hers for hours - and that definitely puts her in the "sexy as hell" category!
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Er... can't argue with that. :sad:

Well not to worry young man, after this post, the amount of people looking at our profiles is bound to bring some success . . .
Exactly... I am the man with the plan... wink
Desperate times call for desperate measures.. he he he..
Why has the ravishing Lee not yet told us how she sees herself?? I personally would tickle that amazing bum of hers for hours - and that definitely puts her in the "sexy as hell" category!
Dude, all you have to do is tone down that 'Serial Stalker' write up you send the ladies . . . . . and stop bragging that your misses is 14 years your junior, makes you out to be a perverted old man . . . hey, now I have an idea .. :twisted:
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Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances. As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before... Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS! I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged. I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top... I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing??? So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...
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Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances.
As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before...
Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS!
I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged.
I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top...
I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing???
So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...

Now he goes and gets all serious on me . . . . reminds me of the old "Chomp" advert . .
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Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances.
As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before...
Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS!
I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged.
I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top...
I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing???
So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...

Now he goes and gets all serious on me . . . . reminds me of the old "Chomp" advert . .
I loved that ad... The hippo one right?
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Let's be realistic... My messages are not at all the reason why there is no success. I do not "brag" in messages about the age gap, I simply state our ages. I believe it is of some importance. Besides, that should actually count in my favour... A 36 year old with a young hottie must have something to be able to land that... Bare in mind, she was 19 when I "landed" her... And she came after me, not the other way around... I would really think that it should be improving my chances.
As for "stalker" messages, also not really what I send in general, only to those that I have mailed previously. If I send a message to a profile and get no response, I move on... But I may come across that profile a month later and develop an interest again, remembering that I never got a reply, so I would send a message again and inform them that I may have mailed before...
Regardless, It is not the messages... It is the members! I stand by my opinion, most on here are not serious and will never do what they profess on their profiles. I also believe that the few that brag about a massive success rate are simply talking BS!
I bet you that there are no more than 10 couple profiles on here that have actually met a single lady for a threesome from the site. As polite as I am, every female that has at least responded on a message (1 out of 100) disappears when actual meets start to be arranged.
I am not doing anything wrong. I am polite, I am decent, I am respectful, I am good looking, etc. My girl is fun, bubbly, polite, classy, sexy, etc... What more could someone ask for? We are by far not the best profile on the site but I am sure we at least rank somewhere between way above average and the top...
I know I complain a lot, but seriously? 2 years membership here and nothing???
So sorry for the long explanation but what I say in my messages is not the problem...

Now he goes and gets all serious on me . . . . reminds me of the old "Chomp" advert . .
I loved that ad... The hippo one right?
Yip, now all we need is for that clever young man who calls himself Mike_Pta to put a picture up for us . ..